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  • JunieB
    JunieB Member Posts: 1,023
    edited November 2015

    I am also very sorry for your loss Dee.


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  • annieoakley
    annieoakley Member Posts: 870
    edited November 2015

    Dee, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you big hugs today. 

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  • Lindalou
    Lindalou Member Posts: 647
    edited November 2015

    Dee, So sorry for the loss of your friend. Adding another hug to you.

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  • LindaE54
    LindaE54 Member Posts: 2,054
    edited November 2015

    Dee - I'm so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace. She was fortunate to have you as a friend.

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  • Myra1211
    Myra1211 Member Posts: 541
    edited November 2015

    Dee, please add my condolences Myra.

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  • Wendy3
    Wendy3 Member Posts: 1,012
    edited November 2015

    Dee I'm so sorry even though it was expected it's always a shock. Big hug 🤗. How was the car ride yesterday was beautiful out eh? 

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  • 50sgirl
    50sgirl Member Posts: 2,527
    edited November 2015

    De, I am sorry for the loss of your friend. She was lucky to have a friend like you. My thoughts are with you.

    Hugs,

    Lynne

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited November 2015
    Dee,
    So sorry to hear of your friend's passing. May she rest in peace.
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  • saucychiq
    saucychiq Member Posts: 19
    edited November 2015

    Dee, I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.

    Much love,

    Karen

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  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited November 2015

    Dee, I am so sorry. Heartfelt condolences to you and her family. Deanna

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  • GG27
    GG27 Member Posts: 2,128
    edited November 2015

    Ok you guys, you just brought me to tears with all the wishes of support, you make me proud to be a part of such a wonderful group of caring supportive women. In my interview yesterday, I found myself bringing up this thread again & again. This wonderful group is my rock. thank you, Dee


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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2015

    Dee, I'm sorry to read your loss of your friend. Hugs. Carol

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  • LindaE54
    LindaE54 Member Posts: 2,054
    edited November 2015

    It seems as if when it rains it pours. I had to put my dog to sleep today. He was 11 eleven years old and had been feeling really bad these past couple of months. He was on painkillers, had problems walking and going up and down the stairs, lost a lot weight. This morning I found him hiding behind a recliner and did not want to move. I tried to take him outside to do his business and he just fell on the floor and peed there. It's not the first time that he "jams" but today was worse than ever. I knew this was coming but it breaks my heart. Managed to get him the car, and the girls at vet brought him in on a stretcher. He is now in the paradise of dogs. Had him since he was 4 months old and he brought me so much joy. I know this is not like losing a human being, but had to share this with you girls.

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  • 50sgirl
    50sgirl Member Posts: 2,527
    edited November 2015

    Linda, I know that it is difficult to lose a pet. You knew it was time, and you know that you did the right thing. I realize that you will miss your dog's companionship, warmth, love and loyalty . I am sorry for your loss.

    Lynne

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  • Myra1211
    Myra1211 Member Posts: 541
    edited November 2015

    Gosh Linda, so sorry. I know how difficult it is to lose such a sweet companion. My dog knows when I am sad and comes to cuddle with me. I hope you're done with bad news. Love Myra.

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  • GG27
    GG27 Member Posts: 2,128
    edited November 2015

    Oh Linda, losing a pet is heart wrenching, sorry about the loss of your pup. Dee

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  • annieoakley
    annieoakley Member Posts: 870
    edited November 2015

    Linda, I'm so sorry, I know how hard it is to lose a pet. Sending you extra big hugs today. I cried reading your post, it brought back memories of when our cat became very ill. 

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  • Wendy3
    Wendy3 Member Posts: 1,012
    edited November 2015

    Linda loosing a pet is like loosing a part of your family. We lost our 13 year old retriever and I have never seen my children so sad it was horrible. But she went very peacefully sometimes I still think she had a better end than a lot of people I've known. She is where there is no pain hugs to you today. Now you need something positive to happen eh and it will.

    Wendy

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  • Lindalou
    Lindalou Member Posts: 647
    edited November 2015

    Linda, So sorry to hear about your dog. It's so hard. Think of all the wonderful love he gave you and you gave him.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2015

    Linda, I'm so sorry. It is like loosing a family member. My heart goes out to you. I still mourn over my little dogs and still am very sad. i can't wait for the New Year to ring in!!!

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2015

    I'm not on an antidepressant but I think it's time to discuss this with my GP. Anyone really like what they are on? Can you share? Thanks. I'm so tired of crying and thinking like a negative person out of being scared. Thanks.

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  • ABeautifulSunset
    ABeautifulSunset Member Posts: 990
    edited November 2015

    Loves, I have been on Wellbutrin for 12 years, so I was on it pre cancer. Its very mellow and just helps me keep my head above the water, so to speak. There are some other ones that have been mentioned on these threads that are pretty popular among the bc crowd. I'm sure somebody will chime in with the names. You should not have to fight your depression without help. It is an obvious and understandable side effect of a bc diagnosis, and should be treated, just as the rest of your disease is treated. I hope you can rise above the dark clouds soon.

    Stefanie


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  • auroaya200882
    auroaya200882 Member Posts: 942
    edited November 2015

    Loves I'm on Cymbalta since 2009 prior to dx. I feel great with it no se and has the added benefit of helping with joint pain.

    Don't be afraid to request something the latest ASCO protocol for cancer patients is that we all should be screened for depression.

    Sending (((hugs))) of comfort to you.

    Au

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited November 2015

    LindaE54,

    So very sorry to hear about your dog. They give us unconditional love and loyalty and losing one is so sad. My good memories of him comfort you.

    Lovesmaltese,

    I have been on Effexor since dx. No problems and I really believe it helped me stave off any depressive episodes

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  • Lynnwood1960
    Lynnwood1960 Member Posts: 1,284
    edited November 2015

    Dee, so sorry for the loss of your friend, that's rough. Linda, sorry for the loss of your dog, they truly are like our "children". Hugs to both of you!

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  • 3Holly
    3Holly Member Posts: 223
    edited November 2015

    Hi everyone,

    Have not been able to catch up here lately, just got home from a great movie but a tearjerker (Brooklyn) and was very sad to hear your news, Dee and Linda. So sorry, Linda you are right, when it rains it pours. But the sun will come out again. Sending hugs your way.


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  • LindaE54
    LindaE54 Member Posts: 2,054
    edited November 2015

    Thank you, all of you. The house is so quiet and empty but Mr. Doggy is in a better place. It was 11 years of unconditional love. I'm so thankful for you all and to be able to share these bad episodes. I hope to report good things soon.

    Loves - I'm on Zoloft, anti-depressant and also very good for anxiety. By all means, don't stay that way. We need help from chemistry. Anti-depressants can be trial and error until you find the right fit. It took a few different ones for me until the right one was found but could not do without it.

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  • JunieB
    JunieB Member Posts: 1,023
    edited November 2015

    LindaE - I want to add my condolences for the loss of your Mr. Doggy. They bring so much comfort and companionship. I remember when my two dogs passed (a year apart) and how empty and lost I felt. Especially since I don't have any family.

    How do you know if you are depressed? This is a subject my MO has never brought up with me. I guess I'm just so used to excessive stress for so many years, it seems normal, so never really considered

    mentioning it to my doctor. Any thoughts?

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  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited November 2015

    (((Linda))). I"m sorry. So tough to lose a loving fur baby.

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  • KiwiCatMom
    KiwiCatMom Member Posts: 2,553
    edited November 2015

    So very sorry Linda. Sending hugs.

    Loves - I take prozac. Keeps me evened out for the most part.

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