Starting to feel such anger

Options
voicewriter
voicewriter Member Posts: 51
edited June 2014 in Singles With Breast Cancer

Grrrr... I am starting to feel so damn angry about my BF who broke up with me a month after my mastectomy (I already posted about this).  Saw him the other day -- he's now dating someone else, four months after our breakup after a three-and-a-half-year relationship -- and he said the breakup was mutual.  Yes, mutual, in the fact that I brought it up because I was so upset with how he was and all the problems we had, but then I didn't really want to break up (even though I SHOULD HAVE), but he pretty much closed the door.  After six or seven times of breaking up with me, he always agreed to get back together, but this time, when I'm at the lowest point of my life, after a bilateral mastectomy, he's done.  Really?  A month after.  Piece of shit! 

· Share on FacebookShare on Twitter

Comments

  • hrf
    hrf Member Posts: 3,225
    edited August 2011

    It does significantly to the pain. When we need them the most they disappear. You can vent all you want - you are entitled.

    · Share on FacebookShare on Twitter
  • LaurieInDallas
    LaurieInDallas Member Posts: 29
    edited August 2011

    I see you as so much better off without mr selfish. *Tries to fight the urge to type of him getting testicular cancer*  

    · Share on FacebookShare on Twitter
  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited August 2011

    You have every right to feel anger.   It is very traumatic to be broken up with while dealing with BC.   Yes, he is a walking piece of poo....rest assured, this is not someone that would have been there for you down the road.  

    · Share on FacebookShare on Twitter
  • 37antiques
    37antiques Member Posts: 643
    edited August 2011

    You are much better off without him, you know that.  You need to take the time to heal yourself physically and emotionally from all that has happened.  He has not done that, and so, even though he may be dating again, he will never grow and move forward, he will always be that jerk, stuck in time in a way.

    I read you were concerned about finding someone new, consider it like this - you need to take extra time to find someone who will meet your special needs and expectations.  It will happen when you least expect it.

    Take care of you.

    ((hugs))
    Sue

    · Share on FacebookShare on Twitter
  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited August 2011
    Voicewriter, I feel sorry for his new gf, because he is not the kind of man that will stick around when things get tough - and life always gets tough.   I know it hurts but you are going to get through this and see him for the self-absorbed and cold man he is.
    · Share on FacebookShare on Twitter

Categories