Can ppl who arent Stage 4 stop PMing me about their worries?

minxie

I hate to be rude, but seriously, I'm not a doctor. I have no idea if you're stage IV now or what your test results mean. And I have enough of my own problems to worry about.

blainejennifer

No one has PMed me, but I feel the same way. Granted, before I became Stage 4, I might have been one of those people who worried about whether I had mets or not, and I probably would have pestered metsters if I'd had the opportunity.

Because there is no way of understanding Stage 4 till you get here.

So, if any earlier stage ladies are reading this, please understand that we have strength enough for us, and that's about it. This is our clubhouse, and the sign on the door is exclusionary.

Because we don't have to be brave here. We can share without filters. Even if we are bald, we can let our hair down.

So, Minxie and I are headed into the clubhouse, with virtual beers - which, due to liver mets - is the only kind I should have, dangit.

MJHJAN1014

There is a thread for those who are not Stage IV, but have concerns . There are a few gals who will try to answer any questions.