Access to the Picture Forum - READ 1st POST

nowheregirl

OK please do not accuse us of anything if you can't even read what you are expected before requesting access. I, along with other fellow sisters here have asked gazillion times to read the first post of mine in this thread. In case anybody doesn't even think it's worth their time reading back, yet want us to spend our time to keep the forum alive and going, I will say it again.

  

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it does NOT mean you will be automatically granted access just because you ask for it. Our members are entitled to know who is looking at them. They should not be seen by those who are not legit or not willing to show who they really are. Thus anyone who is very new here or has not posted much will least likely be approved. We do not have definite requirement like how many posts are needed before request because it depends what you have said in your posts. I screen every applicant and decide who should be allowed based on their posts.

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So even if your request is ignored, please do not take offense. It only means that you have been added to the waiting list. You will be given access eventually once we learn who you are from your posts.

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So wandawoman, when you PM'd me for access on 18th October of 2013, you only had one post. Even though you didn't hear back from me, your were added to the waiting list and could have been granted access if you had kept posting. I have always waited people to post enough to show who they really were but not for good. When they stop coming here for over a month, I remove them form the list. But as long as they keep coming back, i won't because it's possible that they will stop lurking and decide posting.

  

To those who says that I should ask for information on themselves or their diagnoses so that I will know enough about them to give them access, know that I won't ask because it's pointless. It is not only me but every single member of our forum who deserves to know who will be looking at them.

Moderators

Hello members,

We are locking this thread at the request of nowheregirl. 

Please now find the new thread 'Requesting access for picture forum' located Here  

The mods.