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HAPPY FRIDAY OWLETTES

Tried calling Phylis. went to voice mail. Tried calling PattyP wrong number.
Thanks all for comment on Pics. Susan so funny. Rosie, OMD if I took pics on all the glass we would have pages covered.
MombieZ, Love your stories and thanks for posting on W&F's. W&F's really has a mission to be funny and inspirational to all. W&F's didn't start that way, but that's what it grew into.
Mombie , your port hurts. That is a strong reason for removal when not needed. Many reasons why, but for once I won't go off the deep end explaining why. For those that ports aren't a problem and want to keep them, docs shouldn't interfere. Many reasons why too. Spookie and Blondie described it very well as to the benefit. My Sister's had her second port now for 7-8(8-9?) years. She regretted taking out the first port, but was pressured by her doc. Then needed one again. Works great.
Blondie I'm just gobsmacked that a Social Worker can't line you up for all kinds of different sources of volunteer help. The volunteers through different groups are there in abundance throughout the USA. The SW 's are the network link of who's doing what. I'll see what I wrote on JD-GP. I know I've written here of it too. It's a soapbox item.
Hopeful did you get genetics report?
Rosie, it didn't start as a shrine LOL. I have two bow( knee high sitting/shelf area) windows. With bay windows they have floor area. The bow windows are difficult to decorate. I used to redo them every few months. Once I found the mannequin it became a permanent fixture. For clothes that I had saved from along ago time, I would dress the mannequin in different things. But it got to be too much. Plus, changing the window decorations became a bit dangerous. I have a tendency to get focused to the exclusion of all else. One time, I walked off into thin air. Thank God, I landed on the bed.
Teka glad your legs are better. hate pain.......
Mammaray, hows your son? Sorry I've forgotten his name. The chat room folks are wonderful. But they move at lightening speed. i.e they can type fast, I'm a two finger typer that has to look at the keys.
Foots Hugs Praying..........
Chevy, the pool lights at night were no fun at all. It's a very nice inviting space with the lights on and candles------lots of candles.
Mommyof2 there you are, missed you. How's Princess?
Spookie this is so true "And everybody TALKED LOUD because you were LONG DISTANCE.". Reminds of my dadone time trying to help a fella that only spoke Spanish. He kept raising his voice, like it was going to make difference.
Rosie I do have one spot we do call the shrine Off to take pics.
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This is a 14 inch silver overlay platter. One of my favorites. Some overlay was coated with Rhodium. This one is Rhodium. Rhodium is very sturdy and doesn't tarnish. This is my favorite pattern. Their were few glassmakers that did overlay. They bought the Elegant glass from other glass makers and then did the overlay. This first link is to a page that has many examples of silver overlay
https://www.etsy.com/search/vintage?q=Sterling+Silver+Glass+plate
this link give's a short history of silver overlay
This link is to the Kent Collection of Claret Jugs. Claret jugs go back to ancient times. They are used to hold wine. They were filled from the wine barrels by servants and brought to the dining table. The Kent collection has gathered some of the most exquisite works. They are truly art. This can be a very nice diversion to wander through this site learning the history. I found this site when I was trying to locate what my new lemonade pitcher was long ago. The stunning beauty and the skill of the artisan will mesmerize you. Enjoy

http://www.claretjugs.com/index.html
Hmmmm seems they're is a discoloration on the bottom right. It's a shadow off the table. It's perfect over the whole plate.
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Lovely plate. What makes it special? Wedding gift? Family heirloom?
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Mommie, I got interested in silver overlay after finding the Kent collection. I purchased the plate off EBAY. You will love the Kent Collection. It's a walk through time sort of thing

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This little plate was thrifted at Salvation Army for a quarter. Almost gave it away. Very happy I didn't. It's from the early part of the last century. Higbee glass. Arched Fleur De LIs pattern. Introduced in 1907. This link is to the same piece on pininterest. You can see all the lovely details. This is pressed glass versus cut glass- known as Early Americam Pressed Glass--EAPG
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Nice, I like it. Really beautiful. I have a milk glass collection. Not as fancy as the silver onlay, but I like the old fashioned look.
My mother in law took some of the photos that I'm too tired to take. Here are some little examples of the "walk in the park" atmosphere here.


