Any September 2010 Diagnosis?
Hi,
I was just wondering if there was anyone on here that was diagnosed in September/August? I was diagnosed 9/23/10 and will have SNB and lumpectomy on Friday. Chemo is in my future. It would be nice to talk with others now going through the begining stages.
Comments
-
Hi Sunflower-
I was diagnosed the day after you. So far I've had mammo/2US/MRI with dye/core biopsy. I get my genetic testing back on Friday and a course of treatment will be set in motion. I found my lump Sept 2nd, and boy has it been a LONG 6 weeks!!
-
Hi Sunflower71!
I have just been diagnosed with IDC ... infact I am seeing my surgeon tomorrow and looks like I will be seeing my plastic surgeon as well. I will be getting a double mastectomy and removal of various lymph nodes. Sounds like you are the lucky one with a lumpectomy
. The way I see things is that the worst is over ... I now know what direction I am going and can start working with my procedures.
By the way, I have just joined here and I don't really know how this website works ... hope that I can stay in touch with you. My email is ladie.of.the.lake@gmail.com if we lose contact somehow. My story is very very interesting and I would love to share it with you.
Keep smiling ... it looks good on you.
Jainey
-
Hi Sunflower and DivaJMusic - I am several weeks ahead of you, having been diagnosed on Aug 3. I had the US and two core biopsies prior to lumpectomy on Aug 26. I have written somewhere on this site that I was really surprised at how easily the lumpectomy went. I am definitely not a tough cookie who deals well with pain, so it was a very pleasant discovery. I had spent a lot (too much) time reading about people's experiences on all different sites and got myself quite worked up and anxious - I forgot to remember that there were just as many positive stories as there were bad. I had three wire localizations prior to surgery and was most anxious about this but as it turned out, this was not a problem at all. I had a lot of tissue removed - 4.5cm x 5.5 cm x 2cm deep. I had no drains. I took only one painkiller the night of surgery, moved to advil for a day or two and that was it. In terms of function i the days following, I made meals, I went out, I just didn't drive or go alone as I wanted my husband to "block" my right side - that was my worry, that someone would bump me.
It was a few days before I had final confirmation, but even after surgery, my BS was able to say he was very confident that we had good surgical results. Prior to surgery, we had believed it would be radiation and aromitase. The one glitch was that my tumor size prior to surgery was predicted to be less than 1cm, but the pathology report showed some lobular features (this means some little legs) were discovered, bringing me to 1.5cm. It changed the situation from no chemo to maybe chemo.
I had four medical oncologist opinions because when you are "intermediate" in everything, the decision really becomes yours and yours alone. I had a "you really need to", a "I wouldn't have my wife do it" and two 50/50's. Finally, I requested an Oncotype dx - that helped me decide as oce again, I was intermediate. Once I made the decision, I had to choose between two regimens and went for the longer one that is a bit milder and MAY offer the opportunity to keep my hair.
I started chemo last week with more anxiety than I thought possible. I read here over and overpeople say that it is "doable" and I can't think of a better word. It is doable. I am learning the "tricks" to get through it - wish I had gotten more fiber, for example
I will be happy to answer any questions you may have on here on by private message.
It is a long road, but I am so happy to have a road.
Neither of you mentioned your current staging....let me know how I can help.
-
Hi. I got my diagnosis on Sept 1. And, you're right - it has been a blur ever since. First was excisional biopsy (essentially the same as a lumpectomy) because mine was not a candidate for a needle biopsy. Margins were not clear. Instead of another lumpectomy and possibility margins would not be clear again, had a left mastectomy two weeks ago. I also was surprised at recovery - only had to take regular tylenol now and then. It has been MUCH easier than appendectomy (of all things) I had in July!
Jodimaca - I think i'm the same as you - Stage 1b, Grade 1 or 2 and zero nodes. They are still debating the grade as the MRI before mastec showed another smaller suspicious mass that mammo, ultrasound AND lumpectomy missed! So, long story short, pathology from biopsy & mastectomy showed both mases under 1 cm but one mass was grade 1, the other 2. I have my onc appointment on Friday & nervous about that. So many decisions. I know I'll probably be on hormone blocker (I'm post menopausal). No rads as I chose mastectomy. Not sure what the chemo situation is. In any event, I plan on a 2nd opinion. Have learned that already!!!!!
-
JanetinVirginia - we are the same. There was some dispute as to whether I was grade 1 or 2, so they went with the higher grade. Has your oncotype been ordered? When I found out that added two weeks to the mix, I put in a request to my breast surgeon before I ever saw the oncologist. I also am post-menopausal. Locally, we dont get to see the ocologist until after the surgery, a practice I feel delays getting information. It doesn't delay treatment though, as you have to wait for healing.
