Diagnosed w/DCIS yesterday

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robynkk
robynkk Member Posts: 138

I just turned 50 (argh, hard enough :) and biopsy came in yesterday, they called me and told me I had DCIS.  I have an appt. a week from Monday to talk to the breast surgeon to go over options, she said on the phone either a lumpectomy or mastectomy?  I've been doing research and there are a lot of questions I need to ask.  My cousin is a dr. and suggested I get a second opinion from an oncologist, I guess that wouldn't hurt? 

What kind of questions should I ask on my appt?  grade?  genetic markers? do i have genetic markers?  i don't really know what all to ask.  my poor husband and 3 daughters are so nervous.  i am leaning toward a full mastectomy, just get them off altogether. i had implants 25 years ago and i hate them anyway they're too big and have hindered diagnosis.  has anyone had reconstruction and how does it look after?  sorry so many questions, just so happy i found a place and someone to talk to about this. 

robyn

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  • wyldblumusic
    wyldblumusic Member Posts: 59
    edited July 2010

    Hello, Robyn.

    You have definitely found a good place.

    Your doctor should discuss the characteristics of the DCIS area.  Here's a few questions to ask:

    What size is it?

    Is it in one area, or is it multifocal?

    What is the grade?

    All of this information will be on the pathology report, so make sure to get a copy of that report.  I also asked for an MRI because I wanted extra confirmation that the tumor was only in one area.  You might also want to ask about their recommendations about future treatment such as radiation or hormonal treatment.  Although the surgeon does not lead these future treatments, this information can help you make decisions about surgery.

    I chose a lumpectomy.  The surgeon told me that I should have radiation if I chose that surgery.  Some women strongly prefer to avoid radiation and choose their surgery accordingly.  It's a very personal decision, and there are no right answers for everyone.  I'm sure that others here will help you with more information about reconstruction.

    Warmest wishes.

  • Mantra
    Mantra Member Posts: 968
    edited July 2010

    Agree with everything above. In addition, ask if it is multicentric (multiple tumours). I too always get a copy of every single medical report so I can review them at home and get a clear understanding instead of the doctor just telling me what's in the report.

    I went with a lumpectomy and SNB. My pathology came back as ER/PR negative, 8 tumours (albeit small ones), mult focal, grade 3, comedo necrosis. I chose to have a mastectomy after the tumour board was not convinced that there wasn't more cancer outside of the area removed during the lumpectomy. It turned out, there was no additional cancer but regardless, I did not regret having a mastectomy. The mastectomy showed ADH and LDH and made me decide to go ahead with a prophylactic mastectomy on my other side. No cancer was found . ..  just ADH. I had a horrible first experience with TE. The surgeon didn't know what she was doing. I researched and found a great plastic surgeon. I now have new tissue expanders, completely filled and am just waiting for the exchange surgery.

    Only once you have all the details will you know which route to go . . . lumpectomy vs mastectomy. I also had genetic testing which may be something you want to consider in order to help you make your decision. The results took a long time and I had already had my mastectomy by the time the results came back. I am BRCA 1 & 2 negative yet I do not regret having a DMX for one single second. However, had my original biopsy come back as Grade 1 instead of grade 3 etc, I know I would have gone the lumpectomy route only.

  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited July 2010

    I have to rush off to work (ruining a perfectly lovely holiday weekend) so am not thoroughly reading the posts above, though I'll try to do that when I come home tonight.

    Just wanted to mention that you won't know about genetic markers at this point, that's a blood test and the results take 2-3 weks to come in.  You should talk to your Dr about it, who may refer you to a Genetics Dr to do the blood test.  (Some places seem to require a consult with a Genetics person, some places don't.)

    Definitely get a second opinion - actually a few second opinions.  I'd recommend getting a second opinion from a surgeon who specializes in breast cancer surgeon (breast surgical oncology). You should probably have your mammo/ultrasound/MRI films etc looked at by a second set of radiologists and your pathology slides from the biopsy looked at by another pathologist.  Try to use people who see a lot of breast cancer cases.  Here's a list of NCI - designated Comprehensive Cancer Centers: 

    http://cancercenters.cancer.gov/cancer_centers/cancer-centers-list.html

    I'm a fan of going to one of those centers whenever possible.  

    Get copies of all your reports, and learn what all the stuff means.

    Find out how big, how many, how aggressive (Grade 1 is least, Grade 3 is most, Grade 2 is middle)....are you Estrogen/Progesterone sensitive (those tests were probably done already and should be on the report).....

    Bear in mind that the term "oncologist" generally refers to a medical oncologist (though there are also surgical oncologists and radiation oncologists).  For women with DCIS, all medical oncologists generally do is prescribe Tamoxifen pills if you're Estrogen sensitive - and that's junping a bit ahead in your treatment....BUT if you'd find a consult helpful in deciding between lump & mast, go ahead.  They can also help you understand the recurrence risks with your particular pathology....

    Broadly speaking, your options are lumpectomy + radiation (plus Tamoxifen if you are ER positive) or mastectomy.  When you know more details you'll start to get a feel for what makes sense for you. 

    I ended up with a significant and very non-standard lumpectomy surgery because I couldn't handle the idea of mastectomy.  Mastectomy was "standard of care" for my case.

    If there are support groups in your area, many women will be generous enough to take you in the ladies room and show you their reconstructions. 

    Perhaps most importantly, please remember that this is NOT an emergency. You do have to take care of this, but you don't have to rush into a decision.  You have time to learn about all this crap and figure out what makes the most sense for you.

