If you were stage I, did you get chemo???

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mdg
mdg Member Posts: 3,571
edited June 2014 in Stage I Breast Cancer

So far this is the last lingering question - if I will need chemo or not.  Right now you can see my DX with a less aggressive tumor.  THe only thing we don't have back yet is oncotype score which we are ordering on Monday - so it will take a few weeks.  I am paranoid about getting chemo....that's because I have a 4 year old.  Right now I am hoping that my BLMX and oral meds will be my only treatment and we can close the door on BC.  With the only obvious treatment being surgery, we planned on telling my son and kids in our life it was back surgery.    If I need chemo, I will have to explain to my son and teach him about cancer.  I know it's not the end of the world, but it will break my heart to scare him like that and scare my neices and nephews like that ( my one set of neice and nephew ages 6 and 8 lost their dad to cancer in March - this has been hard for our family - different story though dx was stage IV renal carcinoma and he died 9 mo's later).   I am only stage I, grade one, ER/PR+, HER2- with clear nodes, but I am only 45 years old.  The doctors I met with so far said chemo may be in the mix. I am freaking out!

If you were stage I, did you get chemo?  If so, what made the doctors decide it was important for your treatment (age, dx, oncotype dx, etc.)?  I am meeting with the medical oncologist on Monday.  I also plan to have BLMX and for now they say I won't need radiation.  They do recommend Tamoxofin though as I am pre-menopausal.  Chemo is the last thing I am freaking out about!  Just let me know your experiences.  I know I have to do what they tell me if it's the best thing, but I am trying to get my mind ready to accept it.  Ugh....I hate BC -can I just say that????

Thanks in advance ladies for putting me at ease and talking me "off the ledge".  So far you have helped a ton!

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  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2011

    Morning mdg ... Our "stats" are the same, with two exceptions, I was 51 years-old at diagnosis and grade 2.

    Chemo wasn't offered to me .. and I was so relieved.  I was terrified of having chemo.  If chemo is being recommended to you, it might be because of your age.

    I had a friend with the same stats and she was 49, they recommended chemo, and she refused it.  She had a lumpectomy and radiation, the same as I did.

    Wishing you the best,

    Bren

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited January 2011

    Our stats are similiar.  I was grade 2.  42 at dx.  I took the oncotype test and got a 15 and was told chemo was not for me.  I was happy about that!  Good luck Monday!

  • ADK
    ADK Member Posts: 2,259
    edited January 2011

    Similar stats except I had DCIS as well and was grade 2 and 49 at dx  - no chemo for me either.  I did not do the oncotype test. 

  • sue50
    sue50 Member Posts: 61
    edited January 2011

    Hey Maria,

    Here's bits of my story, maybe it will help you in your decisions:  

    My mom had her mx while she was still teaching Jr High back in the 80's. Her students asked the substitute teacher, "what's wrong with Mrs P?" The sub said "she had a tumor removed". The kids said "where was the tumor?" and the sub said "on her body." and they were satisfied with that. 

    I had my first mastectomies when my son was 4 and we did not tell him much... All he knew was that mommy had to visit the hospital for a few days...but then Nana was coming to visit!!! (I kept the focus on the positive aspects) Nana drove us to his kindergarten screening because I still had the lovely DRAINS under my shirt and wasn't allowed to drive yet.... 6 months later I had my implant surgery and my son exhibited some anxiety (didn't want to go to school) but quickly recovered. Maybe I should have had Nana come back as a distraction....!

    When I had my recurrence( and chemo), he was 11 so we explained everything. I asked him to cut my hair off when it was falling out; that was fun! He also made jello for me when I was sick, and we went to a cancer walk and I think he enjoyed being seen as a caregiver. He saw a few minutes of a couple of the chemo infusions (then Dad would take him to the science museum) but I don't think I would have let him come to the chemo clinic as a 4 year old.

