continuing to work during chemo
I'll need to continue to work during my chemo as my husband is currently not working. Even *if* he did find work, he wouldn't be able to replace my income. Alot of what I do is physical but I think I can reorganize my technicians etc to help take the physical "load". However, I will still need to go in to do paperwork and to check up on the techs.
Anyone continue to work a *relatively* demanding job while doing chemo? I can schedule time off (creatively)... like 1 day per week or short-days but can't take off for days in a row. I can also work from home some too.
So, pls give me your insight!
Thanks, Michele
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I worked full time during chemo. My job was not physically demanding but it was mentally demanding. I arranged to have my chemo on Thursday and took Thursday and Friday off every 3 weeks for infusion then had Saturday and Sunday to recover.
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I take off the day of chemo and sometimes work the day after because I felt 'wired" the day after. It was usually day three ehnd I had the crash. I am scheduling chemo for Thursdays too. But my third AC has been brutal so it has been harder to stick it out. I have a mentaly demanding job but with an extrodinarily understanding and supportive employer so I try and work as much as possible but have gone home early a couple of days last week. I also NEED to work and it hasn't been easy.
It actually sounds like your job will be flexable enough. I don't know what your chemo is going to be like but mine is every other week.
I have to say up until this last chemo I haven't felt all that horrible so you won't feel terrible the whole time which is something to hang on to. Plus they have awesome nausea meds. I have no problem with nausea just fatigue.
You'll get through it girl!!!!
Take care!
Robyn
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Hugs Michelle. I had to work during chemo also. I had 4 rounds of a/c every 3 weeks. It's not easy but it can be done. I would work 2-4 six hour days doing paperwork or teaching. I also was enrolled in college classes and took 18 credit hours at the same time during my mastectomy, port placement, pleurisy, and chemo. I took 3 weeks off work for the mastectomy, etc. I had to physically be at one class every week and another class once a month and the rest were online. Since my tests were on Monday evenings, I had my chemo on Tuesday. My hard days were days 6-14 after chemo. Naturally you don't bounce as far back after each chemo so it gets a little harder with each one but I managed just fine. Don't count on being able really to do anything at home as far as housework if you work, that will take most of your energy. I found having to focus on all that stuff helped to keep my mind and fears off myself most of the time so it was beneficial. Listen to your body and rest when it tells you too if you can.
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This is my first post. I am newly diagnosed on Dec 30 and still trying to wrap my head around it. Surgery is 1/13 - lumpectomy plus lymph node dissection, The lumo is 1.2 cm, and the needle biopsy showed involvemet in at least 1 lymph node. It's grade 1-2.
I also plan to work during chemo. I am a single mom of a teenager and need to work, but also am used to working a lot (fulltime mentally demanding job plus consulting) and would probably be a little nuts if I did not work. Also I usually am very active in physical and outdoor activities and I know my skiing (both kinds) is over for this winter. When I do nothing I don't do well. My chemo will be once a week for 16 week, then a 3 week break before radiation. It's good to hear that others have been able to manage. My head is still spinning.Fran
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I've worked.. during chemo, surgery and radiation. I had few problems.
I am my husband's office, (20 hours a week) as well as laborer (i clean our rentals during vacancies - very demanding work physically), I'm an accompanist for ballet classes, an ensemble and soloists (30 hours a week involving extensive practice), piano teacher and vigorous housewife. I had a few bad days during chemo (viral infection) and missed a couple lessons.... that's all. I was lucky that chemo did not seem to bother me for the most part.
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I'm working during chemo. I have two home based businesses and one of them is teaching Zumba 6 days a week...and I've been doing that and well as run my other business. I even teach Zumba the day of chemo and the day after and have not had any problems. In fact, it has helped with the side effects.
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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! for this thread. I have my first treatment Thursday and have been reading and searching for ideas about working during chemo. I WANT TO WORK! My supervisor is very supportive and my job is somewhat flexible with hours.
Do any of you that have worked away from home have ideas of what type of things to have on hand to make work easier?
