I went to a divorce lawyer yesterday

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  • Druanne
    Druanne Member Posts: 295
    edited May 2012
    Venaba I am so happy you have found a wonderful man....I know they are out there......so hard to find, so when you DO find a keeper, gotta hang on! My refi is FINALLY CLOSING this Monday so my divorce will be filed the very next day :) Thank you for the inspiring post.......so sorry you had to go through that :(
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  • venaba
    venaba Member Posts: 22
    edited June 2012

    Thanks Druanne, I feel blessed to be with my husband I have.  He is very supportive of me.  You're right about good ones are hard to find.  We go to the doctor tomorrow for a checkup with the BS.  I'm keeping my fingers crossed and praying I'm OK.

    I hope your life is better for you.  Sometimes it take a lot of frog kissing to find a prince.

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  • purple32
    purple32 Member Posts: 3,188
    edited June 2012

    Your are such a strong person, Druanne!

    I really envy you- I can't imagibe feeling stable enough under my current circumstance with BC, to stop living the Jekyll and Hyde life....couldnt make it financially either.  Actually feel as though I would regret it and just be complicating my life further, but I must say- I am so weary of this sick and toxic stress.

    My husband had cancer 3 yrs ago, and I treated him like GOLD. Put all of our differences aside.

    I expected the same ....HA!

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  • serenitywisdom
    serenitywisdom Member Posts: 191
    edited June 2012

    Breast cancer has actually made me realize that life is too precious to continue to be miserable and live in a miserable toxic marriage. Reading the posts on this string has actually made me feel stronger.  I put the divorce on hold while I was in chemo and having surgeries, just did not have the strength physically  or emotionally to deal with all the legal and other stuff.  When my husband of many years left and moved in with another woman while I was still in chemo I was actually relieved.  No more painful direct encounters to deal with.  Now that I am in recovery (just had final surgery a month and half ago)  I can move on with my life.  It is hard, still am tired I do  wonder what will happen though,  financial support, health insurance etc etc?? I am not working yet so  I wonder how the judicial system will deal with all of this.   Would welcome hearing others share their experiences. 

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