STFU (Shut the F*** UP)

camillegal

Shell whatever I said, glad u think I'm smart and honest. hahaha

OK who's got surgery this week? I hope no one but I know someone does--but it's time to get it over with. And who's having what. I don't know anything about lumpectamies, but if u giving up a boob or 2, piece of cake no pain so that parts good. Drains are just a pain in the ass, but no pain.

I can't get myself in order today, I don't know why just seems strange maybe I'm not used to being with so many people laughing at me at one time.

Jackie good decription of this thread.:) I forget

Shellshine

Jo had her TAH/BSO yesterday and may have been able to go home today.

Flowers  (cmbernardi) has BSO this Thursday, July 18th at 7:30 am Texas time.

I think one more of us is having surgery, but my brain just went kaput. Hoolies, help remember if we have another of our sisters having upcoming surgery.

camillegal

WTF is a tho/bco====bullchit--Boy Shell u'r sure showin' off/

Wren44

Yes, you left me in the dust with jargon also.

juliaanna

Please let me translate:  Total Abdominal Hysterectomy with bilateral salpingo-oopherectomy- removal of uterus, tubes and ovaries.

camillegal

They don't just call it a full hysterectomy, like they used to.

Thanks Wren.

mostlymom

That's what I'm having tomorrow - it's nice to know the name for it - tah/bso instead of just being neutered....  Bring lots of snacks, pocket peeps, cause I've been on all clear liquids today with a desert of an enema....  Who has more fun??  I've told them the only way to keep me on the gurney is to hold my hand while I'm being put out so if you see me running down the hall with my gown flapping in the wind, you'll know why.

Chevyboy

Morning gals!  So wait.... let me digress.... I'm back on the last page.

 

So does anyone know, (probably not) how old is tooo old to mess around, for a man?   I'm not complaining, mind you, but DH seems to have this weekly "hot-spot" in his brain.  So I'm asking, does it ever shut off?   I WISH I would get a hot-spot at the same time he does, but it just takes convincing my brain that I WANT to ..... Is this normal?  Do I have to resort to saying "Hold on a minute, maybe I can look up something pornographic on the Internet to wake up this old head of mine."  Any suggestions would be appreciated.

 

Moving on.... Still unbelievable about Zimmerman.....  I have never heard of anyone, ever, who was THERE, who admitted to it, and then found not guilty.  But we could kick this around forever, and never find justice.  Not unless it is overturned, and I don't think that could ever happen.

 

Sass.... I hope everything is going good for you.... If ANYone is on top of it, you are!

 

Cammi!  YES we noticed you were gone....  we all cried.  Then we sent out for Pizza.  WHAT were you doing, other than going sinking...I mean swimming?   That was so funny about you telling what you did !

I hope you are not in anymore pain?  Or is that wishful thinking?  Poor little Cammi.... I will make you toast and milk. 

 

I remember one time at the beach in Florida... (WELL of course it wouldn't be HERE, because we have no WATER!)  But I was with our 2 Daughters & a Grand-son, and they were TRYing to show me how to get on this "boogie-board"...  Yeah, right!..... And so the waves and them took me out further.... I started to get water up my nose, and I became .... let's say afraid, (instead of panicked, which I really was) and finally I wanted OFF of that damn thing!  They were laughing, and I was sputtering, and slowly drowning.....  (I think it was intentional) And finally the oldest one said "MOM!.... Put your feet DOWN, you can STAND up now."   So I did.... and I was alive.   So Cammi!  Our drowning abilities are going good!  Although our prowess as water nymphs has left the building.....  We are no longer capable of  anything close to looking gorgeous in the water.

 

Yes...  I am slowly going nuts....  If it isn't my hands, it's my ears, OR my little dog!  Then of course DH goes in tomorrow for his teeth.  It will probably scare the shit out of me when I see him smile when he comes out of the office... I am so USED to him without any teeth, which I might add is not a pretty sight.....  He will probably feel like he has a mouth full of car-parts when he gets them in.....  But he HAS to wear them, or I will tell him "you ain't going with me without your teeth."  Our Daughter's will break his bones if he doesn't wear them...  "Stubbornness" will have reached it's limit with him... and me!  His Dad went without any teeth and looked like "mush-mouth murphy" ...... So nope!  Maybe I'm worrying about nothing...  I'll find out tomorrow, or the next day...Ha! 

 

Hi Shells and Phyllifewwords!  Don't listen to Cammi.... SHE is the one that is joining me in the nut-bin.

 

And Lillie!  Man, those nuts looked good!  I love nuts!  Even the sugar-toasted ones from the flea-market...  shut up Cammi.

 

Sass!  Did you say Cammi had Pain?  I missed that one.... Now I feel bad.  I will add peanut-butter to that toast.

