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  • artsymom
    artsymom Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2010

    Danielaes ~ Wishing the possible best outcome with your surgery. I had 10 lymph nodes removed too along with the lumpectomy and a drain. Hated the drain until it got plugged one day and felt what it would have been like without it. After that it didn't seem so bad. Take the time to heal and be kind to yourself. It was a completely and still is different recovery than anything I have ever been through before. Just when you think you have reached your limit hang on and post something here, the ladies are amazing and will help you ride each wave.

    I got a call from my surgeon on Monday and she said my pathology report was the best report one could hope for. Clear margin, got all the cancer and it hasn't spread anywhere. Was so excited to hear and we celebrated with a dinner out and some red wine. My kids laughed at me because since diagnosis I haven't put anything in this mouth that isn't juiced, green or on degree from the organic source. Felt good though however I still have worries about the treatment but as one of my friends who is about 2 months ahead of me in the same journey said, "celebrate now worry later."

    Linda BC hope you get a good night's rest soon.

    Dutchgirl, I went through 5 courses of antibi's for a stupid abscess which gave me thrush and yeast infections 3 x's and was literally driving me crazy. Felt like if it was bc alone that was plenty and didn't need those other ailments. Still worry about infections reoccurring as I've been on so many antibi's over the years and hate the thought of superbugs. Hope all eases up on you soon.  

  • dutchgirl6
    dutchgirl6 Member Posts: 673
    edited April 2010

    Artsymom, that's great news about your path report, you must be so relieved.  I hope that you enjoyed your red wine, and celebrating with your family.  Does this mean that you will be exempt from chemo? 

    This whole superbug thing is weird.  I rarely take antibiotics, I can't remember the last time that I had a prescription for anything, and my immune system is pretty strong.  It must be the stress that is affecting my ability to fight off the nasties.

    Have a good day peeps, and welcome newbies.  It's off to work for me

  • etk02038
    etk02038 Member Posts: 150
    edited April 2010

    Artysmom...congratulations! You deserve to celebrate. 

  • hereandnow
    hereandnow Member Posts: 322
    edited April 2010

    that's great news artsymum, here's to the good news days, enjoy.

    Lisa

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    artsymom,

    GOOD NEWS!SmileLaughingWink

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2010
    ARTSYMOM... I'm doing the happy dance for you!  Yahoo Tongue out
  • jakhope
    jakhope Member Posts: 133
    edited April 2010

    Hi Peeps,

    Katie, I do get shooting pains in my breast on and off. I am still taking a RX Alive when needed. I think now that I am done radiation it is less often. I still get numbness and pain in my arm,but I guess it is all part of the package.

    Thanks for the Offer Linda, sounds wonderful. We are going on a cruise on May 2nd until the 9th. I am counting the days and have most of my clothes that I am taking, already put aside.

    All the newbies I have missed over the last few weeks. Hang in there and be patient. we have learned the hardest part is the waiting and the unknown. This is a great place for knowledge, venting and to be heard by ones who understand and are or have been through this journey. We are not alone.

    Hugs and wellnes to us all.

    GP jeannie here 

  • jakhope
    jakhope Member Posts: 133
    edited April 2010

    Artsymom- Great news!!!! Celebrate!

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2010

    JP...I'm going on a cruise to Alaska in the latter part of May!  Where are you and your husband off to?  Hope you have a wonderful time.

  • KatieMom
    KatieMom Member Posts: 127
    edited April 2010

    Linda G - Alaska!  I have always wanted to do that!  I want to hear all about it.  Feeling better today after a long hard bike ride last night with "the boys".  I gave away all my parents' clothes yesterday which I didn't anticipate was going to be as hard as it was.  I cried all over the poor pick up man.  Their house still hasn't sold but in my crazy OCD brain I am trying to get the death of my parents chapter and the cancer in my boob chapter of my life over at the same time.  6 more weeks.  Will I make it?  I know all of you are going to say that the cancer boob isn't going away all that soon.  I will have to have a mammogram in Sept. and start sweating all over, but I can dream can't I?  Kiss

    Katie 

  • artsymom
    artsymom Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2010

    Thanks everyone! Off to the cancer clinic orientation today so hope the 'great' news, feeling continues. Was laying in bed this morning thinking about calendar days and it hasn't even been 3 months since my mammo. Man life has tilted, phew. However I'm counting every blessing as they present themselves and there are so many things to be grateful for.

