Dating following masectomy w/no reconstruction

Nel138281

Hi All,

I am 58, will be divorced within the next year after a 2 year separation. and begining to think about dating.  I was DX with inflammatory BC in Sept 2011 , have had chemo, UMX, rads, chemo and will finish herceptin in February.  As I am coming to the end of treament and can feel my energy coming back I am interested in dating, well maybe. Terrified. No reconstruction and I don't wish to have any, so a bit lopsided and will remain so. 

Anyone else date w/no reocnstruction.  How did it go, how, when did you tell someone? 

Thanks

Be well

Nel