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Fair enough...and I've been in many teaching hospitals and have had a myriad of interns around my bed. BUT, if they're going to charge you extra for that, it doesn't make sense. You paid for what YOU got, not what THEY got.
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Heres our chubby cheeked Ella
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WAY to cute!!! I can't believe how big she is!!!!
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Too cute!
Nancy, I hear you on the doctors out of network seeing you in the hospital.
Last summer, I was admitted to the emergency room of the hospital that is my "In-Network" hospital. My stomach was swollen and distended and I was in a lot of chest pain (I had "frozen" stomach syndrome, plus I was allergic to phenigren, which I had just a couple days before during a colonsocopy.)
Anyway, I received a nearly $400 bill from a doctor that looked me over in the emergency room. I kept telling them to submit the bill to my insurance company. They already did, but it was rejected.
Guess what? Out of the I-don't-know-how-many doctors in that hospital that ARE in my insurance network, this one doctor was NOT!
Now I ask you, how the hell is someone supposed to KNOW that in an emergency situation, and why on earth would anyone even think to ASK, since the HOSPITAL IS in your network?
Such a racket. Anyway, I ask every single doctor who comes into my room from now on who they are and whether they are in my network. If they don't know, I won't let them look at me until I find out.
I even pre-screen the docs in the surgery theater before I go in now.
Stinks.
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Thanks Barbe, she has got the baby chubs for sure, and she's not 2/Mo's until 2/11. We noticed something about her ear that is deformed, it is shaped like a heart on the lobe, kinda hard to explain, but Amanda pointed it out, and sure enough it does, a heart on her ear and she see angels. She is here now (sleeping) and after I finished feeding her I was holding her on my lap out in front of me, oh my how she was staring at me and above my head and smiling so, and she trys to talk so much when I do that - I just know she see's something, I have actually got a little obsessed with the whole thing Googling - pretty interesting stuff about infants seeing angels and auras.
Well hope all you snow bunnies are safe, no snow here but windy, damp, cold, a nasty winter day for sunny Florida.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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Cathi, the angels and babies are on Google?? Wow
I remember the ear lobe thingy, but that's the mark of a Princess, remember....
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Hell Barbe yeah can google anything. I know I am crazy, but she see's so diffrent then my 2 girls or any other babies I have been around and there have been many. Oh well it brightens my day to elieve so so be it.
HAPPY SUPERBOWL SUNDAY.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXXO
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I can't remember if I told you about my grandmother and her pnumonia since November. The doctor last week said that he wanted the hospice nurses to come in and assist the nursing home staff take care of her in a pallative care situation. Mom and her brother met Thursday with the social worker from Hospice and she was going to get an RN 2 days a week and an assistant 2 other days a week. Well, Saturday morning the CNA at the nursing home had gotten grandma up, dressed and into her wheelchair. She left and said that she would be back with Grandma's breakfast tray. When she came back into the room several minutes later (maybe 10), grandma was slumped over in her wheelchair. They called Hospice and my mother. She and Dad went to the home and sat with Grandma. Hospice sent the nurse and the social worker again and they monitored Grandma's condition. She peacefully went to sleep about 2:30 pm. We are preparing to leave tomorrow (monday) to Ohio after dad has his doctors appointment at 9:00 am. I am going with my parents because mom can't drive yet with her broken foot. The funeral will be Thursday morning. I will be on in the morning but not any the rest of the week.
Sheila
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Oh Sheila, I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandma. I'm so glad it was peaceful for her though. It's those who are left behind who will be feeling the pain. Thinking of you and praying for your whole family. ((((((((())))))))))
Nancy, hope you are feeling not too sore and are healing well. I'm sure that when the swelling goes down you will be thrilled with how you look.
Cathi - Ella is so cute!
Nettie - how's Whisper?
Love to everyone,
Jane oxoxoxo
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Sheila, I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother. Hugs to your whole family.
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Shiela honey,
What can I say? You certainly have not had troubles to seek recently. I would be a basket case if I had so many blows in such quick succession. By the sound if it your gran's demise was swift and peaceful and that is something we all hope for. My dads passing was beautiful (I know how strange that might sound) We were all there and a priest administered the last rites. It was just the death he prayed for. So different from my brother's ... But your wee heart will be sore and there's just no getting round that, gotta go through it. Good luck and hugs and warmest best wishes to you all.
