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Thank you Carolyn and Paula. I guess I'm confused because if the rest of the nodes are clean, you'd think that nothing else "escaped..." but chemo + hormone therapy seem to be the protocol. I wonder how the odds of irreversible damange or death from chemo compare to the recurrence rates for cancer? Yes, I'm trying to avoid what's probably inevitable in treatment.... I get a second opinion next week, after surgery...
30 years of survival is wondeful.
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Carolyn: Your mom sounds like an exceptional person. What a wonderful role model for all of us! Keep living your life and don't a little thing like bc get your down!
Ami: Your onco can probably tell you based off the chemo regimen what the risks are of chemo and may even be able to give you an idea of recurrance without it so you can decide. This web site might help you too: http://lifemath.net/cancer/ You can plug in data specific to you and try different ways and see what comes up.
Paula
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Thank you Paula! I really like the calculator. I need to plug in a few more variables, but it's nice to see the numbers play out....
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I had 2 positive nodes and doc insisted on chemo.
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I only had 1 positive node.onco score of 10.thats why i dont need chemo but i do need the rads.
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grannydukes, your also LCIS, stage 1 grade 1 -- so many variables -- whew!
Lifemath is a great site for starters but the doctors have a better one to access your risk. They also know all the specifics about your condition. Here is what they determined for me. Won't be able to put in the graph but maybe this will give you the general idea.
Age: 57, Gen Health: Good, ER+, Grade 2, Tumor size 2.1, Nodes Involved 1, Chemotherapy regimen: CA 4 + T 12
Decision: No additional therapy: 39 out of 100 women are alive and w/o cancer in 10 years. 56 out of 100 relapse, 5 out of 100 die of other causes.
Decision: Hormonal therapy (Tamoxifen or other): 25 (of the 56 that would have relapsed) are alive and w/o cancer because of therapy.
Decision: Chemotherapy: 16 (of the 56 that would have relapsed) are alive and w/o cancer because of therapy.
Decision: Combined Therapy: 35 (of the 56 that would have relapsed) are alive and w/o cancer because of therapy.
Result: Out of the 56 with my kind of stats who take the combined therapy (56-35= 21%) there is 21% chance of recurrence. On top of this, I had radiation which took me down to about a 12 % risk of recurrence. Hope this helps in some small way. I would have never gone through the chemo if I didn't think it was worth it in reducing my risk of relapse. Also remember this is just a tool in helping you decide. All these stats vary based on many factors and they are just an educated approximation. Also note how important hormone theapy is after chemo and rads.
Blessings, Carolyn
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These decisions are hard for me! I have had a lumpectomy and I of 9 nodes were positive. The tumors IDC one 2.4 cm and the other 1.8 cm.I'm 48. My friend yesterday (Whose husband has liver cancer that started in the colon) questioned why I didn't have a mastectomy. Hearing how some of the ladies here have been stage one and had recurrances have scared me. I see the onco on friday. As you have said they should lay it out for me. Just because of scheduling I did get to see the radiologist, she has said usually the onco will give 12 wks chemo 8 2 wks apart and a break and then 4 treatments. Then 33 radiation treatments to follow. 5 yrs of something oral by pill to follow too. The margin by my nipple is close and my surgeon said that I might need some of that area shaved. At first I felt very clear- but now I am second guessing myself. More than anything I think I am getting more scared-maybe reality has finally hit. I just want to feel good about my decisions so I can move forward and not look back with regrets. I am wondering now because there were two masses if I should have had a mastectomoy. The Surgeon did tell me before surgery that the percentages for the lumpectomy and the mastectomy were equal. But after the surgery she did say the one tumor was larger than she thought. Any thoughts appreciated. BTW, I have been reading along and my prayers are with all of you,.
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hope... I can relate to your questions completely. I don't know if we ever get to the point that we are completely happy with our decisions. I was told I could go either way-mastectomy or lumpectomy but that with a lumpectomy you have to have radiation to equal the survival results of a mastectomy. I did a bit of research and was convinced the odds were equal Yet when it came down to decision time I told the surgeon I still was undecided. That I needed her help it and that I wasn't scared of the extra surgeries (associated with the reconstruction) but why have unnecessary surgery. I told her I could live w/o a nipple (mine too was close to the areola) and wasn't afraid of radiation. So, she looked over all my information and came back into the room talking lumpectomy. That's what I had. If it comes back I'll do the mastectomy then.
It would be nice if it were an easier process. Your so crazy at the time and in a bit of a rush to get the cancer out. But looking back, you really do have more time than you think (unless yours is fast growing). Hang in there, get all the info you can and talk with your doctors.