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I worked full-time thru 4 rounds of T/C last spring. I'm in IT and so I have a desk job. I scheduled each T/C treatment (they were 3 weeks apart) for a Thursday morning and then worked from home that afternoon. I went to the office the next day. For me, days 3 and 4 were when I felt a little more tired and a little bit queasy so it was good to have the weekend to rest up. But I went back to the office each Monday after a treatment. I found that if I stayed on top of the nausea meds, it wasn't too bad. I never vomited, but I did have a "brick in your stomach" kind of feeling during days 3-5 or so. If you have to be on your feet a lot, or do physical work, you might need to cut back on some tasks. But since I sit most of the day, it worked out fine for me. I ended up not using any sick days during chemo, except for taking time off to get the treatments themselves which took 3-4 hours. Actually, it wasn't nearly as bad as I anticipated.
All the best,
Sue K.
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Hi, I went through A/C treatments every 2 weeks, 4 treatments. then Taxol for 12 weeks. During the first treatment I was ok, got a bit tired by day 3-4. The 3rd and 4th treatments were the worst. I remember making myself get up out of bed and trying to walk 50 feet. It was the hardest the 1st week after treatment during the last 2 treatments....but the second week between A/C treatments were ok. Hope this makes sense.
If you are doing Taxol....I felt so much better during Taxol, was able to work half day. I always took Friday off(Day of treatment) If you can afford to take time off do so, chemo is so hard on your immune system. The last thing you want to do is get sick from a cold and have to postpone treatment.
Hang in there, it will be over before you know it.
Lisa
2.5 years out
IDC, stage IIa, grade 3, 1/8 lymph node+, ER/PR+
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I'm working part-time (25 hours a week) during chemo and it is going pretty well. My job is in a college library and it's not physically demanding, but working with students always raises the possibility of catching whatever virus is currently going around. I am being very careful about washing my hands often and it seems to be working so far. My supervisor is also very understanding about my need for a flexible schedule, so I am very lucky. -Bonnie
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I kept a chaise lounge in my office so I could lay down when I needed to. I worked through surgery, chemo, and rads but it was very hard for me. I can't count the number of times I fell asleep from sheer exhaustion at my desk. Good thing I'm the boss.
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Thanks everyone for your insight! Based on your positive posts, I think I can do this!!
Imasurvivor~ I'm also the "boss" which is both good and bad... Good in that *I* can be flexible; bad in that there's no one to "pass the buck" to. <sigh>
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I am planning on working throughout my TC x 4, 3 weeks apart tx. I am very discouraged today. I am an RN in a hospital. A big part of my job is going from room to room doing physical assessments, changing dressings, drawing labs, etc. This morning I went to work even though I felt achey the night before. (no fever, though) I woke up in the morning and thought that I felt better. I was there about 1 1/2 hours or so when I started feeling nauseous, especially when I was up walking around. Then, I started to feel the achiness again. My co-workers were concerned about me and suggested I go home. After some thought I realized they were right. I got all emotional and broke down and cried! How embarressing! I am so used to being strong and active and this d#$@& cancer is the pits! I don't know what to do! Thanks for letting me rant!
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I think it depends on your treatment and how you respond to it. I had some help from family, so I was able to take time off, and I REALLY needed it. I went back one day a week and did paperwork regularly, (my job is VERY physical, in theatre), but I had lots of support from my work-friends and boss...I wish all of us who were able to, could take this time to slow down, look after ourselves, take gentle walks and see the trees, and sky and grass and flowers, or snow, or whatever! Let others look after us! Some chemos take the piss out of some of us. We're also dealing with terrible stress and fear of the unknown and physical crap, recovering from surgeries....This is not the time to be a hero, for the sake of being a hero. Do what you have to do, what you want to do, but don't do more....
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I'm have 3 of 4 chemo tx done. I am still trying to work. It is getting discouraging because it seems about half the time I am calling in or leaving early sick because of chemo SE. I am an RN at a hospital. Today I felt fine at the beginning of the shift. I started feeling a little weak and shakey a couple of hours into it. Unfortunately, our computer system went bazzerk and the LPN giving meds on my team was behind because it took her forever to file things. There was one pt in particular who was in a lot of pain and needed some meds. Instead of stopping to rest and eat something I jumped in to help the LPN by administering this pts meds for her. Of course it took me forever to document and by the time I did sit down to take a break it was about an hour later. The rest and food helped as long as I was sitting in the break room. Once I got back on the floor to see pts again I found that I was shaky and unsteady on my feet. I had my bp taken and it wes elevated. I was wheeled to employee health and my husband was called to pick me up.
