August 2019 surgery support group
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Tracy ...I had lymph nodes removed the first time . The surgeon told me he won't be trying to take nodes this time , but sometimes they are taken just because of where they are .
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ACChaos,,
I have one right expander and I feel the same way. I know it’s there and it I don’t like it. The first fill at the office was okay, but I think they filled it more this time and it sort of hurts. I also feel a pulling under my arm and some arm discomfort. Had a complete (“I can’t do this “) melt down last night, but it passed, had a glass of wine, and sleep and I felt better. Trying not to over do it today...and that’s hard
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Laurencl, I’m trying to keep the temporary part in mind. I’m realizing that most of my discomfort is the expanders at this point, for which I was not really prepared. Must have been yet another conversation I don’t remember. Slouching was unusually uncomfortable and then I realized it’s the plates. Grr. It’s only a few months. I haven’t had any fills other than that the initial one with air. I’m kind of dreading the transition to saline
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ACchaos
I’ve heard the actual saline implants are way more comfortable. Most people find the TEs uncomfortable :
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Has PT been suggested to anyone? Have you gone?
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I didn't have PT suggested. Did you have chording or Lymphedema?
Tracy
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TMH
Nope. Have not had any of that. The RO said it would help with range of motion...just seems like something else to do
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I didn't have PT with either of my surgeries and my range of motion is fine, I just made an effort to stretch my arms and muscles each day.
Tracy
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I had a PT meeting prior to surgery and have a multi-week plan for range of motion exercises to do at home. I find they help a lot. At 2w post surgery I was allowed to start lifting my arms above shoulder height and I think the exercises really helped with this transition.
If you Google "mastectomy range of motion" there are lots of online resources and also YouTube videos.
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My surgeon never gave me any exercises to do. Now I have mild cording on one side and my range of motion is horrible. I finally have a PT appointment next week to start working on it. The therapist is also a lymphedema specialist, so I will learn prevention techniques.
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there are anyone Isnot having radiation and why? What is the pourcentage of the recurrence rate decrease that makes radiation worthy? Thanks.
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I had radiation with my first round in 1999. For what it’s worth, my MO believes my current Dx is a new cancer and NOT a recurrence. So I had 20 years with no recurrence.
Tracy
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hi Tmh- radiation and all treatments are done to reduce ris I but they are proposed while they are more important than Se. If a radiation reduces the risk by around 4 percent is the radiation worth it conciderung that rads also have risks. That’s why I was asking what is the percentage of recurrence decrease that makes rads worthy. My friend with no agressive tumour is offered the chance do it or not do it because docs did nor see much difference.
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When I did it in 99, all they could offer with regards to studies was that "lumpectomy with radiation" was equal to Mastectomy as relates to effectiveness. I believe there are far more studies on risk v. benefit out now. I had very few SEs from radiation even 20 years ago, and it's much more targeted now. I wonder about ladies who see a lot of bad SEs and whether or not the field of radiation and dose is appropriate.
The scary thing about Radiation, and even chemo, is that both are carcinogenic and can cause secondary cancers. I remember signing a form at the initiation of radiation acknowledging there was a small risk of developing radiation induced lymphoma. With chemo, there is a risk of Leukemia.... it's all maddening.
Tracy
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Margun, I've been battling whether to do radiation also. I know the decision is ultimately mine but I'll talk to MO on the 25th. I'm looking at 6 1/2 weeks. That's a lot.
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hi Margun - not sure if this helps, but this is my situation. I had a DCIS dx from an excisional biopsy and my margins were around 3mm on all sides except one, which was <1mm. My first BS who did the procedure proposed doing another excision for clean margins and I was scheduled to see an RO. I'm 47, family history of BC, no (known) genetic markers, very dense breasts. I'm risk adverse. I read everything I could get my hands on. I didn't see a way out of radiation if I decided to keep my breast and have less than 25-30% chance of recurrence, which was too high for me. I discussed with MO and he agreed. So, I cancelled my RO appt. I decided that if my choice was between rads + HT + MRI/close monitoring or bmx, I preferred bmx.
My bmx found more DCIS, but I had clean margins and SNB was negative, so I will not be having rads.
