Radiation necessary in an early stage cancer
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Hi MDB. Thank goodness on your clear CT!!!! I have been waiting to hear. Nada
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I've been reading this thread today and felt I should jump in.
When I was 29 (I am now 49), I grew (literally overnight) a grapefruit sized tumor on the right side of my neck. Diagnosed as an undifferentiated malignant carcinoma. Had 7 weeks of rads and and boosts, started chemo at the same time (5FU and cisplatin). Had to have a 5 day 24/7 infusion of chemo every 4 weeks for 6 months. Anticipated life expectancy after that was 5 - 10 years.
In 2004, I grew a malignant sarcoma in my right shoulder area, had surgery to remove. In 2005, grew 2 malignant sarcomas (each the size of an egg), same area, had them surgically removed as well as ps to move muscle from left side to right so the surgeon could close me up. There wasn't enough muscle left on the right side after all this. In 2006, grew another malignant sarcoma (small) and had a hole in my back because my scapula bone had broken through. So, another surgery to remove tumor, trim scapula, and debride the area.
The surgeon I have is the chief of orthopedic oncology at Beth Israel Deaconess in Boston. He and the tumor board felt that these tumors could have been a post radiation result. Could not say 100% because no one lived longer than 5 -10 years after having what I had when I was 29.
A few months ago, I was diagnosed with bc, left side, IDC. I've had two surgeries, first to remove lump, second for clear margin and SNB. Results are negative on the SN and margins are clear. My tumor was very small < 1cm. BS recommended rads or mastectomy. I wasn't doing either.
Met with rad onco and reviewed current pathology and prior treatment 20 years ago. We discussed all options and % of reocurrences. We also discussed the possible post rad effects - damage to heart, lung, chest wall. Studies have shown that some women that have been exposed to large amounts of radiation while younger can be suseptible to bc. Hello ----- The rad onco said that my left side was well shielded when I received rads 20 years ago, BUT it was possible some made it through to the left side. BTW - there is no history of BC in my family. He was in agreement with my decision not to do rads, but start tamoxifen. He also said that if an older woman 65+ was presented with my dx, he would most likely not recommend rads, just tamoxifen or similar hormone treatment therapy.
I am very comfortable with my decision not to do rads. I have not started tamoxifen yet. Not too thrilled to have that bit of fun added to my life right now. I am scheduled for a 2nd opinion at Dana Farber in Boston this week. I want a 'new' set of eyes to review my entire history and hear their opinion. Up until now, I have always gone to Beth Israel Deaconess in Boston.
So, what I'm trying to say here is that every woman is different and each woman's life choices must be respected.
Rafaela
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mdb....First of all...I wish you and your sister every success on the Budwig Protocol. It is not the direction I would go in, but as you have said, we each have to be totally satisfied with our own choices...if the BP is yours, I wish you good things.
I realize that life expectancy is not changed with the use of radiation after BCS, in the case of early breast cancers..but the incidence of recurrence IS signiificantly lower in those women who have had radiation after BCS...That's why I am doing it....Particularly since I may not be able to take any anti-cancer drug at all....I still need to discuss all my options with an oncologist.
There is a lot of information "out there", and it can be very confusing to sift through it all. However, I believe we each do our best to understand what we can, and do our best to make decisions that are right for us....
God Bless,
Sandy
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Yay Rafaela, thank you.
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Easyquilts too!
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Thank you, Summer...It just goes to show you that everyone is allowed to make her own decision regarding any treatments....The freedom to do so is really important. That's why it is also important to remain unjudgemental..and I think we do that.....It is OK to disagree..but we must always treat each other with the utmost respect.
Sandy
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Agreed...whole heartedly!
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To: louishenry and MarieKelly:
Thank you! For thinking, of me. Yeah, the great, totally clear, CT news was just that .... GREAT. And this, coming off of my Bi-Rad 1 mammo, on both breasts, May, 2008. After the breast cancer in the right breast, August, 2006, and the suspected cancer in my left breast, August, 2007. That latter, ended up with a October, surgical exicsional biopsy that found, nothing. The original diagnosis had been ADH. The results of the exicsional biopsy ... it was all, nothing. No cancer.
