Breast repair after aggressive lumpectomy
Hi all;
I'm hoping for some input. I had lumpectomy and just 8 more RADs to go. The lumpectomy was aggressive, lots of tissue loss.
I'm a "D" on the right and a "B" on the left.
Any of you experience this? What can be done? Did your insurance help?
This is another "cancer pile on" and I hope I'm not being too vain but this is emotionally taxing. grrrrrr!!
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You're not being vain you just want to look and feel normal. I'd make a couple of plastic surgeon appointments and find out your options. Maybe an implant or reduction. They usually don't like working with radiated skin but I know several people that had radiation then plastic surgery. I have one friend that had lumpectomy and rads then later did mastectomy on both with DIEP reconstruction and it came out really well. I swear they can fix anything.
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quiggy - I think it's quite common to end up with a significant difference in the size of your breasts after lumpectomy and radiation. I agree that you should visit a couple of plastic surgeons, but you may want to wait a while before having anything done. I consulted two plastic surgeons soon after I finished radiation, but it was suggested that I wait a year for everything to settle after radiation. I ended up having my opposite breast reduced and fat grafted into the radiated breast. I went to a mastectomy fitter to get a compensation form to even me up while I waited to have my reconstruction. What Meow13 said is true: they can fix anything. Don't despair and please don't beat yourself up -- you're not being vain, you just need to feel normal again.
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More info about this.....
Breastcancer.org link with info:
http://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/surgery/reco...
additional photo: click on "photo" tab...
http://www.breastcenter.com/breast-reconstruction-...
Aetna's breast reconstruction guidelines (just a random search result, I don't know of other health insurance companies have different guidelines):
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Thanks everyone for your information. Looks like I need more research; my insurance,PS doc's in my area that know these problems etc. At least there is hope!
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Wait a year before you do anything. The fat moves around and fill in the gaps. When I first looked at my chest after my lumpectomy my thought was, "What? Did they do a mastectomy by mistake?" I was pretty taken aback but a friend, who had been through it, told me to hold off for awhile & see what Mother Nature would do. So I did......I had the surgery in March. The tumor was on the underside of the breast & for awhile I wore a partial breast prostheses to fill in the bra cup (which you can get a prescription for & insurance will pay for). After a year (maybe less) the breast had filled out enough that I was able to ditch the prostheses. Another illustration is that first
summer when I tried on my favorite (shelf bra) bathing suit, there was no way I could wear it because the difference was too noticeable. By the next summer, I was back in the suit again. (It is polka dotted, if it were one color and you were really looking you could notice a slight difference...but just slight.) So waiting, for me, brought very acceptable results with no more surgeries or hassle. -
Thanks ruthbru. Maybe mother nature will help.
My tumor was just above the nipple and sat deep in. When my hubby and I first removed the bandages we cried and were shocked. RADs have made things worse by shrinking and hardening the breast.
Time has a way of changing perspective and healing us.
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