25 years old, just diagnosed & trying to be patient.

brittandherboobs

Hi All!

A few months ago I noticed a marble sized lump in my right breast. I went to a local walk in clinic for an exam, they told me that’s yes, they felt the lump but based on my age it was likely to be a cyst. I had a “gut feeling” that something wasn’t right so I continued seeking opinions from other clinics in the area. I was finally sent for an ultrasound, radiologist says it looks like breast trauma... “have you been punched in the breast?”. WTF. I eventually just said “Fine. If it’s nothing to worry about, refer me to a surgeon. I want it removed.” I landed in the hands of a fantastic surgeon who ordered a mammogram and biopsy. I was diagnosed on March 5th. I’ve since had second mammogram, this time with contrast which came back “clear”. No other spots in either breast. Lumpectomy is next week. Awaiting abdominal ultrasound + bone scan results. Im absolutely terrified. I wanted kids, I’m afraid it’s spread everywhere, I feel so alone

Salamandra

Brittandherboobs

Sending good vibes!!

You've had to be so strong already. I know you will do what needs to be done. I wish it were easier.

For what it's worth, I think your excellent doctor is just bring appropriately cautious. Chances are you will get appropriate treatment, do fertility preservation if necessary, and come through to a new equilibrium. Rooting for you. Take care of yourself and don't be afraid to treat this as a big deal that merits special treatment and cutting yourself as many breaks as you can. So sorry you have to deal with this so young.

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Britt,

We're so very sorry to hear of your diagnosis, and at such a young age! But, we're really glad you've found us -- you're sure to find our Community an incredible source of information, advice, and support. You are NOT alone -- we are all here for you!

While you wait for the ever helpful messages from others here, you may also want to introduce yourself on the Young With Breast Cancer forum, where you can meet others who have been diagnosed young, and discuss the unique challenges that this brings.

We are sending all of our best thoughts your way, and we look forward to hearing more from you and supporting you along your treatment journey and beyond!

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NoWhyToIt

Hi--

I just wanted to send some advice. I'm 5 years from diagnosis from a Stage 3 diagnosis. I wasn't as young as you but I was pretty young as far as cancer goes. Your youth will give you strength as you go through treatment. Good for you for keeping at it and going with your gut. Once all your testing is done, you will know more about what treatments are ahead of you. No matter what,you will find others with similar situations on these boards. In the meantime, don't think about worst case scenarios. As you wait for testing don't torture yourself with trying to figure out what results will be. Just focus on making your present life the priority. Be with friends and family and try to plan fun things to do alongside the experiences with doctors. Many people go on to have kids after breast cancer. Check back in when you know more!

buttonsmachine

I never want anyone to get BC, but I think it's especially unfair to those of us who are very young.

Definitely look into fertility preservation options sooner than later. The actual injection and harvest process only takes a couple weeks, but you want to plan ahead and have everything in place so it doesn't delay your cancer treatment unnecessarily.

You can do this, and we are here for you. Big hugs.

Alana_

Britt,

I am a bit older than you (I’m 32) and was just diagnosed with DCIS a couple of weeks ago. I am so sorry you’re going through this at such a young age. I don’t have many words for you but just know that you are not alone

santabarbarian

Britt I am so impressed you pushed for a surgeon, and got diagnosed. A lot of people would just slink away if a doctor said "it's nothing." You have done yourself a huge favor. Hoping the scans will be clear and the lumpectomy will be all you need. In any event, it will be so much better than if you had not pushed for an answer and let it continue. Bravo to you.

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Welcome, Alana_! We're so sorry you find yourself here, but we hope you find this community to be a place of support. These first days and weeks can be hard, but we're all here to help you through this. As you said, you are not alone.

We look forward to seeing you on the boards, and encouraging you through every step of this journey.

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