But you know what the good thing about this all, is? All of my many cancer diagnoses, threats.
By now, I truly just live, for today. I do. Life is Good!
I do, stop and smell the flowers. Literally. And more so, than ever, I'm enjoying, my children. They're both such wonderful people, and we spend a lot of time, together. My daughter is 19 and my son is 16. And my job is really stressful, but I don't take the stress, home. I leave it, at the office.
Having had all of these cancers, has perhaps, given me a better life. Because I do enjoy life, so much more, now. When now, I know, how quickly, it can be taken, away.
There's no time, to waste. Enjoy life. Now.
And THAT is why I don't want to do, to me, what I consider are suspect "treatments." As MarieKelly said, there will come a day, when the docs will all say, "What WERE we recommending?" "That's just, nonsense."
For my part, I'm just enjoying LIFE! No treatments, no side effects, negative scans.
Life is, just one day, at a time. And I'm taking each day and every day.
Yet still knowing ... tomorrow, I could get pancreatic cancer. Or whatever, ailment.
We're all dying, of something. Eventually. I'm just going to live, in the meantime! And not make myself, sick, trying to stay alive. ...
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mdb - So glad you have the all-clear. I too find that since diagnosis I try to enjoy every experience with my family, more so than before. I find I now put myself out to accomodate family and friends where before I might think "Well, that's something we'll do one day!"
I did rads for the same reason that you did not - I want to enjoy life without worrying that I didn't do everything possible to prevent a recurrence and this too was after long discussions with the rad onc. Of course we will all die at some time with something or other but I want to rule out bc if possible. Best wishes to all on their decision, Jaydee
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hi everyone......have had my surgery to remove cancer.......the results r stage 1 no lymph nodes involved,,,,,,but the margins 1mm......I am 62...my question is ......should I have radition
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I also question whether I should have Radiation. I had a bi-lateral mastectomy one month ago. The path report showed that there was no remaining cancer in my left breast (all had been removed by lumpectomy, but that path test showed no clear margins, doctor must have cut right upto the very edge) and there was no cancer in my right breast. 15 nodes were removed, 4 showed traces of cancer. I am estrogen positive. I had ILC. I start Chemo next week TC 4 treatments. The oncologist said that I would need radiation because of the 4 positive lymph nodes. It scares me because it is on my left side. There is a family history of heart problems and I am on medication for lone atrial fib. Also I fear radiation causing Lymphadema. Will meet with the rad oncologist but before making a decision I will seek another opinion. I am 58. What other factors should I be looking at?
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Ruthie,
A 1 mm margin is pretty tiny. Sometimes it helps to actually visualize just exactly how minimal 1 mm really is. See the following link for a millimeter ruler -
http://www.earthstreasure.com/Info/Millimeter-Inch.html
Was there any discussion with you and your doctor(s) about going back in surgically and attempting to widen the margin? I'm one who tends to feel radiaton can be avoided in many cases but honestly, just 1 little millimeter would make even someone like me very uneasy about not doing radiation unless the margins were significantly wider. What kind of cancer did you have? What size and grade was the cancer? Any vascular invasion? Lot of other things to consider other than just margin width - though margin width is definately is a major consideration.
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hi mariekelly...breast cancer...tumour stage t1c,no,mx .......1.2cm.............her2....no vascular invasion...lymph nodes clear...hope this is what u need...also the surgeon did say he could go in and widen the margins.....if so would I still need radiation??????
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Ruthie, wth all due respect to the other posters on this board, you are asking for very significant medical advice from those who are not possibly qualified to give it. This thread has a number of studies posted, as well as personal experiences, that will give you the ins and outs of radiation, but the bottom line is if you had a lumbectomy radiation is the standard of care, and there are quite a few studies showing that radiation is of significant benefit. Without radiation you have a significantly greater chance of local recurrence, and I posted a study a page or two back that showed after fifteen years, those without radiation were more likely to die from breast cancer than those who had it. So the real question is why would you conisider not having radiation??? Now if you had a mastectomy, the answer is not always as clear as with lumpectomy;
Parenthetically, even if there was a radiation oncologist on board, eventhey couldn't give you legitimate advice without reading your medical records and possibly doing a clinical examination.
