Birad 4c result on xmas eve

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waiting-to-exhale
waiting-to-exhale Member Posts: 61
edited December 2014 in Waiting for Test Results

my dr called with final mammogram report this afternoon. Birad 4c. Trying to be positive.

Biopsy scheduled for january 7th which is the day before i leave on vacationwith husband and kids. Im so afraid to get bad results while away.

Merry xmas everyone.

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  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 6,197
    edited December 2014

    So sorry you've got this to contend with at this time of year, it's an added pressure you don't need. I know it is hard not to focus on this, but the truth is, the odds are still in your favor, for a benign result.

    We all understand how you're feeling, the not knowing, is brutal. My own testing and Dx then my surgery were all around the Holidays and I had to wait till well into the New Year, for final pathology. I know how hard it is to keep your mind from wandering there, every chance it gets. the one thing I did learn, was that the stressing doesn't change the outcome, but it can make you ill.

    I wish you all the very best, try to enjoy your holiday and let us know how you get on. Hugs to you!

  • waiting-to-exhale
    waiting-to-exhale Member Posts: 61
    edited December 2014

    Thanks Ariom for taking the time to respond. i am trying to keep busy as i am sure everyone else is. I need to limit the googling in a big way. Best wishes to everyone


  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 6,197
    edited December 2014

    Seriouslystressed, I have to say, step away from Dr Google, it really is scary and there is so much out of date information, out there. I am a great believer in educating yourself, once you know what you are dealing with. The Googling before you know what your Dx is, with limited information, really can be very frightening.

    I know it feels like forever, but you will have answers soon, as I said, it may well be, that you have nothing to worry about, if the worst does happen, you will have a plan and the support of this network of women, who will surround you and share their experiences.

    Just keep in mind, the women here, are the 20% who have a positive Dx, There are another 80% who felt this fear, but received a benign result. I am hoping you'll be in the 80%!


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