When to start dating?

2miraclesmom

When is a good time to start dating? I never really thought about it until I was hit on at the gas station. I just really do not feel very feminine. I was lucky and was able to have immediate reconstruction and my hair has grown enough that it just looks like a short hair cut or as I call it, my lesbian hair cut. lol The reason I do not feel feminine is my hair used to be almost to my waist and I was a 34DD (now barely a 34A). I do still have a few months left of Herceptin (dec. 12) and I understand I am going through a lot, but when is a good time to date and after you do, when do you tell them about your diagnosis? After this man at the gas station hit on me, it really got me to thinking that maybe I am attractive to other men than just my ex-husband. lol (and no, he and I will NEVER get back together. Just having fun. lol) So, back to my questions, when is it ok to start dating and when do I tell them? Thanks!