Anyone Starting Chemo Jan. 2010?

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  • jrlegal
    jrlegal Member Posts: 27
    edited January 2010

    Hi. Starting chemo soon. Not looking forward to it at all. Supposed to be getting TCH. How is the first treatment?

  • friscosmom
    friscosmom Member Posts: 146
    edited January 2010

    camm2 - that all sounds very uncomfortable. :( Hope they decide to go with a port, honestly I don't even notice mine other than a bit of soreness still from the initial proceedure and that's almost completely gone.

    Glad to hear your SE's are minimal, hope that continues for you over the next couple of days.

  • friscosmom
    friscosmom Member Posts: 146
    edited January 2010

    jrlegal - I can't help you with the specifics on TCH but it looks like there is one member on the list getting that treatment, she may have posted something back earlier after her first treatment. I am doing FEC and just had my first treatment this past Thursday. It's been 3 days and I'm actually feeling pretty good today; hoping it's not the calm before the storm. :) The treatment itself wasn't so bad, it went much faster than I anticipated (although i was there for almost 4 hours) and other than 3 failed attempts to access my port it all went quite well. I didn't have any yucky feelings during treatment, I was given two different anti-nausea meds, steroids and something to calm my nerves along with my three drugs. Thursday afternoon through yesterday I slept almost constantly; part of that was likely due to the antinausea drug which causes drowsiness. I had my neulasta shot yesterday and so far no bone pain. I started taking Claritin Friday morning; not sure if I'm one of the lucky ones that doesn't get the bone pain or if the Claritin prevented it but I wasn't going to take a chance to find out the hard way how painful that can be. I asked my Onco if it was ok to take the Claritin before doing it.

    Good luck with your first treatment and I hope it goes as well as mine has so far.

  • mom2Bnegativex3
    mom2Bnegativex3 Member Posts: 221
    edited January 2010

    Anyone feeling jittery and not able t sleep? I am taking tylenol pm but still doesn't work that well. Will this week be "normal"? Will each treatment be the same or will I get worse?

  • MichelleinSJ
    MichelleinSJ Member Posts: 133
    edited January 2010

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    Good luck to all of you as you begin treatment.  It sucks, but you will get through it and eventually feel great again :)

    Michelle (who finished treatment in May and now has 3.5 inches of very curly hair)

  • Issymom
    Issymom Member Posts: 264
    edited January 2010

    Hi all- Today is day 6 and I am feeling pretty normal (yeah).  Had a very good day yesterday (first day of no nausea).  I am hoping for a relatively normal week this week so that I can I have the emotional strength to go back at it in a little more than a week.  I had the Neulasta shot 4 last Tuesday and I have not had any bone pain just a few weird twitches (don't know if they are related).

  • VegasDiva
    VegasDiva Member Posts: 109
    edited January 2010

    My hair has really started to fall out now.  It started on Thurs, a little more on Friday, a little yesterday and today bigger handfuls are coming out.  Eeessh, is it going to continue like this until I look like a cue ball?  I had to go out to the supermarket today.  I was able to muster up enough of my own hair to make some bangs and I put a hat on.

    Oh well, this too shall pass.  It's not really as traumatic as I thought it would be.  Maybe when it is all gone I'll feel differently.  It feels like when you part your hair on the opposite side and the part feels weird.  I have that sensation all over my head. 

  • nursemary66
    nursemary66 Member Posts: 16
    edited January 2010

    Had my hair cut 3/4 inch all over Friday. Saved some hunks and will try to make my own bangs!!! I discovered Miracle Fruit. Its a lttle pill (that I broke in 1/2).dissolve it on your tongut ,then those things that have tasted so weird taste sweet! Amazing. Now I have no neutrophils!!! MY onc doesnt use Neulasta. So I'm on huge antibiotics to prevent infection until my counts go back up. I guess this is a little unusual since its day13 aafter my first treatment. Have  to check CBC again Mon. Don't know what is next. The good news is that I finally feel good!!!  Maryanne

  • 11tyBillion
    11tyBillion Member Posts: 96
    edited January 2010

    Hi guys.  I have been trying not to come here several times a day, and I have been trying to stick to every other day or so.  I was surfing around a lot of the other discussion boards, and I found myself getting freaked out.

    My second treatment is Wednesday (half way through! at least with the A/C part anyway!) and we are meeting with the radiation Dr. tomorrow to find out if I am going to need radiation.  My tumor was 5mm away from the chest wall, and I guess that is considered a clear margin, but one LN was involved (and removed).  I dunno how I feel about it alll.  SInce I am TN, chemo and rads are all I have ...  so if he says that I need rads, then I will just roll with it.  But sheesh ... more time feeling like shit is not ranked highly on my list either.  I guess though, feeling like crap for a year, in order to get an additional 20 or 40 more quality years, is WELL worth putting up with feeling like crap for a while. 