With my chemo this Monday, I have been a little zapped and nauseous and that has given me a lot of time to ponder the last two months. A blur is right and yet I resent the downtime I now have during chemo recovery. I have to remember that chemo is my friend and co-warrior.
Re the oncotype - had it not scored a 23 (15% recurrance), I don't think I would have opted for chemo as the risk vs benefit ratio was not that high before the score came in.
As for being nervous about the onc appointment, without exception, all FOUR that I spoke with were amazing people, docs like you don't see in any other area of medicine - you can feel their care and compassion.
Take care!
Diane
-
I was diagnosed with IDC on September 22. I'm 30 years old. I've had the lumpectomy and lymphectomy (sp?), and I have my first appointment with a medical oncologist this Friday. I meet with a genetic counselor on Monday to see about the BRCA genes. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 35 and died from it when she was 40 in 1987. Not a fan of genetics.
-
Hi All,
Thanks for responding, sorry we had to met up this way.
DivaJ- The date will stay with me forever, and yes it has been a long six weeks! Please let me know what your treatment course will look like. I go in today for the SNB injection.
Jainey- Deciding to do the lumpectomy vs the masectomy has been tough. I decided to start conservatively, since chemo is definitely happening. Let me know how your appt. goes.
Jodimaca- Thank you for all the info. on your experience so far. You have taken away some of my fears. I am currently staged at IIa.
lalalara- So you, DivaJ and I are D-day sisters. What a crap week that was. I am so sorry that you are going through this after losing your Mom at such a young age. I know how scared you must be. Sending you lots of stong vibes for your upcoming appointments.
-
I would definitely agree that was a very crap week, haha. I wasn't expecting that at all. The last three or four years, I had been doing - Mammogram, ultrasound, biopsy and "come back next year." I was so confident the same was going to happen that I didn't bring anyone with me.
Pretty sure chemo is happening for me too. My cancer as LVI present. The surgeon kept saying "aggressive" over and over with me because I'm 30. I'm just waiting to see what the oncologist has to say tomorrow.
Good luck to you!
-
Sunflower- Best wishes tomorrow, I am sure you will also be pleasantly surprised. I did forget to suggest one thing and you may not have time today. I really needed a good sports bra, no underwire and hooking in the front if possible, soft and cotton or jersey. Wish I had remembered sooner.
Let us know how you are doing!
-
Prayers for Sunflower tomorrow! The wait is worse than the surgery - you'll do fine.
-
All done! Nodes were clear! It was not as bad as I made it out to be in my head. I was in pain when I woke up, but they gave me some decent drugs!
Today, I am sore and still have an anesthesia hangover. Hopefully, my margins are clear and I can move on to the next step in the fight: chemo!
How did everyones appointments go?
-
Sunflower, did you have general anesthesia? Isn't it great to hear that the nodes are clear? That was best part of day for me.
Glad it has been ok so far...
-
Sunflower - rest & take care of yourself - great news on nodes!!
Had my follow-up this week, got my steri strips off mastec. incision. No way they would have fallen off in the shower! Was tested for BRCA 1 &2 (takes 2 weeks for results). And went to first onc. She doesn't recommend oncotype because 'unlikely' I would score high. That bothered me all night - how can I know for sure unless they do the test!! It's 'unlikely' I would have gotten BC - but I did. And it's 'unlikely' I will test positive on the genetics but took the test anyway. So I'm going to proactive & get 2nd opinion. There are so few tests available - I don't want to leave any stone unturned and be sorry later that I missed something.
-
JanetinVirginia - I know how you feel, I don't do 'unlikely' anymore either
The onc is correct in mentioning the odds,but I was totally predicted to have a low score and did not. I encourage your second opinion but also that you call the oncotype people to ask them about the value of the test in your particular case - they are very very helpful. One thing though, I don't know your age, if you are pre-menopausal, that may be the onc's reluctance to use the test as the oncotype is based on 650 menopausal women on tamoxifen...
-
Hi everyone, I am 43 yrs old and also newly diagnosed. Sept 15th. A blur it has most definitely been. My diagnosis is ...IDC, Stage 1, 1.4cm, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-.
I decided to go with Bi-lat masectomy. Just wanted it ALL out of me. I talked with a nurse the day after my diagnosis who said she just sees too many people come back with recurrances when they keep their breasts. She also had BC, 3 yrs ago, and decided to do the same. So, that just sort of sealed it for me. Its a very personal decision though, and I completely understand others who chose differently, but that was the way I knew I needed to go.
I had my surgery (never had surgery or been in the hospital for anything other then having my two children so I was very nervous!) on Oct 4th with TE placed the day of surgery. My PS was able to put about 200cc's in each. I had very clear margins so the surgeon was able to spare alot of my skin. These things are SO uncomfortable though. Can't wait to be out of them.
