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  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Member Posts: 2,951
    edited July 2014

    enerva, 4 weeks is a short time. Pretty soon you'll be wondering where the time went. Love your walks, which we could all come to your place to mellow out as needed.  I just found out that my ps thinks the girls are just fine, he did a 180 on me. I am getting a second opinion on Monday so I'll see what she thinks. If they get worse with the dropping and the pain in the sides then I want them removed. The pain isn't all the time, and not too bad, so I'll wait. He will do the fat grafting when my weight has plateaued.

    Welcome to the newbies. Stick around, it gets crazy sometimes. 

  • PattyPeppermint
    PattyPeppermint Member Posts: 11,162
    edited July 2014

    Glad to see both of you awake also.

    Enerva - I agree the 4 weeks will go by pretty quickly. Heck the whole year flew by for me.  

    Wishing you both successful outcomes on the girls.  

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2014

    cammi,  you are too funny!  "Did they know about brains then?" 😁 That made me snort when I laughed....and it kinda hurt.

    I leave on my road trip to Houston tomorrow.  I will try to post about my thrilling adventures and any jail sentences along the way.

    phyllo-pian

    p.s.  I love you blondie

  • PattyPeppermint
    PattyPeppermint Member Posts: 11,162
    edited July 2014

    momma ray - what you are feeling is totally normal. We all go thru such a crazy emotional rollercoaster. Truly time will make it easier. But don't allow yourself to stay down to long. If so talk to your dr. Plenty of meds out there to help.  So tell us some more about this wonderful grandson you help take care of. 

    Blondie / hugs.  Thinking of you. 

    Susan. Have you started new chemo yet ?  

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 855
    edited July 2014

    Good morning ladies.  It's 1am here and I'm still awake.  My mind is all over the place.....worrying...but worrying changes nothing.  There is so much going on in all parts of my life.  I do want you all to know how much I appreciate all of you.  Although I read alot and post little, I feel a connection here.  FBB was my age.  I hope I can remain healthy enough to stay in my present career and get my youngest through college.

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited July 2014

    Okay.... the PCP CALLED me instead of emailing me back. And she called after hours so we'd be able to talk as long as we needed to.

    Basically, she's concerned that my cognitive function is not better than it is after five weeks now... in fact, it's getting worse.

    She has ordered a brain MRI, which I'll have next week. We don't suspect anything dramatic like a bleed or a clot, because I don't have any physical symptoms other than imbalance and disequilibrium. In other words, I can't always stand up straight.

    But the cognitive - mental part of it puzzles her. She says the MRI won't show a concussion, and she doesn't suspect anything more serious, but says it can't hurt to get as much info as we can.

    I can still type, I can still use big words, I can still talk on the phone. But lots of times, I have no idea what people are saying when they talk - like that insurance adjuster yesterday.... and tonight DH made some comment about a news feature we were watching, and I realized I had no idea what the anchor was talking about.

    I have no concept of time...I thought we were at the beach two weeks ago. It was five weeks ago.  I get out of bed - it's 10:30. Suddenly it;s 2:30 in the afternoon. Then all of a sudden it's dinnertime. Where does the time go?

    At least I still have enough brains to squirt a garden hose on the flowers in the evening. Only 103 today, 107 tomorrow. Got my work cut out for me.

  • susan3
    susan3 Member Posts: 3,728
    edited July 2014

    blessings, happy you got into an appointment..that should make you feel a little better already. Good luck..in you pocket :)

    Forgot already who's girls r hanging...sorry. It's 2 am here...if I go back a page I will lose it...well, u know who u r..lol.  Good luck with the girls. Sorry you doc did a 180.   Why do I remember that and not who posted..oh well......blessings, I am coming with you...getting my brain looked at too...ha ha

    Patty peppermint..yep, started new treatment Wednesday....not gonna be my favorite..to similar to  one I have been on before so symptoms came on pretty quickly. Our bodies do have memory...wish my brain did..lol

    Hubby came through like a trouper with gallbladder. Mine came out about 6 yrs ago. 24 min surgery. I think he beat me..he always wins in everything....ok, so maybe we r a bit competitive over here. He even hides puzzle pieces to be the one to finish them..ha ha 

    Mammary....hang in there. I know u r fatigued to...that does a number on us mentally.  Hugs your way. These girls will keep you laughing too.  That helps a lot..especially our pole dancer Chevy !!!!!