    Hey mom2bnegativex3 -- yes, I had the amped up feeling in the evenings quite recently.  The thing that also really sucks is that I started taking Tylenol PM jsut to wind down to go to sleep, and every.single.freaking.morning. I am waking up at 5am.  WIDE awake at 5 am too, not even a bit drowsy.  Needless to say, I have started a nice, long, simple knitting project to occupy those early, quiet times of the morning.

    anyone else on here a knitter?  If so, and you are on Ravelry, I am on there too with the same screen name.

  • georgiabirdgirl
    georgiabirdgirl Member Posts: 143
    edited January 2010

    VegasDiva:  Thanks for the description.  I am anxious about the day when it starts coming out in clumps, but am mentally preparing for it.  I'm planning on shaving it once I see that it's starting to fall out.

    Today is day 3 from my first AC treatment and so far the meds are all helping.  I haven't had any bone pain from my neulasta shot, yet.  THANK GOODNESS!  I have been really tired and have had intermittent stomach upset, but nothing intolerable.  I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop tomorrow because I'm out of the Emend.  Aside from feeling a jittery head after the initial treatment, the steroids don't seem to be causing me any trouble.  I've been drinking a lot of water and herbal tea and eating small meals when I am feeling OK.  So far that seems to be helping. Since everyone says (indcluding docs and nurses) that day 4 through 7 can be the worst I'm just waiting to see what happens next.Undecided

    MichellinSJ- I registered with the cleaningforareason group, but they said they were experiencing a higher than normal activity and it would be 4 weeks until I heard anything.  I may try again later.  It would be such a huge help to my husband who is picking up all of the slack now that I'm spending more time in bed.

    I am going to go to a "Look Good Feel Better" class in a couple of weeks to help with the hair loss and I'm really hoping that it is a good class.  Also, my cancer center has a lot of support services (yoga, accupuncture, massage, therapy, nutrition, etc.)  Now that I'm in treatment, I may check some of those out. 

    Take care everyone!

  • VegasDiva
    VegasDiva Member Posts: 109
    edited January 2010

    georgiabirdgirl- I felt a little bit of bone pain the 2 days following the Neulasta shot.  I took 2 Advil and felt fine, it went away.

    nursemary66- did you ask your onc why they don't give the Neulasta prophylactically?  My numbers were pretty good a week after treatment.  It doesn't seem good to be on huge does of antibiotics.  Do you think it is cost?  I looked at my insurance statement and one Neulasta shot was almost $7,000.  gulp.  I wonder how much of that I am going to be responsible for. Cry

  • stlcardsfan
    stlcardsfan Member Posts: 466
    edited January 2010

    JRLEGAL - I had my first TCH treatment on 1/13, via my Port. With all the stuff they gave me before hand, didn't have any problems with the first one. They gave me was something to calm my stomach, liquid benedryl, an anti anxiety medicine, two extra strength Tylenol, and some other pill.

    They started with the H, and that took about 1 1/2, then was the T - make sure to ask for ice packs for your fingers and toes. May want to suck on ice chips too. Last was the C. Overall, first treatment was about 5 hours - the place that I am going to also had a new Chemo patient orientation. Of course, it was my turn to go after I had gotten the benedryl. Started to fall asleep mid-way thru - good thing hubby was there to listen.

    First night wasn't to bad, was able to sleep.

    Second day, gave myself the Neulasta shot. Wasn't too bad, as I injected it very slowly like I was told to. My nurse said no to the Claritin, I also have a heart issue (lucky me). Third day, started to get alittle achy, not to bad, kinda of like a very mild case of the flu. About midway thru day 3, got really tired while running errands, so hubby got me and home and after laying for about 2 hours, felt a little better. Today is day four, no new se's. Still haven't been able to sleep all night, for some reason keep waking up around 3am every morning. But after a quick sip of water, am able to fall back asleep for a few more hours. Have been trying to keep myself moving, as that seems to help with the aches.

    Scalp has been sore for a two days now, and my hair isn't as shiny. But, I have my wig ready to go! One of the things that I have been reading on numerous other threads is to make sure to drink enough liquids. So far, have been able to do that, but I really miss my diet soda.

    There is also another Thread for people on TCH that might provide more insight as well. I am bouncing between that one and this one and getting good tips.