    I think if I had to do chemo with a young child at home, I would explain it as funny medicine that will make your hair fall out....but mommy has to take it for a short time because the doctor said so. Just like sometimes kids have to have shots that might hurt for a short time. I wouldn't try to paint the big cancer picture for a 4 year old.

    If you are a praying family, I would ask the young child to remember to pray for you, just like you pray for him when he's sick. 

    Regarding chemo for Stage I, maybe some stage I gals will weigh with their experience.

    I would do the chemo if it's recommended by an onc. that you trust. If you don't trust your onc, find another one.  When I first was dx, I was only stage 0 and had no chemo or rads. 6 years later it came back in a worse form. Now I travel 3 hours to go to my new onc, but to me, she's worth it!

    Hang in there, hope this helps in a small way.  Hugs to the little one from me!!

    Sue 

  • doingbetter
    doingbetter Member Posts: 117
    edited January 2011

    I was 48 at time of diagnosis and at first, chemo was a bit of a question mark.  One onc said no matter the oncotype score he would recommend it because of my age.  But every other dr. thought it was overkill.  BUT, the big depends was the oncotype score.  With my path results they did not think it would be high enough to warrant chemo, but we had to wait and see as sometimes the oncotype score is not what they think it would be - that was a very long waiting period...Luckily, it was low enough (11) that all the other opinions I received felt chemo would not offer much additional benefit over the tamoxifen.

    Whom you choose to tell and in how much detail is a very personal thing.  Especially as a parent, I completely understand your concerns.  I myself am a very private person and don't like to worry anyone (also lost a couple of family members to cancer) and also felt that the surgery and hormone treatment would be easy enough to handle without making a big deal out of, but chemo would be a lot harder to keep "quiet" about.  And even if you're not that sick, the chemo more often than not, makes you seem much sicker to people.  My kids were older so I did tell them a little more about the cancer, but even with a mastectomy, it was a fairly easy surgery for me and they never saw me not well enough to function fairly normally which I think kids find reassuring.

    I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that you get a low enough oncotype score to avoid chemo - and at this point, you might as well believe that you will since that is more likely than not...On the flip side, there are many women who are able to get through chemo fairly well without too many issues so you may still be able to spare the kids too many details.

  • DFC1994
    DFC1994 Member Posts: 163
    edited January 2011

    I did not have chemo.My ONC told me since my tumor's were small that chemo was not reccommended.I had 2 invasive tumors in my left breast and DCIS in my right. My tumors were just under 1cm.I had bilateral mastectomy and a month later oophrectomy.I could not take the tamoxifen that was reccommended because of blood clotting disorders I have.

    So my only treatment was bilateral mx and oophrectomy.

    Hope this helps.

    Dee

  • lrr4993
    lrr4993 Member Posts: 937
    edited January 2011

    I was stage 1 but with a very aggressive tumor, so chemo was recommended for me.  However, because it was stage 1, my onco gave me the choice between ACx4 Tx4 (more aggressive and her rec if I had been node positive) or TC x4 (aggressive, but not quite at the level of the other).  I chose the TC, primarily because of the risk of heart damage from adriamycin.  For me, TC was a breeze.  I had few SEs during treatment and no SEs after treatment.  I really did not want to do it at the time, but am glad I did it now.

  • toughmom38
    toughmom38 Member Posts: 79
    edited January 2011

    I was a stage 1, but grade 3 and her2+.  The tumor was 1.7 cm and no lymph node involvement but I opted for bilateral mastectomy (because I didn't want to ever go through it again and I wanted them to match!) and reconstruction (I was not a candidate for lumpectomy).  I assumed I would not have to have chemo and was completely surprised at my oncology appointment when he suggested TCH X 6.  The deciding factor? I was 38 years old and a grade 3 her2+ tumor.  I finished chemo 7/22/10 and while it wasn't fun I am glad I did it because I want to feel like I have done everything I possibly can to kill the cancer. 

