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nancym712

I read here a while back that they used graduated sized dildos to get back in the game. I need to do this because even with lubrication it just hurts. If using small then increasing size dildos to get things working again, I'm doing it.

Does anyone know a source for something like this?

Thanks

Nancy

kareenie

They are called vaginal dilators. One source is vaginismus.com.

amylsp

I have posted a few times here about my use of 'dildos' to become more comfortable with penetration and intercourse. I have been very successful using this method. Definitely check out the vaginal dilators, as they come in convenient packs from smaller to larger. And the sizing measurements are very accurate. Unfortunately, they didn't work for me as my DH is rather large in girth, and the largest of the dilators was too small to work for me.

You'll have to measure your partner's girth when erect to see if the dilators will work for you. Otherwise there are a whole range of 'sex toy' dildos on the market. It was a bit more of a pain as many of the sites you go to don't have accurate measurements, and most won't accept returns once the package has been opened. So I have a few too many unused dildos lying around, lol, in my search for the perfectly sized ones. PM me if you want specific links.

I still need to use a dildo (and vibrator) before sex to prepare the area, so to speak. But we just make it a part of foreplay, and thankfully, the sex is now almost totally pain free!