2005 ROCK-TOBER CHEMO GIRLS

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  • TracySeattle
    TracySeattle Member Posts: 690
    edited October 2005
    I ordered the gel headband from tlc catalog but have not received it yet. It is good to know that it seems to help!

    I also heard that the Senakot is good and to take it the same way that Jane just mentioned. I don't think I am going to start taking it before my first chemo though, because it may cause the opposite problem. I think I will start with 2 doses on the day of my 1st chemo and then take it as Jane mentioned for each additional treatment....
  • scared2
    scared2 Member Posts: 9
    edited October 2005
    sherryhaire
    I live in Orange where Rita just came through ,she upset all my chemo plans for a while just glad to get back on track now
    Sharon
  • kapensy
    kapensy Member Posts: 21
    edited October 2005
    Loved the "ode to hair"!!! Thanks!
    Lynn
  • kapensy
    kapensy Member Posts: 21
    edited October 2005
    Hi all! Had my second round of AC on Friday - went well - so glad I got the port put in.

    So far not too bad of nausea, but constipated today - will try the colace, etc. Don't remember being constipated last time; I've started writing everything down -even my mood swings.

    Was able to take a walk with my dog and my son on Saturday and went to Costco on Sunday with my brother. Just really really tired, but fighting it. Sleeping well, which is a blessing because I'm getting very anxious about money - will be working with the Social Worker at the hospital to see what avenues are available for me.

    My son has changed his work schedule so he will be coming to every chemo with me, even though I thought I could go it alone - I'm forgetting to ask things, etc. so having him there will help. He's a good guy.

    Beginning to adjust to the hair loss. My sister is sending me pictures of when my hair was shaved when I was about six years old - had ringworm or something so they shaved it all off to be able to put the medicine on it. I remember my father crying because I had beautiful long black hair down to my bottom...but it grew back then and it will again.

    Hope you are all hanging in there!!! Oh, they are doing an xray on my knee that hurts so bad next week. Hope it's nothing to worry about.

    God Bless!

    Lynn
  • debbie444
    debbie444 Member Posts: 847
    edited October 2005
    I am now day 12 after first chemo - still feeling good!
    In uk they dont often do ports so am not dealing with that.
    Last night i started losing my hair - only not from my head - thats well stuck ( have tried pulling!) how bizarre is that?
    Only probs i had were a slight headache day 1 and 2 , constipation till day 4 when i took something they gave me and tiredness days 2 through 5. My nurse told me to keep a diary as each cycle will prob be the same. I am more confident i can do this now - the hair thing is playing on me tho - guess it will be easier when its gone?
    Have my hats, scarves and rock chick wig ready!
    We can all do this - its easier when you realise you arent alone isnt it!
    Debbie
  • scared2
    scared2 Member Posts: 9
    edited October 2005
    hi just can't seem to sleep so here i am. is any one having second thoughts about their drs. i didn't know any thing about this oncologist when iwent to him now i'm not sure if he's the right one . when i ask a question idon't get a clear answer sometimes the nures will finaly tell me the answer .the day after my first chemo i felt very nauseated the dr told me to take one pill for nasuea that day and one the next day the nurses said they would ask about taking them every 8hours but know one ever let me know anything .i guess it's all miss understanding. has anyone ever switched chemo drs while they'er taking chemo .if so did it work out
    sharon tx
  • ake
    ake Member Posts: 684
    edited October 2005
    i hate wearing my wig. i feel like an imposter. i'm so frustrated. i actually feel really pretty with my scarves. i hate all the wigs i bought even though they've been styled and everything. the only reason i'm wearing them is because i'm a psychologist and i don't want to scare my patients if i'm bald. any suggestions? should i just say screw it and wear scarves to work?
    -amy
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Sharon,



    Oh, my gosh! You live in Orange?! My aunt and uncle lived there just about all their married years. They are now both deceased (I MISS THEM DEARLY!). However, my cousin still lives there. She lives in Mauriceville (I think that's the name). Geez, what a small, small world!



    About your nausea question. You should be taking MORE anti-nausea drugs if your on the AC/TAXOL regimen. Especially on AC. I had a steroid to take for about three days after chemo was given, Zofran (I think every 12 hours..would have to look it up)and another nausea drug that I could take every four hours one or two at a time.



    Tell your onc to take one pill a day and see if that helps him. That really angers me. GEEZ!



