BRCA1 + and need advice

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msv1984
msv1984 Member Posts: 5

I'm 27 & positive for BRCA1 as is my father, his sister & his mother. My grandma & aunt have both had breast cancer before age 50. I am getting anual mams & pelvic ultrasounds. Every other year I have a breast MRI, also. My specialist reccomend I have a mecectomy & hystorectomy by age 35-40. I am very scared & confused since 2 family members had it so young. I don't want to deal with the pain of those procedures but really don't want to deal witth fighting cancer. This may seem small in the big picture but I'm terrified of catheters. Do they use them for this procedure recovery?

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  • hrf
    hrf Member Posts: 3,225
    edited January 2011

    I don't know about catheters. I had bmx as well as pbso. No catheters for that either. Check the FORCE web site. Everyone there is brca positive

  • msv1984
    msv1984 Member Posts: 5
    edited January 2011

    I'm not familiar with those abreviations. How do I find that site?

  • JessieLeigh
    JessieLeigh Member Posts: 1
    edited January 2011

    This is my first time even on this site so I was meant to read your post.  I am also 27 years old and BRCA1 positive.  Believe it or not, I am also terrified of catheters!  Every woman on both sides of my family were diagnosed by age 50, many before age 40, none of which survived.  I visited many doctors starting at age 18 about having the prophylactic mastectomy and they all urged me to have the mastectomy as soon as possible.  However, I waited until this past June to proceed with the procedure, and guess what? Noooo catheters for any of the procedures:))  I guess every doctor will be different, but mine did not use any at any point.  When I woke up from my first surgery, the first thing I did (after looking at my chest) was rip up the sheet and look for a catheter!  The concern does seem stupid, but I just wanted to let you know I had the same stupid concern :) Oh yea, and the whole process is nothing like what I imagined it would be (way worse), I don't want to sugarcoat it, HOWEVER, imagine the alternative. DO IT! You will not regret saving your own life...

  • msv1984
    msv1984 Member Posts: 5
    edited January 2011

    Jessie, This was also my first time on this site. This is awesome! Thank you so much for sharing. Sorry to hear that nobody survived in your family. My aunt & grandma are still with us. My aunt was diognosed before 40. I plan on waiting until after I'm done having kids but what you wrote made me feel better.

  • mdoak
    mdoak Member Posts: 219
    edited January 2011

    Hey msv, I had a hysterectomy -- no catheter. If you end up having a hysterectomy, make sure you find a doc who can do it laparscopically. That reduces recovery time by lots, and I didn't need any pain meds after the first 24 hours.

  • LISAMG
    LISAMG Member Posts: 639
    edited January 2011

    MSV.

    Please visit www.facingourrisk.org for the most info. regarding HBOC/BRCA. We are the only organization devoted to women's hereditary cancers. U will find many women in your shoes, either doing surveillance or risk reducing surgery. Seek the main forum messageboards and ask questions. The other organization i would strongly recommend is www.bebrightpink.org devoted specifically to young women like u. Both groups have outreach support programs at the local level. Where do u live? If u have questions or concerns, jst send me a PM and I will gladly assist u in any way I can.

  • amyhol
    amyhol Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2011
       I am BRCA1 positive and came across your message. I am 46 years old. I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer  (stage 3) a year and a half ago.  I had no symptoms. I was just going for my routine mammogram and pelvic ultrasound. Ovarian cancer ran on my father's side. None of the drs I had ever seen suggested I get the BRCA testing. In fact, they all assured me it passed only from the maternal side. Despite the drs' complacency, I insisted on yearly ultrasounds. Eight months post chemo and cancer free, I just had a prophylactic mastectomy. You are 27 years old--  don't worry about catheters... I'm not sure what you mean??drains after the surgery? they are not pleasant but it is for a week or so. The discomfort is nothing compared to open surgery, chemo, fear of recurrence...You have time and your feelings will change (after children). You are more brave than you think. You are in control and you will be ok.
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2011

    catheters are usually only in far a day or 2 after surgery and they really aren't that bad. Mine was removed the next am after my hysterectomy and I hardly felt it at all while it was in and during the removal.

  • msv1984
    msv1984 Member Posts: 5
    edited February 2011

    Thank you all for your info & stories. I havent had anyone with ovarian cancer in my family but I know that doesnt mean anything. I plan on having everything done, Im just nervous.



    The catheter thing has always been a fear of mine. I am one of those hypersensitive people who almost faint just getting blood drawn so all this stuff scares the crap out of me. Do they put them in while youre still under? Where are the drains?

  • RachelKa
    RachelKa Member Posts: 174
    edited February 2011

    Hi Hrf, Don't know if you got connected to FORCE; just remember you were asking how to find them. Here's their  website. http://www.facingourrisk.org/

    I really agree you should do the surgery as scary as it has to be. I have most of the risk factors for the gene, tested negative but my oncologist said I should keep doing genetic testing as new panels come out as they dont know for sure. Everyone's different, I know, but geez, I wanna live! And I dont ever want cancer again (17 months out from diagnosis and will big time celebrate if I make it to 5 years). The kind of BC I was treated for is almost guaranteed cured by then. I know you have a super tough decision to make ... Good luck to you and all the other ladies  who come to this site.

     My name's Rachel. If you get a chance, will you visit my website? It's www.1UpOnCancer.com

    Rachel

  • mdoak
    mdoak Member Posts: 219
    edited February 2011

    If you have a hysterectomy, search until you find a doctor who can do it laparoscopically. You won't need a catheter. I had a laparoscopic hysterectomy for endometriosis, and unfortunately had it on my bladder. I would have gone home that very day except I couldn't urinate and then had to have a catheter placed. I am very sensitive to needles and such, but the nurse was amazing and the catheter placement was no big deal, honestly. But again, I wouldn't have needed it at all had my bladder not been in shock from the surgery. :).

  • msv1984
    msv1984 Member Posts: 5
    edited February 2011

    I will definitely do it laparoscopically.  Another concern is breast reconstruction after having the mastectomy.  I heard recovery is painful...

  • CandDsMom
    CandDsMom Member Posts: 387
    edited February 2011

    Hi MSV1984, sorry that you have occasion to be thinking about all this stuff too.  I am not BRCA + but my oncologist thinks I have something (I am 5th on my father's side in the last 3 generations and was dx at 35, his sister dx at 28).  So they also recommended that I retest every 3-5 years or so and I got enrolled in the ovarian cancer screening program. And I got a L prophy MX (I had R multifocal multicentric ER/PR - DCIS at 34).

    But I thought I would pop in to comment Re: recovery after breast reconstruction.  I think that this is very dependent on who does your surgery as well as what kind you get done.  I went with a perforator flap, and I was pretty busty before (DD++) and am overall happy that I did.  I certainly however had some significant complications at the time of my surgery at well known chicago based National Cancer Institute center.

    If I had it to do over again (and were choosing the flap again, which I certainly would), I would recommend that you do research and pick a top group to start with.  I have had 3 surgeries now, and the pain was very deal-able with each of them (and the urinary catheter was out within a day pretty much before I even noticed it and the IV catheters were not painful at all). And had I started with a better plastic surgeon to begin with I would only have needed 2 surgeries instead of the multiple I am ending up with now.  Check out the following websites and also the FORCE website as others have mentioned about to see what is possible with reconstruction. A prophylactic nipple sparing mastectomy may be an option for you if P BMX is on the table. It is a sucky decision to have to make, but even with my complications the experience, while incredibly emotionally difficult, has been very doable in my opinion.  Best wishes to you. 

    www.breastcenter.com

    www.drmarga.com 

    http://www.naturalbreastreconstruction.com/ 

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