Has anyone started a forum for Chemo in Dec 2008?
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Firni, could it just be water retention? My rash left as quickly as it came. Didn't real bad and only lasted a day without having to do anything, I was quite surprised, and happy.
Well, off to bed...
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I thought that too at first. But the swelling isn't uniform like water retention usually is. My left arm and hand are quite swollen now but my right one is not. My left ankle is more swollen than my right. It's odd enough that I want it checked out. Besides, how could I go a whole week without seeing one of my docs???
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Good morning all! Well, that bald head being exotic is pretty funny because I swear the contractor working in my building was flirting with me the other day. I popped off my hat and he comes over and starts chatting me up and says "I like your hair!" I said oh thanks. Well, everytime he sees me now, he comes over with some remark or something. Hey, I'm 52 and he's probably early 60's. Told my SO and he got a kick out of the whole thing.
I have my grandaughter for the day today so heading out for a quick walk as the Y is closed with all this snow. Stay warm everyone. Thanks for the good thoughts all around.
Bobbi
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Collen, Tricia, Bobbi, Firni and Swest,
Thank you so much for the messages, highly appresiated...
I just keep on praying that on my third all will be better...
This forum is really GREAT! I am not alone after all....
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Good morning ladies - I was just wondering if I can take regular cold medicine? I've come down with a little cold, but with all these chemo drugs pumping through my veins, I wasn't sure what I could take. Thanks!!!
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At times it's nice to have a new look... Unidentified at times specially during those moments i forget to put my wig on... And the way they stare... kinda wierd.... but helps remind me of my baldness...
Being in here (forum) adds strength to each one of us...
Thanks everyone.
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apfuentes --- I know when I had some sinus/allergy issues a few weeks ago, my dr. said it was ok to take over the counter medicine. The only thing was to be sure to monitor my temperature to make sure I wasn't getting an infection so that the medicine wouldn't mask any other problems.
Of course, everyone and every situation is different. You could make a quick call in to the nurse at your Dr.'s office and they could probably tell you right away what you can take.
Feel better soon.
Cat
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Good morning everyone. I'm getting ready for my 1st Taxol TX treatment. I'm pretty nervous about it. I think I feel about as nervous as I did on my very first A/C. My boyfriend is coming home to take me because they told me I might get drowsy from the benedryl they put in the premeds. I'm having a scrambled egg sandwich for breakfast and it tastes pretty good. Wow, I'm finally feeling better. I hope this TX doesn't knock my socks off. I'm going to think positive!
As far as the wig goes, I don't put any tape on mine when I wear it. My wig, and I think most wigs do, have these little "pinchers" on each side near your temples. When you place your wig on your head, feel for these little things and gently squeeze them to tighten them. It will tighten the wig to your head. I have had no problems with the wig moving around. It stays put all day and I don't have to worry about the tape. I also wear a little wig net on my head underneath the wig. That seems to work well. My net was too tight, so I wear it in reverse and cut a little slit in it to loosen it up a bit. Give this a try if you haven't already!
Firni - thanks for the tip on the peppermint tea. I started sucking on peppermints when getting my TX. It helps when they flush with the saline solution. I also hold my nose and I don't taste a thing!
Love and hugs to everyone today. I will post later!
Elaine
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Hey Elaine, Good luck with the first Taxol. Let us know how it goes. I get a blast of Benedryl before my tx too but I'm always ok to drive home. Good to have your boyfriend go the first time tho.
I called the onc this morning about the edema. The nurse said that this is a "normal" SE of Taxotere and the fact that I've gained over 20 lbs since my first Tx is normal too. Guess what I'm supposed to do for the edema? You guessed right! Take some steroids for 4 days. Then we'll reassess. She even asked if I had started taking the Decadron. I guess I'm supposed to self treat? I'd rather call before I do that. Onc does want me to take a different steroid tho for this. So at least something is a little different. The rash is also normal. Just Benadryl or benadryl cream for that.
Anyway, hope everyone had a good day today.