    Where are you receiving your treatments? My Uncle died from lung cancer caused by asbestos.



    Get on the phone or in the doc's face and demand better treatment!

    Shirley
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Amy,
    Go with how you feel. If you're comfortable with scarves, wear scarves. If you don't want to look bald in scarves you may want to try the scarf over the wig, you know, like a hat over the wig. We baldies are lucky it is not summertime!
  • debbie444
    debbie444 Member Posts: 847
    edited October 2005
    Amy - go for the scarves !
    I only bought a wig as my little boy seemed a bit worried about mum losing hair - i have bought loads of hats and scarves . I bought one wig to wear occasionally - a rock chick one to make people realise i am still me under there!
    Debbie
  • Graycie
    Graycie Member Posts: 839
    edited October 2005

    What the heck, wear the scarves if you feel more comfortable......I am not sure about the wig thing yet myself.....Hate mind too......It just isn't me and I think it looks wiggy...How are you feeling? It is day 8 for me and I still don't feel that good......My nerves are shot....

  • Serendipity
    Serendipity Member Posts: 109
    edited October 2005
    Quote:

    Amy,
    Go with how you feel. If you're comfortable with scarves, wear scarves. If you don't want to look bald in scarves you may want to try the scarf over the wig, you know, like a hat over the wig. We baldies are lucky it is not summertime!




    There are also headbands you can wear under scarves. I got some at www.chemocareheadwear.com They are very soft and look really nice under scarves.

    There are also hats and scarves with a little hair sticking out at http://www.hip-hat.com/

    I personally feel better when I go out with a wig, but I'm wearing scarves with headbands around the house. I think, though, if you feel prettier in a scarf, you should go with the scarves.

    Just MHO,
    Jane
  • daydream
    daydream Member Posts: 69
    edited October 2005
    I am starting chemo tomorrow, four rounds of AC with immune boosters. I have been told to expect to lose my hair, have some fatigue, etc. I've already been through menopause, already on anti-depressants. My low weight is a bit of a concern.

    Any words of wisdom from the veterans here? Things I should do or not do?

    Thanks,
    Susan
  • gmr52
    gmr52 Member Posts: 74
    edited October 2005
    Hi Susan,
    I'm just checking in here to offer any words of encouragement. I had my neoadjuvant TAC last year. Never thought I'd get through it but it does end. One suggestion I'd offer is to drink LOTS of fluids and if you can avoid it, don't drink a lot of tea since it acts as a diuretic. Drinking lots of fluids will help with prevent constipation and dehydration. It may become tricky if your taste buds are affected and everything tastes yucky, but find a way to get fluids down. I resorted to Gatorade but since it was too sweet, diluted it.
    Take care and remember to take it one day at a time.
  • daydream
    daydream Member Posts: 69
    edited October 2005
    Thanks. I will make sure I have water with me at all times! I like tea, but won't have any trouble staying away from it.

    I'll get through it, and this discussion board will be a big help.
  • TracySeattle
    TracySeattle Member Posts: 690
    edited October 2005

    My Dr. told me to drink 80 oz of water per day (minimum). I start chemo on Friday so I have been really trying to pump in the water today and for the rest of the week!

  • Graycie
    Graycie Member Posts: 839
    edited October 2005

    I think the biggie is to keep hydrated and eat.......I wasn't good with either one and that is probably why I am not feeling so well......Today I really tried to push the liquids and I went and got some popcicles they are really helping to freeze the taste buds since nothing tastes good. I am also trying to eat at least crackers every 2 hrs, just something to keep your stomach from feeling empty and sick.....Good Luck, I am on the same treatment as you and am also postmenapausal....wish I was on the anti-depressants though......not everybody has the same side effects.....

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Graycie,

    I couldn't eat much for about a week after my first chemo. After that I wanted to eat everything, waking up with cravings. Now I'm afraid to weigh myself. I need to control my eating (too much) before I go back for my second chemo. They might increase the dosage!!
  • scared2
    scared2 Member Posts: 9
    edited October 2005
    Shirley
    Thanks for the support .I've been thinking about changing drs. I'm having my treatments in Beaumont ,decided against Houston couldn't stand the thought of the drive back while sick,my mom did that and it was hard on her.And yes that is the way to spell Mauriceville and it is a small world
    Sharon Tx
  • Graycie
    Graycie Member Posts: 839
    edited October 2005
    journeyor, Thanks....I am glad to know I am not alone and it took you a week to eat too......I think I am finally starting to feel hungry..I can't believe I have to do this all again next week......I hope the next time goes better....
  • Graycie
    Graycie Member Posts: 839
    edited October 2005

    Tracy, How are you feeling? Is the water helping?

