diagnosed yesterday

oddboood

I just found the lump over the weekend, the doc diagnosed me with a BIRAD 5 Ultrasound yesterday and I will have the biopsy and mammogram tomorrow. It does not seem real. I'm terrified about telling my mom and my adult son. And I just can't concentrate on anything so I'm useless at work. I guess I will get used to it? I think I'm in a bit of shock.

Aram

Hi oddboood, I am sorry you are here. It is normal what you are going through. I was not able to concentrate for a while. It gets better when you have more information and a treatment plan in place.

Esther01

I'm so sorry and sending you a virtual hug as I remember that initial shock. My diagnosis took me by surprise, too. I thought I was so healthy and suddenly found out I needed to take care of my cellular health which I am now doing. Looking back, I've learned so much in this bc journey but sure would have preferred learning it a different way!

I couldn't get much done at work either That's ok. Be easy on yourself as it will help your brain past the shock. I took walks outside and breathed deeply which helped me relax.

No matter what the biopsy finds, you will receive support, resources and love. There is so much hope these days and you will not have to walk this alone. Until you know more, your family can hug you and support you and bring strength to you in the process.

I'm normally a very private person but told a lot of people right away because I knew they would all be praying for me, and I appreciated that. I think it made a difference in my healing and recovery.

Let us know how your tests go tomorrow. We will be here for you!

Blessings,

Esther

LivinLife

Whoa oddboood! I can't imagine starting at BIRADS 5 - that's a serious place to be. As was said what you're feeling and struggling with right now is normal for what you're going through. And as was said once you get specific information about your situation a plan will be developed and that really helps. There's still a small chance this could be benign though BIRADS 5 is I think 95% likely to be cancer. then hope for DCIS vs. invasive...... Please keep us posted as you gain new information. this is a great site for information and support as I'm sure you've seen already.... Best with biopsy and mammo tomorrow!!

Adorii

I had Breast Cancer before on my right breast, Tripple Negative was diagnosed and Ive been free fr cancer for 12 yrs now. But I went and got a mammo and they saw sum so had me come back for another mammo and ultra sound. They showed me 3 spots on my other breast, but sent me home saying they will let me know by mail or the Dr will call me in a week and a half> I am upset at this and dont know what to do right now, Just been crying just thinking of having to go thro this again...

Esther01

I'm so sorry, Adorii. The waiting is the worst, and you have been through that before. Wish I could send you more than a virtual [hug]. It may not be what you fear. Hopefully they will get back to you sooner than they mentioned.

Love and blessings,

Esther

LivinLife

Of course this is upsetting Adorii!!! I can't imagine being in your position. Many people on this site have been though so hopefully you are finding other helpful and hopeful posts... The waiting is just soooo difficult! Hopefully you're not waiting too much longer... Glad you reached out on this site! Gentle hugs and support sent your way....

tulletutu

Wow...that is moving at a pace that has to make your head spin. I was diagnosed Thursday but don't see the Multidisciplinary Team for a week and a half.

Good luck.

oddboood

Thanks Adam. I've done okay keeping it out of my head this weekend. I'm told I'll get biopsy results tomorrow or Tuesday, so not much longer now.

AMG2

Oddboood, I'm so sorry. Hugs and love to you. The waiting and not knowing what exactly is coming, but knowing it's very unlikely to be anything good just stinks.

Waves2Stars

It’s scary and it all seems to happen so fast! Maybe having more information will help you tell your family. I’m sorry you’re hear and hope your news turns out well.

redhead403

OH I am so sorry that you are here. I was driving on the freeway when I was notified that I had Cancer. I hope that everything goes well. So many are living with breast cancer because there are so many treatments. The shock with change after you find out what is ahead for you. Good Luck!

Dlphnsgl

oddboood and Adorii what a time you both are going through! oddboood, you have definitely all right to be scared and going through so many emotions right now! Adorii, I am praying with you the 3 spots come back benign. To make you wait 3 weeks via email can only feel tortuous! Kinda hard to believe they're doing it that way, esp since you've already fought cancer before! For both of you the waiting and testing and waiting again is indeed awful. Whatever the diagnosis, we are here for you. I'm so glad to have had these lovely community folks here on breastcancer.org to help me through it all!

BIG HUGS!

~Teri

oddboood

So it's triple negative. I'm pretty freaked out. I'm 56, so I was not expecting this. I will return to the U.S. for treatment, but I have no idea where to go. Home is DC area, but I don't actually have a ton of support there, so I'm open to anywhere. Oh hell.

Waves2Stars

That sucks. I don’t think anyone expects it, and from looking around on here the last few days, it looks like there’s plenty of women who get it who don’t have the “risk factors.” The women on here have been so helpful and informative for me, and looking at everyone’s signatures, with their dx date, types, treatments, has helped me realize one size doesn’t fit all with BC. And they all know how you feel so you’re not completely alone.

LivinLife

That's a lot to take in and deal with oddboood!!! Returning to the U.S. sounds like a very wise decision. I hope you either know others near a good breast center or focus on picking one of the best care centers. It sounds like you'll do the best for you care you can! Please keep us posted as you get more information.... You're likely aware there are Triple Negative forums on this site....

oddboood

Thanks, LivinLife. Looks like I'll be heading to Johns Hopkins to start treatment next week. I'm ready.

LivinLife

That will be a very good place indeed to undergo treatment! Safe travels.... Best!!!