Any May 2009 Chemo Starters?

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  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited May 2009

    blondie45 - that's an interesting question! I forgot that the word soda is used differently in the US than in Canada. It means soda water like if you have a Scotch and soda drink (but don't waste good Scotch by gargling with it). The bottle (I just went and looked at it) says "Club Soda" and the ingredients are carbonated water and a couple of things with sodium in the name. No sugar, colour, flavour or caffeine. That makes a bit of sense since the other thing mentioned in the booklet was to gargle with salt water. That makes me gag though and soda water is no trouble at all.

    Hope you are feeling better. I was pretty tired the first few days after my treatment too - much better now.

  • Janet22664
    Janet22664 Member Posts: 155
    edited May 2009

    Hi All

    DEB: Glad to hear that you feeling better. 

    LASSIE:  Good idea with the club soda.  I just returned home from doing my shopping, but I think I'll get some club soda in the house.

    Has anyone been told not to eat raw fruits and vegetables?  I believe it was to minimize infections from pesticides and such found on non-organic produce.  I love salads, and was really hoping to off-set the weight gain by eating healthy, but now I'm a little confused.  I know a lot of people say they crave "comfort foods" but I don't want to live on mashed potatoes!  (although, I could!) 

    Janet

  • Kelly2
    Kelly2 Member Posts: 32
    edited May 2009

    Deb6563-I am like you, feeling much better. I ate my first real meal since my treatment on Tuesday and it tasted good. the yucky taste is gone and stomach pains are gone too. I'm not tired but glad I don't have to work either. I have respect for you all who do work. I feel weak but probably from not eating much. It is so good to be feeling better.

    To those who have mouth sores, I hear that using biotine mouthwash and toothpaste can help for it stimulates your saliva glands to increase saliva which is to help. I also heard using baking soda paste for the sores.

  • Kelly2
    Kelly2 Member Posts: 32
    edited May 2009
    Janet-yes, I was told not to eat raw fruits and vegs. too. I'm like you--I love salads and usually have one at lunch plus I usually eat strawberries for breakfast. That sure will change my diet. I was told that I could eat some now but once my WBC count goes down, then forget the raw stuff. It is confusing for I heard that eating fruits and vegs are good and usually raw is better but while on chemo, it is best not to eat the raw. And it's summer time--all the good fruits will be available.
  • blondie45
    blondie45 Member Posts: 580
    edited May 2009

    lassie 11-Yes club soda sounds like it would make sense, will have to add that to daughter's shopping list for today.

    I think I may be a small bit better today, but not much, don't have to work until Tuesday and hope I get my energy back by then.

    When you had your AC treatments what days were your worst and when did you start feeling better?????

  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited May 2009

    There was  an ad last night for a move called "Living Proof\" which is the story of the development of Herceptin. Here it is on the Women's Network at 8 pm.  I think I am ready to watch it as I will be on Herceptin later.

    No one told me not to eat fruit and veggies. Wouldn't wasshing washing carefullly or peeling where possible solve the problem?

  • Janet22664
    Janet22664 Member Posts: 155
    edited May 2009

    Lassie11:  Yes, fruits with a peel, such as oranges and bananas are okay, and even ones that you can peel, such as apples and peaches (I would wash my hands after peeling as to remove any pesticides that got on them when peeling)  My onc. nurse also said eating organic and washing would minimize risk of infection.  I also believe that the risk increases if you have an infection so that when eating raw is even more discouraged.

    Janet

  • deb6563
    deb6563 Member Posts: 179
    edited May 2009

    Hi everyone,

    I was not told about the raw fruits and veggies, although my onc did say to make sure that I wash everything really good.  At this point though, I can't even think about eating raw veggies.  Any of you ladies who can eat a salad after chemo is more of a woman than I am.Kiss  Since Tuesday evening, I have lived on oatmeal, scrambled eggs, and baked potatoes.  I am a chocoholic and NEVER thought I would say I didn't want chocolate, but here goes.  I DO NOT want chocolate.  The thought of a salad makes me gag and I love salads.  MAYBE a "good" side effect will be about a 20 - 40 lb weight loss.  Rough way to loose weight, but something good should come out of all this yuckiness.

    Keep your heads up ladies,  remember  "We fight like girls"

  • blondie45
    blondie45 Member Posts: 580
    edited May 2009

    I have eaten a few of the Kellogg's Special K Protein Bars just to get some vitamins and protein in me but haven't felt like eating much either. I also wasn't told about the raw fruits and veggies. I couldn't think about eating eggs when I feel nauseated though.