I go back to my Onco on Monday. I will find out about the results of the BRAC gene test at that time. (my paternal grandmother had one breast removed at 54 for BC and my mother did as well at 57-hers was a rare case of BC cells found in her lymph node but upon removing the breast, no cancer was found. She was apparently only 1 of 34 in the US at the time with that -17 yrs ago)
I already know I will have to do the anti hormones but have gone back in forth over the whole Chemo thing. From what my Onco told me at first visit, now that I have my diagnosis, I fall into the "on the fence" of whether I'll need it. She will most likely do the Oncotype test also though. I have the feeling that I would rather do all that I can NOW. So, if left up to me will probably opt to have it.
So nice to be able to "talk" to others going through the same thing as me and understand what I'm going through....at the very same time!
-
Hi East Coast Girl - nice to "meet" you.
Yes, it really helps to know other women going through the same thing at same time. As you've probably read, I'm two weeks out from a left mastectomy. I would have chosen bi-lateral, but had just had surgery for appendix, and then surgery for the biopsy (they couldn't do a needle biopsy on me). So I wasn't sure how far I should push with a 3rd surgery within just 6 weeks! Waiting on BRCA results too and, if positive, it would definitely indicate mastectomy on right side too. My surgeon was on NBC Nightly News last week - about BRCA and prophylatic mastectomies! I am also pushing for oncotype test even though the first onc said it probably wasn't necessary. I don't want any regrets down the road and always wonder.
How is everyone doing on the SNB arm? I have plenty range of motion to drive & do general things - but these muscles are so STUBBORN! Each day I do my exercises it's like the first time all over again.
-
Sounds like I am similar to some of you here on this post. I am 48 and was diag with IDC the end of sept. Had a left breast lumpectomy. My tumor was 1.6cmX.0.9cm, grade 1, stage1. I am ER+and PR+ Her-, nodes clear and surgical margin clear. I for sure will need radiation but when my Radiation onco called to give me all of my path reports he said I am borderline in needing chemo so he has ordered a oncotype dx. I should have the results by the end of this week and the waiting is killing me. I had myself convinced that when I got the hormone receptor test that all I was going to need is radiation and that may still be the case and it may not. Is anyone else out there waiting or just gotten news on the oncotype dx test. I have been trying to read up on it and it seems like a very good test to have and will really give me good % of recurrance. I am healing pretty well from the surgery, I tried the sports bra as some suggested but it really iritated by lymph node incension so reg bra had to do. I think the worst part right now is all the waiting, if I just had clear answers about my treatment I think I would be doing much better. Also I was starting to have hot flashes 9 months ago and started taking a herbal rememby which the Dr's have told me to quit taking. So the hot flashes and sleepless nights have returned and I am not dealing with lack of sleep very well either. What have others done about the slack of sleep when going through menapause? Would love to hear suggestions.
-
Well, I went to my Onc appt. She presented my case at a BC conference and because of my age it was recommended I do chemo. She said I could go either way. I am awaiting an Oncotype test. I will find out the results of that when I go back on Nov 2. Honestly though, I feel like I need to hit this at all angles now. Now is the time. That is what I've read....hit it hard first time. So, I'm unsure what I will do if the score is low and I have to make the decision. It is a BIG decision, SE and all.
I did find out I am BRCA neg. My Vit D score tanked at very low 17!! wow I am now on a once a week supplement.
-
Oh and my range of motion is pretty good. SNB arm is worse (right). My left underarm feels completely back to normal (was numb). My right, SNB arm, feels weird. Numb and thick if that makes sense but hurts to touch it. I actually try to avoid touching it because it feels painfully prickly. Very strange sensation to be numb but prickly...and I don't like it. Hope it gets better with time. Oh another strange thing I noticed.....I am sweating (wetness) under my left arm but the right arm (SNB) is dry mostly.
Going from "health nut" natural girl, don't ever have need to ever take any over counter or prescript meds of any kind (and don't like to), never had a surgery to having surgeries and all kinds of meds and things is tough.
-
Sherry & East Coast -- Me too. The onc. just ordered oncotype test today and they drew blood for Vitamin D. Maybe BRCA results end of next week. Next Dexa (sp?) scan for bone health. Wait. Wait. Wait - seems like that's all I do.
Yes! Was working out in the yard the other day & worked up a sweat - but under SNB arm was totally dry!!!??? And I've haven't been using deodorant under that arm since the surgery - mostly because still tender and figured I wouldn't add any potential irritant. I guess it just takes a while until all cylinders hitting again.
-
Hello All,
Hope you are all doing well on this journey. I had my post-op with the surgeon yesterday. The news was not comforting. It has made me doubt myself and my decision to do a lumpectomy. He told me my margins were clean enough. What??? I want to hear 100% clean. There was a .2 cm left behind due to it being too close to my chest muscle. I had DCIS present, and 2 areas of LVI. Maybe I should have opted for the masectomy? He assured me that my chances of recurrence were the same. A part of me is just anxious to start chemo. and start killing some cancer cells, especially since it has most likely bypassed the nodes and entered the bloodstream.