  • MarieKelly
    MarieKelly Member Posts: 591
    edited January 2011

    Chemo was never a recommendation for me - but only because the tumor size was barely 1 cm. I had just turned 49 at diagnosis, but only had a small, low grade invasive tumor. Refused all other treatment (rads and antihormonal) and only had a wide margin lumpectomy with biopsy track removal and single node removed by SNB.  That was almost 7 years ago and I've had no more problems to date. (fingers crossed!)

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited January 2011

    MarieKelly, quick question the Ki-67 what is considered a good %?

    I did decide to do chemo, it was suggested it was a good idea because of my age but it was left up to me. For me the SE's were so bad my BS said no way would he allow me to continue. I am 57, and if I had it to do over I would seek out a 2nd opinion. My new Onc. said if I had come to him first he would never have suggested I do chemo with my path report.

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited January 2011

    i guess I missed your DX number, but you are stage one., no nodes..just remember that

    chemo is not without serious side effects. Please take that into consideration

  • Drim
    Drim Member Posts: 302
    edited January 2011

    mdg - i was 43 at diagnosis with similar stats to yours except in the end it turned out I was HER2+. Even before we knew I was HER2+ 2 different oncs recommended chemo because of my age and health. Basically they said I was young and healthy and thought it was a good preventative measure that I would be able to tolerate well. I did actually have the oncotype test and it came back low intermediate so I was really struggling with the decision before HER2 made it for me. I ended up doing TCx4 with the H and I tolerated it very well. I had no real problems at all. Just felt a little 'weird' for a couple of days. I also did the cold caps which allowed me to keep my hair so I really didn't tell many people what was going on and since I looked normal nobody knew.

    Once you have all of your information in (onco score) you will have to make a decision that will make you comfortable in the long run.

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited January 2011

    Maria,  Another thing to think about is your age, and do you have young children. I know chemo is not easy, but as so many say it is doable, and this is from someone who had to stop. To this day I wonder if I will regret it down the road if it comes back.

  • meg8000
    meg8000 Member Posts: 108
    edited January 2011

    Kira -

    The higher the percent Ki-67, the greater the risk of an adverse outcome.

    <10% = favorable

    10%-20% = borderline

    >20% = unfavorable

  • diamondmahala
    diamondmahala Member Posts: 4
    edited January 2011

    Hi Maria, In 12/07 I discovered a lump in my right breast at 10 o'clock position. Was diagnosed at 49 w/ Stage 1 /PR+ HER2- 0/nodes.  Lumpectomy on 4/14/08 followed by Accelerated Partial Breast Radiation of upper quadrant (2x day for 5 days very high dose equivalent to 6 week treatment plan).  Medical oncologist weighed pros and cons w/ tamoxifen and we decided the side effects were not worth the couple percentage points I would gain. I was already post-menopausal.

    I do not recommend the radiation treatment I had. I was not given all the facts regarding side effects. 3 months after treatment ended I developed severe pain from breast bone around to spine and up into shoulder. Radiation doctor diagnosed it as bone inflammation.  I managed the pain but then in June 09 I developed shortness of breath, pain when sneezing or coughing. My radiation doctor refused to see me. I went to chiropractor, walk-in clinic and ended up in emergency room in a 2 week time period.  My condition has worsened over the last 18 months. I am unable to do my normal activities without shortness of breath and pain in treated area. I recently went to a new family doctor and found out I have severe radiation burn and probably  fibrosis throughout treated area. He wants to do bone scan and ct scan to rule out bone cancer since I have experienced pain for so long.

     Hope you have an excellent team of doctors that are willing to provide you with complete information regarding treatment options. Best of luck to you and your family.  

     P.S. what is BLMX and what meds. r u taking?

