What to do at the pool
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Hi ladies,
I had a crying moment this morning visiting my brother's family for Easter. We took the kids to the health club after our egg hunt and I cried like a baby feeling bad for myself for not being able to be in the pool with them. Especially me, who used to be a swimmer all the way through graduate school.
So.. I need to start wearing a prosthesis fast as I'm still wearing my cotton fillers inside an old nursing bra. Can anyone recommend one that you've been happy with and that you've tried it out in the pool? I'm not ready for reconstruction yet, still waiting for the 6-months post radiation date.
Thanks!!!
Marcia
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Marcia....wish I had a suggestion for you, but I had a bilat....but wanted to send hugs your way (((((((((((MArcia)))))))). The summer after Dx I did not go in the pool and the following year, I had recon revision done, so could not get wet for a good part of the summer....my poor DD, I would take her to the pool and sit on the edge. I'm sure others will be along with suggestions. Karen
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I had a bilat two years ago, no reconstruction and I never got a prostesis. I am comfortable being flat. I swim, I took my old bathing suit, plus one that I bought last year, cut the bras out and the suits fit snug against my chest. I swim both pool and ocean.
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I have not had recon yet and plan on looking for a bathing suit that works with my new flat top this year. However, they do make prosthesis for pools and swimming, which can be bought at the medical supply store.
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I bought a (relatively) inexpensive weighted foam prosthesis for swimming on our vacation in a few weeks, but I haven't had a chance to see how it works in the water. The ACS tlcdirect catalog had one specifically for swimsuits on sale for $99, but I didn't feel like I'd use it enough to justify the $ (plus I think their sale items are non-returnable even if the size is wrong?). So I'm really curious to see what others have to say, too.......
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hi Marcia
I have not used a prosthethis but noticed your post as I too am a keen regular swimmer. It was one of the reasons I opted for immediate recon. I know you have to wait a while for yours but just wanted to send encouraging words to you that, once you have recon done, you will be able to swim again with no fear of a prosthesis falling out! The only thing I have found is I need to choose swimsuits that come a little higher at the chest than before. However there is nowdays a good range of swimsuits available for women who have had bc surgery.
I do sympathise with you. It is often those 'little' things that bring home very harshly, just how this disease affects pretty much our whole lives, in ways others don't always understand.
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Marcia: I feel for you. I went through the same thing when I was getting ready to go on trip to the Dominican with 3 other couples in January. I had a uni mx last year and wasn't at the recon stage yet. . I had a melt down when I was swim suit shopping, I did manage to find a nice mastectomy suit that didn't look old fashioned and I bought an Amoena swimform to wear in it. I didn't use my regular prosthesis because it is heavy and hot. The Amoena swim form is silicone and fit nicely into the pocket of the swim suit. I was comfortable and so happy that I did it. It is really hard and intimidating at first because these moments make us grasp the reality and sorrow of what we are going through. Hang in there. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. I just went for TE surgery on Feb 19th. I feel great and I am happy so far with the results. I'll go for exchange surgery in Sept. My PS like to go slow and he won't start recon until 6 months after tx.
Good Luck
Hugs
Beth P
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I just had my mx in Feb. I bought a regular prosthesis but don't want to use it in a pool. I know they say you can but at $350 I don't want to take a chance. So, I bought something called a Been-a-Boob. It is kind of like a bean bag but filled with silicon beads. I think it will do great in a swimsuit and dry fast when I come out of the water. Plus, it was pretty cheap. Only $55. It is also comfortable and I have actually worn it a couple of days instead of my regular prosthesis. I got it at www.janacsportswear.ca
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Hi Marcia,
It's like adding insult to injury isn't it? I work for Nordstrom and we have FANTASTIC fitters in Lingerie that are trained specifically how to fit prosthesis (call ahead for an appointment with someone that specializes in prosthesis). They will also help you with the paperwork needed for your insurance as I believe most will pay for this! So, I hope you live nearby one of the stores. I don't know if it could be done online, but might be worth a call or chat to find out more. Their web site is www.nordstrom.com.
Take care,
Sharon
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check out this thread.. I am (was) a diver and still coach some. I made a small poofy and just tacked it into my suit with a few loops of thread sewn strategically. It is easy to make them too big. One really worked for me (but I was pretty small breasted).. it seems perfect for being in the water and it is easy to create exactly the right size.
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Marcia - Oh, yep, same problem here! we went camping last summer, right after I finished up everything, and I only paddled in the lake, as I just wasn't comfortable with going in the water. What I did was go to a 'special" lingerine store. I actuially went to get fitted for a prothesis, and I asked about swimming prothesis. What they suggested, was sewing a "cookie" into the lining of a regular bathing suit on my Mx side. It is amazing - I don't need to put anything in, I just pull on the bathing suit and I am good to go! You really could never tell. They did the alteration for free for me.
If you want to do something more cheaply, go to a fabric/sewing store. They often sell those foam breast forms, and you can just sew one into a regular bathing suit yourself.
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I didn't want to spend the money on a swim prosthesis especially since I was planning on recon. So I did two things:
1. The fibrefill poofs worked pretty well. As you get out of the water I just gave myself a little hug to squeeze out the excess water.
2. Been-a Boob by Janac Sportswear. It looks like a round beanbag filled with silicone beads. You can wear it in the water or under a sportsbra and it will squish like your real boob. It only cost about $50 and can be worn on either side. It was designed by a BC survivor who raced dragonboats. You can find them online.
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