March 2010 Chemo Start
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Michelle: I also had bad bone pain (maybe muscle pain?) after chemo. I still have it. But it is getting better, only comes on in the late afternoon now. Radiation is easy so don't worry about that. My memory has improved so much since chemo ended! BTW, chemo ended Aug.16 for me. I sleep well with no bad dreams but it is probably because I take pain pills for the bone pain just before bed and they completely knock me out. I know you were on a "count down" with chemo but once you start radiation you can always count down those and then have a celebration. I only have 9 more to go and then....PARTY TIME!!!
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I like the idea of party time - unfortunately one thing I've found that worsens my flashes is wine, and beer - sigh - I love red wine. So I had one glass of pinot when I went out to dinner last night- definately gave me an increase. I'm hoping this is not a forever change and there'll be a new equilibrium "sometime" in the future, until then, I'm going to have to be a semi-teetotaller..
My memory has improved alot even in the last few weeks - I no longer feel like Dory from Finding Nemo, so chemo brain is a reality, but for most people it gets better with time,
Here's a little excerpt from a very long poem I studied back in High School which is apt for we sleep deprived, who have been on a long journey, it's from Rhyme of the ancient mariner by Coleridge
... oh sleep it is a wondrous thing,
beloved from pole to pole,
to Mary Queen the praise be given,
She sent the gentle sleep from heaven,
which slid into my soul...
I'd say our souls all need a bit of a break, hugs to you all , Lisaxx
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To everyone having sleep problems, my oncologist gave me the green light on using Melatonin as a sleep aid. Recent research is saying that it acts as a preventative in recurrence. Anyhow, I take 1-3 3mg tablets when I have trouble sleeping and it can be taken on a regular basis. You should take it 2 hours before sleep or at least one if you have difficulty getting to sleep. It works wonders.
My daughter has used Melatonin for the past 3 years as recommended by her Neurologist. She suffers from severe migraines as a result of a severe head injury and sleep is critical at keeping migraines at bay. No long term implications as melatonin is produced in your body but as we age, our ability to produce it decreases.
So, try it and sleep well. Heather
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HI Girls,
This was an email I received. I don't know if any of you have seen it but it's great!!
You have to watch this video from Portland, Oregon.
Here's the story behind the video.
Emily (MacInnes) Somers, created, directed and choreographed this in Portland last week for her Medline glove division as a fundraiser for breast cancer awareness.
I don't know how she got so many employees, doctors and patients to participate, but it started to really catch on and they all had a lot of fun doing it.
When the video gets 1 million hits, Medline will be making a huge contribution to the hospital, as well as offering free mammograms for the community. Please check it out. It's an easy and great way to donate to a wonderful cause, and who hasn't been touched by breast cancer?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEdVfyt-mLw -
Michelle; I've seen the video probably a dozen times and every time, it just gets better. Makes you wonder however, WHO is working at St. Vincents!!!
My vote for favorite performer would be the older janitor...his dance at the end is great and I especially like his moves in the hallway with the other cleaning staff.
It's a great video with over 11 million hits...worth watching.
Heather
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I'm not so into the Pink thing, but loved this video, good people are just good people. Thanks for posting it Michelle.
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Thanks for sharing, I love the Pink Glove Dance! It helped get me through bilateral mastectomy, thinking of all those people fighting for me. Although it never fails to cheer me up, it never fails to make me cry. Have a tissue handy! {{hugs}}
p.s. someone asked about experiences with tamoxifen. I've been on it since July and so far so good, just hot flashes and night sweats. I find that sugar and caffeine trigger flashes, hadn't correlated it with alcohol but had a glass of wine with dinner last night and woke up wringing wet at 3 am. Coincidence?
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I had a diavola pizza last night, yum, but hoooeee, lots of chillies! 3 flashes overnight. So my list for increasing the flashes, wine,chillies, and maybe, just maybe, chocolate bars (I'm ignoring that one).
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Hello All
Just checking in with everyone and to let you all know - We have the first snow fall of the year and it is actually accumulating.
Met with my Radiologist yesterday and he says to me, "I never want to see you again in this office." One Dr down One to go, although my Oncologist won't release me anytime soon. No biggie, I feel great, I still get tired and forgetful sometimes but I'll deal with it, did find out yesterday that 1 of the side effects of the effexor is forgetfulness - Hum let's see have a little forgetfulness or have horrible Power Surges ? I also notice that if I have a drink it starts the surges - but also I will deal - I can't give up everything I love and if it's in moderation then I should be ok.
I wish everyone a happy weekend and think of me up north here with our Nor'easter and snow!
Thoughts, prayers, Hugs and Kisses to ALL! - Stacey
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Did you see the sequel with all the survivors dancing? I cried!