  • arby
    arby Member Posts: 126
    edited January 2011

    Hi, I didn't have chemo in 07 as the fish test for her2neu was inconclusive. I was hormone neg.  SO I took the standard treatment of a lumpectomy and radiation (probably 33 treatments).  I had DCIS with an invasive component, very small, stage 1.  BUT it came back in the same breast in less than 2 yrs.  This time a different test showed I was her2 positive so I underwent chemo after masectomy surgery. It was caught early, again stage 1. Ask lots of questions.  Chemo was REALLY hard on my body; I had radiation recall and was really sick a year ago.  Glad its behind me.  I'll ask the Lord to give you wisdom and discernment as you make this decision.  Then peace about the direction you choose.  Just be honest with your child and don't fear the sharing.  People, even little people can be your best supporters!   I know as I had a 4 yr old neice who was my prayer warrior.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2011

    I was almost 44 when diagnosed.  The day I found out I had breast cancer I immediately knew I would do a BMX.  When I found out about nipple/skin sparing mastectomies (and that I was eligible for one) it made my decision even easier.  

    As far as systemic treatment... I knew I would have to take Tamoxifen due to my very high ER/PR status (100%) ....so I wanted to subject my body to as little "chemicals" as possible. I was eligible for a lumpectomy ~ but chose the BMX in hopes of avoiding radiation (I did).  My oncologist (I highly respected breast cancer specialist in my area) was "on the fence" about chemo.  My "young age" and aggressiveness of the tumor concerned him, however, he knew the Tamoxifen would be a an effective weapon of choice for me.  He felt very confident in the use of the oncotype scoring and said that would be the last "piece of the puzzle" in helping us decide.

    My score came back as 15, and he said he felt adding chemo to the tamoxifen would be of little benefit to me.  I happily agreed!  I feel I am doing what feels right for ME.  I got rid of the cancer and the main "breeding ground" with the BMX, and now I am going to attempt to prohibit any rogue cancer cells (if there are any) with the T pill for 5 years, continuing and stepping up my healthy eating, daily exercise and living life to its fullest.  I am 5 weeks post op and feel happy and healthy and ready to hit the ground running.

    I am glad you are researching and asking questions.  This website and its powerful ladies have been invaluable to me.   It helped me to feel more in control and not just a passenger on this whirlwind bc ride.  I hope you also have a smooth ride and remain happy, healthy and in control. :)

    ~ Susan 

  • jenlong
    jenlong Member Posts: 13
    edited January 2011

    I was 38 years old when diagnosed and had stage I. I also had 100% ER/PR. I never had an option. I mean from the beginning all the docs said that I needed chemo. Pretty much cause of my age I guess. Was supposed to have 6x FEC, but after the 3rd refused chemo unless I could switch to CMF (was scared of heart problems). They agreed. I'm overseas and really surprised to read that I probably wouldn't have gotten chemo if I was in the states...

    Peace, Jen

  • dreaming
    dreaming Member Posts: 473
    edited January 2011

    I wanted the most aggressive treatment possible, was offered a lumpectomy, I  asked for a mastectomy,during which another lesion was found, I also asked for chemo.

    I am glad with my choice. I was in my early forties. I am years from diagnosis.

  • adenacb
    adenacb Member Posts: 89
    edited January 2011

    MDG,

    I was 47 when I was diagnosed, and my tumor was a bit larger than yours, but otherwise very similar stats. My son was 9 at the time. I remember the chemo decision and discussion to be the most stressful part of the whole BC experience. My onc was pushing for chemo, even after my Oncotype came back in the "low" range.  I really wanted to avoid chemo as nausea is an issue for me. So in the end, my onc agreed with the no chemo. But it was a struggle. 

    The Oncotype score will help with this decision. You also need to determine, for yourself, if you feel that chemo will benefit you. Apparently the chemo regimens today are much better than they were in the past, and the anti-nausea drugs are much better. So most people get through it okay.

    Good luck with this decision.

  • changes
    changes Member Posts: 622
    edited January 2011

    Hi,

    I did not have chemo, due to my low oncotype score (9). The oncologist said even without the oncotype he probably would have recommended against chemo for me.

    Good luck in making your decision,

    Karen

  • navygirl
    navygirl Member Posts: 886
    edited January 2011

    MDG, 

    I was 42 at diagnosis, ER/PR and HER2+, 1.9cm grade 3 IDC/DCIS. Initially I was told hormone therapy only (edited to add:) after Herceptin, because I opted for a bilateral (BC in both sides), that changed when my Oncotype came back at 50. I ended up doing 4x dd a/c and 12 taxol/herceptin. Chemo only came into the picture when the Oncotype score came back so high.

