Anyone from Montreal, Qc?

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  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

    Yo: I'm so happy that everything turned out well in the end. Sorry to hear about the hematoma but you're at home now and hopefully resting. I guess you can't really explain how having 2 breasts removed is not that painful to someone who hasn't gone through it and I'm glad you're OK with your decision. My BMX was virtually painless as well and I only took Advil for a couple of days. I hope your drains come out on Tuesday. You need to calculate daily how much fluid is coming out of each drain. If I remember correctly, it had to be under 10 cc's for each drain. I had to keep mine an extra week but it's better than removing them too early and then having to go under again to put them back in if there's a problem. I know how hard the waiting is and I hope that everything comes back clear so you can move on. Rest  and let your family take care of you. You don't want to do too much in the beginning and not too many arm movements, especially over your head.

    Terri

  • kerkle
    kerkle Member Posts: 147
    edited November 2009

    Hi everyone, I am from Montreal too. I see Dr. Fleiszer at the RVH, he was my surgeon and he was incredible. I love the Cedars Breast Clinic, they do not let you leave without knowing what is going on right away. I spent 3 hrs there first with my mammogram (showed "something"), then an other mammogram, an ultrasound, a biopsy and seeing the Dr. all in the same afternoon. Overwhelming but I couldn't imagine it any other way. I had a BMX in May and my Plastic Surgeon is Dr. Schwarz at The Montreal General (RVH too) and he is amazing as well. He studied in the U.S, his techniques are the standard of care from there and he is teaching it to the Dr's at the RVH and at the General. I just finished radiation with tissue expanders in (I am one of the few they see at the General) and all went really well. I am scheduled for my exchange surgery in the Spring sometime. My Oncolgist is at the Jewish (Panaschi), he is a brilliant man, however; I did also see the onc at the RV (Mihalciou) and they were in exact agreement with one another. And actually, Panasci liked so much what my Radiotherapist said at the Montreal General (RV also) that he said, "whatever she said, do". Her name is Dr. Lambert and she is one of the best in the city (Panasci said so!) . If anyone has any questions, feel free to contact me. I am strongly connected with the Jewish General Hospital and know Margolese and Sigman very well and I have been operated (14 yrs ago) with Dianisopoulis. I consulted with Margolese for my case now and I had a consult with Dr. D as a PS for breast reconstruction but I chose the route of the RVH/MGH instead. Good luck to everybody! We are lucky to have such great Drs here for BC and amazing hospitals with new facilities. Both (all 3) hospitals have renovated Oncology centers, you would never guess you were in Quebec!! 

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hello everyone,

    Yo,  I am so happy to hear that you are home from the hospital .  So sorry about your complications but now that you are home eveything will be so much better.  I am still in limbo waiting for pathology from my lumpectomy.  Just as you say I am taking it moment by moment .  Reading about everyone's experience with BMX is really helping me accept the possibility of having this surgery.   I am also horrified at what this will  look like and can't even believe that this is happening.   I would also love to meet you  and I am often at  the Jewish so I will let you know when my next appointment will be and if you do not have an appointment between tomorrow and Dec.17th then I can probably meet you on the 17th of December ...

    Terri maybe you can meet up with us also ??

     I will keep you posted.  

    Take care of youself!

    Sylvia

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

     Kerkle: I've heard great things about Cedar's Breast Clinic. I'm glad that things are going well for you. Like you, I'm in the "under construction" phase. I was supposed to have my exchange to implants in Nov but it's been postponed to Jan because there's just not enough operating room time to go around. You and I have the same ONC, Dr Panasci. I'm glad that you are seeing some of the best Dr's in Montreal. It's always reassuring to know you're in good hands. And if Panasci says your Radiotherapist is one of the best, then I'm sure she is. He doesn't seem like the type to humor anyone just for the sake of it. He's very straightforward and to the point. I like that about him although it can be maddening sometimes....lol I just saw him today actually because I'm on Tamoxifen and the other day the left side of my neck swelled up. I got so scared because I know one of the side effects of Tamoxifen is blood clots. Apparently, my blood tests have come back abnormal and Dr. P. has taken me off Tamox for a couple of weeks. My next appointment is on Dec 3rd and we'll see then if I go back on or not. I have mixed feelings about going off the Tamox. On the one hand I'm glad because it has been giving me daily headaches. It also has some nasty side effects which I'm told are just a 1% risk, but they are serious ones. On the other hand, I'm scared to go off it because it's my only defence against the cancer. I didn't have chemo or radiation.