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Firni, you're probably good to run a marathon with all that steroid! I didn't know it worked for edema. I had lymphedema in my left foot before starting treatment, that foot is so big now that's not funny. I should go see my therapist about it and see if she has any suggestion, I know I'm not taking steroids until tx are over. I've had that swollen foot for 4 years now, I can deal with an extra 5 months before I get it under control again!
Elaine, good luck with the taxol, altough from what I hear, it should be a breeze after AC.
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Firni - Do you have a port? The surgeon who put mine in told me that if my left arm starts to swell that it likely means that there is something wrong with the port and I needed to let him know right away.
I finally got approval to have my next chemo treatment tomorrow (1/30) I have been fighting low white blood count but have finally made it to where it needs to be. It was my attempt to not have to take the Nulasta shot. So much for that. I will be taking it from now on.
I was having trouble with my wig making my head break out just where the edge of the wig sits. A friend gave me something I think is called a comfy strip or something like that. It is a gel filled strip that fits around your head and your wig fits on it. It feels really cold when you first put it on which is nice. It also keeps your wig very secure.
Pam
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Elaine - Good Luck Today! I will be sending you good vibes. The anticipation is always the worst!
Firni - I am soo sorry for your edema. Wow! I feel like I am calling the onc. after each treatment. However, your SEs are far more inconvenient than mine. I'm a wimp.
Apfuentes - I hope you get the cold under control.
Bobbi - Your story had me laughing out loud. Maybe I should go bald to work??????
I could use a little flirting about now.Everyone have a great day!
Sonia
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Mombos, I do have a port. It's on the right side tho. Does that make a difference? My surgeon didn't say anything about this at all. I just go to my onc first with anything. I'd assume that if it's not chemo related he'll send me on to the next Dr. to see. Of course we all know what assume breaks down into. I'll see if the new steroids work. Or if it gets worse, I'll call my surgeon. Like tomorrow so I don't have to go the weekend and maybe ending up in hospital with another $500.00 co-pay.
The gel strip for in the wig sounds great. Way better than putting tape on my head. With all my weird SE's, tape might damage me. I'll bet TLC has some gel strips. I need to get some bra fillers for my flat spots anyway. I know they have some on sale now for $8.00 for a pair.
Try the Claritin for the Neulasta shot. I did the Claritin D this time and I could really tell the difference. Take one the morning of the shot and one for 3 days after. I did take some Ibuprofen a couple of times too, but it was nothing like the first two shot when I didn't take the Claritin D. I'm glad you're finally getting your Tx.
Caroline, I have come to the conclusion that steroids are the panacea for everything that ails us. They come in all different types and ways that they work. At this point, if they'll keep my SE's from getting to where I have to stop Tx, I'll take them. I'm sure that's what's also contributing to my excess weight and clothing option failure. How did you get lymphedema in your foot? I can't imagine having a swollen foot for 4 years. That can't be good for wearing shoes. Maybe your therapist can show you and DH some massage things you can do. That would be nice anyway to have DH give you a nice foot and leg massage. I love those.
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Elaine...my sister was on the same treatment as you...four of the A/C and now she is getting 12 weekly Taxol...she has had about four so far and said it is a walk in the park compared to the AC!!!
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Hello ladies,
Sorry to hear about all the SE's everyone is suffering from. I'm doing pretty good. I had my labs today and it was ok, but not great. My WBC is low... not low enough that they have to do anything, just low enough that I have to "watch it." Guess I'll be laying low this weekend and avoiding crowds, sick kids, etc.....
Lissayers -- That's good to know about your sister. I have my last of 4 AC on Feb. 5 then will move to the 12 weekly Taxol.
Hope everyone has a good afternoon.
Cat
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I was sick and awake all night last night, so if this message makes no sense that's the reason. The steroids kept me awake and then the nausea kicked in about the same time as the neuropathy, then it was the vomiting, followed by a fever. Now my son is on his way over here to take me for the Neulasta shot because the nurse told me not to drive by myself with a fever. I called the clinic this morning and they said it is extremely important for me to have the injection because my WBC count is going down, down, down. What a night and morning....