 

Wow Lillie.... that picture of Trayvon...  And so true.

 

Oh so Chickers wants nuts?  Where have you been?  Are you doing okay there gal? 

Hi Julianna....  I'm glad we have you to remind me of who is going in and what for...  and I can't keep track either! 

And Cammi is right, whoever is going in, we feel bad, and we are with you...  !   We are NOT laughing AT you Cammi.... just WITH you...Or wait, maybe we ARE!  Go get yourself in order.... then order fries.

 

Ha, ha!  You guys can't understand Shells!  That's because she's smart!  That was funny.  Thanks for straightening them out Julianna.... I was GOING to, but you beat me to it...

I know you said what it was, but man, I don't understand those words.  Okay.... a total hysterectomy....

 

Geez Mostly Mom....  Yeeee gads!  Tomorrow?  I'll bring mashed potatoes & gravy and a dirty movie!    And Frito's.  Once they put you to sleep, you won't know NOTHIN'..... That's the best part, waking up and it's over.   xoxoxo

 

GmaFoley

I googled "good morning hooligans cartoon image" this morning and guess what came up???

Chevyboy

For all our Hooligans! 

GmaFoley

Ok ladies, I have been having my 12 yr old Granddaughter watching over my shoulder every once in a while and I don't want her to see what I write on these boards so, If I can stay away that long - I will be MIA for a bit.

Shellshine

Sorry for the jargon, thanks Julianna for clarifying. So, this is our surgery schedule:

Jo was Saturday: TAH/BSO

Mostlymom tomorrow, Tuesday: TAH/BSO

Flowers  this Thursday, July 18th at 7:30 am Texas time: BSO.

In your pocket Mostlymom, I'll bring the ice cream. Please let us know how you are doing as soon as you can. 

camillegal

Good Morning Hooooligans=it's a nice morning in upper Illinois near the windy city of Chicago.

Chevy maybe when u'r DH gets his teeth the hot spot will kick in for u.--I basically thing that doesn't really ever end for men, maybe not often, but think about it--from the very first after birth they are always preoccupied with it. They are always touching themselves for one reason or another and women don't do that--well at least in public, unless u'r getting paid for it--Shut up Chevy.So Chevy how long can it take--just go with it.

OK more opinion--I followed the trial but not as vigilant cuz it made me sick--but I don't know exactly what he was charged for and if it was first degree, there are certain rules to bide for in any degree and if there is someone who doubts that feeling of intent it has to be not guilty, if it wad manslaughter , again degrees that's another whole thing. That in a way what happened to Casey Anthony if she was charged with a lesser charge they could prove that but intent is very hard to prove and hence a not guilty verdict would have to be decided. Their are overanxious prosecutors who want to make a name for themselves very good politically, so they go overboard, and if they lessened the charge they could have gotten a guilty with the judge throwing the maximun at him. I know I make no sense.

Chevy I'm still in pain all I can do is some upper excercises for my PT and I go tomorrow. So I have to tell her how stupid I am overdoing, now she'll have proof. And u and u't chickens did u take those 3 eggs. U'r neighbors are going to think they are not puutin' out for them. U'd better leave some.==Haha they know (the chickens) that u've spoiled them now.

OK Mostlymomwho'sgettingoperatied on.--Now what method do they use now--this is all new to me--I had laprascopy--don't know what they call it now and I'm sure they are even better at all these things now aren't they? Cuz mine didn't hurt at all, just uncomfortable--so I hope u'rs is unevenful and not so bad. Make sure before u get put out remind them to wash their hands really good.

Hey Chevy did u ever try Surgeons hand stick? It's thick like a stick of deordorant and stay on pretty good for things on u'r hands??? I don't know I'm just thinking (Shut up Chevy)I was starting to get those ugly things on my elbows, and after 3 days they were gone. I for got I had it.

Sas I hope u gice u'rself a break from thinking today I can teach u that really easy---Now again when is that test u'r having or am I confused again.???(This time I don't blame u Chevy)

Chick is almost done YYAAAYY

Phylopervert when are u done--shouldn't it be soon? Things have changed in just a few yrs. I had almost 2 yrs of chemo and finished with Herceptin they threw everything at me--I think I was a guinie Pig, or some kind of pig. OK someone give me suggestions on what to change to from aromasin (which has done loads od damage) to what Armidex, Femara--I need a name to act like I'm smart. Acting is a strong point for me. But I do have to have a script. Like any excelent actor, not speller but actor.

OK I'll check back later--Love u guys u make me laugh and u all have wonderful attitudes that's why I know u will come thru this like champs. 

IllinoisLady

Stopping in to say good morning from one who is from the cave days when it was total hysterectomy. 