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WorriedHubby,
I think it's safe to say that everyone here understands that this forum is not, nor are the participants in it, offering medical advice. This is place for peer support and information exchange. People are asking opinions of others on a variety of subjects. Just glance down through the index and you'll see some of them. "What should I do" is a frequent theme here and those who respond to such question ARE NOT giving, nor attemping to give "legitimate medical advice". You're doing no different than anyone else when you freely volunteer your personal opinions, so are YOU giving medical advice?? Of course not! There is no doctor- patient relationship being established here and although I haven't actually looked for it, I'm sure there's probably a disclaimer about that here somewhere.
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Ruthie,
Radiation is given for control of local disease - cancer in the breast or the immediate area surrounding the breast. It does nothing to control a horse that's already left the gate. The things you need to know about your cancer before you even begin to entertain a thought about whether or not radiation is needed in YOUR specific situation are the following -
1) the type of cancer; invasive ductal, DCIS, Lobular, LCIS, etc etc.
2) the grade of the cancer; grade 1(well -differentiated), grade 2 (moderately differentiated, grade 3 (poorly or undifferentiated). Grade 1 is preferable and prognostically the more favorable one to have and least likely to reoccur.
3) the margin width - best is greater than 10mm or 1 cm. The bigger the better when shooting for no recurrence with a lumpectomy. Margins that have been cut through raise the highest risk of recurrence, followed by those that required a second surgery to clear. Wide clear margins on the first pass have the least risk of recurrence. It's my understanding that many rad oncs won't even do the radiation until there's been an acceptibly clear margin obtained - assuming of course, that's it possible to do.
4) HER 2 status - negative, positive or equivocal? Her 2 negative is best. Her 2 positive is a more aggresive cancer and thus more likely to reoccur.
5) vascular invasion - present or absent? The presence of vascular invasion indicates a higher probability that the cancer has traveled to other areas of the body via the circulation. No vascular invasion is better.
6) node status - positive or negative. If positive,how many positive and was it macro or micro invasive? With a mastectomy 4 or more nodes positive gets you a recomendation for radiation. With a lumpectomy, any positive nodes will usually get a recommendation of radiation to the node area. Obviously, node negative is always prognostically preferable when deciding on radiation or not after lumpectomy.
7)Stage of the cancer - stage 1, stage 2, stage 3, stage 4?? Stage 1 and some stage 2 are considered early cancer. It's always more prognostically favorable to have an early stage cancer. Stage 1 is the most prefered.
8) Your age - older women (menopause and beyond) are the most likely to have a non-aggressive cancer and so also less likely to suffer a recurrence. Older is always better when dealing with breast cancer.
Radiation is almost always advised for any invasive breast cancer because it's currently the standard of care. Some women, after weighing all the pros and cons, make a decision to decline it. Other than to help guide you through the information you need to know in order to make an informed decision about it, nobody here can advise you whether or not to have radiation. You have to make that decision completely on your own after gathering all the information, weighing it as it applies to yourself and then discussing it with your doctors.
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Maria,
I don't know very much about ILC - mine was IDC and that's basically all I read about. No clear margins after a mastectomy though, sounds like your tumor was positioned so close to another structure (such as chest wall?) that it couldn't be resected with clear margins. If the surgeon cut through the margin at the chest wall, I don't think it would be advisable to decline radiation. If it were just the issue of positive nodes and you only had 3 positive, you might be able to reasonably argue against it since there's still some debate about whether or not it's needed with 1-3 nodes. But in my opinion, the combo of 4 nodes positive and an unclear mastectomy margin make it a situation where considering no rads is too risky. JMHO!