    Sylvia: I think you need to get access to the picture forum so that you can see for yourself what the outcome from a B MX will look like. It's not that bad really.... As for meeting at the JGH, my next appointment is Dec 3rd (Panasci) and then again on Dec 10 (Sigman). I'm not sure of the times, I'd have to get back to you. It would be nice to meet up with you,Yo and Kerkle if she's around!

    Ciao,

    Terri

  • kerkle
    kerkle Member Posts: 147
    edited November 2009

    Hi Terri,

    I just saw your post on Exchage City and I read that you are going in for the exchange Dec 17th - YAY!! So exciting! Maybe it was "meant to be" that you go off the Tamox - you have to be off of it for a certain amount of weeks prior to surgery. I am actually surprised you are on Tamox. Why do you need it, if you had a BMX and you have no breast tissue left. I thought it was to prevent a recurrence in the "healthy" breast tissue. I am not on it.  I will not be seeing Dr.P until the Spring and hope not to be at the hospital till then, but would love to meet. We should set up a Montreal meeting for all of us. I would love to see your results of exchange, I have seen your posts on Tim Tam's site - they look great!!

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hello all!

    Kerkle ,  I just saw Dr. Lambert at the Montreal General yesterday and I agree she is a great oncologist.  She has followed me for my Hodgkins disease back in 1996  and I still see her for my annual check up.  I am still in the unknown phase with BC and I don't know who my oncologist will be at the Jewish yet. You ladies are way ahead of me and it is a blessing that we connected . I saw my breast surgeon Dr Fenster yesterday for a follow up on my lumpectomy and he removed the clips.  I am having a problem with fluid that is still leaking which is becoming a pain.  There is a small area that was not clipped properly and as a result I have a smal hole that did not close properly.  The  Dr assured me that once it closes it will be fine .. so I am not very impressed with the outcome of this surgery...... and I am not sure if I want Dr.F. to do the BMX surgery somehow I would be more comfortable with an oncologist surgeon . I have heard great things about Dr. Mark Basik at the JGH . Has anyone heard of him?  I don't have my final pathology report yet but if the margins are not clear  then I will not do another surgery to get clear margins to eventually have to do the BMX so hopefully once I have the results it will not take forever to get an appointment with the oncologist.   

    Terri,  I have not looked at the pictures yet on the forum but I will eventually . I  am just getting used to the  hysterectomy scar on my abdomen .. now  the lumpectemy scar ...and more scars to come.  I seem to be loosing all my female parts .  It would be great to set up  a meeting for us Montreal ladies at the Jewish.  I don't have any appointments scheduled yet but once I know the times of your appointment I will make arrangements to meet you.  I have a very flexible work schedule and I work downtown.  My daughter is also doing her PHD in medical research at the Jewish and she drives there every day so the Jewish would be a good meeting place for me.  Dec. 10th  thus far works for me and hopefully  I will have my pathology report by then. 

    Have a great day ladies !

    Sylvia

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

    Kerkle: I guess Dr P put me on the Tamox because even though they removed my breasts and I didn't have any node involvement, there's always the "chance" that the cancer has spread to somewhere else. I guess it's extra insurance against this horrible disease and you're right, I would have to get off the Tamox 2 weeks before surgery anyway so now I'll be off for 4 weeks. I'm not sure I'm going to go back on when all this is over.

    Sylvia: If you're not comfortable with your surgeon than by all means switch to someone else. I can vouch personally for Dr Sigman. He did a great job on me and he is a dear, dear man. Very understanding and compassionate. I have heard of Dr Basik, but don't know anyone personally who has had him as a Dr. With something this important, go with your instincts and if they're telling you that Dr Fenster is not the one, then switch. I hope you get your pathology results soon and everything is ok...I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Yo: Hope you're doing well and your TE's/ drains are not causing you too much pain. Let us know how things are going when you're feeling up to it.

    Terri

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hi Terri,

    My pathology report is in and I got some good news.... Margins are clear and no lymph node involvement... the size is 8mm so it is quite small and it's IDC ..  I was so nervous when I got the call that I didn't even ask about the stage or the grade.... Once I have my oncologist appointment I will be more prepared and ask all  the questtions.  I just hope that it will not take forever to get this appointment.  How long did it take you to get your  oncologist appointment after your lumptectomy?   