    Gotta go to work now...... wishing you the best.

  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    wow, i'm in tears reading your posts, thank you so much for all the information.  i've written down all the abreviations, TE, etc. so i'm learning the lingo!  i've also written down all the questions and i'll ask all of them.  my husband and i had planned on going to the coast for 5 days and i really want to do that before i start all of this.  he wants it done yesterday of course but your confirmation that ihave time is reassuring.  i'm a teacher so i'm off all summer anyway, that's good, i think since i'm a crier anyway and my high school students don't need to see me like that :) (even though they do occasionally). 

    how long do the TE need to be in place before the ES?  i have really good insurance and can chose any dr. i want, don't have to go to specific dr.'s does that mean i can chose ANY plastic surgeon?  i'm only about 2 hours from los angeles and i know there are some very good PS's there.  can anyone give me a basic timeline when this will all be over? now till surgery? how long TE's then ES? 

    i don't want to overwhelm everyone with so many questions, thank you soooo much for replying, it is so nice to have someone to talk to.  oh also, i have 3 daughters, ages 29, 25 and 19 should i have them tested for genetic markers or ????

    thank you!!!  robyn

  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited July 2010

    Just getting home from work plus fireworks.  Hot as hell in NYC.

    Anyway....

    As far as whether you can go to ANY plastic surgeon (financially speaking), that's a question for your ins co. and the billing manager at your PS's office.  Make sure you go to someone who has a specialty in reconstruction.  As a rule, you DO NOT want to go to someone whose practice is primarily cosmetic (though of course there are exceptions: there are a few who do both cosmetic and reconstruction well, but just make sure whoever you choose is excellent at recon.)

    Since I didn't have a mast, I don't feel comfortable answering questions about timelines for TEs and exchange surgeries, etc.  In addition to whoever else jumps in here, you might want to post in the reconstruction area of the board.

    I do want to say that there are choices in mastectomy.  You can do the TE and implant thing, or you can do what are called "autologous flap" surgeries - where tissue from an area of your body - typically your belly fat but can be other things - is removed and then re-stuffed in your breast and a blood supply reconnected.  Those are longer surgical procedures and a longer recovery, but some women prefer them to implants.  I'm not going to get into the why right now, if you're interested I can try to explain - though I only came close to going through with it; while I had a lot of consults and did a lot of research, I can't speak from actual physical experience.

    And there's also the "one step w/Alloderm" surgery.....another option 

    And are you a candidate for a nipple sparing mastectomy?  Another thing to find out.... 

    Be aware that you will no longer have sensation in your breasts following a mastectomy.... 

    Timeline for mast: Well, first thing is - would you want to do the mast and recon in the same surgery?   Then you need to choose both an oncological surgeon and a plastic surgeon who you like and trust, and who will work together.  And that your ins will pay for.  (Unless that's not an issue.)  I found picking a dream team quite difficult.  After you pick your team, then it's up to how popular they are, and how complicated your procedure is (how much OR time they'll be requesting) in terms of how quickly they can schedule you.  Ex: A TE surgery is significantly shorter than a DIEP surgery, so TEs tend to get scheduled more quickly.

    All that said - you really should talk to several reconstructive PSs and get a feel for what's possible and what you might prefer.

    Timeline if you have lumpectomy - well, however long it takes you to decide that's what you want to do, then they schedule it (prob a few weeks to get you in the schedule), then typically 6 weeks from surgery to start of radiation, then typically 6 weeks of daily zapping M-F.  Then you're done (except maybe Tamoxifen pills for 5 years).  So....let's say probably 4-6 months from now till the end of rads.

    A guess at the timeline for a mastectomy and flap recon surgery is .... prob over a month to fit in the schedule, then about 8 weeks recovery...then you're done.

    A guess at the timeline for TE....prob a few weeks to schedule,  I think it's about a 2 week recovery, I think expander fills go on for something like 3 months, then you wait another month or so (?), then you have the exchange surgery.   So a longer process. 

    In either reconstruction, if you don't do a nipple sparing mastectomy and you want nipples, they will have to be created in a followup surgery, or tattooed (also at a later date).

    It's not uncommon to have revision surgeries with any recon procedure.  Your breasts will be the imperfect creations of your plastic surgeon, and they may need some tweaking.   

    I'd say .... for a mastectomy and reconstruction you're probably talking about 6 months to a year in total.   But if I'm wrong, I'm certainly happy to be corrected by women who've gone through it!

    Don't worry about having your daughters tested quite yet.  Get yourself through this first. 

    Apologies for all typos, etc.  I was tired this am and I'm tired now....

    HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!!

    BOOM!!!!! 

    CRAP - forgot to add:  to MRI or not to MRI.....hotly contested in the field.  Some surgeons/institutions think it's overtreatment, some think it's reasonable.  (Personally, I think it's reasonable.)  I'll assume you haven't done one yet....the purpose is to do another imaging test to see if there's more cancer lurking.  Pro:  If there is more, it's better to know before you go in for surgery, so you can better decide what you want to do and the surgeon can better plan the surgery.   Con:  There are false positives on MRI, which lead to "unnecessary" MRI biopsies.  

    Personally, I had an MRI which revealed a second area of DCIS which didn't show on mammo or ultrasound.  It changed the surgical gameplan entirely for me, but I'm happy I knew about it and was able to remove it.  If you KNOW you want to do a mastectomy, a MRI may be unnecessary because it's all going to be removed anyway.....but if you think you might want to do a lumpectomy an MRI might make sense....