    Envera, live your peaceful beautiful pics...hope you r finding peace in them too :)

    Ok...and someone is leaving for vacation tomorrow ....have a great time !!!!!!  Post pictures so we can be jealous :)

    Well, I hope I can get back to sleep.. 2 hours just won't be enough...but got nothing to do tomorrow so I guess it's not to big a deal....

    Ta ta

  • susan3
    susan3 Member Posts: 3,728
    edited July 2014

    ok I looked back

    Smaarty, it's your girls...good luck

    Phgraham....have fun on vacation 

    Wewwww I did it

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited July 2014

    Morning girls..... Yes Sass, passwords for
    everywhere! In fact I have so many pass-words I can hardly get into
    ANYthing!

    I got out of all the Mutual Funds... Just a big
    hassle... If I had it to do over again, I would just keep money in a savings,
    and not invest in anything!

    Even CD's aren't worth anything
    anyway.....

    And at our age, it's more important to make it
    easier for the kids if anything happens, and not have to go through all that,
    trying to find it all!

    They are on our house papers, and our banks...
    This happened with my folks, so there was no need for a Will, for my Brother and
    I....

    I have all of our important papers, phone numbers,
    etc. in a special binder, with everything listed.... Even our Cremation plans
    are paid for....

    This happened to me a couple years ago.... when my
    Identity was stolen.... Mastercard called one night, and asked if I had used my
    card for a $1500 ticket for Spirit Air.... AND another one for $450 from
    FLORIDA!

    We were at the Mall, walking, and someone, either
    sitting or walking by, used their "tablet' with the RFID reader, and it scanned
    and stole my card number out of my wallet, from inside my purse. You also have
    to file a report with the Federal Trade
    Commission....

    I had to fill out a Police Report, call the Credit
    Card agencies, even Social Security, because they had my number also! THEN I
    had to report it to the IRS, and I get a special number from them every year, to
    prove that it is me, and not someone else.

    About 6 months later Capitol One called, asking
    about the credit card request I put in for! I knew nothing about that. With
    your SS, and your information, thieves can cause so much hell, that you wouldn't
    believe.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjOduug-SC8

    But all you have to do, to protect yourself from
    this, is carry your cards inside an aluminum wallet, or don't carry your cards
    at all...just carry enough cash for that day.

    And don't keep very much money in your checking,
    where you use your debit-card to access from.

    I make sure I move it over to my savings, when my
    SS check goes in.

    I just mostly buy things on-line.... or at
    Walmart....image

    Good Lord Sass!!!!!!!!!! Are you trying to kill
    us all? I mean at first I thought you said a "centuries old garage recipe"...
    but then it is GARGLE.... and that is even worse! I mean can't we just eat
    flames and get it over with?

    Did you guys read that recipe carefully? I've got
    a good one for you..... just gargle with whiskey.... that's what my Grandma
    did.

    And Sass said "it won't work on an old sore
    throat!!!!!!!!" Meaning? No one gets an old sore throat unless it is an old
    person! Cammi, she is saying disparaging remarks here.... we might take it
    personally..... or not.

    LittlePaws! So happy to see our Snuggs and Anni
    Mae.... Yes! Is she in any pain now?

    MammaDahling! Don't go gettin' stuck in some bad
    place... I would hold off on those pictures until you are further out from this
    stuff....

    Yes, we ALL have had crap going on in our lives,
    but see, you have to look at it like YOU are still HERE! And so are we! So go
    walk outdoors, and watch a sunset.... or the sunrise, like I am going to do in a
    minute! Just thank God that you get another day.... See? That's your
    "present" !

    No... I'm not from out East... with those other
    gals... I'm from Denver... where they grow pot like crazy..... image

    Oh Cammi, SHUT UP! Ha, ha! "Didn't have
    cars"..... DAMN that girl is a brat! They DID take an x-ray, but that only
    shows bones.... so no broken bones... And I don't remember what else they
    did... not MUCH apparently!

    You know, I still love Oil Lamps! But we didn't
    have a furnace... not until much later... Everyone either had a "Heater" or a
    wood/coal stove... And we had coal and ice delivered.

    Oh, so are you making fun of me? You little
    Dickens! We DID have indoor plumbing though...