     I will keep you posted.

    Take Care

    Sylvia

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

    Oh that's great news Sylvia, I'm so happy for you! You must be so relieved!  With an IDC that small, I think you would probably be a Grade 1 Stage 1 which is great, but you'll find all that out when you see your ONC.

    It didn't take long at all for me to get my ONC app't. I got my lumpectomy results on the Friday and my ONC app't was on the Monday. I hope it goes quickly for you too. Are you still thinking BMX even after your great results? I guess there's no rush now to have that done since you got clear margins. Any news on whether or not you will have Dr Basik?

    I have to tell you again how happy I am for you ! Go out and celebrate!

    Ciao,

    Terri

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hi Terri,  yes I am very relieved about my pathology and am anxious to meet with the  oncologist and get a treatment plan in progress.  

    Yes I am still leaning towards the BMX and of course my family also thinks that I may be overreacting but in the end I know that they will support whatever decision I make.  Is it confirmed that you will be having your exchange surgery on the 17 of Dec?   I am not sure if I will be getting Dr. Basik or not.  My daughter  does medical research for Dr. Shifron at the Jewish  and in his opinion he highly recommended Dr. Basik so I may go and see him as well maybe for a 2nd opinion.   I am hoping that if I do decide to have the surgery it can wait till  Feb..  Hopefully since my margins are clear this will not be a problem.  BC is all I think about and I having difficulty concentrating on anything else.  I am getting obsessed reading all these posts and getting all this information and right now I am so overwhelmed.   I hope this will get better.

    I will keep you posted and hopefully we can meet up at the Jewish .

    Ciao Sylvia !

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hi Terri,

    Just got a call for my oncologist appointment and it's Dec. 8th with Dr. Francois Patenaude.

    I never even heard of him....  OHG  this makes me so nervous.

    I guess I will wait and see and then I can always get a 2nd opinion ...

    Keep in touch!

    Sylvia  

  • kerkle
    kerkle Member Posts: 147
    edited November 2009

    Don't be nervous! Dr. Patenaude is amazing!! I have heard lots about him He is the best along with Panaschi and they all consult with one an other anyhow. Good luck! The JGH has an amzing Oncology center and they will make you feel safe and secure. Bring a book, the wait can be long, but be reassured that this is the case because the doctors spend lots of time in the room with you answering ALL your questions.

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Kerkle,

    Thanks I feel better already!

    keep you all posted.

    Sylvia  

  • covertanjou
    covertanjou Member Posts: 569
    edited November 2009

    Dr Patenaude is associated with which hospital?  I see Dr Marcoglese at the Jewish.  I have no complaints.  It is a little long at the Jewish, but the doctors are great.

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hello Mary,

    Thanks for your input . Dr. Patenaude is at the Jewish.

    regards

    Sylvia  

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

    Sylvia, I have heard about Dr Patenaude and you will be in good hands...so don't worry. Besides, if the 2 of you don't "click" you can always get a second opinion as you mentioned. I just LOVE the JGH and especially the Oncology dept. The wait can be long at times, but not always. The Dr's and staff there are super friendly and always willing to help. Helen who makes the appointments and is generally in charge there is a sweetheart. She is my miracle worker and and always does her best to accommodate/speed things up for me...I just love her!  My surgery as far as I know is still scheduled for the 17th. I was there today for another matter (blood clotting issues) and my pre op tests. I'm seeing a hematology specialist Dr Blostein on Dec 2 before my surgery. Seems they found that my blood is clotting abnormally and they need to check this out before the surgery. You know, if it's not one thing , it's another! Anyway, I am very reassured by the support I get there and I know that everything will work out well for you also. Feb is not too long to wait for a BMX if that's what you decide to do. You have clear margins so that's way good.

    Take care and if you have to think about BC, then visualize your body getting rid of it. This site can be addictive but it's an addiction I think we all need in the beginning to help us get through this....

    Terri

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hello Terri,

    Try not to worry too much about your blood clotting issues and as you say we are lucky to be in such good hands at the JGH.  I pray that  that your surgery will proceed as scheduled on the 17th .

