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  • Cyl52-2005Feb28
    Cyl52-2005Feb28 Member Posts: 1
    edited July 2005
    I was 49 when I was diagnosed with cancer in Oct. 2001. My birthday was the following month. My treatments ended in May 2002. I had invasive ductal carcinoma in my left breast. I am doing well though I do have lymphedema on my left side which has been a real problem.
  • susanlynn9
    susanlynn9 Member Posts: 3
    edited July 2005

    I'm 40 and still pretty new to the journey. Start AC/T chemo on Monday (8/1) and then Tamoxifen for 5 years.

  • JoannePR
    JoannePR Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2005
    ....one week before my 50th birthday....had the party anyway!


    HERO
  • KathyBee
    KathyBee Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2005
    Dx'ed October 27, 2004 IDC, DCIS, Right breast,some microcalicfications, 9 of 14 nodes positive, no vascular involvement, I said left breast in another post, must be losing my sense of direction. MRM Jan.21, 2005, due to problems with original surgeon relocating. Drains stayed for 5 weeks, so didn't start chemo until March 16th 4 dose dense A/C, now on Taxol weekly, finished 7th yesterday. Rads to follow. Hope to be finished by Thanksgiving. Was 61 at Dx turned 62 in May and hope to turn 82 and still be computing! The older ladies who don't have one of these things don't know what they're missing!

    Kathy
  • saraelizabeth
    saraelizabeth Member Posts: 1
    edited July 2005
    Diagnosed when I was 30 . . . was in having a core biopsy the day before my 31st b-day. Strange - never thought I'd be doing that in my life especially not before I figured out what life was all about!
    Had a mastectomy, followed by A/C and Taxol/Herceptin, rads, and am now taking Tamoxifen. At first it was like a slap in the face that almost made me feel like I suddenly had a clearer purpose. Now, almost 1 year later I am really struggling. I expect to feel back to 100% after being out of chemo and rads now, but can barely manage the 8 hours at work and then I am DONE. My relationships are suffering, I worry if I will ever feel the same passion and eagerness to do things that I once did. I feel let down by my boyfriend and some of my friends, b/c they are always out and about and I feel completely out of the loop. Sometimes I think I am lucky to be young and healthy. Other times I look at it like there are just that many years for it to come back in some form.

    I don't feel any closer to knowing what the purpose/meaning of life is . . .
  • Tawyna-2005Mar17
    Tawyna-2005Mar17 Member Posts: 88
    edited July 2005

    Javalena, my mom was diagnosed a yr ago. she still gets tired easy. it will get better. me and mom felt let down by some of our family. the day will come when you feel back in the loop again.

  • KarenNO
    KarenNO Member Posts: 1
    edited July 2005
  • Calico
    Calico Member Posts: 1,108
    edited July 2005

    41 years old, dx o6/15/05 with DCIS, no clear margins yet and several areas of microcalcifications in breast that need to be investigated, probably going for mast out of fear.

  • juniquilt
    juniquilt Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2005
    Hi Javelena, I can understand how you feel even though I'm almost twice your age, and I'm sorry you have to deal with this at 31. Just remember that because of your young age, not only are you healthy & strong, but you will benefit from new treatments as they come along.
    It was a year 7/16 since my dx and I still feel tired some days, but other days I have plenty of energy. What helps me is to try and do something fun (for me) every day. Good luck on your journey and come here when you need to "talk". Nobody understands better than us.
    Hugs,
    Juni
  • EastsideFan
    EastsideFan Member Posts: 6
    edited July 2005
    Hi Tawyna - Sorry I sort of disappeared and didn't see your question.

    At 22, I did a lumpectomy and radiation, and my chemo was CMFVP, which I understand they don't do too often any more (cytozan, methotrexate, 5-FU, vincristine and prednisone). The vincristine has some side effects they don't like, and my onc thinks the overall effectiveness of that regimen wasn't that good. I told her it gave me 15 years, so I couldn't complain. It was a 6 month regimen, cytoxan daily by mouth, the others by IV once a week (vincristine and prednisone only for the first couple of months or so, don't remember exactly). This time I'm doing AC, just started a week ago, 4 treatments, 3 weeks apart. The nausea drugs this time around so awesome, they didn't have them last time.

    Oh, for what it's worth, my onc doesn't consider the current cancer to be a recurrence, she says they are both new cancers, even though they are on the same side. Mastectomy this time, no radiation.

    And I'm doing good, tired but good, thanks!

    SharonA
  • Tawyna-2005Mar17
    Tawyna-2005Mar17 Member Posts: 88
    edited July 2005

    SharonA, you are definetly a survivor...

  • JulieW
    JulieW Member Posts: 1
    edited August 2005
    My fiancé found my lump back in Nov./Dec. 2004, but I blew it off thinking, "Women my age don't get breast cancer! Probably a cyst, and they'll catch it at my annual next July."

    Nyuck nyuck nyuck. I was 28 when he first found it, but he found it again on May 23rd. May 24th, I saw my ob/gyn and she recommended I have an ultrasound and a needle biopsy.

    On May 25th, my 29th birthday, I spent the day at the hospital getting said ultrasound and biopsy, and June 1st, I was told it was "cancerous."
  • Monika2005
    Monika2005 Member Posts: 3
    edited August 2005
    I am 33 yrs old. I found lump myself even though I had just had my annual PAP & breast exam at the doctor's office 2 mos prior. Just diagnosed May '05. Had both, stage II invasive IDC & ILC with positive nodes, also BRCA2 positive. Just underwent bilateral mast on July 27th. I get my port installed next wk and then will be starting 6 mos of chemo...