    I pray your score comes in low and you do not have to do the chemo.

    Best Wishes... 

  • crusader1
    crusader1 Member Posts: 1,222
    edited January 2011

    Hi,

    I am an older women but had pretty similar stats.I had chemo due to my oncotype score..27. My oncologist said to give it all you can now. I believe I did the right thing.

    Most oncologists and women on this board get 4 TC;s for high oncotype numbers.This chemo is doable...I was not 100 per cent but managed well. You will too.

    I also hope you get a low oncotype number.

    Good luck..

    Francine

  • toni30
    toni30 Member Posts: 252
    edited January 2011

    mdg - The thing to know about the Onco score is that if your score is very low, it's actually bad to have the chemo.  That is, the chemo may actually have a negative impact on your long-term outcome.  Your age, etc don't matter so much if your score is really low or high. So it's good that you are getting the test.  Hope you can avoid chemo, but if you can't - I had it and you will get through it.

  • ICanDoThis
    ICanDoThis Member Posts: 1,473
    edited January 2011

    There is info out there that Grade 1 tumors do not really respond as well to chemo as do higher-grade tumors. I asked for a second opinion when original onc told me no chemo, second opinion was even stronger - that the risks of chemo are higher than the risks of cancer for stage 1, grade 1, post menopausal.  I should think that the most important results for you are your oncotype score.

    When I first joined here, most younger women got chemo automatically - now, docs are recommending it less frequently for less aggressive tumors.

    It's still cancer, though, and it still STINKS.

     Sue

  • LtotheK
    LtotheK Member Posts: 2,095
    edited January 2011

    I believe the Oncotype is showing that grade of tumor doesn't always factor into chemo.  For instance, my grade 3 was far less horrible than they imagined (12 Oncotype, which usually doesn't jive with grade 3) and grade 1s can be intermediate risk scores.  I believe your Onoctype in your case will tell all.

    Age is also a factor according to my hospital--you'll find conflicting stories on this, even here (Toni30, for instance).  It is important to remember that the vast resources and studies out there are mostly about the over-40 set.  Take a look at Young Survivors, that is some pretty chilling stuff--a lot of study is needed in younger, pre-menopausal patients (not just those under 40).  I think this points to the real lack of absolutes in this game.  I was under 40 at diagnosis.  They like to bring out the big guns in that case, as they did in mine. I might not have had chemo if I'd been grade 1. At the NCI ranked institutions, grade 3 still means chemo.  They are often uncomfortable with Oncotype in the grade 3 environment, given they are the most aggressive cancers (though, I do believe the Oncotype will eventually change the entire staging arena for ER+ patients).

    Some will tell you to "hit it hard". I think they just don't know a lot about what works precisely, and what doesn't, so in a young patient, they tend to throw the book at it.

  • MarieKelly
    MarieKelly Member Posts: 591
    edited January 2011

    Personally, I think there's too much interobservor variability in tumor grading - which is one reason why, now that oncotyping is available, grade should never be the primary reason for prescribing chemo. It could also, at least to some extent, explain how you end up with recurrence scores that don't jive with expectations relative to tumor grade. On the other hand, there can sometimes be problems with the oncotype procedure too, so no one factor should ever be weighted in isolation when making treatment decisions. The big picture is always the clearest, and if anything in that big picture doesn't add up correctly, then a closer look is needed. 

  • EllieD
    EllieD Member Posts: 31
    edited January 2011

    I was diagnosed in 2007 at age 57.  Because my tumor was grade 3, and my oncotype was 27, I chose to have chemo.  I did TCx4.  I worked while I was having chemo.  I had to take a couple days off each cycle, but I was able to get through it.  When your oncotype is in the middle, it becomes a personal decision.  Do your research and be true to yourself.  I knew I would beat myself up if I didn't do chemo and had a recurrence.  I'm at peace with my decision.  Hang in there!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2011

    I'd also like to chime in about the variability in tumor grading.  My original core biopsy gave my tumor a grade 3 ... but the surgery pathology downgraded it to a 2.  My doc was explaining that it really is based on the observations of the particular pathologist. 

