sit with me...waiting for a biopsy report

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maryannecb
maryannecb Member Posts: 1,453
edited June 2014 in Stage III Breast Cancer

Hi sisters...need a little hand holding...LOL.

 I had core biopsies yeterday of my "good"breast after having some changes on my annual mammo followed by MRI.

I have been calmly reassuring myself that all will be ok...but am getting spooked about the whaol Deja vu experience of yesterday. I know all the right answers to all my fears but am still on edge...

 I hate breast cancer...it sucks!

Talk me down...a t least wait it out with me...

Mary-Anne

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  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited December 2009

    Mary, I am here everything is going to be fine, I had a scare not to long ago with my good breast. It was just a few cysts, the doctor removed them during my reconstruction so we would have it pop back up again later. I will be praying for you.  Laughing

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  • jenn3
    jenn3 Member Posts: 3,316
    edited December 2009

    I'm holding your hands................. and waiting with you.

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  • nelia48
    nelia48 Member Posts: 539
    edited December 2009

    Holding hands here, too!!!!!  I go tomorrow for my first mammo on my good breast since all this started.  NOT looking forward to that!

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  • caaclark
    caaclark Member Posts: 936
    edited December 2009

     Maryanne,

    I am here too.  I also have had a few scared in the "good" breast.  All my scares ended up ok.  We all freak out over this crap!  I hate it too.  Before my last scare I was actually planning how to tell people in my family and even looked at my calendar to see when I would have to have surgery in relation to the holidays.  Of course, it turned out that none of my worrying was needed.

    It never leaves us, does it?  Hoping that all is well.  Make sure you let us know as soon as you can.

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  • maryannecb
    maryannecb Member Posts: 1,453
    edited December 2009

    Hope you do Ok tomorrow Nelia.

    Good to hear the good scare stories, Carol and Diana.

    I am sure the docs are extra-twitchy with any changes once we have had BC...hope thats all anyway.

    Path reports here can take 2- 3 weeks so it may be a long sit....lol.

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  • Bugs
    Bugs Member Posts: 1,719
    edited December 2009

    Having a seat with you Mary-Anne.  We are here, always.  You know they are being extra careful..and that's a good thing.

    Hugs!!

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  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 1,203
    edited December 2009

    Hey Fighter girl. right with you. I had scare with my " good " breast way back too.

    Take a deep breath and don't go there. Also, what's up with 2 week path reports, it doesn't  take that long for a pathologist to analyze a specimen.( Her testing does take abit longer) Push for a faster response from your doc.

    Blessing and prayers!

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  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited December 2009

    Mary,my doctor said that they will check for any and all changes in the breast after bc dx, even if it looks like nothing they will check for something. I know how you feel, waiting just sucks. I think mine was 5 days but it seemed like an eternity. I was like you looking at the calender, timing out the bc process. By the time I got the call I was so angry, just mad that cancer was running my life once again I guess. Now I have an unbumpy good boob, I hope all of my scares are behind me now. I am sure that the doctor is just being extra careful, and just wants to make sure everything is OK.

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  • NancyD
    NancyD Member Posts: 3,562
    edited December 2009

    Aw, Mary-Anne, I hate to think you'll have to go through this again. But we're here for you, holding your hand and wishing/hoping it's not anything to worry about.

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  • SpunkyGirl
    SpunkyGirl Member Posts: 1,568
    edited December 2009

    Right here with you, Mary-Anne!  We'll hope they are just being overly scrutinous!

    Hugs

    Bobbie

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  • YATCOMW
    YATCOMW Member Posts: 664
    edited December 2009

    (((((((HUGS))))))))

    god i hate the waiting......my husband is always so great about getting results quicker.....hoping you can find a way too so you don't have to be stressed so long.....

    I've got you on my prayer list for as long as it takes.