    Have a wonderful day ladies. I think the only cruise I'm going to get for a while is one down the street with maybe a DQ sundae. Am I a little jealous, oh just a bit. lol!  Happy packing!

  • KatieMom
    KatieMom Member Posts: 127
    edited April 2010

    Hey, did you peeps hear today's news.  Martina Navratilova was diagnosed with DCIS.  Lumpectomy and rads.  She has joined her club....

    Katie 

  • soulswithin
    soulswithin Member Posts: 154
    edited April 2010

    Hi everyone, thanks for the comments to me, and support. I will know more next week, when I see the surgeon here, luckily my HMO doc set me up with a fairly well known breast cancer suregeon, [I deserve a stroke of luck, I figure, ;~), was so worried about what doctor choices I'd have. So a tad of relief there. There are so many obstacles to get by at the beginning, and the trauma is overwhelming at this point, it takes your breath away sometimes.

     I'm keeping very busy, trying to fit in all the fun stuff I may not be able to do for a while. I'm a photographer, and holding heavy gear is a reality check for my profession.

    Thnx for the encouragement to becoming active again. I have alot of spine problems but have pretty much powered thru them, so hoping to find that same fight in me somewhere soon. This stuff is exausting! Geez, even calling the parents and fam! But the only road is the high road, just keep plugging on and ignoring the obstacles....easier said than done.

     Good luck on your surgery Daniela, by now you are on the other side of the first hill. Hope you mend quickly and can get on. Yes, I saw the Martina Navrotolva last night on Larry King. How great for us to have her on our side.

    Good luck Dutchgirl. I am allergic to most ABX's also, so I've worried about that too.  Hi Linda, lol, just call me anything u want, lol. Or lindaj to be less confusing.

    I hope all of you have something good happen in your day! I'm going out shooting some owls nests, because I love the outdoors and trying to exaust myself with as much as I can right now before next week. Oh yeah, I have another biopsy needed before my surgery. Another spot. Uggggh. Not gonna think aboout it today.

    One thing I have already learned in this nightmare, is the time separation between events is so long, you have to tuck away alot of it, because theres'ot a dang change going to happen immediately. So I put off the second biopsy until the surgeon needs it because why ruin my good week right now? Boy, every day becomes so valuable, calculating and weighing decisions, etc.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    soulswithin,

    I wish to be an owl until 2011!Laughing

  • jakhope
    jakhope Member Posts: 133
    edited April 2010

    Hi Peeps-

    Katie- I wish my mammo would be in Sept., my Dr wants to wait until Dec.I think I am going to push for sooner.

    My cruise is out of Fort Lauderdale. Close to home. We are going on the Emerald Princess.

    5/2 depart Fort Lauderdale

    5/3 Princess cay Bahamas ( my birthday)

    5/4 at sea

    5/5 Saint Maarten

    5/6 Saint Thomas

    5/7 Grand Turk

    5/8 at sea

    5/9 return Fort lauderdale

    I am counting the days and it can't come soon enough.

    This week follow up with Radiologist and next week meet with Oncologist and hear bone scan results. I will push with a sooner Mammo with him. So far I am tolerating the Arimidex.

    I went to a large craft fair here with a friend and I got these really cool like bandanas that have these beads inside and you soak them in cold water and theypump up and stay cold for hours. When I told the lady I just got done radiation and am taking this medication that can cause hot flashes and I was going on a cruise, she gave me two more at half price. It really helped outside all day today. When you speak up and tell people they are so kind. 

    Hope you all have a peaceful weekend.

    Hang in there all you strong brave women. 

    GP here

  • peacelovedogs
    peacelovedogs Member Posts: 57
    edited April 2010

    Hello all!