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I had not, but thanks for the heads up - I found it - awesome!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTyIhMLp3FA
"You Won't Dance Alone"
ps I cried too :-)
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It was the last shot with the survivors and then the staff joining them. Wow. How cool.
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Just checking in...had a great couple of days in Ithaca visiting our daughter at Cornell. The weather report was calling for rain for Saturday but thankfully, the sun shone all day. We climbed Buttermilk Falls...was exhausting but pushed myself and the view from the top was oh so rewarding. We then headed to the Cornell Plantations for another long walk. It was so wonderful to spend time with Marissa and my DH.
One week of rads down...28 treatments to go.
Hope all is well with everyone. Fondly, Heather
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Hello Lovely Marchers,
I'm hoping that the quietness on our thread is because everyone is well and quietly getting on with things. I feel stronger every week - it's a beautiful Spring day today, and so warm I'm going down to the sea baths for a swim. The flashes are still annoying but I think they're settling down a bit - fingers crossed they'll eventually go completely when my body equilibrates from the early menopause. And my mood has lifted alot - my PhD presentation being put off to February has taken a big load off a slowly recuperating brain. I haven't had my first haircut yet, but it won't be too far off cause it's looking a bit scrappy around the ears , and I think it really needs some colour - but I don't get the same pitying looks from strangers in the supermarket anymore, so clearly it looks like I've styled it this way, thank goodness for finally some anonymity from cancer.
So, seeyalater cancer, I hope I never see you again,
love and hugs to all my March sisters xxx
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Well, I finally had my liver biopsy yesterday. There was a very weird feeling when he did it. I was expecting no pain and that was not the case. But it wasn't too bad and was only as he did the biopsy. He didn't get enough of a sample the first time, so he had to repeat it. I should have my results tomorrow. Keep your fingers crossed it's nothing.
My baby turned into a teenager last Friday. No more baby for me. Now all 3 are officially teenagers! Joe had a party with about 7 friends. 5 boys and 2 girls, it was very cute. I was glad I was feeling good to have it for him.
Friday night at my 2 older children's HS, they are having a pink out for BC awareness. During halftime, Jaclyn, my daughter, is cutting her hair for locks for love. She has never had short hair. She is very excited. I get to go on the field with her. They are having all survivors stand behind the girls as they get their hair cut.
My port comes out on Monday and I meet with the radiologist for my set-up on Wed. Things are finally moving along.
Lisa - enjoy your swim.
Michelle
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Michelle - Crossing my fingers that biopsy results are nothing. Glad to hear things are finally moving along for you.
Lisa - I haven't had my first haircut yet and its been 5 months! Hair is still growing at a snails pace for me and I have this bald spot that is ever so slow to fill in. I figure at the rate I'm going I should be able to do a comb over soon and ditch the wig! ;-)
Work has been crazy busy ... and now that I am "well" in everyone's eyes I have had to step up and deal with it. There are so many things outside of work I want to do now but just don't have the time. I want to slow down, enjoy life and do other things. I need to find a way to retire at full salary!
Hugs to all! Charley
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hi ladies
sorry not checked in for a while, just getting on with thing i suppose
hope everyone is doing well cos i feel bloody fantastic
were all still here in Oct to tell the tail whoop whoo
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It is wonderful to hear that so many are feeling so much better - what a road we have travelled! I check here everyday to see how all are doing.
Michelle, I am so sorry that you had to have the biopsy, but am praying for good results.
I'm feeling well, having a few hot flashes from Arimidex. Also, the seroma is better although I will probably have to get it drained again next week. At least I know that is all that it is.
It's beautiful weather here in Virginia with the leaves beginning to change colors. I am so thankful to be able to enjoy it!
Love to all!!
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Charley, if you figure out how to retire at full salary could you perhaps share the secret with your March sisters - we won't tell anyone - LOL
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I'm doing good. I have my last radiation this upcoming Monday. I'm very excited. After that, nothing more for me to do. I see my Oncologist on Tuesday for my FIRST blood test reading. I'm a little nervous. I'm hoping my numbers are okay and this cancer is gone. I told myself months ago that I wasn't going to live in fear but I find that easier said than done! I'm surprised at myself for being so nervous for those damn results! Maybe this anxiety is just because it's my first test. I have to have the blood test every 3 months for 2 years. I'm still going to try really hard to live normally and not worry about my results every 3 months.
Everyone sounds as if they're doing great. Although I don't post regularly, I sure enjoy reading what everyone has to say. I check the site daily. Congratulations to all!
