Waiting on biopsy

Kelly325

I know this seems to be a common post about how horrible the wait for the diagnosis is but I don’t know who else to go to. My boyfriend is shutting down and scared and therefore impossible to talk to because I’m normally the strong one. I found a lump 2 weeks ago yesterday, had mammo last Thursday, ultrasound Friday that showed “1.7cm spiculated mass highly suspicious for malignancy”. Saw surgeon on Monday who also told me he’s very confident it is cancer but even if it comes back benign he’s taking it out because he’ll assume someone in the lab made a mistake. Had biopsy done Tuesday now I wait. They took 5 samples I have no pain, it was measuring 2.3cm on ultrasound Tuesday. I’m hoping to have results by tomorrow before the weekend but not counting on it. Is it still safe to have a glass of wine to wind my head down I don’t want to go to the gym I’m still on limited restrictions because Of the biopsy and out of work. (I have two jobs as a 911 emt in violent cities so was taken out to not overdue it at work) and also a nursing student during the day. I have 3 teenage kids at home and boyfriend of 8 years is a cop So to say I have enough stress is putting it mildly. I don’t fear diagnosis of cancer I fear more being out of work or not finishing my degree because of treatment. I was actually going to school to be an oncology nurse and hospice nurse.

Melrosemelrose

Glad you found this place but so sorry that you are joining the adventure. Yes, this is a safe place to say what you need to say and find support and comfort. I know it is not easy for find peace and calm right now; however the anxiety will lessen as more of your medical situation reveals itself with tests and results of those tests. Once more is known, your medical team ( oncologist, breast surgeon.etc) will formulate a treatment plan. At point, you will have a much better idea of where you are heading than you now have. Be easy on yourself throughout your adventure..... eat well..... rest well...... get a little walk in. Also do yourself a big favor and avoid Dr. Google who is notorious for being sometimes out of date, inaccurate and may not be applicable to your situation. This may feel like an emotional rollercoaster ride...... hurry up and wait. Just buckle seat belt and hang on tight and laugh, cry and scream while you are on this adventure. Hang in there..... sending you hugs and many positive thoughts and energy.