    Hope this helps - but as numerous people have mentioned - we all react differently. 

    Keep us posted on how #1 goes 

  • pagowens
    pagowens Member Posts: 194
    edited January 2010

    Hi all,

    Haven't been able to post for the past week - my father-in-law has been in hospice at home and took a very bad turn early in the week.  He passed away yesterday and it was very sad.  My husband and I, his other son and granddaughter and wife were all there to be with him for the duration.  We're working his viewing and the burial around my dorctor visits and chemo so there is no further postponements for me as had happened this month.  Such an experince certainly puts life into perspecitve.  I am sure that whatever is thrown at me this week and for the next 8 months will be nothing compared to his pain and suffering.  He was a career marine and truly my hero.

     I did get my port over a week ago - not a biggie, doc and staff were wonderful - no pain and was knocked out - yea!  Just wierd having a hard lump under your chest and although my bra straps aren't a problem, the car's seat belt rubs right on it when I drive - so, I've put an extra soft furry wrap on it and it helps.

    You are all amazing women - God bless!

    Pat

  • KAJDerby
    KAJDerby Member Posts: 310
    edited January 2010

    pagowens-I am so sorry to hear about your fil.  Hang in there.

    Today I had my heart test and then met with my doctor.  He did some research and the hospital he works for just started using Emend!  I was so excited that I almost hugged him!  Would have made him very uncomfortable.  I was telling my sister the other day that I tell him something I have read about and even though it might be new, by the next week he has researched it to see if it is available here.  A big blessing to me. 

    Has anyone had the emend for ac and is far enough along to know if it helps on day 4-7?  The packaging only allows for 1 tab or injection first day and then a pill for the next two days.

    vegasdiva - my doctor does not give the shot prophylactically due to some of the severe se he has seen.

  • pagowens
    pagowens Member Posts: 194
    edited January 2010

    Hi Grace,

    Thanks so much for the kind words.  I have to pick up the Emend from the CVS store today - I was told by the nurse that they will give me emend when I come for chemo Wed and then there are pills I have to take for several days for it to continue working.  In a week, I'll be able to answer your question.

    As for the "drinking water" a good friend of mine whose husband has been battling cancer for more than 15 years and who has been thru all kinds of chemo tells me the most important thing I can do is stay hydrated.  She recommended that I assign someone who wants to help as my "hydration buddy" who will check that I am drinking enough every day.  She also recommended that I get Gatorade Rain: No Excuses bottles in stock because the water is not enough, you need the electolytes or you experience headaches and feel woosy and can get nauseous.  Her husband can't keep down the regular Gatorade but the Rain works great.  So, I stocked up on that.  I'll try it out and see if it helps this coming week.

    Ciao!

    Pat

  • bbd
    bbd Member Posts: 53
    edited January 2010

    Pat-

    My condolences on the loss of your father-in-law. It doesn't seem fair that you need to endure so much pain at one time. My thoughts are with you and your husband.

    Barbara

  • KAJDerby
    KAJDerby Member Posts: 310
    edited January 2010

    Hey Pat - I start on Wednesday also, but I am probably at least 14 hours ahead of you.  I will let you know how the emend works for me!  Thank you for the gatorade rain idea.  I am going to try water with a mint in my mouth first.  Gatorade has never been a favorite of mine.  Plus they don't sell the "rain" here.  Will be thinking of you as you prepare for your FIL's viewing and funeral.

  • mom2Bnegativex3
    mom2Bnegativex3 Member Posts: 221
    edited January 2010

    Pat (()) your one strong women. Thinking of you through this tough time.

  • leta17
    leta17 Member Posts: 120
    edited January 2010

    It was great to hear from the Jan 09 ladies!

    Pat - sorry to hear of your loss, there is never a good time to loose a loved one.

    I had my port put in today and I only have a little tenderness and she said I may do my usual exercises, which is mostly cardio and stretching, never into weights which would be a no no.  Also, there are different size ports and a smaller one was inserted.  I was freaking out that I would have this huge thing sticking out, but it is only a slight bump.  I love my surgeon, she has really taken good care of me!!

    Thursday, I begin the TC x6...

    Ladies, you are amazing, stay strong!

    Leta

  • jaebee
    jaebee Member Posts: 3
    edited January 2010

    Hello Everyone,

    I was a little hesitant to join the group or to even post anything, but I feel I need to to help myself.  I start chemo on the 22nd.  I have 6 cyles to complete.

  • cammy2
    cammy2 Member Posts: 42
    edited January 2010

    I am now on Day 4 after first AC and doing well.  Only very slight nausea and mild headache.  VERY do-able.  Hope everyone else is cruising too. 