    OK, I REALLY need to go to sleep now!

  • JulieL
    JulieL Member Posts: 57
    edited July 2010

    Hi Robin,

    I was diagnosed with DCIS in July of last year. I had implants just as you do. You will want to know the size of the DCIS and your surgical oncologist should be able to give you an idea of what the outcome will be. Mine was 5 cm and moving towards the nipple so I opted to have a bilateral mastectomy as well as removing the nipple. I didn't want to chance it being in the nipple at a later date. I had immediate reconstruction at the time of the mastectomy so I only had one surgery. Since I had implants I didn't need to do the tissue expanders because I wanted to go smaller and I had enough tissue. I had the nipple reconstruction December 10th and only have to have an in office procedure to make the projection of the nipples even. I'm going to do that after the summer. I was also informed that I had to have both breasts removed because there was no way the plastic surgeon would be able to match them. If you opt for the mastectomy you are looking at about 6 months to get through it and get your strength back. I only missed three weeks of work but I wasn't at 100% as far as energy for about 6 months.

    It really is a personal decision and after collecting all of the information and making your decision you will feel so much better because you'll know you're doing the right thing for yourself.

    Happy 4th and have a good time on your vacation with your husband.

    Julie 

  • robinlbe
    robinlbe Member Posts: 585
    edited July 2010

    Hi Robyn...I was diagnosed Nov. 6 of last year, shortly after I turned 50.  Like you, I have three children  - at the time, mine were 18, 17, and 12....my oldest had just started his first year of college.  My first surgical biopsy showed DCIS.  I then had to decide on a lumpectomy or MX.  I opted for the lesser, to take it one step at a time.  Two weeks later, I had the lumpectomy which was more like a half-breast-ectomy.  The margins were not clear, plus I found out that I had multi-focal DCIS (meaning it had "fingers").  The path report from the original biopsy showed my hormones markers - ER 90%, PR 60%.   Because the 2nd surgery showed it was multi-focal, I was no longer a candidate for radiation.  My BS sent me to an oncologist, and I also consulted with another (who I decided to go with).  He also sent me to a PS, just so I'd know all my options.  MY BS had an MRI scheduled, and found my right breast to be clear...so then it was up to me to decide on a unilteral or bilateral.  I opted for a bilateral for several reasons.  First, since I'm premenopausal, I was going to have to take tamoxifen for five years.  I head read WAY too much about side effects and risks involved and KNEW I didn't want to go that route.  I also knew I didn't want to go through all of this all over again, and go through lots of testing, checking on a frequent basis to keep an eye on the healthier side...so I opted for the bilateral.  For ME,. that was the right choice.  I also opted to NOT have reconstruction.

    I had heard of , and read of, too many horror stories of extended pain, infections, failed reconstrucions, etc.....and knew I did't want to go through more and more surgeries just for this.  When I met with the PS, I didn't have enough tummy to do both breasts with the TRAM, and I didn't want to do implants.  That's the only type of recon. they do in my area.  I didn't want to travel to have this done either.

    So, yes, I am flat.  It will be six months on Tuesday since my BMX and for the last month, I actually feel fine emotionally about my flat chest.  In fact, I forget what it was like to even have breasts.  My husband is wonderful about it...we've been married for 27 years, and it doesn't phase him a bit.  I have been able to find a lot of cute shirts this summer (for cheap) that look good with my going flat that don't make it look terribly obvious....so I am really quite good with this now.

    As for genetic testing...yes, I did do this.  Out of my three kids, one is a daughter.  However, even sons have a 50% chance of inheriting the mututated gene, and could pass it on to their children.  Because I have so few female members in my family (no sisters, no girls cousins, maternal g'ma killed at age 40 by a drunk driver), I was a candidate for testing.  However, I do NOT carry the mutated gene.

    As someone else, wait until you get done with everything witih you before you start worrying about all that.

    As for recon....it's really a personal decision.  There are a lot of threads on this site about those of us who have chosen to stay flat, and those who have reconstructed - and all the different types of reconstruciont.  There is a really good book about reconstruction that someone recommended to me ...and I got it online.  It was really good, and very informative.  The Breast Reconstruction Guidebook by Kathy Steligo.  I ordered it from someone I found on Amazon and had it within a few days, so you might check into that.

    Good luck.....just know that we've all been in your shoes.  And if we can help, let us know...and if you want to send me a PM, feel free to do so...

    blessings...robin

  • Lovegolf
    Lovegolf Member Posts: 513
    edited July 2010

    Breathe....you will get to the otherside of this...There is so much information here and great women.  i can only tell you what I need and why.  I had DCIS and had bilat Mx with no reconstruction.  I had an MRI(by the way if you have one it can give you a hell of headache after...no one told me.  so drink lots of fluid after to flush the die.) I decided on Mx because I did not want to feel like I would be looking over my shoulder all the time to see if cancer was back.

    After Mx the path report showed DCIS that was not on MRI mammogram etc. I did not want to have reconstruction; it seemed too painful and I did not feel right about putting foreign objects in my body when I was just getting cancer out.  It is your personal choice.

    I can tell you there life after it all.  My Mx was 5/1/09. 

  • nolookingback
    nolookingback Member Posts: 38
    edited July 2010

    You've already been given a lot of good information by previous posters but I wanted to add my 2 cents anyway. #1 reassure your family AND YOURSELF that your cancer is  100% curable / survivable. That means in about a year this will ALL be behind you.

