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  • pip57
    pip57 Member Posts: 12,401
    edited February 2011

    I think we Canadians have taken quite a bit of criticism on this site.  And we too believe that our country is one of the best and have chosen to live here...snow and all.  It was the comparison of health care to art work that was in question.  I don't care what the nationality of the poster...it is just cold and uncaring.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2011

    But you didn't direct your attitude toward a specific poster, you painted all Americans with a broad uncaring brush. 

    And your post followed 4 other nasty, snarky comments from other Canadians.  Just a bit much.

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited February 2011

    One can't direct one's attitude towards a specific poster. I've done so and gotten my posts removed for naming names. We all knew who they were talking to. I'm American and I don't feel insulted at all.

    Mary 

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    I'm making fava beans for dinner.....with rice.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    Because I live in Canada, I can buy art if I like.  My healthcare needs are met nicely!

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    It seemed to me it was another poster was implying it was the great American Way (but not using that particular phrase).  Pip was just rephrasing what was said.  And it also seems that all comments, including mine, were directed to a particular post.

    I'm having leftover pineapple and green pepper pizza.  And chocolate chip cookies.

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited February 2011

    Hello everyone..........

     I just want to say that there is an American bc survior that has posted on this thread today and did not have medical insurance when she was dx.......and as I understand got very good care through her state where she lives.........

    and is beautiful and healthy today...........

    I am not sure why you on the left believe that you can't get good care if you don't have health insurance........if you go into a county hospital and are sick they cannot refuse to treat you because you don't have insurance......its the law..........

     there is no telling how many women on this site are dx without insurance.....probably thousands.........and that is what is great about this country........because even if you don't have the ablililty to pay you are still going to get some of the best medical treatment this world has to offer........shokk

  • pip57
    pip57 Member Posts: 12,401
    edited February 2011

    As I drink my green tea (blueberry) and munch on my dark chocolate (77%) I am wondering if people are really as "confused" about "certain things" as they try so hard to appear to be.  Just pondering....

  • Ang7
    Ang7 Member Posts: 1,261
    edited February 2011

    This thread is sort of confusing...

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    The community hospital I went to outside Boston posted a sign that they were just required by law to stabilize you - i.e., can walk out the door without dropping dead in the parking lot.  That's it.  I've mentioned before how my bf had a heart attack, was stabilized and then had to leave -- he didn't have insurance and he wasn't going to go into outrageous debt to get the bypass he needed.

    Edit to add:  maybe he wasn't poor enough to be considered a charity case?  I don't know.  Some financially lower middle class people just slip through the cracks.

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited February 2011

    And you gals can make your snide remarks........like some that post here are basically stupid.......or  uncaring.......or what ever makes you girls feel better about your position on our health care........but one thing I do know that we have lost some of the richest and they had the very best health insurance and they still died of breast cancer........I don't think breast cancer decides who is poor and that is who it decides to kill............as far as I can tell that really has nothing to do with the progression of this disease.........Shokk

  • rosemary-b
    rosemary-b Member Posts: 2,006
    edited February 2011

    There are Americans on this thread who think that taking someone's need for health care and turning it into a business is appalling.

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    If I didn't have the insurance or money to pay for my BC treatment while in the US I would have been dead long ago.  So yes, access (or money) does play some part in longevity.

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited February 2011

    And yes there is the John Kerry stories........someone always knows someone who had an aunt or sister or friend that was refused treatment at some hospital and died.........

    Always some story about a sign or some woman in labor and couldn't get help at the local county hosiptal or was refused at the Inn and had to have their child in a Stable......

    But no one seems to every have their own personal spouse that was refused or they themselves were refused.........

    shokk

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    My bf in Boston doesn't count?  A "significant other" doesn't mean marriage (spouse) only!  he showed up at my apt with some of the IV things still in his body.

    Some people will grasp at straws to avoid facing the truth.

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited February 2011

    And I am sorry konakat but really is no way for you to know that for sure.......I know you believe it but that doesn't make it true...........shokk

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    The stable you say!?!