    Except not at our Sitters, where we had to run
    out-doors to the out-house... I said RUN, because we had to be faster than their
    Geese! Because those little B@#$@#$S would run
    after us and try and attack my Brother and I!

    Smarty, What IS this, "when my weight has
    plateaued." that's French, right? My weight "plateaued" or FLATTENED out
    years ago.... I just give up. Smarty-pants with the Plateaue's...

    SHE said it you guys, I
    didn't...

    PhylliinCammi'scorner! YOU are just instigating
    her on! She will be relentless now! And why are you going to Houston?
    Something we should know about? Vinnie there? OH YOU with the "plan!" SURE
    she has....

    It's a plan for mischief...
    probably.

    Blessings..... WTH? What can she do about you?
    It's a scary thought, that you will be like ME.... Ha! Maybe it takes a lot
    longer for our brains to recover..... I know MINE did! And I can just hear
    Cammi yelling in the corner something about me and my
    brain!!!

    But MAYbe they can do some sort of repair work,
    like electrical shocks?

    You SOUND okay when you write....! And to
    recognize that you aren't thinking straight is important! Like I know what I'm
    talking about....

    You know, don't try so hard... Just let your
    brain rest... It is trying to repair itself...

    My fall happened when I was 15... I think... And
    I must have went on, day to day, like a normal little girl, but I can only
    remember a few little things!

    Just don't worry.... SOMEday you will be perfect
    again.... just like I am...

    Now CAMMI, just don't even say it! I'm trying to
    give the girl hope... and you are over there snickering and drinking your iced
    coffee... and trying to act normal.

    Okay gals.... love all of you.... just trying to
    help these gals with some ramblin's!  

  • PattyPeppermint
    PattyPeppermint Member Posts: 11,162
    edited July 2014

    mammaray - so embarrassed - blushing - guess I got confused. Oops

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited July 2014

    Mammray I don't think any of us thought u were that young--way to young, but u do have a good arsenal of chemo stuff to help u so we'll be here to help u along. Someone here (not me) and no names mentioned has kids twice u'r age. But this wicked disease doesn't discriminate, but we're all fighters.

    Phylogoing--I think is not going on vacay she is going to do someprocedures in another country, she can use her passport just for this now. Oh I was thinking TX is another country--geography was my worst, it's big enough.

    Blessings I'm so glad u'r Dr. is doing further stuff ==don't go by that woman with a car name--she's stuck in another time zone completely so u'll get better--u'll see.

    And Miss Chevy I do not put u down, I put u in u'r place, wherever that is t the time. Someone has to control u somewhat I'm used to taking care of really old people, well u'r not that old, well maybe u are, but an outhouse never had to use one--we on the other hand had 1 and 1/2 bathrooms--from the very beginning--we were considered doing well. LOL and even then I ws always in the bathroom. But throwing up almost every day--u'd think someone would have thought maybe she needs a Dr. no not those days, Finally when I was 17 I went and of course they found somestrnge thing I had and treated it--didn't have to much trouble after that except when chemo started then it wa all the other direction and still goig strong. hahaha So I guess I've always been a bathroom kinda gal--I didn't say backroom I said bathroom, that why my dad always made sure we had an extra 1/2 bath.  He's rather build one that see what was wrong with me. Crazy people those days.

    OK my kids went to the store for me last nite and bought something to bring to the party today--so that's good--hope the weather is too. See u guys later or tomorrow. Takes me forever to get myself together.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited July 2014

    GOOD MORNING OWLIES  ANOTHER DAY!. 

    Paws happy that annie mae is doing well. I know that makes you happy after all she has been through. :) YAY

    Blessings glad PCP's doing a follow up. Safest. Slow or late bleeds can occur. She's ruling out any physical change. Best practice approach. Can't tell you how happy I am, she's doing it. You likely are too :) She's not assuming, it's just the concussion :) I like your PCP. The long talk on the phone. :) She was not just  talking with you, she was evaluating you too. Setting time to talk with you at length. YAY GREAT DOC! Stay safe and out of the trash HUGS:)

    Chevy, Yes passwords all over the place. Great advice on protecting identity. If I could fit what you said "Yes, we ALL have had crap going on in our lives, but see, you have to look at it like YOU are still HERE! And so are we! So go walk outdoors, and watch a sunset.... or the sunrise, like I am going to do in a minute! Just thank God that you get another day.... See? That's your "present" ! In the topic box I will , SAGE advice.