    Grace- I had emend for day 2 and 3 - now on 4 and seem ok. 

    Pat - sorry about your FIL- please take good care of yourself as you deal with the loss on top of everything else.  On Sat. my MIL just had a stroke and was put in a facility... it does add to the stress, but at least i know she is in good hands.  Just one more thing for my poor DH.  He is pretty maxed.

  • bikerchick1
    bikerchick1 Member Posts: 10
    edited January 2010

    Hi January Girls,

    Started my first round of A/C last Friday and so far so good.  Stayed on all the anti nausea meds and haven't felt too bad.  The fatigue hit today though and I've been sleeping off and on.  Am drinking water like crazy and swishing with biotene to keep the mouth sores at bay.  I get my port put in tomorrow - unfortunately they couldn't get me in before my first cycle. So we'll see how that goes.  It's all so surreal to sit around waiting for S/E's that might or might not happen.  Now just waiting for the hair to fall out - really not looking forward to that as mine is long and thick.  I think I'll be shaving it this weekend.

    Good luck to all you ladies!  Be Strong!

    Bikerchick

  • gramoflexus
    gramoflexus Member Posts: 52
    edited January 2010

    Hi everyone ,  Here Iam going for my 2nd chemo treatment  ac/c  Tomorrow and Sunday and today (monday are by far my worse days . I was kknocking on wood becasue other than a few low days I felt good . Not sure what is going on right now emotiionally I'm a wreck . Slight ache in by back . Just not myself . I'm thinking it might be because my WBC might be down . No fever . Looking forward as strange as that may seem for Chemo tomorrow . I feel a little at ease knowing that it is killing any bad cells .

    Wondering if anyone else experienced this low right before 2nd treatment

  • paxton
    paxton Member Posts: 577
    edited January 2010

    Hi Jaebee...welcome.  What kind of chemo r u having?  You came to the right place for support.  We all need it.

    I'm in my hotel room at the Mayo Clinic.  We just finished meeting with the Dr.  Its all so scary.  He recommends staying on the Abraxane chemo for now to see how the tumor responds as well as to see how the spot on my liver responds (we don't know if its cancer).  If the liver thing changes during the chemo, then its cancer and I get a death sentence. 

    But for now I'm relaxing in the room, getting ready to order supper and then later hit the hot tub.  We're looking through the take out menu now and wild catepillar rolls are on the menu.  Think I'll pass.

  • mom2Bnegativex3
    mom2Bnegativex3 Member Posts: 221
    edited January 2010

    Bikerchick, glad you feel good. It stinks not knowing what is going to happen next. Just waiting is the worse.

    gramo, I am just a week  out so I don't know! I am just glad one is down and only 3 more A/C's to go. Glad it isn't that bad for you though! Great job!

    Cammy, were almost the same. I am a week out and not so bad! Glad is good for you too.

    I am so much better today. my WBC is down but they said it would go up with the shot. I jsut don't want to get sick. I havent' even thought of the losing the hair thing. I just concentrating on getting through this strong for my family. I went in for my lab work today and I was almost the youngest in there. Right then I stopped feeling down and like I can't do this because there are older people out there that are doing jsut fine. I have to do this for my girls and my husband and I won't let it get me down. Thanks again to all of you wonderful ladies!!

  • youngmomof3
    youngmomof3 Member Posts: 156
    edited January 2010

    Hi ladies,

    Pat, so sorry to hear about your FIL. Hang in there.

    Leta, I am also from NJ. and start chemo on Thurs. where are you going for treatment? I am going to Cooper. you can PM me if you want. 

    stcardsfan, glad to hear your first round went pretty good and you sound like you are in a good place emotionally which is probably more than half the battle. I will also be doing TCH starting Thursday so your update helped me feel a little more prepared.

    I received some great news today. My surgeon called to say that all 4 lymph nodes she removed last week came back with no signs of cancer in any of them:) That was a huge sigh of relief and just the news I needed before I start my first round of chemo on Thursday. I am still feeling discomfort from the port & sentinal node biopsy and will be going back to work tomorrow after several days off to recuperate. It was a rough week though b/c I didn't feel good physically and emotionally I have been all over the charts. My thoughts go to the negative(ex. what SE's will I have) and then I have to stop those thoughts in their tracks and convince myself to not think negative and just try to have positive thoughts. I exhaust myself sometimes. And my poor husband is just trying to keep up my emotional highs & lows.