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Mariekelly, her question was this:
hi everyone......have had my surgery to remove cancer.......the results r stage 1 no lymph nodes involved,,,,,,but the margins 1mm......I am 62...my question is ......should I have radition\
I don't know how much more directly somebody can be asking for medical advice then this particular question. She is not asking what lotions she should apply to avoid burns, she is asking the most fundamental question of whether she should have radiation or not. Now I am not suggesting you or others have actually given medical advice, but some of the responses to questions like this become very close and the fact is that some people may choose to avoid radiation.based on some of the statements in this thread. That could end up being a tragedy for those people should they have a recurrence that spreads. The proper answer to any question like this is of course that it is not proven that radiation will benefit all people but that it is impossible, at this point to know who it will not benefit, so from a prophylactic point of view, every lumpectomy patient out there should have radiation. But I am not hearing that answer. I'm hearing things like "it depends on your individual situation and its up to you"/ Of course it is, Every adult has the choice to consent or not to medical treatment. But to suggest to people who are frightened and not very knowledgeable that they can make a reasoned determination to avoid radiation, especially when nobody here could possibly know what is best for any individual or not, is simply WRONG.
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Today, after I ahd my eleventh radiation treatment, I met with my rad/oncol....I asked him if he thought there was any case of early breast cancer that should NOT be radiated....His opinion was that only those who have had a mastectomy should consider forgoing radiation....I agree with him.
Hopefully, the radiation will kill off any stray cancer cells hiding in breast tissue after a lumpectomy, U have to say that I don't understand why anyone would not want to do as much as possible to prevent a recurrence....Doing radiation is NOT like locking the barn door after the horses have escaped....I think of it as mopping up....and killing off any cancer cells that may remain. At least that is the goal. It has certainly been shown that having radiation therapy greatly reduces one's chances of a recurrence....I want every chance possible to irradicate this disease from my body....in the hope of NEVER having to deal with it again.
So....I go to my cancer center every day....climb up on the table (I'm under five feet tall), and have my treatment...No matter how bad it gets, I will keep going....Absolutely. I am determined to do whatever it takes to get rid of this cancer. To me, not doing rads is taking an awful chance, and I'm not willing to do that.
Sandy
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WorriedHubby,
Someone asking a question such as "should I do radiation?" on a forum like this one is NOT asking for medical advice....they are asking for the personal opinion of other breast cancer patients. Medical advise is something that's delivered by a physician, and you apparently don't understand the difference.
If there are some who make a decision to decline radiation after lumpectomy ( or any other decision about treatment for that matter) because of what they read on this forum, then that's THEIR decision and their right to do so. Personally, I don't think it's your place to attempt to censor what people should or shouldn't be reading about, nor to decide what the "proper answer" should be regarding any discussions here.
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MarieKelly, thanks for your input, but I think you misread my first post. The lumpectomy had no clear margins, BUT the pathology from the mastectomy showed an all clear, no cancer remaining in my left breast and none in my right breast.
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Maria, I apologize for the oversight . Having cardiac issues myself (valvular heart disease) and that being one of the reasons I refused radiation, I truly do understand your concern about being radiated to the left side. That said however, I still think you're between a rock and a hard place here regarding questioning the need for radiation in light of having those 4 positive nodes - although I think the hard place is a teeny bit softer now that I realize you're not also dealing with a postive mastectomy margin.
There's been much controversy for many years (literally decades) regarding post mastectomy radiation with positive nodes and it still continues to this day. Currently the standard of care is to radiate anyone with 4 or more positive nodes and the most recent 2008 guidlines from the NCCN now also strongly recommend that it be considered for those with 1-3 nodes as well. http://www.nccn.org/professionals/meetings/13thannual/highlights/1324.html
I've collected some information in the following links for you to review. It's a very difficult decision, especially with the additional cardiac concerns you have. My suggestion would be for you to get multiple opinions from different, independent radiation oncologists and then weigh all the pros and cons very carefully once you've heard what they all have to say about your concerns.
