How Many No Longer see their Oncos?
Im supposed to set up my 6 Month Onco appt. Well I was supposed to do that 3 months ago.
I will be 3 years out next month.
I really dont feel like seeing her. Nor paying $300 to see her for 10 Minutes or less.
My Onco does not do Markers. (which I am fine with) She asks me how I am feeling...Any new symptoms? Any aches or pains. She does a very bad Breast exam. I do one way better then her.
She feels my Stomach to check my organs & my Neck to check my thyroid etc.
Tells me to call if anything changes.
Thats it & it has gone like that for years.
So I am thinking I just wont make an Appt.
Im not trying to be talked into seeing her.
I am wondering if others have gone this route. (im sure my Initial DX makes it easier for me to make this decision)
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Hello, Dejaboo, from a fellow stage II B-er.
I am so glad you started this thread, because I have been wondering about my follow-up care too.
First, to answer your question: I do sometimes wonder about the real value of some of my onc appointments. I am at an earlier stage than you. I am still seeing him every three months and I am getting Zometa infusions every six months and have two to go, so for now I do see a direct value since I am still in treatment. He is also very thorough and has called me up when anything non cancer-related is off on my bloodwork. He also knowns I am a Vitamin D3 believer, and so knows to always measure my levels.
However, this brings up the topic of exactly how much monitoring is necessary/worthwhile, etc... after a while.
I do get a full blood panel with tumor markers. He also gives me a physical exam. There are no scans, and I never have complaints. I don't have a PCP, so I consider my onc my PCP in some ways. The blood tests he runs are also beneficial because I need to have my kidney function checked every three months for another doctor.
But other than that, I sometimes wonder what the point is. I suppose one could insist on scans of all sorts (breast/chest MRIs, etc...) but frankly, at my stage, I don't see the point. I am stage IIB, I had a BMX, and so if cancer of the breast ever enters my life again, the likelihood is overwhelming that it will be in the form of a distant metastasis and not a non-life threatening, early stage second cancer which I would probably see in the form of a mastectomy scar lump anyway. Early detection means nothing and won't make an iota of difference, so I feel comfortable going by symptoms alone. If I do get bone mets and I don't start to feel them until two years after the time at which a scan would have found them, I say that is two years less of heartache and potential overtreatment. No point in having a digital search party constantly checking to see if you are a condemned woman yet.
So I can't blame you.
Edited for clarity.
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Here in BC, Canada, the protocol is to only see your onco if you have any problems. My family Dr does my every 6 month check up & he does a way better job than the onco. She called me a few days ago to tell me that my last markers & bone scan were fine & she said as far as she's concerned she doesn't want to see me again til I change over to AI in 4 more years.
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I am going to see my Onc on March 10 for my post chemo visit and then I will convert to my PCP. The PCP spends more time with me is more thorough and I like her much better. Also, going to the Cancer Center makes me sad and jittery.
Mfrog, what is the protocol in BC? Do you do tamoxephen first and then an AI? Just curious.
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It's been 7 years this month since my diagnosis and I haven't seen an oncologist since very shortly after my lumpectomy in March of 2004. I saw the first oncologist just twice and fired him on the 2nd visit. The next one I also saw twice - once when he suggested taking arimidex and ordered blood work to be sure I was really in menopause and the last time just to get the blood work results and refuse the arimidex. He told that since I wasn't actively undergoing any kind of cancer treatment, then there was really no need for me to continue seeing him and that I should just continue on seeing my PCP as needed and to return to him only if I needed his services in the future. That was music to my ears and made perfect sense to me. I just get yearly mammograms and that's it.
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Thanks for posting this..... I'm just in the initial stages of being "done" with treatment and was wondering this myself. Last time I saw him he went over my oncotype results and he prescribed Tamoxifen and said to see him in 3 months. I really, really like him and he answers all my questions like he has all the time in the world. He wants me to do transvaginal ultrasounds every 6 months and MRI every year because of my age and grade (first report said it was a 3, second a 2). But he indicated that I could schedule those through my PCP and continue my prescription with her. So I doubt I'll be seeing him much after my 3 month checkup in April. If my insurance didn't have such a huge deductible, I'd gladly see him more often. He's just the nicest man!
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Susan, he wants a chest MRI??
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Yup. He said he wanted to treat me as if I was "high risk" (again because of my age and grade ~ also my ki-67 was high - over 20% ). Oh yeah... also maybe because my BRCA2 test came back as "genetic mutation of unknown significance". Though he said there is only a 5% chance that the mutation has to do with BC... but you never know.