Nanci - wee Ella looks like a REAL baby. Like she's got a HUGE set of lungs. She looked like a wee fragile doll at Christmas. Beautiful but so very fragile Now she looks older than 2 months, doesn't she?? All that worry and she has emerged a wee warrior. Well done Ella.
Well done too Ezsribe for taking a stand about - of what I can only describe as abuse - of your medical care. As a teenager, I loved Robin Cook (still do) and remember the horror of malpractice in the hospial system. Fiction, but where is scope for abuse there will be abuse. i am outraged that Nancy DOESNT EVEN KNOW what she is going to be hit with. Ask yourselves, you wouldnt put a car in for repair withoutknowing how much the final bill wold be. And you have already PAID for your treatment. Your lives and deaths are too important for scams like "report writing" by an observer to be at YOUR expense. Be as outraged as I am girls - no other country would allow that to happen. Am I right Barbe?
Hi Jane! Big Whisper is clumping around with a stookie (plaster cast) Boy is he clumsy! He always was - great big clown feet. He a bit sulky and feeling sorry for himself. He definitly went into a huff for me leaving him overnight at the vet's Must learn how to post photos - he really looks funny. Vet was great, while he was under he scaled his teeth etc. And the whole thing cost less than £100. He's registered there now. A bit of travelling but WTH.
Had a great weekend, we decided on an Egyptian meal(with belly dancing) then a wee pub crawl finishing at O'Neills for live Irish music. Did the whole day without throwing uo too!! I was afraid of that as I still throwing up an awful lot. I don't think anyone would have through we had all just been fighting cancer - everyone looked insanely healthy, including me. I have looked healthy all through this apparently. At least that what the docs, nurses tell me.
It's just the most lovely Winter's day. Very cold but no wind, a blinding while sun in a clear blue sky. Just beautiful! No more snow please. Had enough for a lifetime. I can see signs of Spring all over the place, wee crocus and snowdrops beginning to push their lovely wee heads through the grass.
Have a lovely Monday chappies
With love
Annie xxxx
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Annie! You make my soul ache with the crocus's talk
. We have at least 2 more MONTHS before we start to see that kind of Spring action...sigh.
Sheila, when I read your post and you said your grandma was slumped over, I thought she had just slipped down in the chair. You gave me quite a shock when you mentioned the funeral! What a beautiful way to pass....waiting for a meal...(just how long did that helper take?) Seriously though, she didn't know it was coming and there wasn't a build up of pain and fear like both my parents had. No beside death-watch, she did it her way! God bless your family during this time, it's always tough.
Annie, it's Cathi who owns that beautiful grandaughter Ella. I'll tell you just incase Cathi is too polite to mention it.
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Thanks Barbe, the CNA was gone for about 10 minutes. The home is staffed according to regulations but does not have enough staff to stay in every room 24-7. They were getting the residents up for the day and when she left the room she said, 'Ms Coral, I have to hand out the breakfast trays, I will be back in a few minutes with your breakfast tray and feed you'. Grandma had lost strength in her left side due to a stroke a couple of months ago and they were taking good care of her. She could move some by herself in her chair but because of the oxygen she was on, couldn't leave the room. The women who was grandma's room mate in the room she was moved from a month ago told mom that she cried when they moved Ms Coral to the other hall. Mom went over to tell her that grandma wasn't doing well and she wanted to come over to that hall and see her. Ms Willemena offered the most beautiful prayer for Grandma and the family. Several people (residents and staff) made comments that when Ms Coral came in the room, her smile brightened up the room. That is what I am going to miss is her smile.
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Shelia - Hugs for Grandma and you and the entire family, be careful going to Ohio, so much snow and I hear more coming that way this week.
Hope everyone has a great Monday. Mine is a busy one, I have Dr's appointment, Amanda has a follow-up visit of her own. XOXOXOXOXOXO
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thanks Cathi, there are 2 different routes we can take eastern through Virginia and West Virginia and western through Tennessee and Kentucky (but with a 60 mile detour due to rock slide on I-40). His friend was on the Eastern route yesterday and sent a picture of I-77 single lane open due to snow. We tried to talk mom into going up the Western route but she likes going up the Eastern route, I guess we will be fighting snow all day today.