    Cami Who is your boss. I thought it was a SIL?

    Smarrty, I never said much about my foob pain, but it was awful for the first year. Then in the second year I hurt them pushing DH back in bed. My PS put in 850cc implants without the pecs being adequately stretched. I always figured my scenario was way at the far end of  &^%-up's. Never wanted to scare anyone. BUT I looked at your tag line. You're still in the first year. Question: have you noticed any improvement in pain from month to month? I think I remember you checking with Deborah? I know that there have been woman that go through de-construction for the very reason you describe. The main reason I didn't,  was I figured I went through the misery of the damn surgeries. The thing that kept me going is,  I did feel (slow, but present) improvement month to month. When I met my PCP in DEC after the sx's (feb/mar./jun./july), she prescribed adequate pain meds. Heavy duty--fentanyl patch. By then I was into Total Body Pain(TBP). Had I had proper pain management from the beginning, I may not have gotten to that point. I'll never know. Is your doc prescribing pain meds and a benzo like valium or ativan? You might be just around the corner from the pain disappearing. 

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited July 2014

    An update on PhyillyonherwaytoHouston. She mentioned many pages ago that she was entering a clinical trial. She's on her way to Houston to enter the trial at MD Anderson. She has a new computer, so she doesn't think she will have the same problems connecting that she had the last time she was there. She will be staying with her BFF. Her only son also lives in Houston. They are very close :) Philly was pretty well a lifelong resident of Houston. Knows many people there. 

  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Member Posts: 2,951
    edited July 2014

    sass, they hurt more now than about a month after sx. I know part of it is the weight lost.  It's not real bad and if it gets worse I will ask for some light weight pain meds. Maybe than he'll take it more seriously. I really don't want to take any drugs.  It just that they're close to being ugly!  It's a little more uncomfortable sleeping on my sides and they feel like their starting to harden. Could be my imagination. I think it might be encapsulating but slowly and will probably have to get much worse before he'd remove them. Can't tell in clothes of course, they look normal.  If I send you a pic by PM will that screw you up with the mods? Ok, I'm whining. Going to go sew up a dress for my sister's birthday. Need to get that done today.

    You know I bought a new PC. It's still in the box! I'll get it up and going as soon as I get the newsletter done that's due this month. Now I have some time to work on it.

  • dutchiris
    dutchiris Member Posts: 855
    edited July 2014

    It's good to know that phylliontrial has got people in Houston.  From what I've read here, its not her first trial ;-)  

    Hoping things go smoothly with little or no SEs for you Phyllis.

  • susan3
    susan3 Member Posts: 3,728
    edited July 2014

    got some good news from the kids today...they live on my daughters income cause hubby is in med school. Won't make any money till he is in residency..he just started his 3 rd in med school. After 4 th yr, he goes into residency. So there first yr they were in a studio..hard for me to be comfy to stay there..and hotels r expensive. So I did the math, and gave them money for a 2 bedroom so I could stay with them.  Now some friends of his parents are moving to Florida for 18 months, so they are moving in there rent free...just utilities. So I have a place to stay and I don't have to help them with $... Cool for everyone...yeahhhhhhh

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Member Posts: 2,942
    edited July 2014

    Smaarty - what the heck? Do we need to go do a group smack up of your PS? I'm hoping the new SHE PS has a better feel for where your implants should sit. Do you have other choices in your area or is it insurance limited? I would think Sacramento would have a pretty good supply of PSs. Maybe your implants need smaller/ diff contour. I assume you've been on Whippetmom's site (forgive me my memory if you have been). Maybe your weight loss has changed their support structure. Shaking my head at your current PS.

    PhyllodrivingtoHouston - leaving "tomorrow" meaning Sunday (hard to tell from the time stamp on your post but looks something like 1:30 am??)?. Safe driving and prayers that the trial is successful. Stopping along the way like the Dallas area??? You've still got my #, right? I've still got yours.

    Well the sore throat seems better. I have trouble with one sinus I assume it has some anatomical defect. Always the side that plugs up terribly with colds and this is on that side. Has for years. Took Tylenol at bedtime and slept like a rock except for one potty break. It's even the side where dentist has no quibbles with. Did I mention I hate going to the dentist (but like a good girl I go every 6 months whining all the way).