I don't know what to do! Is it fair to my co-workers to continue to try to work when I eventually call in sick or leave early on a regular basis?
Please, I need some feedback on my predicament.
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expectmiracles; I am also an RN, i work in the er and when i have my tired days we change my assignment, doesn't matter if i started out my shift as charge or staff, i have found myself switching assignments in the middle of my shift and i just go triage, where i can sit down more,usually. Why don't you talk to your nurse manager or DON, according to the ADA our jobs have to provide us with a position that we can do with reasonable accomadations as long as they know about aou dx and tx, we re technically considered diabled while we are going through breast cancer. I also wanted to spread the word about a non-profit organization called www.nurseshouse.org it is a nonprofit for RN's facing cancer or who are the primary caregiver for someone facing cancer, they have many resources dedicated to assisting RN's only. Good luck to you and you may pm me if you would like to. I started my chemo 3/12/09 and have my 3rd DD ac this thursday, the fatigue seems to be cumulative, but hasn't brought me down too much yet, but i don't work as a floor nurse anymore, i still see multiple pt's but in a much smaller contained area, not near as much walking as when i worked on the floors.
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I did six TAC chemos while working. I had chemo on Thursday, went to work on Friday (had my nulasta shot then too) and then had the weekend to recover. Most of the time I took the weekend PLUS Monday and Tuesday to rest. So for each chemo I needed three days off of work. I am a social worker with a high stress job. It was a struggle but I needed to work as well. Hang in there! See if you can take a 30 to 45 minute nap at lunch, it was all I could do sometimes to stay awake.
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Cheryl-
This is just my opinion of course, but I believe your body is telling you what you can and cannot do. Now you need to surrender your mind to that. Before being diagnosed in Oct., I was just beginning to acquire that female middle aged wisdom that taking care of myself first was something I needed to learn and accept. Whether it was my upbringing, cultural expectations or years of taking care of my family first, somehow I equated putting myself first with selfishness. I think this is an issue common to so many women through the ages. Whenever confronted with an issue that was either mentally or physically stressful, I began to ask myself how would I advise someone else to handle it? In your case, what would you tell a co-worker (or better yet, a patient!) going through the same thing? After witnessing similar physical effects (let alone the HEAVY psychological toll of BC), I'd venture to guess you would tell them to stay home and take care of they're chemo weakened selves! As I said, I was just beginning to "get this" when bc came calling. I can't think of a more significant development to insure that I learn that lesson well!
I wish you all the best and peace in making your decision. By the way, I know Harrisonburg well. Both my girls graduated from JMU! Made many trips to the beautiful Shenendoah Valley over the years. Would love to go back and visit!
xoEllen
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I'm not working.. I have been at the same job now for almost 21 years and it is very stressful. I am taking this time to get myself back on my feet as this is stressful enough! I'm enjoying the break but I do at times feel guilty about not working - but then I think of all the stress I had with my current position and then the guilt goes away! When I go back to work, it will not be in the same position, that's for sure, and when I do go, I want to be prepared physically and mentally.
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There was no way I could have worked through my chemo. I had taxotere and cytoxin, triple dose because of my weight. There were days I could hardly get out of bed and get to the bathroom, no less work!!!!! I couldn't eat, barely drank anything, and showering was a major project. I was ok for about 3 days after chemo, but after that, it was all downhill for about 10 days. My oncologist told me it was going to be terribly hard on me, and I almost quit half way through, but I made it. But I can tell you, I could have never worked during that time.
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I had my first chemo last wed. Today I am back at work. I could have come back sooner, but had a bad reaction and got a horrible rash. I am doing 4 rounds before sugery and then 4 after.(plus the 12 months of Herceptin) I am planning a week off for each chemo, but everyone is different. It does feel good to be up and around doing something. I also got to show off my newly shaved head to the co-workers!
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