I'm reading messages and thinking about all of you, but am not coherent enough to put two thoughts together right now. The fever and lack of sleep is making my brain very foggy.
Take care, Divas.
~Bonnie
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Bonnie, i hope you feel better and can get some sleep.
It sounds like most everyone is suffering from SE"S. Has anyone been told that they are cumulative? i feel like they are as I am way more tired after tx#3 than I was after treatment #1.
We had to move to a hotel yesterday as the snow/ice storm knocked the power out at our house and the power company is saying maybe Sunday? You have got to be kidding me. So 3 of us in a small hotel room with 2 double beds. at least it is warm and there is a Cineplex next door. So far I have seen 1 movie but my dayghter is on #3. $5. matinees aren't bad and take my mind off the BC.We will be informed on academy award night.
It is supposed to snow again tonight....and I left California for this?
Love all of the wig escapades. I don't have one as my hot flashes are so bad that I would be ripping it off my head every 5 minutes. Scarves and hats are not quite so warm.
Feel better everyone and keep on laughing.... -
Bonnie -
I hope you get a good night's sleep tonight -take a benadryl or something!! I had been doing good and then last night was awake from 1am until 6am - slept and hour then up for the day. What's that about? Yes, that dreaded word - cumulative. Only we can use that - anyone else gets slapped
I too have tried my wig but makes me insane!Good night all and good luck with shots, treatments and everything happening tomorrow.
Bobbi
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My son took me to the clinic for the Neulasta injection and I was home just a few minutes when the nurse called to tell me that yesterday's bloodwork showed that my thyroid level is way too low. It will be an easy fix, but it's always something. Anyway, I feel more human for the moment, just underslept.
My wig is such an uncomfortable beast that I may never wear it again. It looks good, but hats and scarves are so much more comfortable and I am so much less vain than before BC. Comfort comes first, but I do try to even out my chest before going out because it looks ridiculous.-- LOL.
-Bonnie
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Firni - He told me left side since my port is on that side so maybe that's not it. It was just an idea. They pump us full of so much stuff it is hard to tell what causes what.
Pam
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Hello all I have not posted in a few days so I am just catching up. It seems a lot of you are experiencing a lot of bad SE. I hope everyone is feeling a little bit better. I will go tomorrow for Tx #7. I have be extremely tired these days I just hope blood work is ok. Is everyone getting rads after they finish chemo? My onc told me that I would not need them. But it seems everyone I speak to have done both. Just wondering if I should approach the subject with her again. Well I wish everyone a good night and I will check back in tomorrow.
Colleen
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My foot started swelling after I went to get a pedicure for the first time in my life! We had just gotten our children home and my mom was here to help and told me to go for the afternoon and rest. A few days later it started hurting & swelling. Didn't go to the doc. then after a few weeks started ALL the test, x-ray, mri, bone scan, ultrasound, you name it. Couldn't find anything so he said I had lymphedema. Well, I had NO idea you could get treatment for it until this past summer. Went 3 years like that, heat makes it worse, alcohol makes it worse and cute shoes are no longer in my closet
She did show me how to do the massage, altough I can't do it quite as good as she does, neither can hubby. I even have a compression pump at home but right now, I can't do much about it, with all the other SE of chemo, it's not a priority since I'm not able to get it under control, I'll have to go see her again. The good news is, that I found out through my onc, that she is the BEST lymphedema specialist in the area, so I need to go and get her to take baseline measurement of my arm just in case. -
Carolyn, yes, I was told that the SEs from chemo would be cumulative. I've noticed I'm more tired as each Tx goes by but that's about it. I just get a new strange SE about a week after each Tx. It's getting to be a game with me and the onc nurse to see what I call about each time.
bonnie, I hope you got some sleep last night and you're feeling better today.