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Hi all - doing well here too. I see my onc on Nov 9 for 4-month checkup. He doesn't test for tumor markers and I don't anticipate any scans so it should be quick. Well, except for possibly waiting for him. The appt is at the end of the day and he's one of those docs that takes time with patients, so he can be late. I'll bring a paperback as usual.
Anyone reading anything particularly good? Winter is coming and I'll need some books.
My hair is to the point where I'm gonna need some goop to control it. I have bed head all day long! And OMG the cowlicks!! What are you guys using on your hair these days?
Congratulations on the milestones and {{hugs}} to all.
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Isn't it nice to have hair? I haven't seen my hairdresser since she shaved my head the first week of March. So I went to see her last week just to have her shave my neck and trim around the ears. I wanted to feel 'normal' again!
Anyway, herceptin #12 last week. 6 more to go. That feels good. Coming up on the one year anniversary of my diagnosis (12/11) and surgery (1/11). I feel like I should celebrate, but not ... you know? Part of me doesn't want to 'celebrate' that I have cancer, but another part of me feels like I should celebrate that they found it early and I am on a really positive path.
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Hi Ladies,
Well it's GREAT News on my liver biopsy!! He said it looks very good, no inflamation, no scarring. It's actually very healthy. At this point he has no explanation for me regarding the ups and down of the enzymes. He is having a few more specialized testing done on the sample (he didn't tellme for what) but he doesn't think anything will come of it. He is going to call my onc to get a complete list of the surgical medications I had during the BM. It was right after surgery that this began. It may be one of the drugs. Thank Goodness it's not the auto-immunione disease that was a possibility. They can control it by supressing the immune system, which is not good for the cancer. Very glad I do not have to worry about it.
Badger-- I have a great book for you to read. The Innocent by Harlan Coben
Have a good week end everyone!!
Michelle
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Good news Michelle! Congrats and thanks for the book rec.
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Michelle, that is such great news on your liver biopsy, what a relief for you and very good you've got a good detective on the case. The liver is both robust and delicate -if it is getting hurt by a virus, or drugs or the immune sytsem, its cell walls breakdown and up goes the AST, ALT, but if the damaging influence is removed, it repairs really quickly. I read alot during chemo, much of which I can't remember very well LOL. I was given a book called The Deadly Dinner Party, and other medical detective stories which was quite fun- about Medical sleuthing. All the Millenium books are an easy rollicking read if not a bit creepy in a Scandinavian kind of way.
And Frosty, I say celebrate, celbrate your strength girl, and how far you've come since then.
xxx
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Oh, Michele, I am so relieved for you!!! I just got back into town ( and my computer). Such great news!
Frosty, it is wonderful to get a haircut, even if it is just a trim!!! Congratulations...a hair style - something new for us!!!
My hair reminds me of a berber carpet...really thick and tight little curls!
Hope everyone has a great week! XOXOXO
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Michelle - So glad to hear about the liver biopsy! Why do these things happen that cause us such unnecessary worry!!
And Frosty - I saw my hairdresser the other day too ... only bumped into her at a restraurant! Told her that I'd be seeing her in a few months. Not ready for even a trim or anything yet ... but I'm getting there!
Hugs, Charley
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Hello Ladies,
Michelle - What wonderful news congrats - Frosty - rejoice and celebrate - WE have all come a long way and it is ok to celebrate how strong we are and show we can beat it - My 1 year diagnosis is 12/4. LillyC - I was really hoping my hair wouldn't come in as curly as it was - it didn't it's even curlier, love the berber carpet comment!
Hang tough ladies ! Hugs and prayers - Stacey
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Michelle; That is GREAT news!!! Congratulations. Heather
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Hello Ladies:
Thanks to all of you in sharing my relief regarding my liver. I also had my port out yesterday, so moving right along. The Dr. asked me if I wanted to take it home!! He said some people want to, I told him no thanks he can throw it out. I was very sore yesterday, it is a little better today. DH let me sleep in this morning, he got the kids off to school. I had the best night sleep that I've had in a long time. Dinner tonight will be interesting as the kids tell me what he did wrong in making their lunches!! They're so funny, everything is routine to them. Don't change it up!
Tomorrow I go for my "set up" for radiation. I was told to be able to spend a few hours there so the nurses can go over some things with me.
Frosty- You celebrate whatever and whenever you want! You deserved it! And if anybody has anything to say, tell them not until you've walked in my shoes!!
Lily- As curly as your hair sounds, thats how straight mine is! I look like George Clooney when he had his hair very short. (Not as handsome though) I've finally shed my "headdresses" as my son calls them. Everyone seems to like it. Well, what else are they going to say. A Dad at soccer, who is a hairdresser, was very impressed with how even my hair is. Apparently, Charlie, its common for it to come in blotchy. So don't worry, it will even out.
Have a great day!
Michelle
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