Question about Bi-lateral Mastectomy recovery
I am scheduled for a bi-lateral mastectomy in a few weeks. I would like to spend the end of my recovery possibly going to the mountains renting a really nice home to relax in. Do you think if I wait for 3 weeks after my surgery to head to the mountains to just relax....that will be enough time to leave town. I live in southern CA & would head to Mammoth which is about a 5 hour drive. Not too far away if there was some sort of emergency. I just want to do it if it makes sense. Any feedback would be most helpful...would like to hear how long it took you to recover.
Thanks! Bettina
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Well, I went back to work three weeks after my bi-lateral mastecomy. I certainly think you could go on a trip such as you describe. My only reservation would be the drive; hopefully you wouldn't be going alone and could share the driving.
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Hubby would be doing the driving for sure! I will only be a passenger.
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Hi Bettina,
My first operation was a unilateral mast of the L breast and the BS took 9 nodes. I went back to work in a little less than 2 weeks. The first 5 days were the worst, as far as the lack of mobility in my left arm and keeping those drains out of the way. The BS removed my two drains on day 10, which was a huge relief.
A year later I had a prophylactic mast of the R breast and, as the BS did not take any nodes, this surgery was a piece of cake compared to the first.
Long story short (SORRY--
), yes - I think your trip is quite doable, well-deserved and will do you a heck of a lot of good, physically and psychologically.
Raye
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Bettina: Any way to "play it by ear" and make that decision after surgery, then go whenever you decide? I was really in pain the first two weeks with my bi-lateral with the third day being the worst day. Your recliner will be your best friend and a neck pillow is quite a blessing. After you feel up to GO GIRL! Cancer takes enough of your life--get away when you want. I pray everything will go well for you.
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My circumstances were definitely atypical. I think your trip sounds like a lovely idea!
I traveled by car four days post-surgery. But, my trip was a wee bit shorter with straight and flat roads. I also did trips at two and four weeks post-surgery. My experiences varied from good to difficult. I had nausea from the pain meds which made things more complicated. Fortunately, my dear hubby was willing to stop for as long as needed to let my stomach settle.
Small pillows were extremely important for comfort to protect tender areas from the seatbelt rubbing. I used two or three that were generously given to me at the hospital. I wore a zip up jacket to hide the drains and tubes. We traveled with Sprite Zero and dry crackers in case of nausea.
Consider taking several pillows and/or a wedge to make sure you can be comfortable when sleeping. Some rentals do not have lots of pillows on the bed.
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I think it sounds like a wonderful idea- what a beautiful place to relax!
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I think the trip sound great. I also went back to work three wks after my bi-lat. So I don't see why you can't travel. Ask your surgeon but I think you will get the OK. Do take pillows with you as dancingneedles suggested. They may not have enough for you there. Hopefully the drains will be gone by then. if not they can be hidden but you are going for R&R so it may not be a big issue for you. I hope that your surgery goes well and that you recover quickly. The hospital gave me a small pillow and I also got one in the mail from the american cancer society to use under the seatbelt. They are a must to prevent any rubbing and to keep it away from your incisions. Just take a break from time to time and go at your own pace. (and ENJOY)
Best wishes.
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Thanks ladies for your input. I went ahead & booked the trip with the owner of the rental directly. He was extremely understanding to my situation after I explained the circumstances of the trip. He advised that if for some reason I couldn't go the week I booked, I could postpone it for a week or so. Thank goodness! Anyway, it's booked and it really gives me something to look forward to during this mess! Thanks for the suggestions on the pillows. I appreciate it!
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The trip sounds so lovely!!
Pillows are a BIG must for the drive. For about 2 months post-mast, I had to use a pillow hugged to my chest to prevent "road jiggles." I live about 1 1/2 hours from our work and they are re-paving I80 and the road surface is VERY veriable - those ups and downs were awful without a pillow but fine with a pillow hugged against the chest.
Enjoy your get away!
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