Colleen, I'm not scheduled to have rads when chemo is done. After things I've read on different threads here, I am NOT bringing up the subject to my Onc. I don't know how they decide if someone needs rads. I think it has to do with if the tumor was located in the chest vs just in the breast tissue, if you had a mast. or a lumpectomy, how wide your clear margins are and if lymph nodes were involved. If you have questions tho, you should talk to your onc. She won't recommend rads if you don't need it.
Pam, my onc thinks my edema is just another happy SE from the Taxetere. So hopefully the steroids will work.
Caroline, that just sucks that the first time you give yourself a peddi treat it messes you up for life. It is great that your therapist is the best in the area so when you are ready to go back you'll be more confident in her ability to get you recovering again. Damn shame about the shoes tho.
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Colleen -
I don't have to have rads after chemo either. I was told because my margins were clear and they removed all the LCIS in the other breast and the nodes were clear. I'm OK with that decision as the chemo is bad enough and the AI's to follow for 5 yrs.
Hope everyone is feeling better today. I am one week away from my last TC and starting to get anxious but excited. Back is killing me today and nagging pain in the right wrist - I am wondering if that is from always getting the infusion through that area. More water!! and off to the Y for a little exercise today. At least coffee is back on the menu for the week. Have a great day all and give yourselves a big hug.
Bobbi
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OMG! My coffee is SOOOOOO GOOD this morning. It's going to be a great day!!!!!!!!!!
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It must be a coffee morning!!!!!!!!!!! I had a cup this morning too and it tasted wonderful...may have to have another! LOL
Bobbi, like you, I'm getting anxious and excited for my last treatment, which is a week from today. Glad it will be over, but not looking forward to the way I feel afterwards.
We will all get there ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!! And then we can put this behind us. Somebody said something to me the other day about having cancer. I told them, "I HAD cancer, I don't have it any more!!!!" At least that is how I feel! No way I'm going to let this define my life!
Hugs
Lisa
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Glad you're all enjoying your coffee today
Never liked coffee so that's one thing I'm not missing. Yeah, stinks about the shoes. I was a shoe person 4 years ago, it's been driving me nuts seeing all those cute shoes everywhere and not being able to buy. If the shoe doesn't cover my ENTIRE foot, can't do it
Anyhow, she thinks the infection that went untreated caused it. I did have surgery on that foot YEARS ago, so maybe it's like BC, as long as my arm is untouched, I won't have lymphedema but an infection could caused it. Altough I did hear that they are working on a cure for it, that would be great, I'm young enough that I might see it in my lifetime. I'll be able to go shoe shopping again in my 90's! LOL!Yesterday was a good day
I think today will be as well 
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Hi ladies. Thank you all for your well wishes and postive thoughts! Yesterday went fine. It took about 4 hrs because they ran the drip slower than usual to watch for allergic reactions. I did good, thankfully! My WBC count was at 10.1 and my RBC was lower. So they gave me a shot of Aranesp to hopefully bring it up some. I've been so winded lately and fatique easily. I hope it will help. So far I'm feeling great. I am at work this morning and everyone was surprised to see me because I usually take the day after off. I am planning to work until Noon and then go get my Nuelasta shot and take the rest of the day off.
Yummy Coffee!!!!
I hope everyone is feeling good today!
Love, Elaine
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Elaine, glad to hear tx went well. Hopefully you don't get too many SEs from it

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Good morning, Divas,
No coffee for me this morning -- I'm still doing tea and toast because that's about all that will stay down. Got a good night's sleep last night and feel somewhat better today so things are looking up.
-Elaine -- I'm so glad you are doing so well after your Tx.
-Lisa -- You have a great attitude. I definitely feel like I have cancer, but hope to get to the place where I can honestly say "I HAD cancer" and move on from this time in my life.
-Caroline -- Sorry about the lymphodema -- I can't do cute shoes anymore either because of foot problems. Lucky for me, I live in a city where clogs are really popular -- LOL.
I am having rads -- 33 treatments -- after chemo and am really envious of and happy for those of you who are almost done and don't have the rads in front of you.
Have a good Friday.
~Bonnie
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