Blessings, Carolyn
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I need some advise, I've been diagnose with breast cancer and had a mastectomy 4 months ago, two weeks ago my Dr. told me that my treatment is radiotherapy and hormone theraphy (Arimidex), NO CHEMOTHERAPY, I'm ER+ 100%, PR+ 80%, GRADE III, tumor size: 2cms., some lymph nodes affected.
I'm very concerned about chemotherapy, DO YOU THINK I NEED IT?.
Thank you in advance.
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Nela, Based on what you have written about your diagnosis, and assuming this is correct, I would be amazed if you didn't need chemotherapy.
Please get a second opinion. - Claire
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Nela: I think if you had "any" positive nodes they would be hitting you with the Chemo. I had a diagnosis similar to yours with one positive node and I had to do the whole show: Chemo, Rads, Lumpectomy and now Arimidex. I would not risk my life on the fact that the mastectomy is the Ace card. I agree with Claire that you should get a second opinion to make sure you are fighting this bc with everything necessary to your survival. I have read that some Oncs skip the Chemo if one has the Mastectomy and no positive nodes but there seems to be disagreement on this issue. So it is best to get that second opinion, IMO. Best of luck with whatever you decide to do.
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Thank you ladies for the messages here and privately. Today it totally put me back on track and feeling good about my choices again!
My oncologist fell and had to have surgery on her spine... they had to reschedule me to the 29th..but they want me to have chemo before 6 weeks after the surgery. They told me they are being a little unconventional, but she set up my appointments(her assistant and then the appt girl with the dates) to start out so we don't loose time. I'll be having a heart scan, Then I will meet with the Onco(the 29th), The next day chemo training, and chemo two days later- Dec.2. She said I will be there 4 hours and it will be an iv drip. The appointment girl could not tell me more. (what kind etc, and I figured that. I will learn on the 29th.
Knowing the date is nice because everyone asks me when chemo will start! Well, I am a little anxious, but ready to get going. I found a cute hat, hair or no hair it is cute and might come in handy.
I did break out the wine tonight. I have been a good girl since my surgery-haven't had any since 10/28. I will try not to overdo- a sure sign will be posts later tonight..with lots of affection! So that being said, I do love you guys already so it won't be anything new! hugs! Cathy
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Hope, you have to make the decisions that are best for you. Some women have mx because of a strong family history even without a bad mamo. They don't want the risk. Some take both off even if there is only cancer in one. We are all individuals and deal with everything diferently. Don't let anyone question your decisions. You did what you were comfortable with at the time and that is all that should matter!
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Nela,
I think most of us here are in agreement you should at least be offered chemo with positive lymph nodes and a fair sized grade 3 tumor. You can always get a second opinion. I think I would question your Onc his/her reasoning about no chemo. It does not seem right.
Best wishes
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Hi Nela,
I would have thought that most women with your stage and a grade 3 especially, would have chemo, however because you have such high % of ER & PR, I believe they also respond better to the hormonal drugs such as Arimidex, so maybe that is why your onc is thinking that chemo may not be a goer. I did have one positive node and was stage 11A, grade 1, however because I was 52 and close to menopause, but had not started, my onc suggested ovary removal instead of the chemo. I went with that advice, however I now do worry that I may not have made the right decision.
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Just got back from onco consult #2 - at least she said to go for second gen rather than third gen chemo. Apparently I'm somewhat unusual because my node tumor was the same size as the breast tumor (,05cm). So much trouble over so small tumors - but they appear to be the traveling kind.... so TC chemo 4 treatments every 21 days, then rads, then Tamoxifen. I am so not looking forward to this... oh and something about an self-injection before every treatment to keep the white cells up. I'm still worried about neropathy, though.... any experiences with that?
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Ami: I don't,since I skipped chemo but I know there are specific chemo threads though. And the chemo pages from the web site have some great info as well. As far as injections go, my DH is diabetic and takes 5 shots a day (plus sugar checks in his fingers). He does his in tummy. I have a dear friend who had a stroke and had to do home injections in her thigh after she got out of the hospital. Not sure how she did it. After all this surgery, I'm still freaked out about needles! I will think good thoughts for you though!
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Ami - the shot you're talking about is Neulasta or Neupegen. It is given 24hrs after chemo and it helps boost up your wbc. You inject in your tummy or my sister injects mine in the fatty part of my arm. I'm also doing TC x4. I've done 2 so far and my 3rd one is on friday.
I haven't experienced neuropathy yet... My s/e were mostly mouth issues and gums issues. I am now experiencing some fingertip / nail issue with my index finger only. It's extremely painful and at the tip right under the nail, there's a black mark and blood and something oozing - so not sure what that is although I do know that Taxotere is known for nail problems. They will put your hands and feet on ice during treatment.