  • lemonjello
    lemonjello Member Posts: 75
    edited May 2009

    My blood work is fine, so the second round of T/C is May 27.  I am almost bald.  Did i mention that a chunk of my hair blew out the car window as i am driving down the highway?  LOL  Almost bald this morning.  It feels good on a warm day like today!  Bought two terry turbans and will be wearing some scarves i plan to sew from nice soft cotton materials.  I am not looking forward to the first week after infusion, i had lots of down time.  But after the seventh day, i felt very well.  Hope my SE aren't severe.  I just hate taking those steroids.  I have gained 5 pounds but its from eating.  My appetite is overactive.  I've never been hungrier!!!!  What is that?  I am starting to get nausea after eating.  I have lost my thirst for water.  Lots of swelling in the ankles and feet, in fact the doctor put me on a water pill for it.  He said that is the taxotere effect.  Well, am going to have my broiled steak tonight and enjoy the holiday. 

  • TexasRose
    TexasRose Member Posts: 740
    edited May 2009

    Hey everybody.

    I am getting very close to my first treatment on Tuesday here. I got all my Rx filled yesterday- EMLA cream for the port, Emend, and Compazine. I have spent most of the day today cleaning up the house and getting laundry done, so I am ready here. I've already had my labs for the first one, so I have an appt with my onc on Tuesday and then first chemo after that. In the future I will have lab work the day before. Wednesday I go back for the Neulasta and I also have an appt with my primary for a physical that was booked long before this all started. I really wanted to cancel that, but they wanted me to touch base with her so she knows what is going on. My labs for her are all done too. I just need to get through Tuesday and Wednesday and then I can hibernate.

    I'm getting nervous and scared. I know it will all be okay, but I am trying to stay busy and keep my mind off of it. Guess I will start pushing the water. I was told to eat as much fruits and vegetables as I can. Again, we all get told different things! She told me that nothing was off limits to me now except they would like me to limit my carbs and try to avoid fried and spicy foods. Great- my three favorite things to eat!! Wink

    Hope everybody is doing well and enjoying the holiday weekend as best as they can. I was really hoping for a sunny, hot weekend to laze around the pool but it has been cloudy and raining off and on here all weekend. Maybe tomorrow will be better.

    Hugs to all!   

  • Gramof3
    Gramof3 Member Posts: 301
    edited May 2009

    Mary, I am thinking about you as you get ready to begin chemo.  I know what you mean about being  nervous and scared, but I also know you will find the strength to go in there Tuesday and deliver a punch in this fight.  My oncologist said to me, "O.K. You had the surgery, now we are 'SMASHING' anything that might possibly have escaped that process."  I have a tiny hammer that I found in my grandpa's tool box and I keep it in my chemo bag.  Before each infusion, I look at it and think of SMASHING breast cancer. 

    Fruits and vegetables--I'm having a real problem with anemia now that I'm on Taxol.  My Onc told me to eat liver and when I said, "No way!"  He recommended baked potatoes with the skin on, strawberries and spinach in particular.  Just said to wash them carefully.

    May Chemo Ladies--This ain't fun, but you CAN do it.  Please think ahead, beyond all of the treatments and side effects, to the days that we'll be able to enjoy life with no chemo crashes, to brush our hair (and Lemonjello's won't fly out the window LOL), to think of wine or a cruise when we hear the word "port," --we will get through this.   Take care.  Helen

  • blondie45
    blondie45 Member Posts: 580
    edited May 2009

    Texas Rose-Hang in there we will all get through it together!!!!!

  • Janet22664
    Janet22664 Member Posts: 155
    edited May 2009

    Hi everyone,

    Texas Rose:  Oh my gosh, you sound just like me.  I spent the day preparing food for the freezer so that my family has stuff to pop in the oven the days I'm down and out. (Thanks for that suggestion Deb!) 

    Lemonjello:  That story about you hair was so funny but sad.  Well, at least it wasn't your wig!  My husband bought a convertible less than one year ago (I think as part of his mid-life crisis Wink,) I told him that we better take a ride in this weekend, because soon I won't be able to ride in it with the top down as my wig will fly off!

    Blondie45:  Good idea about the Protein Bars.  I'll have to pick some up.

    Enjoy your holiday my new friends.  Like Gramof3 we can do this.  We can do anything for four - six months.  Heck, I've held onto magazines longer than that!!!!   Take care of yourselves and enjoy the people in your life!!!

    Janet

  • TexasRose
    TexasRose Member Posts: 740
    edited May 2009

    Thanks ladies! We will get through this together.

    lemonjello- Sorry about your hair flying out the window. That would suck!

    Gramof3- I love the little hammer idea! I have one and I am going to put it in my chemo bag. I keep telling myself that chemo is my friend. Chemo is my weapon and is working with me and not against me. I almost believe it! Almost. LOL

    blondie- Thanks! We absolutely will get through!

