Working through treatment for breast cancer.

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I am newly diagnosed and not yet sure what my treatment plan will be. I find myself thinking about work more then anything and wonder how I will handle it. My job is stressful, lot's of deadlines and expectations. I just want to be able to take care of me and not worry about my job. Looking for input from others as to how they handled this-truth is, I want to take time off but am unclear if this is what the majority of people do.

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  • Cindyl
    Cindyl Member Posts: 1,194
    edited July 2012

    It's really going to depend on what your treatment plan is, and what your job is like.  I have a desk job and am in a management position, so I don't have a lot of heavy lifting (or any lifting if I don't feel like it) I'm able to work a flexible schedule of my own devising and able to work from home if need be.  There are plenty of demands and a certain amount of stress, but it's nothing I can't juggle if need be. I had an lx and rads, and now am doing an endless round of pt and follow up appointments.

    I took the day of surgery and the day following surgery off.  I took one day off the next week.  My rads were late in the day so I left work 1/2 hour early. I take an hour here and there for other appointments. And that's it.  I was lucky enough to work all the way through, and I think I was better off for doing so.  That's just me though.  Your situation, like your cancer is unique and what worked for one of us may not work for another. 

    I will say work is much less stressful for me than home.  So your mileage may very.

  • CSMommy
    CSMommy Member Posts: 95
    edited July 2012

    I also have a desk job, with lots of deadlines and it's fair share of stress. When I was first diagnosed, and first started treatment, I had every intention of continuing to work full days with only treatment days off. I lasted 2 weeks with that plan. I battled a lot of infections at the beginning, and it knocked me down. I blew through all my sick and vacation days.



    I sat down with my oncologist, and we talked about what kind of work schedule would work best for me. So I am now on a 5-hour day, 3 days a week, with infusion days and the day after off. My biggest SE is fatigue, and most days after I get home I go straight to bed for a nap.



    My work has been incredible with me, and are bending over backwards to help me out. I actually have a temp worker starting in next week to help me out.



    I was talking to a fellow patient today during my infusion, and she is still working 40 hours a week. My hats & scarves are off to her.

  • CSMommy
    CSMommy Member Posts: 95
    edited July 2012

    I do have to add that I find one benefit of continuing working is that, not only does it help take my mind off of the bad things, but I think it helps my chemo brain by keeping it active.

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited July 2012

    I think it is a personal decision based on your situation and finances.  I had a stressful job and I chose not to work through treatment.  I went off on work right before BMX in late January of 2011 and then I started chemo the first week of March.  I ended chemo the first weekend of May and was not cleared to go back to work until late May.  I then had to go back out in late June for my exchange surgery.  My job is a bit physical so it was best I did not work.  I felt like emotionally it was good for me not to work so I could just focus on being healthy.

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