    I finally sent a  PM for access to the picture forum and now that I have all the info I will take a look over the weekend at home.   I have not seen any of these pictures yet but I just have to thank you and everyone else from the bottom of my heart for posting such intimate pictures.  

    I also have to do some blood tests at the JGW for my annual check up with the family Dr. and I need to get these tests done about 10 to 12 days before my appointment so I will have to go on the 2nd or  3rd of Dec   Perhaps we can meet up on the 2nd depending at what time your appointment is at.  Let me know and I may be able to work around it.

    Take care and have a nice weekend!

    Sylvia

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

    Sylvia,

    I have an appointment with the Hematology Specialist on Dec 2nd at 11am. I also have another appointment on Dec 3rd with my Oncologist at 9am. Well actually I have a blood test at 8am and then I see the Dr at 9am or thereabouts. Maybe we can meet one of those days. If not, I have another appointment on Dec 10th - I'm not sure of the time, I'd have to check and get back to you. Either of those days would be great to meet you. If they're not convenient for you then I'm sure there will be other days we could meet. Seems I'm there almost every other week for something or other. 

    I hope the picture forum wasn't too hard for you to look at. I know when faced with such a tough decision to make sometimes the visual can either help or make things worse. I know it helped me immensely to see what could be done. 

    Hope you and all the girls are having a great weekend - at least the weather is holding out!

    Terri

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited November 2009

    Hello Terri,

    Hope you had a great weekend.  Somehow on the weekends I am better and I don't think about this ordeal as much especially since I have not told any of my close friends and other family members yet .  I don't want to put a damper on the holidays so I hope I can continue to pull this off and continue to put up this brave front for everyone.   I briefly looked at a few pictures on the picture forum .  I didn' really navigate the site much as I am still horrified but I would have loved to see your pictures and I tried to find them but I was not able to .  For now I would want to see just the pictures of the surgeries performed by surgeons in Montreal . Is there a way on this site to just bring up these pictures? 

    Dec. 3rd seems doable for me as I will be at JGH for a blood test as well but I will be in the usual test centre and I should be done by 9 .  Will you be on the 7th floor in Pavillion E for you oncology appointment ?  If so then I could come up and try to find you . My oncologist is Room 776 ... I guess yours would be a different room?  I have never been to this area of the hospital and am not sure about the set up .  I assume you look as attractive as your picture .... . actually in your picture you look very familiar to me ......I may be with my husband as he is also having a blood test so if you see a confused couple walking around it will most probably be us. I am tall average built with short black hair.  If the timing does not work out and if I am not able to find you in the waiting area... then we will make arrangements for another day maybe the 10th ..   Good luck with all your appointments. 

    Terri thanks again for all you input .. you and all the information I have obtained from  all these remarkable ladies on this site  are such an inspiration to me . 

    Have a great day! 

    Sylvia

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2009

    Sylvia,

    My blood test is on Pavillion E 7th floor on Dec 3 at 8pm and then I see the Dr at 9. The waiting area for all the Dr's is the same on the 7th floor. Normally you register on the same side as  the elevators, go for your blood test down the hall and then go to a general waiting area directly BEHIND the elevators. I should be in that area either with or without my husband. What happens there is that they call your name and weigh you first then you sit down again and wait to be called for your appointment with whichever Dr you are seeing. I'll either be there with or without my husband and I look pretty much like in my photo except maybe a bit more tired from all the stress of this blood thing I have. If we miss each other, I'm sure there will be other chances for us to meet. Just worry about yourself, that's the main thing.

    As for the picture forum, I'm in the section "under construction". I can send you  a link. Don't stress out about it yet, wait and see what your ONC has to say. There's lots of time for you to make your decision.

    Terri

  • YoYo44
    YoYo44 Member Posts: 203
    edited December 2009

    Hi ladies,

    Sorry I have not been around much.  My Mom left yesterday so we had all kinds of things to do before she left.  I am doing better every day but getting a little annoyed with the drains and the nerve pains are irritating and tiring.  But still pretty manageable all around.  The iron bra thing is improving a little too.

    Things are progressing OK for me and I go see Dr. D tomorrow (Dec 2) at noon about the drains.  I think they are still putting out too much but I can cross my fingers.  I will be there for noon tomorrow.  Will let you know how that goes.

    I will also be at the JGH Dec 8th for the look good feel better session.  So I will miss you guys on the third unfortunately.  Hopefully we could find another time to meet.

