Gotta love this...
As many of you know I do an exercise program for cancer survivors once a week at a local gym. The gym pays for it and it is free to survivors. Great right?
Well my local YMCA wanted to do it too and applied for a PEPSI grant which we got! Great right?
And I do a 5k training group with 12 cancer survivors. ( they do have to pay , though I found one scholarship) once a week.
So I am on a personal mission to get survivors moving and grooving. It does take a lot of time on top of my own full time job and kids and exercise/training schedule. I am a busy girl but I do love it. Sometimes it is sad, because as you all know not everyone survives. I have lost 2 of my "peeps" in the year or so I have been doing this - which almost broke me but I tell myself thier life was better because they had hope and some feeling of control while exercising. Sometimes I ask myself why I do this - maybe I should take a break and focus on me and my family,etc....
and then...
My first day of my Saturday group, I am starting my "new" members out and spending a little one on one time with each of them...One of the women tells me she is a survivor of 32-33 years (she can't remember), She had a year of chemo and a radical mastectomy. I, frankly, assumed she was early stage but know that docs back then didn't tell patients much. I was asking her if she ever had issues with lymphedema and she said.....
"I have never had a problem with lymphedema, though I had a lot of nodes removed and five of them were malignant, I have never had another problem at all"
Girls - that makes her Stage 3, like us. 33 years! wow.
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Inspiring!
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Gotta love it is right Mary! Thanks so much for sharing!
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I'd take 33! This is great
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Wow, I'd be more than happy at 33 years, I won't say how old that would make me.
NJ
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Wow!!! That's awesome! Thanks for posting, I so needed
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Love it! Thanks so much for sharing.
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I'll certainly take 33 years! Thanks for the post!
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I love hearing stories like this! Thanks.
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33 years...that'll put me at 82 going on 83....as long as they are good years, I'll definitely take it!!!
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Girlfriend,
I love your posts, and YES, you must keep doing what you are doing because it is your calling! Here's a great story. My DH's uncle's wife recently passed away at the age of 83. I was talking to her sister, who told me that she had breast cancer (many years ago), then colon cancer, then uterine cancer. I remember meeting her years after the whole thing started and she was just so beautiful, energetic and inspiring. 83 years? I'll take that! You never know with this journey, so we all have to keep our chins up, smiles on, and inspiration going.
Love
Bobbie
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Love it! We all need these stories....that's going to be us gals!
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love, Love, LOVE hearing stories like this, thanks Mary!!!
Sharon
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Awesome. Love this.
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lOVE THESE STORIE'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANKS FOR THE GIFT!
THERE'S SO MUCH HOPE !!!!
YEAH
STEPH
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Wow..33 years. I am behind the curve seeing this, but LOVING IT!
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Thanks so much for sharing this.
Molly
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First, I am so happy to read you are doing this for survivors. There is very little in my area..in fact I can't find anything.
Second, 33 years. Wow. And she's exercising. I see a correlation
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Love this story,good for you.Love hearing 33 years and still going strong!
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Oh, Mary, I so needed this tonight. Thanks so much for sharing!
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Can I get a "WOO HOO" for this story, girls? As you know, we're struggling in my house right now with my DH's illness. Sometimes hope is hard to find, but it came to me tonight in the form of a lady from church dropping off some soup for us (it was delic). She is one of those gals that I never really knew, and we started talking, and she informed me that both she and her husband were cancer survivors-just like us but she didn't know that. She didn't know me back in 2006, and I guess wasn't going to the same church service I did and watched me go through the whole thing. Anyway, she proceeds to tell me that she is a 23 year survivor of BC. I asked her, of course, to what extent she had it, and she replied, "Well, I was 9 out of 18 nodes, and I had a mastectomy and the whole bit." Well, I could have kissed her! You know I couldn't have gotten a better gift tonight! I hope that we are all sharing OUR story in 20 years.
Love
Bobbie
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bobbie...thanks for sharing....I love to hear these stories...lets see....23 years...that will put me at 72 going on 73...not too bad......
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Bobbie,
We will be telling our storie's! Thank you for passing your gift along tonight, I needed to hear that wonderful story! you and your DH are in my prayer's!
Hugss to my sistah's
Steph
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Bobbie, that story put shivers down my spine!! Great to hear.
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I am early in my journey. Thanks for sharing and giving me hope.
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