Sheila
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Sheila - I am so sorry to hear about Ms Coral, my thoughts are with you. Remember that she will be all around you - when the sun peaks thru the clouds, when the dew is glistening on the grass and flowers, when you see something that makes your heart smile and sing - that will be Ms Coral smiling. Safe journey.
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Sheila, just popping on with condolences for your Grandmother. Have a safe journey.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother, Sheila. Have a safe trip and take care.
Huge hugs!
Karen
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Sheila, condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your grandmother. Through your words, it is clear what a lovely woman she was. She was blessed to have you for a granddaughter, and blessed with a peaceful leavetaking. Despite the goodness of it all, she will be greatly missed. Even when "it is time" and all for the best, someone so well-loved is hard to release.
Warm hugs,
Judie
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Hers Landen & Ella - check out her cheeks
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SOOOOOOOOOOO SWEEEEEEEEEET !!!!!
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Babes
Have you considered Atkin for Ella??
Joking - but wow - she is the best wee HEALTHY baby. Not even an infant now. Boy oh boy she is thriving.
Cuddles - Nettie x
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Oh Nettie you make me chuckle, she goes to the DR Thursday we shall know how much she weighs then, it's all in her cheeks - so big and plump, can't help but want to squeeze them.
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Shiela,
Condolences to you and your family. Have a safe journey. HUGS.
mouse
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Sheila,
I'm sorry to hear about your grandma. Please be safe driving in that snow! It looks really bad from what I see on the news.
Cathi, Ella is such a doll! Thanks for sharing her with us.
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Hi everyone. Just wanted to pop in to say hello. Cathi, that picture of Landen and Ella is precious! I LOVE the chubby cheeks! Nettie, you're so funny! Atkins! He he he!!
I'm heading out to the new house. They're delivering our refrigerator and washer/dryer today. Our hardwood is still on backorder. Pretty soon, the flooring will be all that's left. Yippee!!
Love and hugs,
Karen
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Oh, Cathi! What a sweet set of cheeks! I'm sure there's a wonderful little sweetheart behind them.
Sheila, you must check in as soon as you can. The weather is amazing...and not in a wonderful way.
Karen, I can hardly believe it. We've endured the long, hard path with you and here it is, nearing the end. Congratulations!
Nettie, it seems that you will be seeing my wee bairn next week if all goes well. I hope there's not four feet of snow or something! He's found a traveling companion to share the experience with. I hope it all goes well. He saw "Waiting For Godot" with Sir Ian McKellen last night...front row center. He was walking on air.
All is well here. I have to come up with a dinosaur cake for my granddaughter's 17th birthday party. ??? Oh, well, it's what she wants...LOL. The party is a costume party, come as your favorite video game character. Think the kids would recognize me if I dressed as the white ball from Pong? That's about as retro as it gets!
Love to all,
Judie
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Hello classy lassies
My goodness, but it's quiet here. I hope/know that means that you are all well and busy.
Update on my wee cat. He has to have his lower hind leg amputated as the dislocation has not healed. They took the stookie off as he was dragging it. The break is now healed so he is not in any pain and he will manage fine without the 'hanging bit' - it's just annoying him. He is weight bearing, much better now that the cast is now off. Op is scheduled for March 9th. He is in great health (got through check up at the animal hospital) and they think he got himself trapped, hurt himself pulling himself free. My, what we go through for our wee pets!!!
Looks like our Devon, Judie's son is coming up next week! Judie, weather has been just beautiful this week. Bitterly cold, but no wind, snow or rain.Bright sunshine but no heat in it! Hope it stays that way for next week, but we live in unpredicable times weather wise (mind you, in Scotland we always have)
Just e-mailed the lad. Checking to see what's on in Glasgow/Edinburgh by way of theatre action ...
Hope the funeral went well Shiela. They should be celebrations. My dad always said the first three letters of funeral was FUN, and for a reason. He said it means FUN for ALL - that's the Irish for you! You know that those we love never leave us. I think sometimes that's the pain of it. Hope your mum and dad are well on the mend.
Enjoy the remainder of the weekend my dears.
Nettie xxxx
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Oh Nettie! Your poor furbaby!
I hope the surgery goes well, keep us posted.
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