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a few more...


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This is just the spring beginnings. Things will explode into life soon. Can't wait.

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Oh Love gardens MOMZ.........they just lift of the weight of the world.

The Martini Shaker is Bernard Rice and Sons, Apollo Inc. This was DS's undergrad graduation gift. He still doesn't quite get the beauty. Must ask him now that he's a bit older what he thinks. BR&S'sAI long history from about 1870 to +-1950 without relooking it up. This shaker's style put's it in the 1900 to 1930's What makes this one unusual is the grape relief. The dark between the leaves is intentional. DH did the silver cleaning one time . He was so proud to have removed it. I choked, but didn't say a word. He didn't know. Time did allow the natural tarnishing to occur. Now I do my own silver polishing. I've collected several BR&S's pieces.
Off to help DBF BBL.
Good Lord. It's Good Friday, and I stupidly said Happy Friday in this mornings post. Dear Mother forgive this little errant Catholic.
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Mombie, it's the thing I miss the most about the new normal for me. The parts that are in the worst shape are the very parts gardening requires, and puts stress on: the low back, the shoulders, and the knees. I have tried so many different ways the past few years, but it frustrates me and makes me very sad. Especially now, when my gardens would be bursting with life. I can't even bear to look at the mess it's become.
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Dear Mags--I'm sorry for the pain of a lost hobby. If my DH saw your post and could come fix it he would. He has a big heart and often does little things at the homes of people in our church who are unable to do for themselves anymore. Our family went over to prune fruit trees for a couple in our church four weeks back. They are aging and both had surgery. I wish we could come help make it beautiful for you. Do you have potted things in your house to help give you growing things to nurture your spirit?
Sas--I'm particularly fond of things that have grape designs. My milk glass collection all have grape design. I found a salt and pepper shaker set that I didn't know existed in the collectibles. It has made me desire to learn more about what I'm collecting. We have silver cups from Norway that were made by my father in law's cousin there. He is a silversmith and also makes jewelry and such. I won't let anyone polish or wash those cups without learning how to care for them right. I caught one of my kids scrubbing one out with a scouring pad! It took a lot of polishing to get it back to a smooth shine.
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Unfortunately, I live with 2 people who couldn't care less about gardening and growing things, and my brain is so fried that if something isn't where I see it every day I forget about it and so things die. Last year DH gave me a little kit for Christmas with pots, seeds, and growing medium. That spring I started them and kept them in a spot I would see and water them daily. But they got moved and I didn't even notice until weeks later when I moved a curtain and found them on a window sill, dead.
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Mags--That's makes my heart hurt with you. I wish I could come visit with some flowers to cheer you. It's not much, but here's a BIG HUG (gently of course).
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Oh Mags, I too wish that MomZ could get there.
Smarrty. I just had a thought when looking at these plates. Seems to me they're some quilt designs in them