    I also read a recent study (that somebody linked on here I think) that stated they are finding out that tumor grade and patient age are not good predictors of oncotype score like they thought.

    My oncologist feels the oncotype score is a great tool that they have now to help with that "missing piece of the chemo puzzle" for ER positive women.  My age (43) and grade (3 or 2) would have automatically had me doing chemo just a few years ago (or even more recent than that).  When my onco score came back in the low category (my BS was pretty surprised) and my oncologist strongly recommended NOT to do chemo.  I will be doing Tamoxifen for 5 years (and with eating healthy and exercising) I feel totally comfortable that I am doing the best thing for my situation.  Like everyone says... you really have to feel confident in your decision and be sure that you would have no regrets. :)

  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 6,099
    edited January 2011

    I think the bottom line is that there is no one, single characteristic that can predict whether or not someone with Stage I BC will benefit from chemo.

    The Oncotype DX test has been a fantastic breakthrough, but it's not the only important variable.  I think many oncos still consider a person's age, tumor grade (perhaps because it doesn't always correlate with Oncotype score), general health, and the patient's feelings about risk.  As many others have said, there is still too much subjectivity in some of the testing; and there isn't enough known about Oncotype reliability among smaller groups of women (such as very young women).

    The TAILORx Trial results should help, once they become available.  That will tell us whether chemo is beneficial in women with those pesky "middle-range" Oncotype scores (from 11 through 25, for the purposes of the study):  http://www.cancer.gov/newscenter/pressreleases/TAILORxRelease.

    To answer the OP's question:  I was Stage I, and, yes, I did get chemo.  The factor that tipped the scale in my case was my Oncotype score of 26.  That score gave me a 17% risk of "distant recurrence" = mets without chemo but assuming I did have either tamoxifen or an aromatase inhibitor. Adding chemo to my treatment was estimated to cut my risk of mets by about 1/3, bringing my absolute risk of mets down to 17 - 5 = approx. 12%.

    My onco also noted some other considerations, like the tumor grade ("2 is better than 3, but 1 would have been better still"); the size (1.8 cm = slightly below the cutoff for Stage 1 vs. Stage II); the fact that my tumor was PR negative (which also contributed to the higher Oncotype score); and my age.  "Huh?", I thought.  I figured 56 (55 at dx) was old; but he said it was still young enough to justify chemo.  A second oncologist said the same thing, so I went with it:  4 rounds of Taxotere/Cytoxan at 3-week intervals.

    Three things helped me make the decision to go along with their recommendations.  First, if had enrolled in the TAILORx trial and my Oncotype score came back at 26, I'd be getting chemo automatically.  The cutoff for the random assignment of chemo-vs.-no chemo in that study was 25.  Second, the estimated benefit from chemo in terms of absolute decrease in risk of recurrence was 5 or 6%, which was higher than the estimated risks of any of the really bad long-term SE's from chemo.  (And the chemo I ended up getting -- T/C -- had less cardiac risk than what my original onco had proposed to use.)   Third, when I have a difficult decision to make, I imagine having already made the decision and then I see how the possible outcomes "feel".  In other words, I asked myself which would bring me the greatest regret:  declining chemo and then having a recurrence (possibly because I had declined chemo), or going ahead with chemo and having my cancer recur anyway?  For me, the worst would have been if I had decided not to have chemo (given all those factors arguing in its favor) and then I had a recurrence.

    So, that was how I did it.  Now, as I near my 3-year post-dx mark and look back on the events of 2008, I have no regrets.  At least, none with respect to the decisions about my cancer treatment.  I can't say the same about everything I did that year; but, who can?

    otter

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