Hate to put it so indelicately but I think the geezers that just keep it up ad-infinitum Chevy, are so afraid they they will seem un-manly or if they don't get rid of that stuff it will back up in them and do some sort of damage. 

Cam....you are always sweet and funny.  I hope you can get it all back together today. 

Going to be muggy here today....Blech.

See you.

Lillie

blondiex46

Am so far behind...am doing ok, not breathing well, they are going to take the fluid out of my right lung tomorrow (plural effusion), (was my left one last year) am sitting on my bed trying not to do much, chemo again on wednesday then my week off....how is everyone?

going to catch up now!!!

thanks for betty boop, one of my favorite....

chickie thanks for checking in, hope you are doing well.....is mary and phyllie are you still doing chemo? 

Anonymous

Good morning hoolies! This morning I called my LTD carrier and got the ball rolling on applying for SS disability. They contract with a group of attys to help with the application process. Just got my first 18 page email. Oh yippee.



I'm heading off to an appt with my LE therapist. It's about an hour away through beautiful rolling plains. I love the drive.



Have a good day!

Shellshine

Blondie sweetheart I hope you feel much better after your effusion is drained. I've had those a number of times - they suck. Take it easy today, okay? Perhaps tomorrow you will breathe easier.

Enjoying everyone's comments about men's preoccupations, ROFLing!

Back to clinical today - this is my last week, will be done on Friday. Need to eat breakfast and head out the door soon - just needed to do a Hoolie check-in.

Dammit Cammi you make a lot of sense so STFU. No, I don't really mean that - please don't ever STFU. You are too precious for words.

~ Michelle

luvmygoats

Chevy - I think no age is too old for a man. There is a line in one of my fav movies "Parenthood" where doc says to Steve Martin character that Picasso had children well into his 80's as a comfort to the character who's wife is PG in her 40's. So I think "hot spots" at his age are a good thing for him. The good old testerosterone is flowing along. Their hormone producing capabilities ages better than women. And I think looking at sexy pictures (not so much into porno just because of the business it supports) is certainly OK. Try it together and see what it gets. Trust me one of these threads - OK I will admit I lurk there on "What about drinking" - one gal posts some great sexy men pictures, clothed or at least artfully posed with assets covered.

Cami - there is no way I can get out of pool without ladder or steps. These arms ain't gonna push this body up. It's a hoot and a holler trying to get out of a canoe. Heck, DH removed the step on his pickup thinking he was selling it. I told him in no uncertain terms put that thing back on. Pole vauting into the front seat was no fun. A while back he detailed it out with ArmourAll on the vinyl floor - this is a very basic truck. I kid you not I could not get in the passenger seat since my feet slipped so bad.  He lost the pass. side step a long time ago I think to a tire in the road. He had to shove my butt up in it. Again not pretty! Hope your exercise pain is better. I'm not trying to push the evagelical end but I have been exercising with program on Christian Television Network. The program varies from balance/light weights/chair/floor/exercise ball. I think it is helping my balance and strength. I taped (no DVR here) the yoga on another channel but I'm not that flexible. I do have a DVD I need to watch - Essential Flow Yoga since I've never done yoga. Hope your pain has subsided since your exciting weekend.

As I understand Aromasin is different from Femara/Arimidex which are both very similar and that it works differently. Done a lot of damage how? Osteoporosis type damage? Might ask about Tamoxifen esp. since you've had hyster. It is bone protective but then again I'm no doc, just what I've read about.

Blondie - Good thoughts/prayers for your effusion drainage tomorrow.

Shellsmartone - "just get through this week". Wow, can't believe you're already done. Then where do you go? Did the hospice job work out? Compliance officer is some work. Ours was Masters prepared, working on PhD. Asian, very smart but impossibly hard to understand. I could never meet her standards and truthfully none in my company could. Congrats.

Flowers and MostlyMom - You've got this under control. In your pockets from Texas - well Flowers short hop for me! Enjoying this rainy weather?

Wren44

Mostlymom, Just keep repeating how nervous you are when you're in pre-op. They might give you some joy juice ahead of time to calm you down. Not enough to knock you out, but enough that you won't really care.

In lots of pockets today.

Wren44

Chevy, I don't think it ever goes away for me. I hear old guys in nursing homes are pinching the young aides. What helps me get in the mood is to think back to the time when we couldn't keep our hands off each other.

Chevyboy

Wren and Littlegoats!  I know!  I'm okay, once we get going, but I could think of a million things I would rather be doing, than that!   I think if he went about it differently, then maybe I would be a little more  co-operative....   Oh God, I only hope Mr. Sir Charles isn't logging in any time soon...Ha!   What I MEAN is, I would have liked for it to be like we used to be, like cuddling, and kissing, and THAT stuff.... But it has gotten to be  like "Come here, let's have sex."  Well,  I don't consider myself exactly COLD, but that just don't  DO it! 