     I am a new member to the club!  I found a lump back in late November of 2009.  My Primary doctor told me it was nothing to worry about, just a cyst, too young for breast cancer (I'm 35), blah, blah, blah.  I listened to him for a couple of months and then In March noticed that my breast had changed.  The nipple had flattened and the lump was largeer.  Finally got orders for a diagnostic mammogram and ultrasound.  That was on 03-30-10.  The radiologist saw me and explained that I needed to see a surgeon ASAP that he did not like the way things looked.  I left there in a fog.  I called the surgeon that he told me to call and was scheduled for the next mornign 03-31-10.  The surgeon did not like the mamm, the ultrasound or the look/feel.  He did a core biopsy in office that morning.  2 days later, 04-02-10, I got the call.  I had cancer but they did not know the kind yet.  04-06-10 I found out it was IDC, grade 2, ER+ (>50%), PR- and am still waiting for my HER2/neu results.

    Since then I have decided to go with treatment at The Mayo Clinic here in Jacksonville.  My first appointment with them was on 04-08-10.  I met with a genetic's specialist yesterday (04-09-10) and meet my surgeon, plastic surgeon, oncologist and radiation oncologist on Monday & Tuesday.  It looks like my surgery will be late next week or early the following week.

    Due to the history in my family, it will be a shock if I am not BRAC+.  Even without that knowledge, I have opted for a double masectomy.  I just know that I will not rest with these still on me.Wink.  I will have chemo after surgery, although the first surgeon I saw had recommended chemo first, the Mayo team is leaning towards chemo after.  Once I see my surgeon and oncologist we will know 100%.  There was a bit of discussion on if I have Inflammatory BC but I am missing some of the larger symptoms and 3 of 3 doctors that have examined me agree that they do not believe it is IBC.  I am going to ask the surgeon if she thinks a skin bioposy should be completed on Monday.

     Anyway, I am so lucky that Mayo is on my insurance and so close to home.  They are the closest hospital to my home.  It takes me less than 5 minutes to get there.  They have such a great staff and support system for patients.  I just feel so much more confident since I have made the decision to be treated by them.

    I am sorry that we are all in this crappy boat, but I look forward to fighting this disease, supporting each of you, sharing laughter and tears and looking back on this journey as a time that we all learned just how strong we really are.

     {{hugs}}

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    raerae7074,

    You're so blessed to live near the Mayo Clinic.   I'll keep you in my thoughts!

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2010

    Hi raerae...welcome to the club.  Sounds like you are gathering information like a hot potato.  Good for you girl!

    Can I ask you what your IBC symptoms are?  The reason I ask is that I'm beginning to think I might have IBC as well as IDC.  I know it is a far reaching possibility...but I've had so many of the symptoms since my surgery (lumpectomy).

    Good luck to you this week!

  • retrievermom
    retrievermom Member Posts: 522
    edited February 2011
    Raerae:  Sorry to "meet" under these circumstances, but how fortunate to have the Mayo so close by.  They are top-notch.  And good that you were not only aware of your body's changes, but pushed through to get the help you needed, in spite of your doc.  Keep us posted.
  • perky
    perky Member Posts: 241
    edited April 2010

    Hi Peeps!

    Hope everyone had a fun Spring break! My computer died and I couldn't get a loaner until now but wanted to check in and thank you for your help.

    My BMX was on 03/31/10. It went really well. Only one node removed and it was clean. The surgeon said that the cancer looked contained and was very happy about it. I also heard from an intern that it was larger than expected but wouldnt say more so I am bracing myself for hearing that chemo is in my future.

    The day after the BMX I had a very cute, attentive male nurse. That had to have saved me thousands in therapy. I am still completely me, just a little rearranged. As much as I was dreading everything, it turns out that all my doctors are rock stars and I couldn't have been better cared for.

    Ten days later, I still have 2 of 4 drains in, using ice packs on the boobs forming under my arms and can sleep laying on my back instead of sitting up.  Next week I will get some silicone bra inserts the second the drains are removed and I wont look back.