    Janet- We CAN do anything for four to six months. I realized today that next Friday will be 8 weeks since my surgery. It has absolutely flown by and that is the same amount of time my AC treatments will take. That part will be over before I know it!! Then Taxol and then I am finished!! Unless I get the third arm of the trial. I can do this. It's temporary. We can all do it. I tell myself a hundred times a day that this too shall pass and it will. I bought a ton of groceries on Friday. I'm ready. Bring it on!

    I also ordered two more wigs today. I am just getting those inexpensive wigs from TLC. I decided I would rather have several different styles and colors than one expensive wig. I have three wigs now and three of those halos that go under hats. I still don't have any scarves. In my wildest dreams I cannot see me wearing them. They are so cute on other people, but would so not be me!

    Hugs! 

  • zuzeee
    zuzeee Member Posts: 171
    edited May 2009

    Hi All

    Only a few hours to go before I get my first dose. I have been reading on the UK cancer chat room that fresh pineapple is really good to snack on. Has anyone tried that.? Will keep you posted and I think we are all brave and wonderful.

    Pink bubble hugs to all of you

    Susie

  • Titch
    Titch Member Posts: 141
    edited May 2009

    Hi Susie.....

    Good luck for your first treatment Suzie.  I just read your posts....I have really bad blood veins, and the hospital used warm wheatbags to be able to get the IV in.  Another thing you can do is put your arms in warm water for a few minutes can help get the veins up. I have a portacath now, just have to wait till next week to use it. If they have a difficult time getting the IV  in, you will find they will do the port op quickly for you. 

    I was told to avoid dairy and sugar also from my Oncologist.  When I had my first chemo for a week afterwards, I couldn't stomach anything dairy or sugary anyway.  I ended up drinking alot of Fresh up apple and orange juice.  This also helps keeping the constipation at bay.

    The biggest advice I can give is......

    *Do all your SE tablets exactly how they prescribe..... 

    *Don't over exert yourself, do what you can, rest when you need too.

    *Think positively....

  • Titch
    Titch Member Posts: 141
    edited May 2009

    CoolJust an update from me....Day 13 now.....

    I also started losing my hair on Day 12.  Many stands of hair came out during the course of the day.  So last night, my hubby had great pleasure in shaving my head. I now resemble GI Jane.. I never realised how much hair keeps the warmth on your head.  I am just thankful I bought lots of hats.  Today I went to work and I wore my wig for the first time, many people thought I had just cut my hair, noone believed it is a wig.  Which is kinda cool.   

  • nancypat
    nancypat Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2009

    Hi Ladies!

    I didn't sign in with you gals because I was so scared of round 1 on May 4th that I didn't think I would be making any more posts.  I WAS WRONG!!!!!!!!!  I go for #2 on Tuesday.  I'm not looking forward to it but I know now that I can do it.  You don't know how much you all have helped me while I was lurking.  Thank you so much!

    Nancy

  • deb6563
    deb6563 Member Posts: 179
    edited May 2009

    Happy Memorial Day everyone,

    And I hope it is a happy one for anyone that has lost a loved one in the past year, whether military related or not.  I hope the memories of the loved one are happy ones.  This is the day each year that I am so thankful that my son came back from Iraq unharmed both times.

    {{{{{HUGS}}}}} to all you ladies getting ready for your first treatment tomorrow and those in other countries who are going through theirs even as I type this. 

    titch - I love reading all your post, you have a great upbeat attitude.

    Nancy - I know what you mean about not looking forward to #2.  I have this week off and already not looking forward to #2

    Mary - my opinion is the more wigs the merrier.  I am getting a pink one.

    Janet - you can do this girl,  glad you got the freezer stocked because you are not going to want to cook.

    Blondie and Kelly - hope you are feeling better, remember this is our "good" week.

    Lemonjello- I loved your post about your hair flying out the window.  Sounds like something I would do.

    I found some really cute t-shirts.  Haven't bought them yet, but thought I would share the thoughts.  1) "Does this shirt make me look bald?"  2) 'Having a NO Hair day"  3) "I'm too sexy for my hair" 4) "Yes, my boobs are fake, my real ones tried to kill me" 

  • benisse
    benisse Member Posts: 81
    edited May 2009

    I'm getting round 2 on Tuesday too.  I am dreading it but anxious to get it behind me too.  The onc said to take an ativan if I find I'm overly anxious.  I may take one tomorrow morning.  My husband is traveling so my sister and/or mother are supposed to take me to round 2 and help with my little ones until he gets home.  As I am having chemo my brotherinlaw will be having bloodwork and an ultrasound...testicular cancer is suspected.

    My husband and son shaved my head on Friday.  I have worn a wig out or a scarf at home much of the time.  I didn't cry about my hair loss yet, but haven't really been alone with it so far.

