Expanders Are Painful
I am almost 6 weeks post surgery and find my expanders terribly uncomfortable. They feel like a vise on my upper rib and seem to stick out on the sides. The Dr. just said they are fine and to take a small about of the prescription drugs I have if I need it. However, I am trying to work and being high is not an option. Over the counter does help a bit, but not enough to make me want to stay the course. Ideas? Suggestions?
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Hi 1040law,
I just had an exchange surgery yesterday, so I feel qualified to commiserate. I don't know that I have any advise, but I can tell you that it got a little better by the 3rd month. I'm glad to have it finished.
I'm not sorry for choosing reconstruction - I'm glad it was available, but it did suck, frankly! I always hurt 4 days after a fill, which was a mystery. It was probably a very good lesson in patience.
I sure hope you get through this phase really easily. Take care and do something nice for yourself after a fill!
K
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I think we all know how you feel, - those expanders are no fun. That 'iron bra' feeling is miserable. The expanders' shape does not 'fit', as the final implants will.
I relied on tylenol, but I was also offered valium since it is a muscle relaxer. I broke the tablets in 1/2 and took once in a while to help sleep.
As long as the surgeon said it looks fine, try to hang in there. I think you will be glad that you did!
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is it anything like having braces on your teeth and getting them tightened? I did the DIEP, amazing had little discomfort.
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my doctor had me taking a combo of ibuprofen and Tylenol. It worked pretty well. I also had pain for quite some time during the expansion process. Now it's been 4 months and I feel better. But I'm about to make the switch to implants next week
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they are miserable...truly miserable. I felt like a boa constrictor had a grip on me...I'm not gonna lie I regretted them every day for months
BUT it did slowly get better, I was probably worst case as it took much longer than most but I have implants and don't even know they are there. Hang in there it does get better
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For me neither the Advil nor the Vicodin was as helpful as the muscle relaxant Flexeril. When my TE's seemed super sore I took one (and I take one to sleep) and it helps me immensely. My PS said some women find those more effective, and I am one of them. Maybe ask your PS for a Rx. In addition, I find that if I do the ROM stretches once an hour, I have less pain as it keeps the skin and muscle looser. Good luck. :
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