Everyone was surprised it wasn't in my nodes and that my oncotype score came back "low". They were trying to prepare me for chemo. My BS had even offered to put a port in at time of BMX.
In the end after all the pathology and tests came back, my Onc basically said "if I was his wife or daughter" he would recommend NO chemo... but wanted to do the "high risk" monitoring just in case.
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Probably the most sensible approach, IMO. Stops overtreatment but keeps an eagle eye.
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Yeah... I liked my Onc the first time I met him (a week before surgery) ... he seemed sensible and not "overly aggressive" in his philosophy on treatment. He had no problem that I was also seeing a Naturopathic Oncologist.. so I like that.
Another thought about the chest MRI's... I had a nipple sparing mastectomy. Maybe that's another reason? I wonder how long he'll want to do that? I'll have to ask him at my next appt. I'm sure not after 5 years? Though I know us ER+ gals have a more liklihood of a recurrence 10+ years down the road.
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ha Mariekelly- I knew your Story : ) Which is good.
Thanks ladies for your posts.
I do want to mention that I am not on Tamox or an AI....As that might keep one checking in with their onco.
My PCP isnt that great. I asked her to do a Breast exam at my last appt. Has she didnt the time before- I told her I still need one done. I had a Great PCP 2 years ago...That left the Clinic
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Paula, If you're premeno you take tamoxifen first, but the protocol just changed. A year ago I was told 2 1/2 years of tamox, 2 1/2 of AI's, I just had a meeting with the onco & she says I will be on tamox for 5 years, then go off it for 3 months, test my hormone levels & then if I'm post meno, I go on AI's for 5 years. I didn't ask what would happen if I wasn't, I figured I would cross that bridge when I came to it.
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Hi, Dejaboo--
First: I see my breast surgeon once a year -- she orders and interprets my mammograms and does a really thorough breast exam. (I had a left mast/SNB with no recon.) My surgeon is also the person who writes orders for breast forms and mastectomy bras, and watches my left side to see if my "Stage 0" LE is flaring again.
But, I also see my med onco regularly. The schedule with her has been twice a year, timed so that I would see either her or my surgeon every 4 months. My onco does a really thorough breast exam too, using a different pattern than the one my surgeon uses. She also asks me different questions and we talk about different issues. Oh, and because I'm on Arimidex, she does blood work once a year, and orders and discusses my DEXA bone density scans.
I was about 18 months into all this when my onco said I could back off on the frequency of recheck appointments so I was alternating between seeing her and seeing my surgeon at 6-month intervals. (They're at the same center and they can both access my records.) I asked my onco how long she would continue to see me, and she said, "At least 5 years. I need to follow you as long as I have you on something that could do you harm." She meant the Arimidex, of course.
Last time I saw my onco (last November), I asked her about long-term followup. The Breast Health Clinic at my cancer center has developed a "Cancer Survivors" service that provides continuing followup after 5 years. I was wondering if that's where I should go when I reach that point.
My onco's answer surprised me. She said she didn't think the "Cancer Survivors" service was all that worthwhile. She said what I really needed was a good internist (internal medicine specialist) who would follow my blood pressure, cholesterol, glucose, etc. I don't recall exactly how she stated it, but what she said made me understand that I needed to be as vigilant about age-specific things like heart disease and diabetes as I currently am about BC recurrence.
I like my PCP. He has been following my cholesterol, BP, thyroid function, etc., for 25 years. He never has done a breast exam on me, and I don't think I want to start with that. And, I'm also not ready to go to him for my cancer follow-up. Honestly, he's gone over to the dark side. (Sorry.) He thinks I should be on Evista, not Arimidex, even though Evista is not approved for women who've already had BC. He believes in "hormone balancing", "good" vs. "bad" estrogen, compounding hormones for aging women and men, ... all that stuff. He knows I'm skeptical and we still get along fine.
So.... the long answer to your short question (sorry again) is that I'll see my onco for at least 2-1/2 more years, unless my insurance company says I can't.
otter
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Deja .. I'm close to four years out from my dx and surgery. I don't see my onc or surgeon anymore. My surgeon retired last year so I didn't bother to find a new one. I'm also not on AI's or Tamoxifen.
I also don't see my rad onc anymore either. I saw him once in follow up, and as he declared I was cured, I saw no reason to go back for further f/u.
My PCP is very thorough, does all my breast exams and schedules my mammograms. If something should show up, she would refer me to a new surgeon.