Ann Oncol. 2007 Aug;18(8):1342-7.Links Is avoiding post-mastectomy radiotherapy justified for patients with four or more involved axillary nodes and endocrine-responsive tumours? Lessons from a series in a single institution.Gentilini O, Botteri E, Rotmensz N, Intra M, Gatti G, Silva L, Peradze N, Sahium RC, Gil LB, Luini A, Veronesi P, Galimberti V, Gandini S, Goldhirsh A, Veronesi U. Division of Breast Surgery, European Institue of Oncology, Milan, Italy. oreste.gentilini@ieo.itBACKGROUND: Current guidelines for post-mastectomy radiotherapy (PMRT) derive largely from extrapolating information from multicentre trials. The aim of this study was to describe outcomes of patients who underwent mastectomy without radiotherapy in a single institution. PATIENTS AND METHODS: 650 patients had total mastectomy and axillary dissection without PMRT between 1997 and 2001. Median follow-up was 65 months. RESULTS: 5-year cumulative incidence of loco-regional recurrence (LRR) was 6.8% (3.0, 8.1, 9.9% in node negative, 1-3, > or =4 positive nodes, respectively). At the multivariate analysis, positive lymph nodes and endocrine non-responsive tumours were found to shorten LRR disease-free survival. In patients with positive hormone receptors, 5-year cumulative incidence of LRR disease-free survival were 2.3%, 7.6% and 7.6% for node negative, 1-3 and > or =4 positive lymph nodes, respectively. The same figures were 5.9%, 10.3% and 20.0% in patients with endocrine non-responsive tumours. CONCLUSIONS: patients with endocrine-responsive tumours treated by mastectomy and complete (level III) axillary dissection have a low risk of LRR even if four or more positive lymph nodes are involved, thus giving rise to doubts on the use of PMRT in this subset of patients. On the other hand, PMRT might play a role for patients with negative hormone receptors and four or more positive nodes.PMID: 17693648 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]http://ije.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/content/extract/37/3/518Published by Oxford University Press on behalf of the International Epidemiological Association © The Author 2008; all rights reserved. Commentary: A dose-response relationship for radiation-induced heart disease-current issues and future prospectsPaul McGale* and Sarah C Darby * Corresponding author. Clinical Trial Service Unit, Richard Doll Building, University of Oxford, Old Road Campus, Roosevelt Drive, Oxford OX3 7LF, UK. E-mail: paul.mcgale@ctsu.ox.ac.uk Accepted 12 March 2008 The first 150 words of the full text of this article appear below.There is compelling evidence that ionizing radiation can increasethe risk of heart disease. An overview of 63 trials including32 800 women with early breast cancer1 found that the deathrate from heart disease in women randomized to radiotherapywas 27% higher than that for women randomized to no radiotherapy(SE 7%, 2p = 0.0001). Irradiated women in these trials received1-20 Gy mean cardiac dose,2 depending on the techniqueused and the laterality of the tumour, typically in about 20fractions.Breast cancer radiotherapy techniques have changed since manyof the women in these trials were irradiated and mean cardiacdoses have reduced. However, the heart still usually receivessome dose. A detailed study of cardiac doses from adjuvant tangentialbreast cancer radiotherapy in 2006 in a major UK radiotherapycentre found that about half the women with left-sided tumoursreceived doses of 20 Gy or more . . . [Full Text of this Article] Controversies Regarding the Use of Radiation After Mastectomy in Breast Cancer http://theoncologist.alphamedpress.org/cgi/content/full/7/6/539You can also just go to the National Library of Medicine (PUBMED), enter whatever it is you want to explore further into the search engine and you'll have access to an entire world of medical literature. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/
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Worried Hubby wrote:
"But to suggest to people who are frightened and not very knowledgeable that they can make a reasoned determination to avoid radiation, especially when nobody here could possibly know what is best for any individual or not, is simply WRONG."
Wow. What a comment, Worried Hubby. You sound like an elitist. YOU know, what's best for everyone. And that is the woman totally trusting in whatever doctor that she happens to visit, in her local area. And I guess, for you, the "standard of care" is KING.
Even though, the "standard of care," thirty years ago, was EVERY breast cancer was treated, with radical mastectomy. There's a cancer in the breast, cut it ALL off. Done.They even took out ALL of the lymph nodes. Whether there was cancer in them, or not.
This "radiation industry" didn't even exist, yet.