    #2 Don't be in a rush to make decisions. Your cancer is slow growing, if it takes a couple of months to get your surgery set up you will still be ok. The decision for a Mastectomy is permanent, don't make it quickly.

    #3 and the most important I think - ONLY GO TO DOCTORS WHO ARE BREAST CANCER SPECIALISTS. I'm not saying your local surgeon may not do a great job - but really - don't you want the best for this. I went to MD Anderson, Houston, Tx  which of course I think is the best in the world, but I admit to being prejudiced :) But a Cancer center that can offer you breast cancer oncologists and surgeons and also plastic surgeons will coordinate your treatment and surgeries more easily.

    #4 Look at this whole process as taking more than one surgery. I foolishly thought I could go in and have Mastectomy and reconstruction in one surgery and be done. I luckily was able to convince my plastice surgeon to do reduction on one breast and reconstruction of other at time of initial surgery (10.5 hrs. on table) but now I'm going back for touch up and nipples.

    #5 I was afraid of the pain - I know it sounds dumb - but I had never had major surgery before and I expected this horrible pain. Little did I know about modern DRUGS! Yes, I was sore and it felt like a truck had run over my chest and abdomen ( I had flap, fat taken from stomach done also) but it was not the kind of sharp pain I had expected. I gleefully took all offered drugs (and I'm someone who hardly ever even used aspirin) as well as having a pump. The first week is rough (as is any surgery) but honestly it was all up hill after that. I do recommend a good lounge chair for sleeping the first week.  I was surprised when a previous poster said it took 6 months to get back to normal. I went with my husband on a camping trip 5 weeks after surgery (even though I still had a drain) and by 3 months I was feeling good. Of course your treatment schedule will affect all that.

    #6 I wouldn't wish cancer on my worst enemy - but I've learned alot about my self, my husband and my friends in the process. It's an opportunity to grow, and you will. Wish you could get it from a book instead of this hard way - but blessings on you as you make this bumpy trip and know that as corny as it sounds there really is light at the end of the tunnel.

  • vmudrow
    vmudrow Member Posts: 846
    edited July 2010

    Just thought I would give my experience.  I was diagnoised in January with ALH, not cancer and not DCIS - but the oncologist said precancerous.  He wanted me to take Tamoxifen for 5 years.  My risk of getting breast cancer was 40% (family history, multiple biopsies etc).  I was going to have to have an MRI every year, which shows more, which would mean more biopsies. 

     After talking to my surgeon and a plastic surgeon I opted for prophylactic masectomies, with TEs and silicone implants later. I had nipple/skin sparing surgery.  My surgery was May 6, 2010 - was not bad at all (at least for me).  I could have the TEs removed and replaced with the implants the first of August - so that would be 3 months later, but I have some vacations planned so am waiting until the middle of September.  The TEs don't bother me much so I am fine waiting. 

    It has been an interesting process - but I feel it hasn't been too bad and I am very happy with my decision and I think I will be very happy with the end results.  There is a forum on here for those that have had the nipple/sparing and if you are considering this PM me and I would be happy to share pictures or answer any questions.

    It isn't for everyone however, so take the time to make the right choice for you!!

    Hugs, Valerie

  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    WOW, i'm sitting in our trailer on the beach looking out on the ocean and feeling a bit overwhelmed.  I CANNOT tell all of you how much your replies have meant to me, I don't know how to explain it but I am so appreciative to all of you and your answers just touch me so deeply.  #1 of course I was concerned about losiing my life.  My middle daughter is pregnant with my FIRST grandchild, something I have waited for a LONG time and all three of my daughters are scared to death, not to mention the fact that I feel I have DOUBLED their chances of getting breast cancer, thanks mom! :)  I have dutifully written down all of your questions and will ask the breast surgeon when I have my appt. next Monday.  Meanwhile my cousin has made an appt for me to talk to an oncologist for a second opinion. 

     I have been looking online for pics of reconstructive surgery, OMG, this is freaking me out.  I'm going to look so disfigured...............I know I'll probably live and that is a LOT to be grateful for but my chest, that is so vain to be concerned with but am I going to look like a freak?  The online photos are NOT positive looking.  I'll post back and get all of your opinions before I make any decisions, thank you sooooooooooooooooo much for your input you have no idea how much all of you mean to me!!  Thank you!!  Robyn in CA 

  • JulieL
    JulieL Member Posts: 57
    edited July 2010

    Hi Robin,

    I think that you will be pleasantly surprised at your results if you had a mastectomy. I was petrified when my plastic surgeon told me that my breast would not look the same as they did prior to surgery. I was a small D with implants. I had a total of about 1100 cc's in each breast. My implant was 500 cc's and the rest was breast tissue. I now have 700 cc implants and no breast tissue but my breasts are the perfect size. I'm glad I did it. My surgical oncologist said that doing a bilateral mastectomy gives you a 2% chance lifetime to have a recurrence and if I lived for 20 years those were odds that were appealing to me. I had the surgery August 11th, 2009 and my final surgery for nipple reconstruction was done on December 10th, 2009. Even though I had some healing problems after the mastectomy everything has been pretty smooth. Every time I go to my oncologist and show her my breasts she claps her hands. She referred me to the plastic surgeon. If you are interested and live close to Orange County send me a message and I will be more than happy to give you his and her names. They are an awesome team and worked together for 6 hours in surgery to give me great results. I'm very happy with the job that they did. Good luck in your decision making. Your fears are so normal. We all think that our lives are going to be cut short by this horrible monster so you aren't feeling anything that each of us hasn't felt. Hang in there. You will make the right decision for yourself.