Bren
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This has me concerned for when I go off Femara if I will get dumped by my Onc. I do not have any faith in the Ob/GYn who knew I had a hormone imbalance and continued to give me OC pills into my mid 40's. My PC is clueless about vitamin D levels. The last few times I've gone to the Ob/Gyn there was no breast exam done because they figured that is being done by my Onc --- who does not do a very good one......
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My onc just told me last week that she will now continue to see me on a yearly basis for 2 more years, or until I complete my 5 years of Femara. She will continue to order the tests (mammo and ultrasound, bloodwork etc.) and do a thorough physical check, but wants me to see my GP in between and for him to order DEXA scans, complete physical etc. But I really am not comfortable with him (he was a last-resort doc when we moved here as the area was experiencing a shortage). So now I'm looking for a new GP. My current GP is up-to-date on most issues such as VitD, but he overbooks and I always feel he's in a mad rush to get through his patients.
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That's why I love my PCP, she's very thorough and takes her time with all her patients. She is much more thorough than my other docs. She also orders all my blood work and does all my physicals.
Bren
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Bren -- You're so lucky! DH and I had a GP like that when we lived in Toronto. Now we're looking for a duplicate!
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lindasa (I love how we all move from thread to thread together - it's so nice to see my friends popping up everywhere), I, too, felt as though my ex-PCP was in a mad rush every time I saw him. I will only get a new one if I have to. I had implants put in so I think I need an MRI every two years, but I feel comfortable working with my very handsome and wonderful PS on that.
Since I had a BMX, the breast exam on me is cursory, but my onc does it. He also feels my armpits and neck.
I don't think I would ever turn my cancer follow-up care to a PCP. I am one who feels more comfortable with specialists and it may be because of my health profile: I have dealt with one congenital disease that I almost didn't survive as a child and required two major surgeries to vital organs, and I have dealt with two more incurable diseases as an adult, one of which is chronic (although the symptoms are not). BUT, I never, ever get: major flus, infections, constipation, weird pains....anything. I never get ill. Ever. Unless it's deadly, of course.
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I am supposed to see my onc in February. Which ends in 2 days.
I have considered stopping seeing him entirely. He's a nice guy, listens to me, and is as thorough as I want to be - meaning, if I say I do or don't want a test, he'll recommend but not insist.
But I am so traumatized by doctors and tests that it causes me anxiety to even think about it. I'm on meds and in therapy but I just don't feel like I'm at a good eneough place to go back there at the moment.
So I'm blowing it off. Maybe I'll call in March. Or not.
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Deja -
We are on about the same path - this year, my med onc went into semi-retirement and changed jobs - I have decided not to see anyone else. This past year, she gave me the option of trying Femara - I did, for a month, and was stunned at how much of the "arthritis" pain I was experiencing was due to tamoxifen, and that it was possible to have continuous hot flashes on an AI. So, of my 3 choices - tamox, AI, and nothing - I chose nothing. Which actually surprised me; I was so sure I would do the 5 years, no matter what
I changed PCPs after diagnosis - she was so sure it wasn't cancer, and so incredibly unsupportive throughout the whole wait for getting in for a mammo - and I think I like the new one.
I have standards now; and if I ever need another onc (God forbid!) I know what to look for. But I feel pretty comfortable with my membership in the it-aint-a-gonna-come-back club.
Hopefully, regular mammos will let me know what's going on. And I have a great orthopedist, who has already told me that if I ever get symptomatic again (last time, it was bursitis), she will gladly order a bone scan.
So, I'm letting the oncologists treat the people who need them, and I am back in my old life, although I do drop in occasionally, if only to see that y'all are okay.
Good luck!
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My last chemo was end of Sept and since then I am seeing him once a month. I am on zoladex inj, but nurse is administering them. I aways have BW done.
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My onc switched me to six-month appts. pretty quickly. She says I'm at pretty low risk of recurrence, plus she likes the monitoring I've been getting from my other docs. My new gyn is doing a pretty good job, and so is my PCP. (PCP is an internist who tests the hell out of me; at first it bugs me, then I thought, well, at least he's pretty thorough. And he never blows anything off.)
A woman I know with a diagnosis similar to mine says that if all goes well I'll be switched to yearly onc appts., and the day may come when they tell me not to come back in at all. Of course, she's close to eighty, and her onc told her that at this point, the cancer is not really an issue.
btw, I agree with what everybody's saying about going to the onc's office: sad and stressful.
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