Fyi - my new BS mentioned a test similar to the oncotype test that is an indicator for the benefit of rads. I don't remember the name of it but happy to look in my binder if you're interested.
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I chose to have a BMX with no reconstruction because I didn't want radiation, but my MO is suggesting it. I agreed to meet with the RO once my chemo is done, but I'm uncertain. My cancer is 100% ER positive, so I was hoping hormonal therapy would be enough after chemo. I need more info before I make a final decision.
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LMS-your Mo is suggesting rads because of node involvement? But if chemo gets rid of all cells perhaps he will changehis mind.
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I was hoping to avoid radiation, particularly when my surgeon said that my pathology report was good and she was not sure I needed it. All my docs are with the same hospital system and I was told that the cases are discussed. The MO and RO recommended radiation since there was one lymph node. I do trust my docs and have decided to proceed, but disappointed for sure. Looks like 6 weeks. Just want to get it done
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Yes, I had one node involved, thus radiation is suggested. I still need to be convinced.
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I had lumpectomy, radiation and tamoxifen with my first IDC in 2012. Only long term side effect was that I had very little sweat glands on that side and some mild discoloration. This time, I had DCIS in my other breast and elected DMX and won't need radiation.
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Had my appointment to go over my pathology results. I had an additional 3mm of DCIS that was unseen on the mammogram and found during the pathology exam. TIssue was removed and it must have been really close to the nipple as I have had a small amount of bleeding from there. The surgeon's are watching it.
Two drains left, one should be removed tomorrow. The other is right at the 30ml mark.
I will be at the two week mark tomorrow and feel better everyday. Initially, these implants seemed so foreign/strange feeling. I am starting to get used to them.
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Belinda- in some point I have to take hormone pills. I do not know if it will be tamoxifen or something else. What was your experience with tamoxifen? I read a lot onnegative experiences with hormone pills and when one must take them for 5-10 years it is worrisome how it will affect life.
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Margun -- I did fine on the Tamoxifen. Initially, I was very moody but subsided with time. My cancers were 99 and 97% ER+ so for me I never considered not taking it. However, I got the DCIS on Tamoxifen which has them concerned. I am technically still pre-menopausal so considered ovary removal so that that I can take an Aromotise Inhibitor.
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I think the type of the hormone pill and how long you have to take it depends on the age of the persons, if she is premenopausal or postmenopausal as well as how much hormon positive she is. I do not know how much positivities am. I am in fifties postmenopausal. I hope my doc will recommend 5 years and I am curious what type of pill is commonly suggested to postmenopausal women
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Margun yeah me too, I wonder what they will want me to take. I think the aromatase inhibitors are for post menopause? Breastcancer.org has a good article "Hormonal Therapy Side Effects" with a comparison chart. I really hope they don't want me to take Femara b/c it can raise your cholesterol & I'm already on Crestor for that!!
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I'm thinking of all you ladies today and hope that you are healing well!!!!
I start physical therapy next week to get my range of motion tip top. I made it through chemo #1...only 3 more to go!
I'm praying for all of you...for speedy healing and for a fantastic new normal once we all get through this.
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I'm thinking of all you ladies today and hope that you are healing well!!!!
I start physical therapy next week to get my range of motion tip top. I made it through chemo #1...only 3 more to go!
I'm praying for all of you...for speedy healing and for a fantastic new normal once we all get through this.
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Add me to the list, too. I had BMX on 8/13. Stage 1a, grade 2, no lymph involvement (0/5) ER+PR+HER2-. The surgery went well and decided on BMX bc I have BRCA1 mutation. Recovery is going well but it’s been difficult allowing myself to be so dependent. However, a friend who has had breast cancer told me that her arm lymphedema is from trying to do too much too soon after surgery. Well, that scared me straight!! 😂Like others, I cleaned my house and organized like crazy before surgery and glad I did. Coming home to a clean house was comforting. I don’t think the acuteness of the pain has been the issue for me as much as the length of recovery. I have to say, I am a tough gal but this has made me feel like I’ve been in the ring with Ali! Anxious for the next week to pass so I can finally take the compression bra off!
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Welcome Yogatyme! Wishing you quick healing.
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