    Jacqueline

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  • Gitane
    Gitane Member Posts: 1,885
    edited December 2009

    Oh, Mary-Anne, Keep the boxing gloves on.  We're all here waiting, too.  We know too much; that makes the waiting harder.  I agree with others, they're being very, very careful with you now, and that's a good thing.  Let us know, we're here.... HUGS!

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  • KerryMac
    KerryMac Member Posts: 3,529
    edited December 2009

    Mary-Anne - wishing you well. I think they really are just overcautious now we have a "history". But, any way you look at it, going through this is no fun.

    I'll pull up a chair in the waiting room too. We are all here for you.

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  • everyminute
    everyminute Member Posts: 1,805
    edited December 2009

    Im here too - holding tight.  Stuipid cancer.

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  • gogo_xago
    gogo_xago Member Posts: 131
    edited December 2009

    I'm here too. It's not me that I have bc, but my mom, but I feel one of you. I feel all your concerns, I share your thoughts and anxiety and I'm trying to help my mother through you. Mary-Anne, we are stronger than cancer is!!!

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  • Pure
    Pure Member Posts: 1,796
    edited December 2009

    Thoughts and prayers are with you tommorow. We have either been there or one day will be there.

    GoGo is right -your bigger then cancer. You can do this no matter what the results.

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  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited December 2009

    Maryann, love your name.....It was my sister's name who recently passed from emphysema......I too will wait for a bit with you...I had a scare last January too with another lump in my reconstructed breast.......I had another 1/2 cm lump that I could actually feel biopsied....I was petrified when I went in for my core biopsy yet again....Fortunately it came back b9......I will pray fo rb9 results for you too.......

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  • lexi4
    lexi4 Member Posts: 1,074
    edited December 2009

    Hey MaryAnne,

    Waiting to let out a big sigh of relief with you. Praying for b-999999!!!

    Hugs and Prayers,

    Lexi

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  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited December 2009

    Look at how crowded this waiting room is getting, OK lets all squeeze together. Look how much you are loved Maryann Laughing, I keep thinking of Horton hears a who, we are here, we are here,we are here, we are here,we are here, we are here,we are here, we are here, we are here, we are here.

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  • JacquelineG
    JacquelineG Member Posts: 282
    edited December 2009

    I'm praying for you too!

    Jackie

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  • lovemyfamilysomuch
    lovemyfamilysomuch Member Posts: 1,585
    edited December 2009

    Maryann, Sitting with you sister.  Cancer sucks!!! In sisterhood, xo

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  • maryannecb
    maryannecb Member Posts: 1,453
    edited December 2009

    I am back and the best news is with me....BENIGN>>>>she yells as she flies thru the air!

    Thanks for your kind words, couldn't worry out loud. Your support helped...hope I don't need it for a looooooooooong time. You are the best!Smile

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  • jenn3
    jenn3 Member Posts: 3,316
    edited December 2009

    Wondeful news........... I'm jumping with you !!!!!!

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  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited December 2009

    Woo Hoo, I would jump but the room is to full ;)

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  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 1,203
    edited December 2009

    I am so Happy for you Maryanne!!!!

    Enjoy, I am toasting you as I write  this!

    Such Great News!!!

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  • Let-It-Be
    Let-It-Be Member Posts: 325
    edited December 2009

    Wow, I was just about to join in the waiting room, but then read your great news.  Woo hoo!

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  • KerryMac
    KerryMac Member Posts: 3,529
    edited December 2009

    Mary Anne - Best. News. Ever!! I'm delighted for you!! WhooHoo!!

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  • Pure
    Pure Member Posts: 1,796
    edited December 2009

    Yippeeeeee..... So happy for you and that the wait is over!

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  • NancyD
    NancyD Member Posts: 3,562
    edited December 2009

    Whew!  Terrifc news, Mary Anne!  Keep those fists up!

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  • JacquelineG
    JacquelineG Member Posts: 282
    edited December 2009

    Toasting you in Atlanta - woo hoo!

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