Scared– biopsy tomorrow.

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cfloat
cfloat Member Posts: 12
edited July 2015 in Waiting for Test Results

Hello all. I posted in the "Not Diagnosed but Worried" forum last week, but I am really in need of some support today and so I hope it's okay for me to post an update here. I was doing really well not worrying for a couple weeks, but it's like everything hit me today.

I'm 24 with a family history of breast cancer (both grandmothers). I did my first-ever self-exam (though I've always had an exam with my yearly PAP) three weeks ago and found a small, hard, painless, fixed lump under my nipple. No idea how long it's been there. I had an ultrasound done that week that showed a 4mm mass with rounded edges, but the radiologist said he couldn't verify whether it was fluid-filled because of its small size and location. My biopsy is scheduled for tomorrow. I'm kicking myself for not asking more questions or requesting a copy of the ultrasound report. Has anyone had a similar "unsure" experience with an ultrasound? Does anyone have any tips on what to expect during the biopsy, or on how to handle the wait? I also think I feel a swollen lymph node, but my OBGYN didn't mention any when she did my initial exam. Again, I didn't ask because I was worried about, I don't know, taking up too much of her time or something, and I'm kicking myself about it now. I don't know whether I should ask about it during my biopsy... It's been really stressful bouncing to so many different doctors for each test.

I'm trying to be strong for my fiancé, because I know he's worried too, and I don't have any family to talk to so I don't want to overwhelm him with all the scary thoughts going through my head. It has been a blessing to find this site and read about everyone's stories and support for each other–it has made me feel much less alone.

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  • annika12
    annika12 Member Posts: 433
    edited July 2015

    Im sorry you have to go through all this testing and stress!! It truly sucks and to tell you not to worry would be kinda silly, but that being said try not to let your scared mind take off with you. One day at a time. The biopsy itself is uncomfortable but alot easier then I expected. A nurse told me ones, in todays medicine no one should have to hurt, speak up !!! Oh, and stay away ftom Dr. Google, he is not your friend :) I hope gor fast and b9 results for you , good luck !!

  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited July 2015

    cfloat, sorry you are here...but, you came to a good place. I would ask about the lymph node, for peace of mind, if nothing else. Not sure what kind of biopsy you are getting, but I had a core biopsy for a very deep tumor and I didn't feel any pain during the procedure. Ice is your friend afterwards! Get a copy of your medical records regardless of the DX. Meanwhile, try to stay busy, take walks, be with positive people. I'm sure you are both worried, but don't try to carry your fiancee's worry, too. Easy to say, hard to do. I hope you get B9 results! Remember 80% of biopsies are benign!

  • cfloat
    cfloat Member Posts: 12
    edited July 2015

    Hello all! Just wanted to give an update. At my first ultrasound, the radiologist said he thought my lump was cyst, but recommended a biopsy just to be sure. At the hospital, I met with a breast surgeon and radiologist who did another, longer, ultrasound and confirmed that it was a cyst, so the biopsy was unnecessary. I am so relieved. They also found an area of fibrocystic changes, which they said was normal for women in their 20s, but I'm glad it was found so I can keep an eye on things.

    Thank you everyone for your kind and supportive words. I'll continue to read your stories because this was one of the most educational and accessible sites that I found when I so desperately needed information!

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