    MammaRay - Thanks about the sound machine at Target. I think that's one I've looked at. If you get a chance can you give me the brand name. No biggie hurry - prob. not leaving the house next week except for church tomorrow. Love that you and Susan "know" each other. Proves that we are all just one big family here. We all get stuck in our minds at some point. One step, one minute, one hour, one day and there you are. You only have to be the mighty fighter for just this minute. Hugs bunches. Hope you got some sleep. Teka is for sure the only east coasters (kinda) on here I can think of. Maybe others will identify themselves.

    Pawprint - Love Annie Mae and Snuggs. Looks like surgery has healed well.

    Enerva - I love your walks. Beach looks quite rocky for sitting like hard on the bum to sit on - rock imprints.

    Dutchy - Hugs your way. I hate this **** disease.

    Blessings - progress at least on getting to the bottom of your changes. HIgh five for the PCP. Please stay out of the heat. Is DH always around - asking I hope he is, a good thing. I worry about you falling in the heat. I always take my cell with me outside with the goats. I am the one who fell over the vacuum after all.

    Susan - I can also remember what someone posted but not who did. I tried a diff. tactic today. I started with everyone's name and then filled in. Worked better but then I'm on a PC and this has taken me about 2 hours off/on. (Sent off long post to the "are you watching anything good" inbetween) Glad DH is recovering well. Hiding puzzle pieces - we'll have to have a talk with him. My glaucoma doc keeps a puzzle going in main waiting area and in 2nd area too. One of the few things to look forward to there. It's amazing they ever get finished since I bet most don't see all that well. I'm one of the youngest there at 6l - been going for 7 years.

    Yes it's a good day. I'm upright and have had coffee and anticipate more of it shortly. Screw how hot it is - I want coffee. I also make a pretty decent iced coffee. I have a single cup drip (Melita) filter. Boil water/pour through. Make extra strong and pour it back a couple of times. Only problem is it takes way/way too much sugar. But I have found I like the PureVia brand raw cane sugar/stevia blend OK so decreases calories a bit. I think you can buy it loose as well as the packets I have.

    I think Cami's boss is a nephew or son of nephew (whatever that relationship is).

    Off to start laundry. DH is out of unmentionables - at least his favorites. I thought only us ladies had fav. undies.

    Wow Cool Susan. I read just as I previewed. Things do work out. Is this the DD that went to the tomato toss?

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited July 2014


    Just popping in to say hello and happy Saturday!

  • Enerva
    Enerva Member Posts: 3,162
    edited July 2014

    ok I am sending you all hugs. Happy Saturday

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  • susan3
    susan3 Member Posts: 3,728
    edited July 2014

    so cute baby dog pics!!!!!!

    Luvmygoats ..same daughter...one and only :)

    This new treatment is yucky..I feel horrible ...so dizzy and week kneed when I get up...hope it only lasts for about 3 or 4 days like they said....I don't have patience for this stuff...lol 

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited July 2014

    Smarrty, glad you are in a better place then I was. Hope the new PS does right by you. Capsules--massaging? Have PS show you how to break a newly forming capsule. Even with daily massage, sometimes I'd get a change that needed breaking. Always worked, but every foob is different. The final truth is I think I can say that just in the last month the final re-con surgery pain is gone. That's 5 1/2 years. Still not declaring it done LOL. Same as when I stopped sleeping in neck traction in the 70's. It was very very long time before I disassembled it. Oddly, the armpit pain got worse right before thyroidectomy in April . It was a *&%$ okay now what. Decided to investigate after sx. It changed. Then worse after The RAI-131. Then slowly better. Now gone. Moffitt doc said it couldn't be related to thyroid experience. BUT I have a theory...............

    Please, remember based on following several threads and the deconstruction thread, my foobs were very abnormal pain wise.. Look fairly abnormal too. There's a portion where above the cleavage without a bra, it goes off to the left. Not visible with a bra on. You can imagine the feeling standing in the grocery line where the tabloids are, caption "boob job gone wrong" some starlet(?) with a same look as mine. It was an OH WELL moment. There just to big too, so, there's a shelf. A good PS is worth there weight in gold. Mine had a great reputation. Maybe he has done thousands that looked great. I'm definitely not his poster child. Not dissastisfied enough to attempt any correction. Just don't want anyone thinking anything about my experience would apply to them.

