CONTROLLING CHEMO CURL
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Hi
Does anyone out there have any suggestions for what I could use to control the curl in my hair - had chemotherapy and lost my hair and has come back so curly and cant tame it help ! Have tried a few products but the curl seems determined to stay!!
Debs
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Debs--Me too. I now use Moroccan Oil shampoo and conditioner, and styling cream; I have very few options due to allergies, but that line seems pretty mild. I also use a flatiron. Length helps somewhat, and after two years it is starting to straighten. But not like it was before chemo. It is also much thicker than it was right before diagnosis; that might be from the curls though. . .
Warmest,
Cathy
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It sounds like you don't like the curls so what I'm going to say won't be of much help (sorry!) but I thought I'd throw it in anyway: when my hair started growing out it had a distinct pattern of direction it wanted to go, curls, etc. It also had a ton more gray than it did a year ago! but fortunately it looks like I frost it so I don't mind that, either. I decided to just go with what my hair wants to do. I have a woman who cuts my hair who understands what I'm going for (not fighting what my hair wants to do) and cuts it accordingly -- and I'm pretty happy with how it looks. It's also much less maintenence, and I'm not someone who likes to spend much (or any) time on my hair, so that part is a real bonus. Like I said, that won't help if you just plain don't like the curls, but it's worked well for me.
I've heard that hair will eventually go back to how it used to be but I have no idea how long that takes -- my SIL had curly hair after chemo and 5 years later it's still curly. I'm sure it varies a lot person to person.
Whoever cuts your hair might have some suggestions. I know there are chemical straigteners but I don't know how harsh they are.
Good luck!
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I have to agree with cbm, I'm not sure how short your hair is now but length makes a big difference in how much curl. The longer you grow it, it seems to weigh the hair down and straighten it somewhat. Using a flat iron would help but can be time consuming. I saw a girl with short curly hair that had gelled it flat to her head...it looked cute on her. As far as products I'm not sure what would help...I know when my hair was straight I could never use conditioner because it weighed it down too much. So maybe a heavy conditioner would control some of those curls for you. I still don't have my hair, yet, but just from experiences as a hairdresser in my earlier years this is the advice I can give to you. Not sure if you would want to deal with hair relaxers because of the chemicals. Maybe you could talk to a stylist that knows more about newer products out there that may help you. Its been ages since I worked or went to a salon so the advice I gave you may be outdated...:) Good luck to you, take care.
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Great thread - glad I searched for it. Same story here...had long straight hair (as in picture) and now short and totally unmanagable. If I blow dry it, I get a mini-fro (lol). Not the look I am going for. Currently about 2 inches long all over, I bet it will calm down with length. In the meantime, I will keep experimenting with mousse, gel, etc.
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Oh yes, that's another thing...if its uncontrollable curl...sometimes the worst thing to do is to blow dry the hair. It makes it even more unmanageable. Towel dry and leave damp if you'd like then add the gel, mousse, wax or whatever suites your fancy. Style it with your fingers, too, if you'd like.
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Find a beautican who is good with curls (I went to a salon that specializes in wigs/scarves/cuts etc. for people who have been through cancer treatments), and let her/him cut it to it's best advantage and ask for styling/product advice. You could maybe look in the yellow pages or google for a place near where you live. If styled right, curls can be really fun (mine lasted for a years, and then WHAM, straight!).
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I am not an expert on chemo curls, but one of my "chemo sisters" is. She advised us to follow the "Curly Girl" rules for hair care. (Google "Curly Girl".) The rules I remember best were 1) put away your blow dryer -- do not use it on those curls, or all you'll get is frizz; 2) put away your hair brush (see #1 for the reason); 3) gently blot your hair after showering -- do not rub it (see #1 for the reason). The main thing is to reduce the "handling" of your hair to a minimum. Finger-fluff it a little and let it air-dry. If you're used to messing with your hair a lot, it takes some mental adjustment to shower, blot your head a bit, and walk away; but boy oh boy, I sure got used to that!
I had super-straight hair before chemo. Afterward, I looked like Little Orphan Annie ... but only until those curls grew out. My hair is now super-straight again. Believe it or not, I kind of miss the curls.
otter
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LiKe Otter, my straight hair grew back as chemo curl but then grew out straight and normal as time went on. I can't complain, hair is a nice thing to have back.
grace
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How long did it take for your hair to go straight again? And did it help if your cut the ends of your hair. I keep thinking if I just bit the bullet and cut mine some maybe it will cut the curl off???
Thanks and God Bless all of you!
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It is taking mine a longer time than I thought, and longer than most women told me it would. I finished Taxol in January of 09 and started to get "real" hair about mid-March. It was thick and curly and I kept it short because it was pretty unruly too. And I kept cutting the ends to see if it was straight and it wasn't. I'd say I cut about every four or five weeks for the first year. Then after Christmas this year, I went for a long time--maybe seven weeks--with no cut and it was straighter. So I've had one cut since Christmas and when I do what otter suggested above, I have more like waves, not curls. My bangs are about four inches when I hold them out straight, and that's about my all around length.
I hope this helps; every one of us is different. I'll take the curly hair if I could just have my eyelashes back the way they were.
Cathy
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Here is what my hairdresser recommended: Blow dry your hair while brushing it sideways (not down) against your head. Make sure to continue doing this until it is completely dry. Use a small amount of hair wax to keep it straighter and add dimension and shine.
My avatar shows my kinky curly cow-licky hair after my hairdresser did the above. (This is 4 mos PFC.) Unfortunately, I don't have the patience or time in the morning to re-create this!
Patty
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