    Julie 

  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    Julie,

    I was raised in Anaheim, I live in Bakersfield, not that far.  We're in Pismo Beach right now, going home tomorrow, back to reality.  This is probably a stupid question but what happens to your nipple after a mastectomy?  Do they save it?  I've looked online and some of what I have found is very scary.  Don't they just take out the inside and leave the outside?  That probably sounds over simplified but I'd say I am a large D and would prefer to be a large C if given a choice.  I probably weighed 115 twenty five years ago when I had my implants but that was a long time and a few pounds ago :) 

    Seeing the breast surgeon on Monday with my husband, 3 daughters and my sister, the whole family is going!  Thank you everyone for your support, I've got a list of questions, like the Grade, etc. 

    Robyn

  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited July 2010

    I'm not sure if you're asking whether you can keep your nipple on your breast (nipple-sparing surgery) or if you can keep it at home in a jar....but assuming you mean keep it on your breast... 

    Whether or not they can save the nipple is debatable. Some surgeons don't believe in saving the nipple, period.   For those surgeone who do nipple sparing surgery, if the cancer is too close to the nipple, they generally won't - too risky.  Many surgeons consider 2 cm from the nipple a cutoff, but that varies by surgeon.  

    In addition, they'll usually sample the tissue from under the nipple during surgery to check - remember that all the ducts converge at the nipple - there's always the chance you'll wake up without your nipples even if the intent was otherwise.

    Possibly more important if you have D breasts....blood flow.  Once the breast tissue is gone, there's only skin to provide blood flow to the nips and keep them alive.  In my case, and I had Ds at the time, the breast surgeons would say that I could do a nip sparing procedure but then the plastic surgeons would say that my breasts were too large and it probably wouldn't work - the distance the blood would have to travel thru the skin to get to the nipple was too far, my nipple would most likely get necrotic and die.  

    So this is another question for your team, and frankly, this is the realm of the plastic surgeon - not the breast surgeon.  Again, based on my experience, the breast surgeons sometimes promised things the plastic surgeons felt they couldn't deliver.   The breast surgeon removes the cancer, the plastic surgeon prettifies what's left.

    I know what you're seeing is scary.  There are better reconstructions and worse reconstructions, but they're not the same as natural breasts. 

  • CAROLMARIE427
    CAROLMARIE427 Member Posts: 206
    edited July 2010

    Sweatyspice is absolutely correct.  My original breasts were a bit over D cup.  My doctors made me make the decision about the nipple sparing, although my plastic surgeon wasn't too keen on it.  Within two weeks part of it became necrotic and I had a major infection for weeks.  Had to pack my nipple with wet and dry gauze for months.  My doctor was able to salvage some of it, and it will be touched up when I do nips and tattoos on my other side.  I decided to do a prophylactic mastectomy on my other side a year after the other breast was removed.  I totally did not do the nipple sparing.  Yes, nipple sparing works wonderful in some women.  However, if you are somehat voluptious, blood supply is limited and many women wind up with problems.  It is a personal decision, but I wish someone had told me the problems that I may have incurred before my surgery. 

  • robinlbe
    robinlbe Member Posts: 585
    edited July 2010

    I was NOT a D.....more like an "A", barely an "A"...a nipple sparing was never an option for me.  My guess is that my nipples are sitting in cold storage in the hospital, just in case they need to do further pathology testing.  They also did paget testing on them.  I have scars from under one armpit to my sternum,and from my sternum to my other armpit.    And yes, six months ago, when a lady sent me pictures of herself so I could be prepared, I cried and cried and cried. I could not even begin to imagine my life, my body without my breasts....and my own body looking that way.

    And for 4-5 months, I went through a difficult time.  Now, however, six months down the road (and I hit my 6 month mark this past Tuesday), I can say I am actually fine with this.  I don't ever have to worry about being cold and having my nipples show :)  I can wear whatever shirt I want...and if the shirt needs "bumps": or filling out, I can wear my forms with my own bras (I sewed pockets in them), or my beanie type forms in a cami I got at Target under a shirt which is comfy...and no one knows the difference. 

    I rarely wear bras and it's such a freeing experience.  Of course, I realize it wasn't a huge difference for others to notice.....and because I'm tall (nearly 6 ft) and thin, it isn't noticeable, but for me, it has worked out well.

    As the other ladies have said, consult with your doctors.  Get 2nd and 3rd opinions.  Read everythign you can get your hands on.  Ask everyone you know.....pray for peace.  You will get the answer that is uniquely *yours*, and that is what is most important.

     blessings...robin

  • whitedove
    whitedove Member Posts: 292
    edited July 2010
    It comes from the Breast Preservation Foundation's website.