I meet with medical oncology on Friday. I am going to ask about BRCA. I am the first in my family to develop BC. My father has leukemia and prostate cancer. I read that a family history of prostate puts you at risk for testing positive for BRCA. Are there any other questions I should ask oncology? Any tests I should make sure to have?
-
Hello Ladies, I am on track for a DMX & total hysterectomy on Nov 9th. I am scared out of my gourd. But mostly I am so scared of surgical menopause, at 31 I am no where near menopausal and am just really worried about what this is going to do to me physically and mentally.
-
Hi DivaJMusic,
I am also bound for a hysterectomy which freaks me out. I am not sure yet when they will want to do that. I am not a candidate for Tamoxifen because I have a genetic blood clotting disorder, so they say I have a choice of shutting down my ovaries with a medicine for 5 years or just taking them out. BC totally sucks with it's way too many "choices". Your diagnosis is similar to mine, did you opt to do DMX because of the BRCA?
WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS!
-
JanetinVirginia--I just received my onco score and I do not have to have chemo. I will have my rads markup on Nov 9th and then start rads for 7 weeks after that. Will also take hormone blockers for 5 years not sure yet which one they ran more blood test to determine which would be best. Good luck on your score I hope you get a low score.
-
Hi Sunflower, yes I chose a double because of my BRCA status. Being diagnosed this early I feel like I'm a fool to not do it this way. Now what is it, like a 3% chance of recurrence instead of 60-80%? It just seemed like a no-brainer.
I am however really freaking out today. I got word that the hysterectomy portion of my surgery has to be changed from a laproscopic surgery to an open because of a fibroid tumor the size of a newborns head I have in my uterus. I am SO geeked out over this I don't know what to do. I am not one for pain and man oh man I know this is going to hurt. "/
-
Oh DivaJ....sending you big hugs. When is your surgery?
-
Thanks sunflower, it's a week from Tuesday. Nov 9th.
-
I was diagnosed 9/15/10. I am scheduled for a lumpectomy, SNB and insertion of a portacath on Wednesday, Nov. 3 rd.
I am getting quite anxious as the time of surgery approaches especially over having the SNB.
-
ok, here we go
Not a forum I ever wanted to be a part of but am sure glad to find some wonderful ladies to walk down this road with.
9-13 mamo
9-14 met with primary dr.
9-16 met with surgeon (happy bday to me LOL)
9-17 needle biopsy
9-22 dx
9-27 met w/chemo dr
9-28 muga scan (heart)
10-4 r mast., 17 nodes removed, 13 cancerous
10-12 1st drain removed
10-15 2nd drain removed
10-26 PET "suspicious"spot on lower spine
10-28 bone scan, waiting for results
I am 52, never had a mamo, only had it to get the discount for my health insurance, haha! God really does work in mysterious ways. Primary knew it was tumor, called it spiculated, sent me to one of the best breast surgeon's in my area. Opted for mastectomy because I just didn't want to do radiation which was definite if I went with the lumpectomy. Surgeon thought it'd be fine since the tumor was so small, surprise! 17 nodes removed 13 cancerous. Would have had to have a mast. anyway since so many nodes were affected, had the sentinal node biopsy done during surgery, port put in then too. (ER+/PR+, HER@+).
I have healed up wonderfully, went yesterday to get fitted for a boob and mast bra (most ins. will pay for this so keep that in mind if you don't know already) My breast surgeon was GREAT, my only issue with her was using old stats in saying I only have a 50/50 chance of making it 5 years. Remember, most stats are 10 years old, before hereceptin. Told me to "get my house in order, make my will" etc. My response was everyone should do that even without bc. I was a financial planner for 10 years!
Was scheduled for chemo the 28th but had to push it back until results from the bone scan. Praying it's nothing.... will have Taxotere, carboplatin, and herceptin for 6 sessions every 3 weeks, herceptin for a year, anti hormone for 5 years. I am in an area, sad to say, with a LOT of cancer so we have some of the greatest doctors anywhere.
Anyone else up for any of these drugs? I also will have radiation, won't be till March or April.
If you get down, check out the forum "you might be a breast cancer patient if..." great to get you laughing again, and also the 5 year survivor forum is very encouraging.
Someone here said "way too many choices" and I know what you mean!
-
Hello Ladies, how is everyone progressing? I've had both my surgeries, and am 10 days out from surgery, and been home one week today. To be quite honest it hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be and I am doing really well. I don't have alot of energy yet and sleep like it's my job, but all in all I feel really good physically & emotionally.
How are you doing?
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team