Has anyone started a forum for Chemo in Dec 2008?

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  • Firni
    Firni Member Posts: 1,519
    edited April 2009

    Texas, I feel your pain.  My fingernails seem to have stabilized but my toe nails are letting go now.  My mouth isn't dry but everything tastes like doo-doo.  The neuropathy in my feet just about have me crippled and the rashes that I've had have left my skin permanently marked and spotted.  Even my face and eyelids!  But people think that because I'm done getting chemo, I should be back to normal and I think people are getting annoyed with me and just plain tired of me being sick.  Like I'm not.  Not much I can do but wait for all the SEs to pass and too bad for my "friends".  

  • swest
    swest Member Posts: 680
    edited April 2009

    Happy Easter everyone!   I hope you all have a wonderful day and no SE's!

  • LindaBusEd
    LindaBusEd Member Posts: 121
    edited April 2009

    Texas,

    The doctors decided on the Femara. I get my teeth cleaned on May 1, eye doctor on May 2. Linda

  • bobcat
    bobcat Member Posts: 681
    edited April 2009

    Yuck - I started back with the weepy/twitchy eyes again today.  I give up for this day.  Good night.

  • Texas357
    Texas357 Member Posts: 1,552
    edited April 2009

    Oh, I can't wait to have clean teeth! But with my dry mouth, I couldn't keep it open long enough for a dentist to examine let alone get a cleaning quite yet. I'm still using a mouth rinse every half hour to keep my gums from sticking tightly to my teeth, and my tongue from sticking to the roof of my mouth.

    Bobcat, do your eyes itch too? Mine have been weepy for months, but lately they've also started to itch like crazy.

  • bobcat
    bobcat Member Posts: 681
    edited April 2009

    Hey Texas - Just got up and all the top lashes are now gone!  Aaaargh......just when I thought things were going to start growing back.  Eyes are itchy and watery this morning - I thought it was allergy but now realize it was those lashes letting go.  I just want to crawl back into bed but alas - off to work in a few with drops and tissues and hope no one notices how ghoulish I look.

    Happy Monday - hope everyone is feeling better...

  • Texas357
    Texas357 Member Posts: 1,552
    edited April 2009

    Makes me wonder if I'm scratching at my eyelids and causing new eyelash growth to fall out. Maybe I should be tying my hands behind my back so I don't scratch?

    Ghoulish? Heck, I scare myself when I look in the mirror lately.

  • EleanorJ
    EleanorJ Member Posts: 752
    edited April 2009

    bobcat my eyelash & brows are leaving as well :( Worst than it ever did! I ended buzzing my head for Easter so that at least it would look somewhat clean. Tried mascara, my MIL thought I didn't put any on, I assured her I did or it would look worse. LOL! Then Monday morning, ended up smooth shaving my head, I didn't get any sleep the night before, my hair were so brittle that everytime I moved on my pillow it kept poking me and hurting my head.

    The good news is I GO MY PORT OUT!!!! :) It was very quick and so far the least painful procedure I had. Still a little sensitive today but I'll be ok. I had my rads simulation yesterday and start the real deal in an hour. 7 weeks and I'm done tx :)

  • Firni
    Firni Member Posts: 1,519
    edited April 2009

    My lashes finished going away over Easter weekend.  So far my hair isn't growing so I haven't had to shave my head at all since my hair first fell out.

    Caroline,  did you have to go to the hospital to have your port taken out or did your surgeon do it at the office?  I'm having mine taken out Thurs. but my surgeon wants to do it at the hospital under a local anesthesia.  I'm thinking if he's not putting me under, why can't we do it at his office?

  • Texas357
    Texas357 Member Posts: 1,552
    edited April 2009

    I'm having my port taken out next Wednesday at an outpatient surgery center, under local anesthetic.

    The rash on my face from the Taxotere caused the skin to really dry out! As a result, the skin pulled my lower eyelids down so that my eyes wouldn't close -- and now I've got conjunctivitis. Next phone call is to the opthalmologist.

  • Firni
    Firni Member Posts: 1,519
    edited April 2009

    I've been using Eucerine cream on my face instead of my regular face lotion to keep it more hydrated pretty much all thru chemo from the second tx on.  It seems to have helped.  In fact I use the Eucerine cream on my entire body except my feet.  It doesn't seem strong enough for that so I use cocoa butter on my feet.   That sounds awful about your eyes.

    Maybe they want to be at a hospital or surgery center in case something goes wrong considering where the port tubing is located. 