    NSM & SSM :  What to Ask Your Surgeon(s)

    Questions for Your General, Breast or Oncologic Surgeon & Plastic Surgeon

    1. Where and when did you receive your general surgery training?
    2. Are you board certified in general surgery?
      If not, why not?
    3. Are you in good standing with the medical board?
    4. How many mastectomies do you perform on a yearly basis?
    5. What type and percentage of types of mastectomies do you perform most?
      (types are: lumpectomy, traditional mastectomies, and skin-sparing mastectomies)
    6. Are you familiar with and do you perform skin-sparing mastectomies?
      If not, would you please recommend a general surgeon who is, for a second opinion?
      If yes, how many have you performed?
    7. Is there any reason why I would not be a candidate?
      (The main reason would be that breast skin is invaded. Note that skin is not the same as breast tissue! Or if the breast cancer is at an advanced stage. Read inclusion and exclusion section.)
    8. What will the scars on my breast look like?
    9. Do you have photos of your mastectomies to show me?
      If not, please show me a medical journal photo that resembles your work.
    10. EXACTLY what skin will be removed?
      (If it is most of the breast skin, then it is NOT skin-sparing!)
    11. EXACTLY where will the scars be located?
      (You may want to ask your doctor to DRAW the scars with marker on your body.) With a skin-sparing mastectomy, the marks MUST be drawn in a KEYHOLE pattern, (i.e. under the breast fold, coming up to and around the nipple.) A traditional mastectomy will be one or two long incisions across the front of the breast, leaving little or no breast skin.)
    12. Who will do the marking for the incision? You or the plastic surgeon?
    13. Can the plastic or oncoplastic surgeon do the marking?
      If not, why not?
    14. If not reconstructed at the time of mastectomy, then what communication are you, the general surgeon, going to have with the plastic surgeon about the incisions placement before the surgery so you have the best possible cosmetic result?
    15. Am I a candidate for immediate reconstruction (at the time of mastectomy)?
      If not, why not?
    16. If I have future reconstruction, will the surgery leave my breast skin so I can have a skin-sparing mastectomy?
    17. What plastic surgeons do you work with?
    18. Will the plastic surgeon do the pre-surgical marking and determine the location of the incisions?
    19. Would you be willing to provide me with the name of another general surgeon for a second opinion?

    Questions for the Plastic Surgeon

    1. Ask the questions above, making the appropriate substitutions.
    2. Do not be shy to ask to see photos of their work, and for the name of a second opinion.
  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    Okay I printed out all of the questions and am ready (I think) for my appt. at 3:30.  Been doing research on my breast surgeon, she's only had her private practice for FOUR years, finished her internship only a few years before that..........don't know if that's a GOOD thing or BAD thing, guess she's up to date on all the latest techniques, etc?  This is my 1st appt. after diagnosis, I'm nervous.

     First I hated my breasts when I found out now I think I've becomed very attached to them :)  The nipple part still has me freaked out a bit though.  Don't know what sweatyspice meant by putting them in a jar, guess my sense of humor has diminished!  Will post back w/all answers to the questions, more detailed diagnosis, etc. tonight.  Again, thank you all for your support! Robyn

  • Hummingb1rd
    Hummingb1rd Member Posts: 49
    edited July 2010

    Hi there. I had bilateral MX with the intention of nipple/skin sparring. One side turned out great & on the other the BS did a scrap to test the tissue under the nipple. The results were cancerous so I lost the nipple on that side. I will have my last fill tomorrow with the Tissue Expanders and final surgery in Oct. It really has not been bad at all & way easier than I thought. I have seen many pictures of ladies from the funky TE stage to the implant stage, & they look beautiful. I would suggest looking into Dr. or Cancer centers that are doing the skin/nipple sparring & those who have had a lot of experience. Best wishes.

  • whitedove
    whitedove Member Posts: 292
    edited July 2010

    Good luck! & Stay Strong!

  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    Okay I talked to the breast surgeon today.  I went with my husband, sister and one daughter.  She was very adamently against any type of nipple sparing surgery.  Basically she said I was Grade 2, hormonal positive? and ordered a MRI on Thursday to see if the "mass" they found but hadn't yet biopsied was anything????  So, wait and see I guess till Friday???  She said she didn't know if it was invasive or not, not yet.  She was agreeable about me getting a second opinion though.  I have an appt. to see a local oncologist who heads the Cancer Center here but I'm thinking of getting a second opinion in the Los Angeles area since I have very good insurance and I dont' think? there's any hurry here. 

     She DID kind of make me feel bad about caring what I would LOOK like afterwards.  She also said I would need to take off 4=6 weeks after the surgery, does that sound right?  She couldn't answer any questions about reconstruction, said that was all up to the plastic surgeon and gave me names of 3 local ps's she worked with.  THIS is going to be very time consuming I can tell. 

     Also, I asked her about gene testing?  She said to check with my insurance to see if they'd pay for it.  I think I would like that done for my daughters.  ???? 

     What I don't understand is, why do I need Tissue Expanders when my breasts NOW are DD and I ultimately want like a C, my tissue/skin is ALREADY expanded.  ?? 

    Again, thank you all for your support, it makes all the difference in the world to have all of you to talk to!

    Robyn in California

  • LISAMG
    LISAMG Member Posts: 639
    edited July 2010

    Dear Robyn,

    PLEASE take your time and get different opinions re; nipple sparing vs. skin sparing options. If you have DCIS far enough away from the NAC/nipple areola complex, keeping your nipples would be a viable option. You need to consult with experienced surgeons who perform this procedure frequently for a successful outcome. Do NOT settle for no unless you've done your homework and know exactly what YOU want whether it be a lumpectomy or matectomy. How old are you? Any family history of BC? Feel free to PM me for any questions and/or info.regarding nipple sparing research. Best wishes. Have you considered Cedars Sinai for an opinion??