    My biggest fear by far was what my reaction would be when I saw the "Area" after surgery. The day after the BMX a team of PS interns came in, ripped off all the bandages and there it was. I had to look and really didn't expect to so soon. But I did and it wasn't what I expected. It was still me, I am not deformed and with the hard tissue expander sticking out, I also know it's temporary. I was so scared that seeing me this way would make me so sad that I would never recover but it didn't happen.

    So now just a little nervous about my appt Monday and can't wait for the drains to be gone.  I think I am doing great! Thank you all for getting me through it, I can't imagine how hard it would be without the collective knowledge and support coming from you all!

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    perky,

    Good Luck Monday! Smile

  • LauraM
    LauraM Member Posts: 251
    edited April 2010

    Good evening ladies, been spending time getting caught up with all of you after my 10 days in Florida.  You have all been so busy and so much has happened.  Hello to all the new Peeps that have unfortunately had to join our wonderful club.  I had decided that I was not going to log into this site or any other cancer site during vacation.  I was going to pretend as much as possible that I didn't have cancer, that it was like last year.  It was kind of nice!

    Everything went pretty good while I was gone, I found out I was anemic before I left so they put me on iron pills and a multi vitamin.  I went to the health food store in my town and bought them there because I had read somewhere that vitamens absorb better that were from health food stores.   They made such a world of difference with me, every day I started feeling better and stronger and I didn't have any side affect with fiber pills which is a plus since I already have those issue with pain meds.   I am still having the issue with my stomach scar opening up.  My doctors had told me to spend as much time possible in the salt water and I did that, but it seemed that after every time I was in the salt water, a new area of my scar started to swell and then within 24 to 48 hours would open up and expel fluid.  These area's are all still open and draining.  The original two have gotten better in the salt water but I now have an additional 5 or 6 other small areas of my scar that has opened up.  I go to see my plastic surgeon tomorrow so I will see what he says.  I can't start Chemo until this heals. 

    I can't believe that tomorrow will be 7 weeks from my Mastectomy, time is really flying!  I hope everyone else is feeling good and had a wonderful Easter.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    LauraM,

    You had a complete vacation from all the crap! Smile I am glad you're seeing your surgeon tomorrow.  Take Care.

  • Misquam42
    Misquam42 Member Posts: 3
    edited April 2010

    Hi everyone,

    I was diagnosed with DCIS in Feb and had first surgery 3/2. Margins were not clear and a small amount 3mm of IDC was found which was Her2+. So back to surgery on 3/16 to have reincision and sentinel node biopsy. I was so fortunate that no cancer found in the lymph nodes and the margins were clear.  I am er+pr+ also. My first visit to the oncologist was uneventful. He wanted the pathology report to be more informative since it was vague and more testing to be done on the Her2+ if that was possible since it was so small. Has anyone else had this situation? I am waiting in limbo right now and go back to the onc next week.  I am a teacher and returned to the classroom 4 days after each surgery. The end of the year is coming and I am getting anxious to get started on something.

  • LauraM
    LauraM Member Posts: 251
    edited April 2010

    Hi Misquam43 - Maybe the oncologist is looking for the oncology score of the tumor which gives them a reference for how likely it is for your type of cancer to return.  I am praying for you that all works out for you and no further treatment is needed!

    Update:  I went to the ps today and he looked at my stomach scar with all of the new openings and immediately said that he thinks I am allergic also to the synthetic sutures that are being used.  (just a reminder, he removed the wire sutures 3 or 4 weeks ago because he said I was allergic to those, the wound had opened up and wasn't healing around the wire).   His recommendation was for me to go back into surgery and he would open me back up, hip to hip and re close with a different type of sutures.   He wanted to do this quickly so that the healing could take place and I can start the chemo.  Well, this was not what I wanted to hear.  I convinced him to give it one more week to see how I heal now that the anemia is better.  They mentioned that it takes nutrients and proteins to break down the stitches so that they dissolve and I think that they didn't breakdown because my anemia was so bad that the blood wasn't getting to the area to heal it well.   I go back to the dr next Monday to see how the healing is going.   In the mean time, tomorrow I am off to get a bone scan and cat scan of the abdomen.  They told me to be there by 9:30 AM to plan on spending the whole day.  Fun fun!

