Opting out of Radiation
I finally decided not to have radiation after my lumpectomy. This is not for everyone! I'm past the 3/4 century mark, had good scores on all the testing, not likely to metastasize out of the breast, and I consulted with all my providers, not all of whom agreed, but my decision shouldn't make any difference in my mortality.
This was my second IDC, after 12 years. The first time around I didn't tolerate treatment, rads and hormone, well. But my main reason for not getting radiation is the awful ugly breast I can't live with the way it is. I'm going to get plastic surgery. Plastic surgery wouldn't be successful if I would get radiation. My radiologist confirmed my belief that the already hard tissue would harden more and look worse after treatment. I think of it as a piece of chicken that has been cooked too long in the microwave. That's what the other area of the breast that had radiation previously has been like for 12 years. The nipple is retracted so that it looks like a mouth, and the rest of the tissue was drawn high up into a lumpy ball. The volume after surgery is still plenty to fill up my D cup.
Before surgery I was ok with a mastectomy, but was insisting on a double, as I'm fairly large and didn't want a heavy weight hanging on one side. I was delighted that it was possible to do a second lumpectomy, because that would be less surgery. But the result has been as bad as going flat, to me.
I understand it's 20% or so likely that there will be a recurrence in the same breast. If that happens a mastectomy would be necessary. But the statistics for survival are the same. I will have to keep up surveillance with mammograms. I will also try hormone treatment, but expect I won't tolerate it, like the last time.
Again, this is not a recommendation for others. I had good Oncotype and other test scores and am old. Each of us has to make decisions based on our own circumstance.
Comments
-
Sounds like a well thought out decision.
Did you have good surgical margins with the lumpectomy? That could drop recurrence risk to less than 20%. I think the grade of the cancer factors into the local recurrence risk estimate too.
Rads for older women is controversial - some studies say that it is given more than necessary, while other studies suggest that it should be given if the patient is healthy enough to tolerate it. So it doesn't seem to be clear either way.
Good luck with the plastic surgery! -
1 cm margins all around. My surgeon gave me recurrence number even higher. I did a lot of reading of scientific reviews of studies. I thank my radiologist for helping me organize my thoughts while making sure not to push me in any direction.
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team