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Mambi. / congrats on finishing rads !
Blondie. I still think done of us should come up there and shake some sense into your family and friends. You NEED help. Have you tried the meals on wheels ? I don't know anything about it but sounds promising. Wish you lived closer I would def help you out and you can help me. Like 2 old cowboys with only 2 legs between is to stand on. Lol
Dr agreed to keeps overnight since still haven't held food down even with liquid zofran and phenergan, still very dizzy need help to potty and back most of the time because my legs are so weak. I still believe it had to do with medicare only paying 3 days at a time. Then if hospitsl released you and you come right back they get too charge medicare another 3 days. Looks more like money / ind issue than well being of my health
Hootie hoo all
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thought I wiuld include my new scary look. Haven't put on makeup or fixed hair in like forever. Man I look OLD -
Patty that's a bummer you are still having to stay there but I'm glad they are chancing sending you home.
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You are looking pretty good to me, Patty. I wish you felt well tho.
Blondie....I have delivered meals on wheels maybe a half dozen times. I work full time so I am only a back up volunteer on the weekends. I have only seen pictures of meals on the website. I do know they smell good. Everyone gets a hot meal for lunch and a cold meal for supper. I think i would try it if I ever need it.
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Hey Patty, you must have posted the selfie when I was posting. You look lovely despite feeling crumby. That takes talent.
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Blondie, yes, that would be hard. It's a little thing but going to the grocery store and picking out your own food is SO different from relying on someone else to choose for you. Having to ask for a ride - and being turned down several times is the pits. I'm sorry.
I hope you will have a blessed Easter or Passover.
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PattyP , Called @ 5;15 EST. back home. DBF's thingy fell through--women didn't have money for the repair.Went to early dinner and THEN to my SPCA thrift. Two finds-----mirror was being put on the wall, not even settled, asked price, 40$, but today was 50% off day in the furniture room with wooden nickel. Bought that baby. 20 bucks. Already found a comparable on line 279$. Beveled glass, silver & black foil gorgeous frame. Gorgeous bedspread--tough call on retail----two sided green luscious paisley. Cotton polyester blend. Perfect as new condition. DBF loved it--15$. My guess is they were unloaded from the same house. CHIT should have stayed to see what else was coming out. Neither item on floor for a minute. BBl LOL Stoked
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Blondie- another idea. Do you have a local American Cancer Society chapter? Sometimes those organizations have volunteers to help people with rides and errands. It really breaks my heart to hear people not stepping up to help.
Mombie Zombie- rejoice in not having to go to rads today. Whoot whoot.
I watched the Cancer/Emperor of all Maladies on line myself as it was on here when I was flying home. Here is the link for you and anyone else who wants it. I think only Part 1 available but a solid 2 hours. I did not find it as depressing as I did informative. I think there is a Part 2 coming up but not sure when?
http://video.pbs.org/video/2365362396/
Mags- I am sorry that gardening is hard for you now. I know you have just come through a pretty tough treatment period and hoping that maybe with more time and healing you can do more. There was so much I had a hard time doing a year after my surgeries and then rads in 2013. You might be able to do more with time as you recover.
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My garden is my refuge.. comforts me and sustains my soul. Mags I feel for you and can only imagine what sorrow it must be to watch a loved garden decay. Are there any church friends or volunteers that might be interested in helping you fix things back up? I know when I was a kid we went on Quaker weekend work camps. There was another girl and I sent to clean a townhome in the inner city of an elderly couple both had had pneumonia. We scoured their kitchen, floors, cupboards, frig, oven, vacuumed all the rugs, windows etc. All free. They were very appreciative. There were other kids who went to fix up yards or gardens. Lots of highschools and charter schools have community service hours the kids must meet. Try calling and seeing if there are volunteers who might help. The kids could get their community hours and you could get a garden repaired. Also girl scouts and 4H might have badges or community hour projects where your needs could get them their hours!
Blondie-I really can't imagine that if you called the Lions club, senior center, what ever religion you feel comfortable with or ask your social worker to hook you up with volunteers. I have volunteered for a zillion things in my life- happily! I am sure you could get together with someone to help you get meals and meds when you need them. It is all a matter of letting them know you need assistance. Don't be shy- ASK FOR WHAT YOU NEED! There are folks you would be happy to help you. Wish I lived closer, I would be one of them.
Patty- your selfie looks great! Considering what you have been through. Now to figure out the root cause.
Happy Easter/ Passover ya'all. Love the garden shots Mombie.
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Patty- you do look really good, even though you are stuck in the $&*#% hospital right now. Feel better sister and hope you can be home again soon. I know hospitals try to get you out fast, but the cost for re-admissions has got to be staggering (nevermind awful for you). Sometimes things cannot be figured out in three days, right?
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thanks for the support friends. Feeling itchy to get home. That's a great sign
SAS. Sorry I missed your call was asleep
Hugs snd hellos to all. Can't wait to be able to respond to all just know I am encouraging each of you in silence
Hootie hoo
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thanks jazzy
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I was soundly asleep. Schatzi came to wake me, as if it were morning. Usual. But it turned out it was 11:30pm. Drat -
Sorry Sassy that sucks. Hope you can get back to bed.
Long ago, I remember taking a nap after dinner and waking up thinking it was time to get ready for school.. only to find out it was night time. My family laughed at me. My damned Siamese cat Emmy will just walk over me like I was a rug and climb on to the window above the bed, walk behind the blinds making such a racket! Wakes me up and then I throw her out. Damn cat.
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