  • EleanorJ
    EleanorJ Member Posts: 752
    edited April 2009

    It was taken out at the surgery center, local anesthesia as well with the help of a very strong Xanax ;) I slept for 3 hours after I go home! LOL! One of the nurse tried to take my blood pressure during the procedure, my port was on my opposite site of tumor so she was going to take BP on cancer side, she didn't know any better so I had to tell no that side and she waited until the port was out. Be prepare to speak up if the same situation happens. It's still sensitive today but no nearly as bad as getting the port in was. Although, the port bump is gone, now I have a port dent! I'm expecting this should fix itself over the next few months. A tiny dent is a lot better than a HUGE bump with 3 3D dots ;)

  • swest
    swest Member Posts: 680
    edited April 2009

    My goodness Texas does it ever stop for you????  Big hugs to you! 

    I get my port out on 4/27 when I get my expanders placed.  Yea!  I can't wait!

  • Lainey64
    Lainey64 Member Posts: 740
    edited April 2009

    Hi Divas.  I hope everyone is doing well today.  Of all things, I had to have a root canal done today.  Give me a break!  I had a total meltdown after I left the dentist's office.  I get my port out on Friday. 

    Caroline, thank you for the description on the port removal.  I'm a little nervous about it.

    Almost all of my right eyebrow is gone now and the left is slowly disappearing.  I have a few lashes left.  Makeup is getting harder and harder.  They don't seem to be growing back very quickly either. I look like Groucho Marx when I try to draw them on.  I've given up with mascara. 

    Love, Elaine

  • EleanorJ
    EleanorJ Member Posts: 752
    edited April 2009

    You're welcome Elaine. I was really nervous about it as well. Xanax helped taking the edge off, if you don't have any, ask for some before the procedure. I had to fast, but was allowed to take one with a few sips of water. Good luck on Friday, sorry about the dentist :(

  • Lainey64
    Lainey64 Member Posts: 740
    edited April 2009

    Caroline - I've thought about taking a Xanax but I have a radiation appointment later that afternoon.  I guess I could go home and sleep it off before rads.  They told me I could eat a light breakfast that morning but nothing too heavy.  My appointment is at 10:30 so that's not too bad.  I so ready to get this bump out of my chest!

  • EleanorJ
    EleanorJ Member Posts: 752
    edited April 2009

    Hubby came with me, right after getting my port out, I had my rads simulation, I almost fell asleep during the simulation! If you could manage to have someone taking you to both places than Xanax will be your best friend for the day ;) I was able to sleep without much trouble last night, so tonight should be even better.

  • Firni
    Firni Member Posts: 1,519
    edited April 2009

    My oncs office called today and wants me to go in tomorrow for some blood work for the Tamoxafen.  It's a gene test to see if it will work for me.  I'm not supposed to start it until the blood work comes back. He had told me to start taking it 2 weeks after my last chemo but I haven't yet.  Good thing.  Anyway, I don't know what I'll do if it won't work for me.  I can't afford to take the AIs.

  • Texas357
    Texas357 Member Posts: 1,552
    edited April 2009

    Caroline, I wondered what my skin would do after the port was removed. Wasn't prepared for a dent! Thanks for the warning so I can be prepared!!!

    Firni, good luck with the test. I didn't know there was such a test for tamoxifen.

    Lainey, I have 2 eyelashes and 3 eyebrow hairs. The other day, I did a quick "pencil brow", got in the car and saw that one was noticeably higher than the other! OOPS! By then, it was actually more "Oh well". The bangs on my wig cover most of the brow area anyway.

  • Lainey64
    Lainey64 Member Posts: 740
    edited April 2009

    When I was waiting for rads today there was a woman there that had perfectly drawn on eyebrows.  She said she is good at it.  I was so jealous! 

  • bobcat
    bobcat Member Posts: 681
    edited April 2009
    oh oooh - I have become an expert at drawing on the brows after a coaching session with a friend.  Big deal because the lashes are non existent and I slather on the dark brown eye shadow for definition.  I also buzzed my head smooth for Easter so I wouldn't look like a rotten kiwi fruit.  Since Sunday I am experimenting with growing it in.  Today it's softer than in the past - it doesn't scrape against the pillow case but if that starts, it's off again.  My friend rubbed my head today and remarked at how soft it felt.  Don't know if that's good or bad - we'll see in a couple of days.  Had my nails done today and they look good and I think it's because of all the vitamin supplements I am taking even though they are gray looking.   I did not have a port and sympathize with all of you that are having issues with removal.  Just got the bill today for the nipple reconstruction - over 20K!!! I just cannot believe this and I haven't even had the tattoos yet.  Am I repeating myself? - can't remember anymore...
  • Lainey64
    Lainey64 Member Posts: 740
    edited April 2009

    Bobcat - I'm so jealous, I wish I could draw my brows on without looking like a clown.  My hair is growing in really soft too.  I haven't shaved it again and don't plan to because it's all pretty even.  I love being able to see the dark hairs through the hole in the back of my ballcap.  It's not just scalp anymore!