  • ake
    ake Member Posts: 684
    edited October 2005
    thanks for the advice, ladies, about wearing scarves. never thought i would feel prettier without my hair, but i do like it better than the wig...i feel like i'm faking it by wearing the wig or something.

    getting ready for ac #2 on thursday...i'm so nervous. my insurance company gave me the runaround about paying for my prescription. i seriously wonder if any of them have anything stressful happen to them...there are such morons who work at my insurance company.

    is the second round of chemo like the first one? eek!

    -amy
  • sherryhaire
    sherryhaire Member Posts: 192
    edited October 2005

    I too have second AC on Thursday Wore my wig for the first time today but with a hat liked it better was ok but got really annoying by afternoon, even though I cut hair really short it is coming out like crazy!! I am getting nervous about second treatment was so sick for a week the first one but then I think I caught a stomach virus on top of all of it. Thinking about you all

  • ake
    ake Member Posts: 684
    edited October 2005
    i'm mainly nervous about the steroid...when i stopped taking it after 4 days, i completely crashed! fatigue, achiness, bad acne...did this happen to anyone?

    -amy
  • TracySeattle
    TracySeattle Member Posts: 690
    edited October 2005

    Graycie! We will see if the water makes things better when I have my first chemo on Friday. I drank 96 ounces today, I think I am going to float away! I have read in many places that the more hydrated you are the easier the chemo is. I figure I will do anything I can to help!

  • spirit
    spirit Member Posts: 52
    edited October 2005
    I know some of you here a bit....Started my chemo last Wed. ... almost a week now. I have been sooooo blessed and grateful to not be sick at all. If anything, I have more energy than I know what to do with!

    I was waiting every day for the nausea to begin or all/any of the common symptoms of receiving chemo. But so far, nothing has happened!! (fingers & toes crossed!)

    My next chemo is Nov. 9. I'm on A/C every 3 weeks with 4 sessions of it...NO..3 more to go!!! Haven't had time to read all the posts here. Will try to do so tomorrow!!!

    hugs,
    kate
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Hi Kate!
    Maybe you need to tell us what you're doing different so we can try it! I hope you keep having the good fortune of not having bad side effects. I know you did A/C like me, so you did get the rough stuff. Maybe you're just plain lucky...Good for you!!!
  • debbie444
    debbie444 Member Posts: 847
    edited October 2005
    Now on day 13 after first chemo - still feeling great. i can honestly say that apart from feeling a little tired day 2-5 ( had a nap in afternoon) and the anti sickness tablets they gave me to take making me a little constipated, i really had no side effects at all. Husband keeps waking me up by taking my temp all the time - i could call that a side effect i guess!
    I drunk flavoured wated all of the way through treatment and after and make sure i have plenty of fruit juice in the house. I was dreading being sick as i am a wimp and being sick maked me feel sorry for myself! Luckily never happened.If i can d o this Tracey - anyone can.
    My hair is still attatched - gave it a quick tug ( not too hard just in case). Thats the bit i am dreading.
    We are doing a sponsored walk for BC this Sunday - only 5k as didnt know how i would be feeling and my hubby reckoned that he could poss carry me that far if need be ( bless him)
    Take care all
    Debbie
  • Paula15089
    Paula15089 Member Posts: 373
    edited October 2005
    one and a half days until my first chemo... getting increasingly restless and frightened now. Also am very concerned about late side effects, as i live alone, and my mum will be staying with me only for the first few days post chemo (parents live in another city). Friends help, but they all have their own lives, i cant expect them to drop everything.
    I think i should take the Ativan now...
    I was feeling so strong for the last couple of weeks, and now i feel i am falling apart. Taking Lexapro, but i dont think it has kicked in yet.
    sorry to whine..
  • sherryhaire
    sherryhaire Member Posts: 192
    edited October 2005

    On day 14 my hair started coming out and since then my scalp hs become increasingly sore to where it hurts I am now on Day 20 not much hair left but can't hardley touch scalp has anyone had this? 2nd chemo in 2 days if platelets are up wish me luck I do not want to postpone

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