I was reading the breastcancer.org discussion boards, when I made my decision, in October, 2006, to NOT do the breast radiation. For my Stage 1, 2cm IDC, ER/PR+, HER-, no node involvement breast cancer. And it was NOT because I was just "not very knowledgeable," and just "blindly followed" some posters comments.
I read what real breast cancer's patients experiences, were, here, but also read what ALL of the studies said. There's a lot of information out there. There's a lot info, right here, on breastcancer.org. I quoted that breastcancer.org study, earlier, and even my doc, last week said it again;
If you do the radiation, or not, no difference in life expectancy.
That in a nutshell, is why I decided to not do, the radiation. Well, plus also having survived the Leiomyosarcoma.
Or more for my part, GET cancer, from the "breast prevention" treatments.
You have read the studies, Worried Hubby, that there is risk for other cancers from breast radiation. And Tamoxifen can cause uterine cancer worries. And other problems.
Yet, I'm different, I know. I have a high risk quotient. If the worst thing that can happen, is another breast cancer surgery, that's fine, with me. I'm willing to take the risk. The worst study, quoted to me was a 40% chance of recurrence. But then, that still means there's a 60% chance, it won't recur.
Others, are not. They have a low-risk, quotient. Like easyquilts, Sandy. From what she wrote, above, she wants no risk at all. And is welcoming the radiation and doing it because that is best, for her.
But what this site, is all about, is hearing from Sandy and hearing, from me, and MarieKelley and others. And both sides, should be represented, as they are. And very respectfully.
Worried Hubby, you seem to keep writing on this thread, trying to "justify" your choice for your wife's radiation. Why are you doing that?
Although, I can understand it. I know, for my part, I kept going back to the radition oncs, trying to get them to "agree with me" that I didn't need, the radiation. But they never would. They just kept spouting this "standard of care" to me.
The turning point, for me? After all that I'd read, I did NOT want the radiation. And I would never get the radiation oncs, to agree, with me. It's their job, to give radiation. So, I finally, just listened to myself, and walked away. And even if my cancer comes back, I'll get it surgically treated, again. But I will never have breast radiation.
I'm just relating my experiences, Worried Hubby. I'm not telling anyone, what to do. Sandy has read all of my messages, she's totally getting the radiation. And that's right, for her.
Nobody is an idiot, here. Which you seem to think they might be. What did you say? It was, "they're frightened and not very knowledgeable that they can make a reasoned determination to avoid radiation"
Sorry, I find that ... insulting.
I and others made the decision to not do the radiation. Sandy, and many more others made the decision to do it.
And we've all read, the same messages.
What IS your point?
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MarieKelly, thanks for the links and your input.
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I have recently learned from experience that the number of lymph nodes may not be as significant as some other findings buried in your pathology report. Probably why someone with 1 or 2 + nodes will get mets and another with 10 nodes may not.
"focal extronodal extension", "micropapillry component", "EIC status", "vessel invasion in perinodal fat" are all considered to be of significant prognostic value.
I would suggest asking your doc about these if you are considering refusing rads after they have been recommended for you.
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Wow. What a comment, Worried Hubby. You sound like an elitist. YOU know, what's best for everyone. And that is the woman totally trusting in whatever doctor that she happens to visit, in her local area. And I guess, for you, the "standard of care" is KING.
I guess I just don't understand why what I am saying is over your head? Adhominem attacks against me do not change one iota the absolute fact that you are in no position to give medical advice to anybody, especially given your cynical opinion that the medical community foists radiation on women only for the money and not because it believes radiation benefits outweigh the costs and risks.. What you elected to do or why you elected to do something has no possible relevance to whether another person should choose to have radiation or not. You have no knowledge of the persons individual tumor characteristics, have never performed a clinical examination of the poster, have not reviewed the poster's medical records and probably have just enough knowledge about radiation and breast cancer to be dangerous. It is clear from your posts that you are anti-radiation and are trying to influence others to avoid it. I can't believe you think its okay that people should simply risk another recurrence of cancer in their breast as if that is no big deal simply because you think it is no big deal. I write on this thread because I am amazed there are people like you saying what you do and the other "nice" women around here don't want to challenge you, even though many of them probably think you are totally wrong and maybe somewat of a nut. I am doing my best to warn others here that they should take what you say with a grain of salt. Whether they do or not is up to them. And, by the way, I posted a study up above that says survivability is worse without radiation. That only makes sense since a certain percentage of people who have a recurrence of breast cancer in their breast are going to metastasis. Otherwise, breast cancer would never kill anyone.