    Take care,
    Monika
  • stitcher
    stitcher Member Posts: 4
    edited August 2005
    Haven't read all the posts, but I must be the old broad here! Diagnosed on routine mammo in May age 67; lumpectomy end of June. ILC, tumor 1.5cm, nodes negative, ER/Pr +, HER-, will have second AC next week, then 6 weeks of radiation, then drugs for five years (not sure which one). My oncologist talks in terms of 15 year survival--that's a hoot! I had a hip done the second time last summer, the other one done in February, and just feeling normal again when this came up. Oh, well.

    Liz
  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Member Posts: 7,209
    edited August 2005
    I was 46 on June 13, 2005 when I was diagnosed. Found the lump mystelf after a month where my right breast had pain.

    Invasive Ductal, stage IIa, clean nodes, partial masectomy done, start chemo in September, then 35 rads.

    Chemo will be 4-dose dense A/C. They are dropping the Taxol due to neuropothy. Long term will be aromotexe inhibitors, a word I clearly need to learn to spell!
  • Jarnecic
    Jarnecic Member Posts: 1
    edited August 2005

    44. DCIS found on routine mammogram March 05. Biopsy April 05 showed cancerous. Stage 0, not invasive, but high grade. Sentinel node negative. Lumpectomy June 05, plus re-excision July 05. Fighting a nasty infection after the 2nd surgery. Waiting to heal to start radiation. Seeing all the young ages doesn't make me feel so alone.

  • nana2thegrls
    nana2thegrls Member Posts: 33
    edited August 2005

    I was 2 days short of being 52 years old...diagnosed 11/17/03.. I had the lump for a couple years before I went.... My Mom died of breast cancer in 1992... I know I know!!!Just didnt want to deal with it I guess...Had bi-lateral in Jan 2004...4 A/C and now on tomaxifin..

  • motherof4dx42105
    motherof4dx42105 Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2005
  • mspooter
    mspooter Member Posts: 11
    edited August 2005

    hi joyceanne, just found out i had infiltrating ductal carcinoma in july at age 49. first tx 8/30. looking forward to getting it started and over with.

  • Silkyboots
    Silkyboots Member Posts: 4
    edited August 2005
    I was 38 when I got my DX,grade 3 Metastatic breast cancer,HER2 ++,Mastectomy followed by(fec) chemo,new tumour on mast site,taxoter & Cisplatin,tumour carried on growing,now on Herceptin once a week and 2 weeks into 7 weeks of Rads...

    Still smiling !

    Love and hugs Sue
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • LindaC
    LindaC Member Posts: 6
    edited August 2005

    I am 31. Just dx on 8/10. I live in Northeast PA-I think it's something in the water here. Everybody has cancer here. I think it's time to head outta Dodge.

  • Pegk
    Pegk Member Posts: 389
    edited August 2005
    I am 53 and I've always been very healthy until ...this. I'd never had surgery until my mastectomy and reconstruction in July. I haven't even experienced menopause, yet. I guess that's going to change. Chemo starts in a couple of weeks.
    Peggy
  • Yorkie
    Yorkie Member Posts: 5
    edited August 2005
    I am going through treatment now--I'm 54. I had DCIS in the other breast in 1998, and have been faithful about yearly mammograms ever since. It's actually a blessing that this wasn't discovered last year--we were hosting and doing the paperwork to adopt our now-16-year-old Russian daughter. Had this been seen last summer, either I'd have been too busy with treatment or the authorities would never have let us adopt. I'm just thankful it didn't get any further.

    Linda
  • Lynne
    Lynne Member Posts: 641
    edited August 2005
    I am 43 and the lump was found on a routine mammogram in April. Had core needle biopsy May, and lumpectomy and sential node biopsy in June (IDC, 1.5cm, clear margine,1 node negative,ER and PR positve). I then decided to take the Oncotype Dx gentic test and that came back with a score of 12 (8% chance of recurrence). Opted out of chemo and am now in radiation (7 down 26 treatments to go).

    Good luck to all of you!

    Lynne
  • lynn717
    lynn717 Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2005
    49 when diagnosed 10/04
    mastectomy 4 A/C nodes neg so no rads
  • SoapMaker
    SoapMaker Member Posts: 157
    edited August 2005
    I was diagnosed in August, 2002, at the age of 51.

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  • auntmooshka
    auntmooshka Member Posts: 3
    edited August 2005

    I was 34 when I was diagnosed on May 24, 2004.

  • jhallinan
    jhallinan Member Posts: 36
    edited August 2005
    What I find really strange about our replies is how often the diagnosis came right around a birthday. I was diagnosed three days before my 44rd birthday and had dinner with a friend who traveled with me at a restaurant outside of the Mayo Clinic. It will make my one year anniversary this year especially poignant as it points directly towards a new year with my birthday.

    JoyousATL
  • TeaLoverDenise
    TeaLoverDenise Member Posts: 37
    edited August 2005

    50 years old, 4 weeks shy of my 51st birthday.

  • shorfi
    shorfi Member Posts: 791
    edited August 2005

    49 years old, 21 days before turning 50 years old. What is up with that?

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