    Have a nice evening!

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    Misquam42,

    Welcome!Smile

    You should get a copy of all pathology reports showing results of all the tests.    Has your doctor talked to you about Oncotype DX Test?   Learn as much as you can about BC.   Talk to doctor or doctors until you completely understand your choices for breast-cancer treatment.   Always take a witness to doctor appointments.   I was diagnosed 1-20-10 with BC and finally got pathology report showing last test result 4-1-10.  I just kept asking for copy of test result.   I started chemo 4-1-10.   

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited February 2012

    LauraM,

    I so hope your suture line heals up.   Good Luck tomorrow.

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2010

    Welcome, Misquam42.  I'm sure you are not excited to belong to this club...but hey...what can you do?  We are all making the best of a poopy situation...and if I must say...we're doing a mighty fine job.

    I was ER and PR positive and had a Her2 score of "equivacol".  This meant it was sort of "in the middle" (or couldn't be measured accuartely with the test they used) and could not therefore give me an official score one way or the other. A more exhaustive test had to be done, called the FISH test.  The test results showed that I was actually Her2 negative.  Perhaps this is the test you are now going to have?  They take some of your tumor and do further testing and it takes about an extra week to get the results back.  But don't worry even if it is Her2 postive...there are lots of ways to tackle breast cancer...and you've got a team ready to fight.  You are in good hands by the sounds of things.

    a part of my cancer was also DCIS although I didn't put that in my offical report on this site.  It was such a small part of everything actually.  My tumor was 85% IDC and 15% DCIS.  So really, I just say it is IDC.  My margins were clear as well.  And, like you, no cancer found in the lymph glands.  How old are you if I might ask? 

    My guess is that you will start on radiation within 10 to 12 weeks (they like your wound to heal well before the radiation starts) and who knows...they may want to throw some chemo your way...hard to say.  A lot depends on your HER status and your age as well as the stage of the tumor.  Let's hope you don't need chemo...but if you do don't worry...from everything I've read it is very "doable" and there are amazing drugs now.  Hang in there...and gentle welcoming hugs to you! 

    Perky, glad things are workingout for you!  Take care my pink peep!

  • etk02038
    etk02038 Member Posts: 150
    edited April 2010

    Misquam42, welcome.

    LauraM, I hope your wound starts to heal and you can avoid another surgery.

    Perky, I am glad your surgery went well and your node was clean.

    I go see the Oncologist Thurs to talk about hormone therapy after rads. I have had such abdominal pain this week it's scary. I think it is endometriosis but of course since the cancer dx I start jumping to conclusions like colon cancer. But regardlesss it needs to be checked out. If it is endo then I don't think I can take Tamoxifen since it will make it worse. So I don't know what she will suggest. Hysterectomy and ovaries out? Does it ever end? 

  • LINDAGARSIDE
    LINDAGARSIDE Member Posts: 345
    edited April 2010

    Hi Ellen...yes, it is going to end with you being well...it is just going to take some time.  Just keep hanging in there and be patient my pink peep!  Remember, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step"... Laughing

    I've noticed that a high number of pink peeps have gas/intestinal issues.  I had an ultra sound done as a result and it showed nothing.  But, like you, I assumed it was cancer raging through my body.

    I had endometriosis and a hysterectomy when I was 32 years old.  I already had my 3 beautiful kids so didn't mind losing the crib.  They left the play pen in tact though.  When I had my ultra sound recently in the pelvis area, the tech could only find one ovary...the other one has shrivelled up I guess... like a puff of wind...LOL...maybe that's why I get so much gas?  My husband says it's because I talk too much and circle breathe.  LOL (again).

    Take care of yourself...and remember we're all in this fight together.  Let us all lift you gently up..and let you dust off your beautiful knees.  There you go...on your feet again you pink warrior! Gentle hugs your way.... ((((((((( ELLEN ))))))))))))  

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