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Worried Hubby, what are you saying is "over my head?" That I refuse the breast radiation treatement? While you have all of these reasons, to force your wife into it? When even you said, above:
"We are pretty happy that the risk of recurrence is low, but if she can get it lower by a few percent via radiation than we are willing to do so. Unlike you, I do not place great faith in Mammograms or radiologists and I want to reduce the possibility of the cancer coming back in the first place."
You don't place any faith in radiologists? Then why is your wife is having radiation? But then, you said it, it's "few percent lower risk." And you and your wife are willing to take on all of the risks of the radiation and get a fewer percent lower risk.
Or perhaps you just, mis-wrote, and do place a lot of faith,in Radiologists. I sure hope so.
For my part, I don't. I am not willing to do that. Have the radiation, with my early stage breast cancer. And I'll keep saying that, here.
Worried Hubby, you're just spouting the "party line" for the "benefits" of radiation, with early stage breast cancer, and I'm just disagreeing, with you. Why do you think you need to "warn others" against me?
Maybe, because I might make some sense?
And to conclude, maybe the gist, of this thread. I chose, for myself, to NOT do the radiation. Who is going to lose, if my decision, is wrong. Me. I'll just die, according to you. The early stage breast cancer, cut out with wide margins will just spontaneously, metastisize.
I guess you already posted that study, of the spontaneous metastasis. From the early stage breast cancer, cut out, with wide margins.
I just think that is ludicrous.
I am taking this risk, for myself. Because I do not believe there is any risk, with not doing the radiation, with early stage, breast cancer. I don't.
Although, I will continue, to get mammograms.And if my cancer, returns, I'll get it cut out, again. Via a Lumpectomy.
But maybe more to the point, why didn't you just have your wife have a double mastectomy? Then, clearly, the breast cancer would not come back. She won't have any breasts.
According to my breast surgeon, a lot of women do do that. Get their breasts,cut off, for the tiniest cancer. I find that, appalling, but maybe the solution for you, worried hubby. Get your wife's breasts, cut off. Then, your wife would never get breast cancer. And you wouldn't have to worry, any more, and leave this board.
mdb
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worriedhubby -
This is a forum to share information and provide support for women all over the world with breast cancer. Yes, you have shared information, BUT certainly not in a caring fashion.
These boards are all about care, support, and love for women experiencing breast cancer. Have you read any books about what it means to women that are diagnosed with breast cancer? Your postings tend to be copies of various articles you've found on the web, all very clinical in nature. I'd like to see you learn more about the emotional side of what these women are facing, then post back to us.
If my husband was like you, he wouldn't be my husband much longer.
I have posted this before and will say again --
Every woman is different and HER life's choices should be respected and supported.
Rafaela
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If my husband was like you, he wouldn't be my husband much longer.
I don't think that is something either of us would ever have had to worry about
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First Mdb, I do not trust the radiologists to properly interpret the scans, one reason I would worry about a recurrence to begin with, because it could in fact metastatise before it is detected. That's totally different from a radiation oncologist who does not interpret images, but plans for and administers radiation. You think because you have clean margins that there is no risk of a recurrence? Then why do so many women with clean margins undergo radiation? And why do some of them have recurrences.
By asking why my wife did not have a double mastectomy, you still don't get it.. Its not about assuming some risk. Its about assuming unreasonable risks. There is significant risk of a non-radiated breast having a recurrence of breast cancer. The risk of not having radiation is geometrically greater than the risk of having radiation. Your sticking your head in the sand and denying the science in no way changes the facts. And every recurrence means additonal risk of metastasis. I don't see how this simple statement can be denied.
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- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
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- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
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- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
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- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
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- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team