    Good luck with everything Sylvia.  I only have great things to say about the medical staff at the JGH.  I agree the waiting can be long sometimes but the staff are all very helpful, friendly and human.  I really feel well cared for.  I have been very impressed with the Dr.'s so far as well.

    Take care!

  • YoYo44
    YoYo44 Member Posts: 203
    edited December 2009

    Terri,

    I forgot to say congrats on the date for the exchange.  Hope all the clotting issues get resolved quickly without too much fuss.  There always does seem to be "something else".  I said at the begining of all this BC thing that I was going to find out way more about my health and body than I really wanted to!!!

    All the best to you!!!

    Yo

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited December 2009

    Yo, if  I'm around at that time, I'll drop by Dr D's office to say hello. My appointment is at 11am and I'm not sure with the waiting and all that I'll be finished in time but if I am, then I'll stop by. Hope the drains come out tomorrow. I think you need to be putting out not more than 10cc's per side. If I wasn't going to the hospital so often in the next couple of weeks, I would have joined you in the look good feel better session. perhaps if we don't meet up, we can meet some other time... Thanks for the congrats on my surgery and for the clotting issues. I guess I'll learn more tomorrow about what's happening with that. And you're right about knowing more about your body because of BC...it's inevitable!

    Take care and all the best tomorrow with your drains, but remember, if they don't come out then it's better to have them stay in there for 1 more week than to take them out too early and then have to have them put back in again...you don't want that, believe me!

    Hugs to all,

    Terri

  • olivieri
    olivieri Member Posts: 47
    edited December 2009

    Hello ladies,

    Terri,  If you can please send me the under construction link on the picture forum.

    I hope you appointment with hematology goes well tomorrow . I look forward to meeting you on Thursday assuming I am fininshed in time. If is t does not work out I am sure there will be plenty of other opportunities since we are all being treated at the JGH.

     Yo , I am glad to hear that you are progressing well. All this BXM and drain issues seems so complicated.  I guess once I am there it will be explained in detail by the PS . I am so petrified with all this stuff and as I can see this is a very long journey.  I am also at the Jewish on the 8th and am curious to know about this look good feel good session and what you need to do to attend.     

    Take care!

    Sylvia

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited January 2010

    Sylvia,

    Here's the link to my photos. A warning, the first few are a bit graphic as they were the one's right after surgery, but you'll see, they get better as I progress. 

    http://tamako.milkcafe.to/luv/forum/Blah.cgi/Blah.cgi?b-recon/m-1249088447/ 

    All the best,

    Terri

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited December 2009
    Yo,

    I went to Dr D's office with my husband today at about 11:40am. I'm not sure if you were there at that time but I looked around the waiting room and wasn't quite sure who I was looking for...lol.  I was hoping that if you were there you would have recognized me from my picture. I even asked the girl at the reception if someone named "Yo" or Yolande or something like that had checked in yet. Of course Yo may not be your real name which occured to me as she listed off a bunch of women and none of them was called Yo. Oh well, I'm sorry I missed you. Maybe we can meet up some other time. Hope your appointment went OK and that your drains came out and you're healing well. He's such a nice man isn't he...our Dr D !

    Terri

  • marie111
    marie111 Member Posts: 119
    edited December 2009

    Hello guys !

    I am also from Montreal and am being treated at Ville-Marie / St- Mary's.  I see that most of you have had a BMX and am wondering 2 things:

    Why did you choose to do the BMX

    and how does it feel ???????

    I have to make my decision this week as to weather I have no MX, do only the one side or go for the BMX.  My Surgeon says it up to me, all options are good but they all have pro's and con's.....

    So many hard decision to make ;-((((

    Any input would be apreciated !

    Marie

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited December 2009

    Marie, I see that you have LCIS and ILC. You have the same DX as I do although my cancer was smaller than 1 cm. The decision to have a BMX was totally my decision. My Dr had said that I would be OK with just the lumpectomy and radiation but something inside told me that I would never be satisfied and that I would be worrying about a recurrence daily.... I'm a bit of a worrier and so I don't think for me, a lumpectomy would have been enough. Actually, I did have a lumpectomy but knew all along inside that I was going to go for the BMX. My BS left the decision up to me and he said he would go along with whatever I decided. Being able to see photos of other women who had been through a BMX helped alot. If you have access to the picture forum, I suggest you have a look. As for what it "feels like"... I have to say that for me, it wasn't very painful. The operation lasted 3 hours and I was supposed to spend one night in the hospital. I ended up staying 2 days but not because there were any complications or anything. The scars or where they removed the breasts was not painful but I did have some discomfort moving my arms. I guess the overall feeling is one of discomfort more than anything else. I had tissue expanders put in at the same time so I did have a feeling of something heavy on my chest area. If you're having recon, then I guess the worst part is the drains they put in. They get in the way and they are more of a nuisance than anything else.