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    Why not?  I saw it with my own eyes!!!  I know he doesn't have insurance -- we'd been together for about 2 years so I do know a wee bit about him. I saw the unbandaged stent thing in his groin.  He never got his bypass.  And you've got a lot of f*ckin nerve to say otherwise.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    Relax KK.  Don't let this baiting get to you.  You just came back from a nice holiday.  Hold on to that.

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited February 2011

    I have never insulted my Canadian sisters. I am interested in your experiences as they compare to mine. I also love my country, flaws and all, but I am not sitting idly by letting the dopes in Congress destroy the country. I write letters...boy do I write letters. And I call. I am on a first name basis with most staffers in my senators and reps offices. And I vote. And they know it. Plus I make lots of noise (politely) at various town halls and rallies...and they know that, too.

    My brother had a heart attack 2 years ago and went to St Anthony's Hospital in St Petersburg. They took him in, placed two stents in his heart, almost lost him on the table twice and kept him in hospital for 10 days. His cost - zero. We get care in this country, in my experience. To be sure, I have heard of people who could not get this or that treatment because they had no insurance but my personal experience is the opposite.

    My other brother is schizophrenic and is on SSDI. He freaks out every couple years because meds need to be changed and there is no effective way to know when that is needed until they lose it. He was recently hospitalized (what we call Baker acted here in FL) and was in for 2 weeks until he was stabilized. No problem.

    I guess what I am saying is I have two relatives with no insurance and SSDI and they are treated well.

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    Thanks {{{{{Blue}}}}}.  Self-righteous, patronizing people just irk me to no end.

    Gonna have a cookie and move on.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    Sooooooooo Shokk, are you telling me that they don't send you the bill after they check you out in the hospital, if you don't have health care insurance?

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited February 2011

    I thought MA had mandate health insurance for everyone.......and I don't believe any hospital would allow a patient to walk out with IV's still attached to them.......

    I do believe that someone would walk out on their own with IV's attached to them.........

    but I am also suspect in that if your bf had IV's that means he was getting treatment........

    very confused by your story.........shokk

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited February 2011

    Hugs to you KK. Just keep the vacation glow going as long as possible!

  • shokk
    shokk Member Posts: 1,763
    edited February 2011

    Blue they send me a bill regardless........shokk

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited February 2011

    This was before the MA insurance system. He still doesn't have insurance -- it's cheaper for him to pay the penalty than to buy a personal plan.  Specifically, he can't afford a plan.

    He had the stent to unblock the artery.  The IV for I don't know what (painkiller).  That's all they'd do for free for him.  They provided the legally required minimal treatment.  No bypass.

    And, don't call my words suspect.  I am not a liar.

  • Medigal
    Medigal Member Posts: 1,412
    edited February 2011

    I am so sorry about all the folks without health insurance but BLUE is fixing fava beans and rice for supper!!! I need to move closer to Canada.  I love fava beans and you add rice and I am your slave forever!!  I would even give up my (well just a few of them) pickled pigs tails for a plate of Blue's favas and rice.  She sure knows how to eat!  All I had for supper was a frozen stuffed chicken breast and potatoes I burnt in the microwave!  

     BTW, last week DP and I were in a local supermarket and he yelled at me to look on the meat counter.   He kept yelling "I told you they had toes!!!  There was this batch of pig's feet for sale but they were not pickled.  But what great memories of a life with food fit for a king or a child who was too dumb to know what she was eating!  I could not believe they actually had all these feet laying there for sale.  And this is a well known city we live in and not in the back hills of Walla Boola.  Evidently they have customers for these piggie feets or they wouldn't have had them on display.   

    Enjoy your "favas" Blue and be sure not to forget the rice!! 

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    Fava beans are natural dopamine enhancers and I need all the dope, I mean, dopamine I can get!

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    If they treat everyone in the hospitals, then why would anyone pay for insurance. 

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited February 2011

    KK have some cake with the cookie and ice cream too!

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