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sistas.a while back i posted my path report is all wrong.i just got an amended path report.clerical error...yeah right.another story.i guess ill have to change it.im stage 2 idc. it went from 2cm to 4 cm.er 90% pr30% whatever that means.and yes the sentinel node was positive but the jerk dr.never checked any other nodes but i had 6 more removed by dr#4 all negative.im still pondering the rads.
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ER 90% means that 90% of the tumor cells had etrogen receptors, sometimes called "stongly positive"
PR 30% means that 30% of the tumor cells had progesterone receptors. I believe 30% falls in the "PR positive" range, but I'm not completely sure aobut the numbers on that.
ER 90% means that anti-estrogen therapy (tamoxifen or an AI) will likely be helpful in preventing a recurrence or met from showing up down the road.
If the Sentinel Node was positive and the other nodes taken at the same time weren't tested, I think you should talk to a lawyer about a malpractice suit. That is simply unacceptable.
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Wow! grannydukes - that's not cool! I agree with NativeMariner you ought to check out what the heck happened that your other nodes were not tested. And if your upgraded to stage 2 w/pos node I do not know how your going to get by w/o chemo and radiation. But here's wishing you the best ..... I sure don't want anyone do any unnecessary treatment.
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Hi ECT and granny dukes - I'm finally resigned to chemo and rads. Axillary nodes (12) all came back clean, but with the one positive SN I'm kinda stuck. However, at least it will be TC 4 doses at 3 weeks. I have to do chemo class and then will probably start the week before Christmas because I'm thinking that will carry me through the holidays....
Now I'm checking out a "lace front" extension system; I guess its like a find netting wig that adheres to your head for a month or longer at a time. Anyone try that?
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Granny
If you have IDC and not ILC then I think you may have todo chemo???
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Hey Ami, I have friends who use lacefront (forunately not for this reason) and is works great. That's a great idea, also. I just finished chemo and can't say it was a breeze but it wasn't as bad as I thought. You will get through it! I'm waiting for radiation now and not looking forward to doing that everyday but can't wait to just have to take Herceptin every 3 weeks. Keep your positive attitude and know that you will get through This!
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hello
my onco score was 10.does anyone still think i need chemo?????
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Hey grannydukes, so happy for you on the onco. score. Don't know what I'd do on this one. I didn't have to worry with this in the decision mix since I didn't do the onco. test. My doctors were not thrilled with it - said the verdict is still out on how to best use the information. Then, they told me it would not change what I needed anyway. So, here's my 2 cents worth, (but remember you get what you pay for.)
---- I think I'd just get another opinion, that way you'll have better piece of mind. Blessings, Carolyn
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grannydukes,
I remember posting with you awhile ago. I thought our discussion was about the decision to do or not to do rads. I agreed that an onco score of 10 seemed low enough to forego chemo, but I still do not know if you have made your decision about rads and how you came to your conclusion? Please update us on that..............thanks.
Caren
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hi Caren
you have a good memory.i dont.ha..update. i went to see the rad onc on tues.finally...ive been draggin my feet on all of this and i am doing the rads.its 7 mos.since i had the SN removed and 2 mos since i had the 5 negative nodes removed.if anyone remembers the first dr.made lots of mistakes and he told me no chemo no rads.well im doin the rads.i just hope its not too late.this dr feels it will be beneficial and wants to do 33 tx.5x a week for 6 1/2 wks.im doin it.so i start my tx on wed.thanks for remembering and caring.AND YES I COULD SUE THE FIRST DR.ALL I NEED IS A LAWYER THAT WILL GO AGAINST THE #10 dr. in america.
HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGS
K
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grannydukes,
I am glad to hear you have decided to do the rads. I think it will give you tremendous peace of mind. You will be amazed how much quicker the time goes by than you think it will. The six and half weeks will be over before you know it. My biggest piece of advice to hopefully avoid skin problems is to keep the area lubricated. You can't do anything before the treatment each time, but I carried my aloe (100% Aloe from CVS) with me and always applied it before I got dressed after my daily rad. I then applied it once more in the afternoon and again before going to bed. I showered in the morning before I went for rads so that I was clean of any residue. Aquafor is also another good thing to use. I had very little skin issues, just a little toward the very end, and that all cleared up within days of my last rad. Good luck to you and keep us posted..............Caren
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Check the labels though - look for no alcohols of any kind. Walmart has "Fruit of the Earth" 100% aloe with no alcohol. Alcohol is drying and irritating to sensitive skin. CVS also has store brand Aquaphor.
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