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abelson50
abelson50 Member Posts: 2
edited June 2014 in Caring for Someone with Breast cancer

2 years ago, my long time girl friend was diagnosed with stage 4 B.C.  I have tried to remain positive that science will come up with an answer.  It always does.  When they said man would never fly,  look what happened.  They said we would never go to the moon.  Look what happened.  They said we would never break the sound barrier.  Look what happened.  So I am going to say it.  For Those of you out there who think Breast Cancer will not be defeated I say  "RUBBISH!!"  I think we can do it.    I am always worried of course but so far she is still here.  What out there is the latest and greatest weapon we can use against this vile villain.                      -Marc-

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  • ibcmets
    ibcmets Member Posts: 4,286
    edited May 2012

    Marc,

    They say never say never.  A lot more people today are prolonging their lives with cancer.  Even stage IV bc patients are treatable for years.  We are all praying for a cure

    Terri

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  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited May 2012

    Marc, so sorry for your loved ones breat cancer. Perhaps you know by now that what we do know now is that breast cancer comes in many shades. Your girlfriends breast cancer is unique to her finding the latest protocol that may help her could be acs clso as her medical team or it might mean a visit to a major cancer treatment center to determine if she might benefit from a trial. Best wishes to you both.

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  • abelson50
    abelson50 Member Posts: 2
    edited May 2012

    My girlfriend has recently dumped me.  She says the stress of having a relationship with me has caused her cancer.  Its hard not to be hurt by that. I pray every night that she is all right.  I never get any response and this really has me questioning my faith.  The last we spoke, she said she wants me to suffer the way she has suffered.  I asked my doctor if he would like to use some of my bone marrow to enhance her system  for extra strength and health but I was told it would not work.  I have decided that it would make me happier to know that she will survive rather than have a relationship with me.  I realize now that you cant make somebody love you.  Onward to the next improvement and I guess a new relationship for me if I am fortunate in that way.    -Marc-

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