    LisaMG

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2010

    robyn- I got a message from WhiteDove asking that I write to you regarding nipple saving mastectomies.  I wanted to share with you my experience with my first surgeon.  She hadn't even told me such a procedure existed.  I found out about it my doing my own research.  When I asked her about it she was very adamant as well about me not having it done.  Then I found out that she was not even trained in the procedure (not all breast surgeons are).  There has been a resurgence in this type of mastectomy and most BS have not been trained in it.  I decided to consult with a BS who was experienced in the procedure to see if, in fact, I would be a good candidate for it.  I had to travel 2 hours from my home to find one but it was worth it.  She said I was an excellent candidate.  I had a NSM done in March and am very pleased with the results.

    I would urge you to get a second opinion from someone experienced in NSM.  There are certain criteria you would need to meet to be considered and the only thing of concern I can see is the size of your breasts.  It is extremely difficult to maintain blood supply to the nipple when it has so far to travel.  Another criteria is your DCIS cannot be too close to the nipple.  But until you speak to someone who is trained, experienced and believes in this procedure I would not discount it if it is something you wish to pursue.  If I had believed my first BS my nipples would be in a land fill somewhere.  I am kind of taken aback, also, that your BS would discount your concern regarding your appearance afterwards.  As women, our breasts are an integral part of our femininity.  As a female doctor, you would think she of all people would understand that.

    I just wanted to let you know that with DCIS you do have some time to educate yourself and to explore your options.  I was diagnosed in December and did not have my NSM until March.  

    Some things you should know about MX, and NSM in particular, are that after MX you will more than likely lose all sensation in your breast.  In NSM you will lose sensation in your nipple.  If you have a NSM done by an experienced BS the rate of recurrence is exactly the same as traditional MX.  You are not putting yourself at a higher risk by choosing to save your nipples.  (During your MX, the BS will scrape the cells within the nipple and biopsy them.  If any cancer cells are detected the nipples will be removed at that time.  I have never heard of a single woman on here who has ever had that happened, though.  Since DCIS is cancer of the ducts, and all the ducts are removed during MX, there is no way for cancer to spread to the nipple after MX.  Breast cancer starts in breast tissue not nipples.)  There is a risk during NSM of necrosis where the nipple "dies" but, again, this is rare.  

    Please don't get too scared when looking at photos of mastectomies on the internet.  Many of those were done years ago and they are much less disfiguring these days.  With NSM, my surgeon said that afterwards no one will even be able to tell that I had a MX which I think is pretty amazing.  Even in traditional MX's PS's can create new nipples that do look very real.  Some BS's will do the incision below the fold of the breast (as mine was) so eventually the scar will be barely visible.

    As far as why you would need tissue expanders- some surgeons are now doing immediate reconstruction where an implant is placed during the same surgery as the mastectomy.  Most do, however, use TE's.  If you do find a BS that does NSM they will more than likely recommend a PS as it is definitely a team effort since the PS has to be specially trained in NSM reconstruction.  All reconstruction questions do need to be answered by them.

    Also, as far as gene testing, from what I have read it's not considered necessary for DCIS but I would still consider it since you have children.  (Daughters are not the only concern as sons can also get breast cancer.)

    Also, recovery time for MX seems to vary.  I think those that go into it being very physically fit seem to recover the quickest.  Also, the sooner you can be active afterwards the sooner you recover as well.  Most do say at least 4 weeks minimum.  The TE process usually takes about 3 months and then you have an additional surgery to remove the TE's and place the implants.  (They can also do reconstruction using tissue from other parts of your body instead of implants.)  The exchange surgery is very easy.  I was up and around in about 5 days.

    If you would like any more information regarding NSM's please feel free to PM me.  I'm even happy to give you additional ways to contact me.  Good luck to you! 

    Kate 

  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited July 2010

    Sorry about the nipple in a jar comment - for a second I honestly wasn't sure what you meant, but then my mind has twisted to the point that I wanted to take my excised tissue home with me (it's MINE dammit!) and if I had to lose them, I'd personally want to keep my nips around in a jar....But you're obviously not as crazy, so that's probably good thing! 

    ABSOLUTELY get a second opinion, and DO NOT let this surgeon make you feel bad about being concerned with what you'll look like in the end.  Being concerned about that is perfectly NORMAL  Some cancer surgeons focus only on removing the cancer and to hell with the vanity, but many others have a holistic approach and will take your feelings into consideration as much as possible. There may be times where for medical reasons they can't give you what you want (nipple sparing in this case) but, in my opinion, they should NEVER make you feel bad for being greedy and wanting to keep your body as intact as possible.  

    I also don't like her answer about gene testing, my surgeon was happy to refer me to the genetics people, and they went to bat for me, writing a letter of medical necessity to my insurance company to get it covered. 

    Tissue expanders: assuming you have implants and not a flap reconstruction, the implant is too heavy to be held in place by the skin alone. Tissue expanders are used behind the chest muscle, to push the muscle out and create a pocket behind it - where the implant will be placed.  (I think, please correct me, implant ladies!) The only way around that is either a flap reconstruction or what's known as a "one step with Alloderm" in which Alloderm, treated and sanitized cadaver tissue, is placed in your breast cavity between the skin and the implant (you escape expanders) but if I'm remembering correctly they said I couldn't go past a B with that technique (probably b/c the skin, even w Alloderm as backup, can't support the weight of a larger implant).  Over time, the Alloderm becomes integrated with your own tissue....  but if you're going the TE route, you're expanding the chest muscle out and putting the implant behind it.  Or, you're making a slit in the chest muscle and placing the implant so it's held in place by the muscle on both sides, front and back.  I think.