    Have a dumb question:  During chemo are we not supposed to drink any caffeine or alcohol? I know caffeine dehydrates and that we need to drink alot of water, etc so does this mean I have to cut out my daily coffee fix or can I just drink extra fluids? and what about alcohol? a glass of wine sure would make all of this a little easier:) I wasn't sure what I am supposed to do...cut this stuff out for the entire duration of chemo(18 weeks) or just during chemo treatment weeks? Feel free to give me some input.

    Thx,

  • paddlegirl
    paddlegirl Member Posts: 18
    edited January 2010

    Hi, I would like to join the January group. Have read many posts the last few days and I really feel it will be a great support to "talk" to others going through the same thing. I start my chemo (TCx6 then radiation) on January 22nd. Had a right mastectomy Christmas eve. I get my port placed tomorrow and will have my mastectomy site drained for the 4th time because it keeps swelling up with fluid, surgeon may have to put the drain back in. Not worried about the port, but terrified of the chemo, mostly because I don't know what se's I'll experience. I've got a full week off work after the first treatment.

    Anyone else doing TC or had problems with fluid at their mastectomy sites?

  • Issymom
    Issymom Member Posts: 264
    edited January 2010

    Youngmomof3 - I was told that caffeine is a diruetic and so I should switch caffeine free.  I didn't but tried to cut out as much as possible and just drank LOTS of water.  As for alcohol, my onc did not mention it one way or the other, however, I know lots of people were told NO to alcohol.  I think the key is that the chemo goes through the liver and thus you want to be nice to your liver.  I love a glass of wine with dinner and thought I would really miss it, however, the chemo is messing with my taste buds and the wine tastes like it went bad.  Makes it easy to abstain.

    Paddlegirl - I have continued to have draining from my Mastectomy site (Dec 4th).  I was doing well but got an infection on Jan 2nd and after having a 170cc drained from my right breast twice in a week, they put a drain back in.  This one is on the lower edge of my breast (in front vs. coming out of my side).  It is amazing how your perspective changes.  I loved getting my drain put back in (I hated them after surgery).  It was much better than blowing up like a water balloon.  I still have it in as my doc said to keep it in until I stopped "draining".  I am almost done but still had 20cc yesterday.  I feel good otherwise and can sleep well so it doesn't bother me.  I am doing AC/T so can't answer your chemo questions.  All I can say is that once you get the first chemo tx done you will know how you react to chemo and it won't be so scary

  • KAJDerby
    KAJDerby Member Posts: 310
    edited January 2010

    Welcome all you new ladies.  This really has been a good place to come.  I start my AC in the morning tomorrow. 

    Paxton, I have a spot in my lung and two near my collar bone.  They are doing the same thing.  Treating with chemo and just watching to see how these spots react.  This is just my first go though.  Isn't this your second?  Wish I were in Minnesota with you!  Would love to see my family.  I had a tumor several years ago removed at Mayo and they did a great job.  Praying the spots are nothing to worry about.

    Paddlegirl - I had my mastectomy on Dec 11 and this was the first week he didn't have to drain it.  Last week when he put the port in he got 70 cc so not bad at all.  Some ladies feel the needle.  I haven't.  This last time I did get an odd sensation as he was pulling on the syringe.  Hope it gets better for you.

    Youngmomof3 - so happy for your good news.

    gramoflex - maybe the problem is that your physical state is affecting your mental state.  Hope it gets better soon.  Thank you for sharing what you are going through.  Wish I could help in some way.

  • VegasDiva
    VegasDiva Member Posts: 109
    edited January 2010

    pagowens : so sorry for your loss.  You are in my prayers.

    youngmomof3:  I started my chemo on New Year's Eve and I specifically asked my onc about having some wine with dinner.  She told me 1 or 2 glasses would be fine, but no more than that.  I had one glass and felt fine.  They also offered me coffee or tea when I went for my treatment so I guess caffeine is not forbidden.  I just have one cup of coffee every morning.

    Yesterday I decided to cut my hair off at my chin.  I gave myself a Dutch Boy cut.  I would say about 40% of my hair has fallen out.  Today is the first day I had to wear my wig to work.  I feel really self conscious. Of course all my co-workers are telling me how great my wig looks and that if I didn't tell them I would be wearing one that they would just think I colored it and got it cut over the weekend.

    I'm happy to report that I have been feeling really great.  Yesterday I had off for MLK day.  I cleaned my entire house and made a big pot of matzoh ball soup and a pot roast in my slow cooker.  Now I don't have to cook for the rest of the week!  I have my 2nd treatment this Thurs the 21st.  Hope the second one goes as well as the first.

    Hope all my January Sista's have an easy week!

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