    If you have any more questions, feel free to ask. I wish you luck in your decision. It's not an easy one to make and you really have to go by your gut feeling on this one. Trust your instincts.....

    Terri

  • YoYo44
    YoYo44 Member Posts: 203
    edited December 2009

    Hello All,

    Sorry for the long delay to post.  I have had my mother in law visiting and have been a little tired lately.  Trying to take every one's advice and take it easy.  I am not really a laid back kind of person so I find that "challenging"  LOL

    Terri, I was so sorry to hear I missed you.  I got there about 10 to and was actually looking for someone who looked like your picture too!  We just missed one another.  But I know we will meet eventually!  I will send you a PM.

    I finally got the drains out Tuesday and am soooooooo happy.  Yesteday was very sore but today is much better.  I also got the first fill of 60 ml.  Dr. D and the residents are very nice.  It really is nice going in to see them.

    Marie, hope you are doing well.  Having to make the decision was driving me crazy.  Once I decided I was much better and now after the surgery I am completely at peace with my decision. I had a BMX with removal of about 10 lymph nodes on the right and immediate placement of TE's.  For me also thye BMX was my choice.  I was told I needed an MMX and lumpectomy was not adequate (ILC).   I decided on the BMX because ILC is not easy to detect (my tumour was 4 cm!!) and even though all the scans said my left breast was OK I would rather be safe than sorry.  I wanted to minimise my risk.  I don't want to do his agin if I can avoid it!  I also wondered how good reconstruction would be with one foob and one real boob.  Also, I am (was?!?) not particulary proud of my boob and they were not part of my "persona". So my main reason was peace of mind.

    I was not sure if i was being to extreme so I talked to a lot of people.  And finally, I asked myself how would I feel if the path report on the left came up neg.  Would I say it was a shame?  No, I would celebrate because it was good news and I was that much better off.  So I decided it was a BMX.

    But as you have heard already, this is a private and personal choice and you have to do what is right for you.  You have to live your life with your decision and it has to work for you.

    How does it feel?  Not bad.  I don't mind being flat although the expanders change that a little.  There is not much pain per se.  More irritiation with nerves.  I had the drains for 3 weeks and that was hard, but manageble, again, just irritiating.  Sleeping is still a little difficult but every day is better.  I am starting to fell much better and nmore normal now.  Getting rid of the drains really helped.

    Good luck.  PM me if i can help at all.

    Sylvia, hope you are doing well.  The Look Good- Feel Better sessions are managed by the Hope and Cope charity.  They are on the 7th floor at the Jewish (you can also access the program from many other locations since Look Good-Feel Better is a national charity and is independent of the Jewish) and you can register with them for various different info sessions etc.  I signed up in Sept and just got in now so the program is pretty popular and pretty full.  It has some good info but is probably more useful early in the process than later (ie. how to make wig selections).  The skin care info was good though and they give you some nice make up and skin care stuff.

     Take care all!

  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited December 2009

    Yo, I'm glad you're getting back to normal and that your drains are finally out. Boy, they're alot of fun aren't they!...lol I guess he removed yours the same way he removed mine...isn't that scary? but he does it very quickly and it hurts for just a minute.... I love going there too. He's a great Dr and always has a nice smile and funnily enough, I find him very calming. Your fills should go well. As you get a bit bigger maybe around 300cc's, you're going to find it harder to get comfortable in bed unless you're used to sleeping on your back all night. I found that if I put a pillow under my knees it wasn't too bad. But all in all, the experience isn't a bad one and the best part is that we avoid having to go through this again, God forbid. As I mentioned before, my pathology came back clear - nothing more found in either breast and it didn't make me regret my decision. I was just happy that there wasn't anything more to worry about.

    Take care and keep in touch,

    Terri

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