    I guess your surgeon is waiting on the MRI to see if there's more cancer (since you mention another mass), and if there is a suspicion of more on the MRI, you'll probably have to do an MRI guided biopsy to confirm it.   Make sure your MRI is scheduled during the right part of your menstrual cycle to cut down on hormone-fluctuation induced false positives.

    It all takes quite a bit of time, unfortunately.  Get a surgical team you're comfortable with and trust.  There are lots of surgeons who will do NSMs whenever possible.

    As to whether or not it's invasive, well, until they get all the tissue out and examine it under a microscope, they can't know for sure if the small area they biopsied was representative of the entirety - in other words, maybe there's something present that was missed in the biopsied sample. Usually it's still all DCIS on final pathology, but 10-15% of women diagnosed with DCIS on biopsy turn out to have an invasive component when the tissue from their "real" surgery is examined. The odds are still with you....  

    Sorry again about the jar remark.  That's just me being a weirdo.  I want to make art projects out of all my scans and stuff.... 

  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    Kate and SS thank you so much for all this information.  SS, no worries about the jar comment, maybe I'm a little overly sensitive these days :) 

    The more information I glean the more I am leaning towards NOT going to the current BS I have.  Kate, Cedars is NOT that far from me, maybe less than a 2 hour drive?  Is there a specific doctor there I could be make an appointment with or team?  I have to admit after yesterdays appointment I was feeling a little guilty and vain but I feel much better now. 

    I just turned 50 in May, have no known history of BC in my family, am otherwise very healthy, average weight, etc.  I would really like to have my breasts smaller though, the DD's were somehow appealing in my mid-20's but at 50 and a teacher of a classroom full of 16-18 year old boys they are NOT so appealing (I try very hard to hide them at work).  The larger implants also made detection harder with the stereotopic? biopsy.  So, a good size C would be very good and if I could still have my nipples, well OMG I would be so thrilled.  Of course my husband of 30 years says he doesn't care, loves me anyway, and he does but anything I can do to stay normal looking would help ME feel more appealing to him, does that sound crazy? 

    So, the MRI on Thursday and I have a call out to an oncologist here in town to review my pathology report, scans, etc. 

    I would very much like to see a team at Cedars, any referrals in private message or public would be much appreciated.  Trying not to get overwhelmed with all the information.  I already have a PINK folder with all my notes, copies of reports, this discussion group and more, I am kind of anal when it comes to organizing and it makes me feel better :)

     Again, thank you sooooo much for your help, information and support.

    Robyn

  • Catherine
    Catherine Member Posts: 305
    edited July 2010

    I was diagnosed with DCIS seven years ago.  I chose a lumpectomy and everything has been fine.  My aunt also had DCIS but chose to have a double mastectomy, so it's a personal decision.  Once you make your choice, things will look better.  Hang in there!

  • Hummingb1rd
    Hummingb1rd Member Posts: 49
    edited July 2010
    Hi Just wanted to add that there is the City of Hope in Duarte, near Pasadena. They have great oncological breast surgeons & PS that are experienced in reconstruction after cancer. Also, the two surgeons worked together, one did the MX & the other reconstructed after. The are experienced in nipple/skin sparring MX. I actually asked my BS what worst case scenario would be, would I loose all the skin? She said she cannot imagine that that is ever necessary now a days. I went into it with the goal of one side nipple/skin sparring & the other prophylactic. In surgery they did do the scrap under the nipple & there was too much cancer so I lost it. I am in the TE stage and everything from start to finish has gone better than I would have expected. Hope the info helps. City of Hope is worth a look. I live 4 hours north of there and would do the traveling all over again because it is such a great place. Will be thinking of you as you wait for your tests. Great advice from the ladies aboveSmile
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2010

    Robyn-

    Just wanted to let you know about this great link that WhiteDove found regarding nipple saving mastectomies-

    http://www.breastpreservationfoundation.org/ 

    I'm in Phoenix so not sure about Cedars, just know they do NSM's.  I would ask on some of the NSM threads on here.  Someone may have a recommendation for you.

    I wouldn't feel bad about trying to find a new BS.  I did the same thing.  You really need to click with them because they are going to be a big part of your life for awhile and you need someone you feel is on the same page as you.  Good luck! 

  • robynkk
    robynkk Member Posts: 138
    edited July 2010

    I now have options, that's a good thing.  So between the 2 Drs. names I was given at Cedars, Dr. Holmes? at USC and the City of Hope (which is about 2 hours south of me) I've got some choices.  Is there a message board here where I can ask anyone if they've seen any of these specific Drs?  Hummingbird do I just call the City of Hope center or is there a specific Dr. I should make an appointment with?  I guess I should wait until after my MRI tomorrow to have more information for them or would they all want to do their own tests?  I really hope the very next Dr. I meet with is "the one" because this is already getting frustrating!  :)  Again, thank you all for your support and information!

    Robyn

  • sweatyspice
    sweatyspice Member Posts: 922
    edited July 2010

    It will probably take a few days for you to get your MRI results, and you should not have to repeat the MRI - the other Dr's will rely on the first radiologist's report, or, for a true 'second opinion' of the MRI, bring a disk for the other Dr's to review.  Hopefully the two institutions will have compatible systems.

    Since I'm on the other side of the country, I'm not that familiar with the SoCal doctors (aside from Mel Silverstein and he doesn't do mastectomies anymore, though his associates do), but you could go on the surgery and reconstruction areas of the site and ask, or if there's a SoCal thread in the get together area you could ask there.....

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