Maybe I should consider ourselves lucky, that we can even STAND each other, after 56 years, right?     And Wren, maybe I should go walk around a nursing home, Ha!  And have some old guy smack ME on the butt....!  Might be fun!    Me and Cammi could go do a "walk-through!"  Scare them all half to death! 

Blondie!  I'm so sorry for your breathing problems!  I hope they can help you!  I'm just glad you are still posting.

It's getting ready to pour here again.....  But we need it..... that's what I'm supposed to say..... 

camillegal

Mostlymom it's very east to be anxious before surgery--so it's easy to show.

Chevy why are we talking about u'r sex life? Do u really think that a big problem--just do what u've done for years fake it and it's over before u know it. WTF u think u'r the only one. Just out the TV on and lay in a position that u can watch it.

Luvmygogo--I think, don't know, but aromasin has done damage to my back--Degenerative spine.with 2 lower discs, scoliosis, and made my arthritis severe, cuz now everything is severe and that was not the case before the aromasin. So that's why thinking about another one, One that's less on my old bones. I have no idea what's going on. I have PT 4 more times?? WTF is that going to do, I canhardly walk. $$$$$$ I think that too.

Oh Lillieweatherwoman--it's muggy here too and supposed to get hotter this week, sob, I hate that.

And Blondie why did I think u were going today to get that stuff sucked out, I wish u had and it was over for u.

Ok Sending everyone Love, well maybe Not

Chevy, she has enough going on.

ChickaD

Oh Miss FunnyGirlCam...you are in rare form lately...are we the only +++ girls here?

Oh oh oh..Miss Chevy...nough said...I have to get you a photo of my onc pharmacist...lol

Where are the rest of you hoolies?

Went to neurologist today for my back....finally pain patches...yay.

Anonymous

Just dropping in to say hi. It's going to in the 90's here the rest of the week. I'm going to be miserable.

Chevyboy

Cammi, you little brat!  Well, I don't fake it, but sometimes it's a thought.....  You know, I didn't know about your back.... Did you talk about it before?  I had surgery for the Ls4 & 5....  But this was many years ago....  It worked really well.... I wish you could get some relief... Are you sure it is the Aromasin?  Or everything else wrong with it? 

Maybe just drink more.... Drink and smoke....  And carrouse!  Maybe that'll help!

I don't have anything going on today.... I'm working on making a little fairy garden, you know, with tiny succulents, miniature garden stuff, and this piece of driftwood that I got years ago....   Everytime I THINK of putting it together, I get a new idea....  So it'll take awhile..... but keeps me off the streets..... shut up cammi.

Chevyboy

Oh!  I was on the last page!    So Hi Chickie and Veggy!  Pain Patches?  Is that new?  Are they like those patches I get and put like on my knee?  I know THOSE work!    I think they are called Salonpas....?  I hope they work for you!  xoxoxo

camillegal

Chevymy lips are sealed--It's so hard not to respond to certain things u say. I'm trying to respect the elderly side of u.

Oh I thought they were talk about the Fentynel patch--a real zinger--I used it for some months- to much for me, helps the pain tho. LOL

Chevy I don't know what all this back stuff is from, but I never had a back problem before now I have 3 major things wrong in just a short time so I blame it on something ro do with all the chemo, rads and aromasin--have to blame it on something. I tried to blame it on u, but my Dr. said I can't do that. In fact I told my Dr. my side has so much pain and u have something to do with it and she dismissed my theory. So Aromasin is my monster. Not tht u;r a monster Chevy, never meant to compare u that way so don't or do get u;r panties in an uproar depending on how u'r DH feels.

blondiex46

cause Cammie they told me it was going to be today!!!

BB whenever I can!!!

camillegal

Oh Blondie so timorrow u'r lung and Wed. u'r Chemo. Chit

Phylopaperwork----Geeze when I applies for SSD it took 2 weeks with the Dr. filling out a form and me filling out a form, talk to them over the phone and that was it.??? Maybe cuz I'm old

Shellshine

Blondiee please post us as soon as you are home and resting after your pleural tap tomorrow. 

Mostlymom, pocket party, we'll be there with you. Pls put the worrying out of your mind - in my experience the worrying is always twice as bad as the actual experience you're worried about.  Nurses are very good about making sure you get your pain meds when you need them - be sure to tell them yes and no heroics - don't let the pain get so that you are uncomfortable. Please sleep well and restfully tonight knowing that you will have happy juice given to you right before you go to the OR, and you will wake after surgery thinking "oh my gosh - that was fast - is it over already?" Then you will get some morphine  in your IV and be very comfortable.

Post when you are able and check in - kay?