    Since he made me too big which was the 180 degree opposite of what I requested from day one, on meeting for consultation AND stated being wheeled into surgery, I stated that all surgical consents should have the agreed to size and product/style. 

  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Member Posts: 2,951
    edited July 2014

    wow enerva, thought the dog was going to snooze the baby! Cute.

    Luvgoats, I have kaiser, really can't change insurance until October, open enrollment, then have to wait for January to start looking. Hopefully the new ps is willing.  Depending on what happens I have a girlfriend who went thru this 4 years ago and I might check with her doc and just pay of out pocket for a consult.  I thought I'd also tell the doc that my DH doesn't touch me anymore, which he doesn't. The boobs were the only thing he did used to touch.  These are not anything anyone would want to touch/fondle now!

    Susan, hope this part passes quickly for you.

    Sass, I have textured implants, no massaging.

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited July 2014

    Oh Enerva I love u'r pics, they are so heartwarming. See how furbabies are like real babies and they love them too.

    Luv I'm a Iced coffee person too, anytime but especially in the summer, but icing is down it has to be really strong.

    Everyone seems to have everything in control

    Susan that is such good news for the kids and u too. U can relax a little with that now.

    Well figured out what to wear, I have really a lot of nice capris but I have to cover my ankles so I'll wear my ankle pants--I'm wearing blue and red so jewelry is blue and red. So I asked Joey to get me my blue nail polish out--yes I'm goofy--- so he couldn't find it--Why do I always forget he's color blind--so I picked it out and asked him what color he saw and it was gray--but it is a bright blue, yet he sees a blue sky---it's all in the shading, but he's never wrong with purple, but he can match clothes and jewelry just isn't sure what he's matching color wise--but shades match. I'll tell u, I', glad I can wear my gum shoes, they re comfortable for me, otherwise I'm miserable. OK maybe I'll be home earliyish or whatever.

  • Enerva
    Enerva Member Posts: 3,162
    edited July 2014

    Smarty tell them what ever you need in order for them to listen. I am sick of the Ps that have no compassion for us. It makes me sick and all the crap anger comes back to me I am off for my pole walk I need itttt 

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Member Posts: 2,942
    edited July 2014

    Cami - It's all an illusion. Like from the Wizard of Oz just don't look behind the screen. What is the occasion today? Someone's BD?

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    Smaarty - Being Kaiser meaning HMO? Referrals, limited network? Does Kaiser do "regular" insurance now? HMOs at least non-Medicare ones never really took off in Texas. I suppose there are still some, well know there are some. The hosp. I worked for (26 years ago) tried it but it didn't last long. DH works for a nationwide co (retail) so HMO wouldn't work. We have BCBS which I have not had one quibble with. No clue if same company next year. Not sure what year in contract they are. Yes, like I said maybe being female she will have more compassion. Would b4/after pics from your current PS help? Maybe give her an idea of what you had you want back. No clue if PS would release those to you. Of course you have your own private ones to show her. Inquire what an out of pocket consult would cost; maybe your current one would tell you. Are you thinking this other one might be on a new insurance for next year? I see on our ins. the non-negotiated rate b4 the PPO discount.

    Enerva - cute doggy/baby pics.

    Susan - me too. One daughter, 27. I was almost 35 when she was born. Never raised around kids, DB only 1.5 years younger than me. Never babysat. BFF had a boy then a girl and I fell in love with babies. My DM was shocked beyond words when I told her.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited July 2014

    Smarrty  chit on the massaging. DBF is fine with them. Might feel different if he weren't. For me , in the space of all the other CHIT That BC sx's, DH's illness & death, brain tumor that consummed years. I just didn't care that the foobs weren't pretty. Lucky DBF came into my life 

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Member Posts: 2,942
    edited July 2014

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    Maybe this is us. At least the balls look soft. No comments Cami! I've done nothing yet towards that laundry. Walked out to get the mail. Read a couple sections of newspaper. Had a bowl of cereal. Yikes.

    HI back Tangarooni.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited July 2014

    Okay little miss MammaDahling! Man, you are just
    a kid! I didn't know you were that young either! WTH? I have shoes older than
    you! I mean no kidding!