    Ok, so now I'm almost 5 wks since my last chemo and the crud taste in my mouth has been replaced by the guck the endontist used to seal my root canal.  What a PITA!  I'm sooooo sick and tired of this.  I will try a smiley face... maybe it will perk me up.  Cool

  • havehope
    havehope Member Posts: 503
    edited April 2009

    I had TX 5. My sugar is up due to Decadron ( don't have diabetes) so I have to cut the sugars. I don't even like sweet things. So I have to cut on white bread, potatoes, fruits, pasta: so what else should I eat? Can't live on greens only!

    The surgeon called me and my port is coming out June 12 at 7:30 AM. I can eat and drink so I assume no anesthesia for me.

    My onc was not happy with my choice but I told her no way I am keeping the port. I asked her what are my chances of having long-term mets and when should I expect them to show up, if. She told me that the chance is very slim because she will monitor me very closely and if something stars moving we start treatment immediately and the cancer cells will not have the time to find a "home". I will have pet scans and blood tests. I don't remember if I mentioned but both my doctors were happy with my choice of doing prophylactic right mastectomy.

    She also told me that in the oncology world somebody is considered cured of cancer after consecutive 16 years of NED - of course this is unofficial. I hope all of us will be celebrating the 16 years anniversary. We should all meet and have a big party!

  • Texas357
    Texas357 Member Posts: 1,552
    edited April 2009

    Simvog, June 12th isn't all that far away! It's great to have a solid date on your calendar isn't it?

    What do you want me to bring to the party in 16 years?

  • swest
    swest Member Posts: 680
    edited April 2009

    Sign me up!  I'll be there!  Let me know what to bring.

  • mmliv
    mmliv Member Posts: 128
    edited April 2009

    Sounds like fun! Count me in. BTW, thanks for keeping up this thread on the forum.

    Enjoying the hair discussion - My head hair was starting to grow; now it seems to have stopped! Hope that is not a SE of Femara. My eyelashes/brows have continued to thin but I still have enough that I don't have to draw them in - good thing, my drawing skills are pathetic.

    My fingernails are breaking along the horizontal ridges and one toenail has darkened. Still find it amazing that I am still recovering from chemo! I also still have dry skin and my energy is still not up to par. Good weather should help my fitness motivation!  Radiation effects are gone.

    Femara SEs are my concern now. For those on Femara let us know how you are doing?

    Mary L 

  • bobcat
    bobcat Member Posts: 681
    edited April 2009

    I'm in for that 16 year reunion!!  I know I said my hair is growing but NOT MUCH!! and seems to have stopped.  It's super soft though and I won't shave unless it gets creepy. 

  • LindaBusEd
    LindaBusEd Member Posts: 121
    edited April 2009

    June 12 sounds good to me, however, if I am still here, I will probably be  on a walker. 16+53=69 years old!!!!  Linda

  • bobcat
    bobcat Member Posts: 681
    edited April 2009

    I'm with you Linda - 52 + 16 = 68 - I won't be on a walker unless this arimidex keeps attacking my bones!!  Mary L - on the dry skin and nails - keep moisturizing.  Get some sun and exercise.  I was told that chemo SE's can keep cropping up for up to a year.  UGH - how do we know what to blame?

  • busqueen
    busqueen Member Posts: 176
    edited April 2009

    Hello everybody.  I know I haven't posted very much at all, but I'm still around.  I read here often to see how everybody is doing and you are all often in my thoughts and prayers.  Its nice to see that we all are doing fairly well considering what we've been through ~ and are still going through.Laughing

    I was supposed to do 12 weeks of Taxol after my A/C, but my plan changed because I decided to go off the clinical trial I was participating in.  So my oncologist reviewed all of my records and we came to the conclusion that 4 rounds of A/C was "sufficient and reasonable."  So I am almost 8 weeks out from my last chemo.  I'm feeling a little better almost daily, although I still am exhausted most of the time and I have some sinus issues.  But my fingers are losing their purple tinge and my hair is growing back ~ my daughter says it looks like a fuzzy baby chicken!  {an appropriate springlike hairstyle....}  My eyelashes starting falling out just as my hair really started growing ~ what's up with that?Tongue out  I got my port taken out a few weeks ago, and it was similar to Caroline's experience, not a big deal at all and quite a relief.  I was supposed to start the reconstruction process on June 9th, but will have to delay for a while because I got a job offer to go back to the city bus company on May 4th.  I'm supposed to start taking Tamoxifin, but I have seriously mixed feelings about it, and I just wanted feel like I was actually getting better for a while before I start taking something else that does weird things to my body.  .

    I hope that all of you are filled with hope and optimism as spring comes upon us.  I feel like we've made it through a dark winter together, and even though many are still going through treatments, that light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter and brighter.Cool

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