need help

lilavilasini

Hello, My  good friend who was dianosed with breast cancer 5 years agoe  and refused to do   chemo etc and done natural treatments has just told me that  one of her  breast has  disapeared completely on its own and  over a space of  6 months, the breast was  also  3 years after surgery was  weeping at the scar tissues. I have told her  many times to go and do  monthly checks and  blood tests but she was to scared all the time, now the situation is  critical as i am afraid that she has lefted it to long does anyone have any  informations on why one breast can suddenly  disapear like this?? i saw her yesterday and now i got on her case and told her now go to the hospital on monday.  but   now i need to know more on this subject and if anyone has anything like this happen to them and  any known causes of such a thing............... thank you very much     

chrissyb

Hi Lila, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. I'm sorry also that I can't help you with you question as I've never heard of a breast disappearing..........all I can tell you is if you have to take her to the Emergency Room but get her there ASAP this really needs looking into.



Love n hugs. Chrissy

lilavilasini

thank you for your  mail, yes i am alittle bit concerned  as i never seen anyhting  like this or heard  about it before, so i am little  concerned as you an may imagine  she told about 1 year agoe about the condition of her breast and  i told her to go  qiuckly and she told me she had only now i find out that it was a lie. so tomorrow  we take her to  emergency to fin d out why this is happening to her.. she is  so scared at the moment,i can understand her as i also had cancer but   surviour of 10 years now... but i have never heard of a breast  disapear like this in fact  you can see she has no more on one side.. so i am afraid she lefted it to long and now its all rush...   but thank you  for your reply much appreciated

lilavilasini

just to let you know my friend  was  dianosed today and it is  an advance stage of cancer gone to the ribs and the cancer has eaten the breast away and now is  emerging out of the skin tissue, they have order that she do chemo tomorrow morning  but she  has refused..  now i no idea what to do.. or how to deal with her as she is   wanting to surrive and do natural cure but at this stage i don t think that is enough  what to do?

chrissyb

Lila I'm so sorry. The decision to have standard treatment or not belongs to your friend. Even though you know it's the right thing her choice is her choice. All you can do is support her decision in any way you can but right now I think her cancer has gone way to far for just a natural cure..........besides, at late stage which is stage IV there is no cure only management.



Once again I'm truly sorry.



Love n hugs. Chrissy

FireKracker

WOW this is scary.Please keep us posted on everything that happens to her.

I wish her all the best.

lilavilasini

 thank you, i think she is way above any cure at the moment and anything would be  just  trying to hold on to  some hope which of course better then no hope,  i dont know if you will have even enough time now to do anything  to put things into order or even the  process of   trying to do something  anyway   i am with her she is coming here  today and i will see what she has planned now that she past the first night  although she wants me to go to a clinic in India with her...  natural  cure...   i have no idea how to deal at this stage or how much time she actually has lefted to even try..  thank you for  your words ... its helps  alot..   i will keep you informeed but its pretty scary having to deal with it on others... cos she is looking towards me and that is heavy responsibitly for sure.  

fifthyear

In the book How We Do Harm, the dr wrote about a breast cancer patient came into his ER with her breast wrapped in towel. The cancer has eaten away the layers and the breast was off her chest. It is scary but it happened. I hope your friend got the right care and comfort.

chrissyb

Lila, just be there for her is the best way to help her. Hopefully she has thought about things overnight but if she is still determined to do the natural healing then as I said before, just be there for her.........you never know, miracles do happen.



Keep coming here for your own support.



Love n hugs. Chrissy

lilavilasini

hello, sorry so long, to report back, Yes  My friend has   the cancer  metastis in the also the  bones  and head and also the breast and skin tissue  stage 4 

she is not doing anything but  natural meds,    refusing chemo... radio  etc.

 She is still able to go about her   daily  activities and is at this moment is only thinking postive ..

I really have no idea what  sort of time is left but  I am keeping her postive  until advance symtoms arise.

If anyone has any useful  knowledge on natural meds for also pain management for future.. that would be helpful

Of course everything  is now up to the Lord    and prayers are needed for her..  her name is Fiorella.

 thank you for being here..  Hugs to you all godbless you all