    We're cooking out steaks for my pre-chemo meal...I'm not usually much of a meat eater.  But want those blood counts to be good!!!

    Good luck to all of you going for round 1 or 2 or dealing with SE's this week!!!  I'll be thinking of you all for inspiration as I step through the day.

    hugs and prayers

  • nancypat
    nancypat Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2009

    Here's to the ladies going on Tuesday!  May the force (or whatever) be with us!  And have your Ativan ready.  Stengh and courage to those just beginning and well done to those farther along.  You are our heros.

    Speaking of heros, deb6563, I am so glad your son is safely home.  We owe him so much!  Let us remember those who have fallen and didn't come home and all of the loved ones we have lost.  Also, may we be mindful of those who are still serving and each of us who are fighting a different battle.

    Nancy

  • mom2twins
    mom2twins Member Posts: 25
    edited May 2009

    I am getting some killer acne.  Has anyone else experienced this as a side effect?

  • cree4joan
    cree4joan Member Posts: 2
    edited May 2009

    I had my first Chemo treatment May20th and have decided that I am not having any more Chemo. I would love to hear from others who have decided not to do Chemo and try an holistic approch instead.

  • AbuelaBoricua
    AbuelaBoricua Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2009

    I am meeting with the Oncologist on Wed or Thursday and will start Chemo within a few days after that. I believe the chemo is going to be Taxotene and Cytoxan and I have no clue what to expect. My sister went through this close to 3 years ago but her treatment was totally different than mine. This has been such a long process, the wait for the tests and then the results is pure torture. Any words of advise or experience will be greatly appreciated. Diana

  • AbuelaBoricua
    AbuelaBoricua Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2009

    I hope everything goes well! Diana

  • luvtheocean
    luvtheocean Member Posts: 87
    edited May 2009

    WOW!  I missed alot while I was away for the long weekend.  I can't even begin to address everyone.  The weekend at the lake was so great!  I was and have been tired every afternoon.  Lucky ladies that have bounced back so well.  Here I am ready for TX #2 on Wednesday and have had the 'breakthrough' nausea and the tiredness.  My hubby's family was SUPER supportive this weekend, they all live in Ft Wayne and we are outside of Cincy so none of them had seen me since the first chemo.  Because I had posted my bald pic's on facebook, the kids were all great!  I have a question for those of you already completely bald......We shaved my head last week and I still have some 'stubble' I can tell where the hair is coming out next because the scalp hurts so bad in those areas.  Does anyone have  a remedy for the scalp pain?  Seems like there has been a remedy for just about everything on here so lookin for this one!

    Sorry girls, nothing witty to say tonight, just kinda tired..........BIG HUGS to ALLLLLL of you and those of you having tx #1, you have anticipated wayyyy worse than it will really be, well it was for me anyway.  I think I read that someone else is having tx #2 this week, good luck and lets hope #2 is not too bad. 

    As for the raw fruits and veggies, that is all I have been able to eat since my first tx.  It is pretty much the only thing that sounds good.  I don't like eggs and when my hubby made some a couple of Saturday's ago, I had to run outside because the smell made me sick sick sick!

    Ok, that's it for now.

  • nancypat
    nancypat Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2009

    Hi luvtheocean, glad you had a wonderful time.  My stubbled head was in agony until my DS brought me some Head & Shoulders.  She said it was good for the scalp.  She was right!  I use it as though I still have hair and moisturize with baby lotion afterward.  My stubble is coming out now and it doesn't hurt nearly as bad.  Hope this helps.  I have round # 2 on Tuesday.  Not looking forward to it but if it makes the rest of my hair come out then that will be good.  I've been told that it stops hurting then.

    I agree with luvtheocean.  I'm not going to say the SE's were a walk in the park but it was no where near as bad as I thought it would be.  You will find yourself coping and then it does ease and you get your strength back before your next round.  Do you have a port?  I hang onto the words of those who have finished and that is my goal, to finish.  And then, maybe grow some hair.

    Good luck to all!

    Nancy

  • deb6563
    deb6563 Member Posts: 179
    edited May 2009

    Question for everyone that has mouth sores.  Did your sores start  on your tongue?  I don't have any sores yet, but my tongue is "tingly" and doesn't feel right.

  • nancypat
    nancypat Member Posts: 511
    edited May 2009

    Hi deb6563,

    I never developed thrush that causes mouth sores but my tongue became so sore that it felt as though I had drunk scalding coffee.  I used the Biotene mouthwash and Extreme Clean toothpaste by Aqua fresh (sp?).  I brushed with warm water and made sure to brush my tongue.  It began to ease after a week.  I did eat a lot of yogurt and was never bothered by yeast infections either.  Cold things also made my tongue feel better. 

    Hope this helps,

    Nancy

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