Hello Sis where are you?

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After I was diagnosed, my sis promised financial help and came right away after surgery.  Now she's gone? And decided that unemployment/disability is enough. OK, but it's not really.  Changed Thanksgiving day invitation and asked me to drive 7 hours round trip in 24 hours and now no  word of Christmas plans. I think she may be mad at me because my bro stayed with her for 2 weeks and then she asked him to leave, and they are not speaking.  (He is in really rough shape and lived in his car last winter until he stayed with me in a studio.) I still talk to him so maybe that's it or the diagnosis? She has a 4 bedroom house and more than enough funds, not that I would ever ask.  What is up with family these days? Geeze  I'll probably delete this.  TMI and I do want to stay loyal to my sis and not say bad things about her but I don't understand