    My Grandson's are almost your age! Okay....
    "exchange surgery for August?"..... Help us remember this....

    Peppermint.... don't be embarrassed for
    anything.... me and Cammi aren't!

    Cammi! So you are taking care of ME? I mean
    controlling me? Hah! SURE you are.... "really old
    people"......

    Did you guys hear THAT? Little chit! And THIS
    from one who thinks Texas is another country!

    See? They let ANYone on these threads! Your
    Dad needed to connect you an out-house....

    You are going to another party? Is THAT what you
    call them now? You really mean a conflab in an underground hiding hole, where
    you all smoke pot & tell dirty jokes? And eat chips?  It's a Den of inequity...  that's where they do "stuff."

    Yes Sassy.... I am an "old sage"..... Ha, ha! I
    like that.... You just gave Cammi more ammunition, like she needs
    that.

    Sure hope Phyllithewanderer will be good with this
    new "stuff" she is doing....... Big Alice must really miss
    her....

    Yes Smarty, me and Littlegoats are ready to come
    give your PS 3 kinds of hell! WTH? It might be your weight-loss little
    Smarty, but STILL! THAT'S why we have surgeons! They know better how to do
    this stuff, than WE do!

    We are confused about Cammi's boss.... Sokay
    gals.... she keeps him in the basement, and feeds him through the laundry
    chute.... He is an EX boyfriend of hers.... Yes littlegoats.... he is
    someone's nephew.

    Enerva! So CUTE with the little boy and the dog!
    Our "Chevy" was like that when our Grand-sons were born.... He thought they were
    just HIS to guard and play with!

    Oh Damn Susan! I'm so sorry for the way you are
    feeling.....

    Yes Cammi.... wear your "gum" shoes.... no-one
    will notice. Are they like Crocs? I hope you have fun....
    !

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Member Posts: 2,942
    edited July 2014

    Maybe gum shoes are like jelly shoes. Better not wear them on my pavement - they would be liquid.

    All the drapes are closed. I hate this. I love to be able to look out though out front where I am I see mostly a huge sweetgum and a even bigger elm. Can't see the street for them. Just took the goats out cool water. DH forgot to put out 2 of 4 buckets (forgot the smaller ones) but he told me he forgot. I usually take them 2 cool buckets about this time anyway. How they made it thru the hot summer of 2011 when I was working I don't know. The roofline of their barn does start to shade the water between 1-2 so I know how they did it, that and a boatload of buckets. They're not real active in the heat, mostly lying around chewing cud but 2 were out eating hay.

    I bet you Chevy and you Sassy remember this and prob. Cami. I had the measles (who knows what kind) and my DM had me bundled up in dark glasses on the front porch - had to have been 1958-1961. I feel like that little girl who has to have her eyes shaded when I sit in this dark house. But I must admit my elec. bills are manageable. I think I will pour cold coffee over ice, have some new pecan coffee cream in fridge. Wink - also a bottle of eggnog liquer leftover from Christmas.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited July 2014

    LMG are you asking about heat and measles? Triggered a memory from 70's surgery days. A nurse came down with the measles.  BUT not dx'd by her doc. Her MOM listened to her symptoms and said "You have the measles". Nurse friend said her mom turned the house heat up high. She popped out all over. Is that like your Mom putting you in the heat outside with glasses? Nurse friend out of work quite awhile. 

    Old knowledge lost with the ages, people knowing what to do passed on to the next generation. I remember around 1989-1990--multiple cases of measles at Kent State Univ, Ohio. Working ER, everyone asking what the s/s's were, getting out textbooks---none of us had a clue.

    ChevyLOL, LOL I knew you'd do something with SAGE, couldn't resist---your really sagebrush LOL.      On the gargle, yes , it taste awful. Family always thought it was GM's recipe. Then I was reading a history book compilation of "Folk Medicines". There was the recipe dated 1850. If it was written down in 1850, had to be older then 1850. Have always maintained that the orthodox medicine of the last couple of centuries threw away the "old remedies". Some of those old remedies got us here as a species. Admittedly, some remedies also killed. .... Did you look at the topic box?

    Smarrty I added stuff to the last two posts to you 

    Cami Have fun, Love parties.  Firget the one that broke her hip in clod hopper shoes, talking about your shoe Loopy

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