6 Years Out!

pupfoster1
pupfoster1 Member Posts: 1,484
edited December 2015 in Stage III Breast Cancer

Hi girls (and any guys lurking :))!

6 years ago this week I got that devastating news none of us ever wanted to hear. So many emotions throughout this journey, and I never expected to see this day. So that my new friends here are your daily words of encouragement. It's been a tough road, but I will say that there are many days I don't even think about having breast cancer, which for at least the first year and half at least, would have been impossible for me. I even have "forgotten" the actual date of my dx and surgery (early November). Obviously some days are better than others, and I still have difficulty navigating when I get a new ache or pain, is it just normal aging, or is "it" back. But I will say I don't jump in to full blown panic mode immediately any longer (still get there time to time ;)).

And once again, I have to thank BCO and all the people I've met here along the way who've helped me retain some of my sanity along this road. If there's one positive thing out of all this is that I've met some of the most AMAZING, wonderful people along the way. That is truly a blessing.

Best to you all.

Love,

Sharon

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  • 70charger
    70charger Member Posts: 963
    edited September 2015

    WHOOO WHOO!!!!!!!!!!! GO celebrate!!!!!!!!!!

  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 1,203
    edited September 2015

    sharon, congratulations. this is a biggie and i am so happy for you. celebrate and know that bc will be continue to fade in the forefront of your mind.

  • SharonMH
    SharonMH Member Posts: 353
    edited September 2015

    Hi Sharon, Yeah to six years. SharonM

  • kar123
    kar123 Member Posts: 273
    edited September 2015
  • SpunkyGirl
    SpunkyGirl Member Posts: 1,568
    edited September 2015

    Fabulous, Sharon! Congratulations! I agree that I have met some wonderful and witty people along the way that have made this journey doable. I am I incredibly thankful.


  • KSteve
    KSteve Member Posts: 486
    edited September 2015

    Congratulations, Sharon!  That is awesome!  I hit the 5-year milestone at the beginning of this month and I agree with everything you said in your post.  While I never forget I had breast cancer, it's not in the forefront of my mind every day.  I love to make travel plans and don't even think twice when something is months, or even a year, in the future.  In fact, my 30th wedding anniversary is in June and my DH and I are planning a return trip to Bora Bora to celebrate!  We went for our 20th and planned to go back for our 25th, but I happened to be in the fight of my life then. 

    Hugs to all the newly diagnosed, it will get better!

    Kathy

  • maryannecb
    maryannecb Member Posts: 1,453
    edited September 2015
  • YATCOMW
    YATCOMW Member Posts: 664
    edited September 2015
    Congratulations.....this is fantastic!

    Jacqueline
  • peacestrength
    peacestrength Member Posts: 690
    edited September 2015

    Pup and Ksteve, Excellent!!!!!

  • Kathleen26
    Kathleen26 Member Posts: 210
    edited September 2015

    Congrats to you Sharon, glad to see you doing well. It's amazing how you start to forget...also how fast it can come rushing back.

  • clariceak
    clariceak Member Posts: 752
    edited September 2015

    Hey cancer twin and fellow member of the class of 2009. I'm so glad to hear you are doing well. This is wonderful news!

    Are you going to post it on the 5 Years Out Club?

  • pupfoster1
    pupfoster1 Member Posts: 1,484
    edited September 2015

    I did post there, but basically referred to this post, lol!

  • faithfulheart
    faithfulheart Member Posts: 544
    edited September 2015
    Yay Sharon!!!!!!!!!!

    we r so close in DX..............Love you sister!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxox

    Go celebrate this crap never coming back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • NinB
    NinB Member Posts: 6
    edited September 2015


    Hello

    in 2010 my wife was is bad condition, we looked for help...in 2009 she found the problem but not told this to anyone, only in 2010 we went to doctors, who told at the beggining hat its nothing and no need to worry...around middle 2010 she started the treatment (neoadvejent) , AC4 and after taxol hereceptin, 5 months after she made surgery, 15 of 20 lymps were touched..we were concerned, its was HER2+ (triple positive). i was shocked from all the story.  this forum after i found and i seen other positive survive cases, it saved me...now 2015 - everything is ok. so always there is a hope. and believe it will be ok for more years many years. and i hope it will give strength to others.

    A big help she also received because she is doing self cultivation of mind and body and she has decided, after what happened, to open a new page of her life.

  • pupfoster1
    pupfoster1 Member Posts: 1,484
    edited September 2015

    Nin,

    So glad to hear your wife is doing well. My best to you both!

    Sharon

  • Kicks
    Kicks Member Posts: 4,131
    edited September 2015

    I was 6 yrs since DX on Aug 8 and still NED.

    Looks like I'm the only IBCer who has posted in this thread.

  • Honeytagh
    Honeytagh Member Posts: 483
    edited September 2015

    Hi Sharon and all dear survivors

    Congratulations to you and thanks a million for sharing such good news. Wish to see you reporting your long survivorship for many years to come.

    Love

    Hanieh

  • kdrez
    kdrez Member Posts: 65
    edited September 2015

    Great news!!! So happy for you. Fist pump in the air!

  • Meadow
    Meadow Member Posts: 2,007
    edited October 2015

    Awesome Sharon< THANK YOU for sharing this with us. So very happy for you!

  • katyand4
    katyand4 Member Posts: 171
    edited October 2015

    Congrats to 6 years!!!!

  • Outfield
    Outfield Member Posts: 1,109
    edited October 2015

    Sharon, you go girl! I barely ever visit these boards, but when I do I am so glad to see posts like this.

  • jennyboog
    jennyboog Member Posts: 1,322
    edited November 2015

    Congrats! Sharon...great news...thanks for the encouragement and strength you gave me many times. You're one of those wonderful people I'm glad I met! :)

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited December 2015

    Hello All 6+'ers !

    We are interested in hearing your experiences on issues related to your diagnosis and/or treatment,such as sexual matters, weight gain/loss, chemo brain/chemo fog, bone and heart health, exercise and nutrition issues, menopausal concerns, lymphedema, infertility, neuropathy, joint pain, skin/hair changes, relationship changes, work and career hurdles, and emotional issues including fear of recurrence. Please don't feel that you need to address each of these issues. We are listing these as suggestions. Your stories will complement a new, upcoming section on the main Breastcancer.org site on Survivorship issues.

    Some things to think about for your story: Have you gained a new perspective on this other side of treatment? What life lessons have you learned? What advice would you give your newly-diagnosed self or other person just starting the journey? How does your "old" self compare to your "new" self? Is there a difference? What impact has your breast cancer diagnosis made on your life? If you've become a Breast Cancer Advocate, what is your mission and how are you fulfilling it?

    If you're willing to share your perspective of your life after diagnosis and treatment, or your life on active, maintenance or on-going treatment we'd love to hear from you! Please send your story via PM to the Mods along with a picture of yourself or something that represents you, and a note about how long since you've been diagnosed. Seeing these stories will surely inspire our new members, along with members just going through treatment now, to see that you CAN get through active treatment and get to a new normal on the other side, even if that includes maintenance or ongoing, lifelong treatment.

    Your story will be included with the other Members Stories photos on the main site (http://www.breastcancer.org/community/acknowledgin...), in our December Newsletter and may also be used in part throughout the website and/or in fundraising or event materials.

    Thank you for considering!

    --The Mods

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited December 2015

    Dear Members who are 6 years out and plus, Just a reminder that we would love to hear your stories for our December Newsletter. See above post for more information. The Mods

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