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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    Yes we love unconditionally. I miss what I didnt have with my spouse. I need what I cant get.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    The father of my children hated even if I got a little cough or anything.He used to live me home and not even bring back any medications.I was dropped in the hospital when i went into labor with Christine and went to spend a day with his mistress and didn't even come back until late that night. Of course the baby was born and I was already in my room

    SLAAAAAP    SLAAAAAP   SLAAAAP

    Okay I feel better.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    SLAP FOR SURE BAM BAM BAM

    What a butt head

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    You always make me laugh. I like that BAM BAM    reminded me the little girl in Flintstones. What was her name?

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    Pebbles. lol

    I am wondering about Foots.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    me too. I think she said her next appt was Nov 11.

    Did you get any SE from yesterdays infusion, or the oral pills you started today?

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited November 2009

    Pebbles used to play with Bam Bam.

    SLAP SLAP SLAP for your ex!!  I'm sorry both of yoru relationships did not work out.  I hope you are happier now.  SLAP  

    Bam Bam!!

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited November 2009

    Ha, I had a cat named Pebbles and another named Bam Bam.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    Just had a bad headache.

    I have been married since 75 long time. Now feel weird seperated.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    I was happier years ago when finally I found myself and came out from emotional slavery.

    SLAP & BAM compliment each other. I love it.   Deb I dont mean your darling cat you had.

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited November 2009

    I bet it does.  It will take some getting used to.  Your kids, grands and us!! We will help you through this.

    Gotta get some rest.  Talk to you all tomorrow!

    xoxo

    Deb, love the cats name!

    Foots, thinking of you.

    Everyone say a prayer for the families of all those killed today in TX.

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited November 2009

    When my mom was alive she loved the holidays, the decorating and the cooking, now that she is gone I kind of took over the tradition.  But lately my brother and sister are starting to make excuses about picking up my father and taking him for the day on Thanksgiving and Christmas Day, it seems like it is all falling on me.  I will pick him up and bring him over my sisters house for Thanksgiving and the same with Christmas Eve which will be over here, I hope my brother can take him over to see his great grandkids whom he hasn't seen in ages.  Sometimes I dread the holidays just for that reason, everything seems to be up to me and I need a break once in a while.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    I wonder if my kids are sad or relieved we are split up. Maybe both.

    Oh I got approved for the heating assistance in feb yippeeee. I can do it with the Lords help.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    Have a good night to all who are going to bed.

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited November 2009

    I am going to have to read the paper more thoroughly.  I missed the tragedy in TX.  What happened?

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    I will be up awhile longer. Wainting to see if Foots comes on.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    Yes you can. Yes I did. Yes it wasn't easy at the beginning. Yes it gets easier. Yes you find peace. Yes one day you thank God that he left.  It just takes some time my friend.

    We are here and will be here for each other no matter how small or big the problem is.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    We are awesome women.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    Deb, I dont think it was in the paper since it happened during the day.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    It is in all the news Deb. So much bad news happening.

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited November 2009

    My sister who is 11 yrs younger than I, lost her job awhile back, the credit card companies keep calling her to pay up and the morgage company will foreclose on her if she does not come up with 6 thousand dollars by Jan 15th.  She is trying to contact ppl to see if she can get some kind of aid.  She does have fuel assistance and food stamps but she needs more, I gave her about 2 grand but that is all I can do.  I gave her some phone numbers to call so she is going to try them.

    I pray she gets results soon.  She has 2 teenage boys that eat her out of house and home.  She is taking her X back to court to get child support.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    Is her sons old enough to work part time?

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited November 2009

    One is old enough, but the other is not.  Richie is the oldest he just turned 16 and Russell is 13.  He only can do jobs like raking and shoveling or mowing.  But seems to be lazy.  They are always on the computer playing xbox or playing those games that you can play with other ppl online.

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  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited November 2009

    Nite all, I have to get some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ's.  Up at 6, home at 6 or later.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    Good nite Deb. May your sister find some help. Maybe she can sale some things and make some cash.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    Going to bed in a few. God bless sleep well.

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    Good night. Foots just came on the board.

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited November 2009

    Kbug, you should talk to you kids about your split.  Tell them you are concerned with how they are dealing with it.  You will get used to it, as Sheila said, and life will be wonderful again. 

    My FIL is a real piece of work.  Left my DH when he was very young, cheated on my MIL many times, was  never there as a dad.  Now we live about 3 miles from each other.  WHen I was preg he came over to ask me why I ruined his sons life.  He hates kids.  My kids see in 2 times a year.  He does NOTHING with them.  He is a 65 y.o. party animal!  He promises my kids all kids of things but does not deliver.  I do not bad mouth him to the kids.  My 14 y.o. has finally figured him out.  My 10 y.o. wants to go to his house and hang out with him.  He will figure it out too.  I think I have the best DH in the work because he grew up with such a bastard for a dad.  He values me and our family more than anything.  I am lucky there.  I'm so happy that my MIL never let him back into her life when the kids were little.  SHe had to work 2 nursing jobs to take care of the kids but she did it.  My FIL has a lot of money and does nothing but buy toys for himself.  I hate people like that.  SOrry about the vent!   You should hear me talk about him after one glass of wine!

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited November 2009

    Im up and alive. ..linda I want to respond to your post but after my coffee.

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  • kbugmom
    kbugmom Member Posts: 15,189
    edited November 2009

    I am having coffee now. Linda what a loser he is. Glad your hubby turned out great.

    So whats everyones plans for today? I am doing things around here. Later today going to get the grands.

    So nice with sun shining bright and is windy. With a jacket is comfortable out . I went out for a bit.

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